Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic voyeurism?
Posted 09 Feb 2012 23:44

Won't work for our neighbors. They are at least a 1/4 mile away!

That's why we all have telescopes to watch eachother! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 09 Feb 2012 23:42

Brian has a unique style of writing from Poems to sexy!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 09 Feb 2012 23:10

Always sweet and very sensual!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Suction toys/Pumps
Posted 09 Feb 2012 23:00

I've got industrial nipple / boob suckers and also some clitty suction toys.

Lots of fun when I'm alone and with friends!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Nipples
Posted 09 Feb 2012 22:57

My boobs are huge but very sensitive and super easily aroused!

Ticklish? Yes! But also very quickly aroused!

Oh Mazz! Those are just beginner toys!
You need to cum out my way and try our super sucker!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Watching your partner have sex
Posted 09 Feb 2012 22:52

I thought I replied to this but here goes...

I enjoy watching some other gal have sex with my guy!
I know what he does and how he feels and to see someone else experience him is a super hot turn on for me!

It drives me crazier and makes me want to climax so badly too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Is It So Hard To Believe?
Posted 09 Feb 2012 22:49

It's really not hard for me to believe!
I'm seeing more younger people enter into pacts to keep their purity until marriage or later.
Even though it goes against my lifestyle and pursuits of pleasure, I believe these people are happy and leading good lives.

Check out this program for young people called Silver Ring Thing and you may get an idea of why this is becoming more prominent!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 09 Feb 2012 22:46

He might be a fun guy to mount!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic why do you like cum????
Posted 09 Feb 2012 22:34

I never analyzed it.

I believe it is my reward or gift for making a guy feel really good!
Or sometimes it is something of a gift from a girl for making her guy feel good!

But in in any case, I know I did something hot to be rewarded with a cum shot!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic is it too much? is there too much?
Posted 09 Feb 2012 22:32

Okay, I hardly ever wear panties or thongs unless I have to.
For example, a public beach or club.
But there is never enough lingerie to have and choose for the right occasion!
When I choose to wear a thong, it is usually one of my favorite pearl strand thongs that ride up just where I like it!

With that said, I have well over 150 bras of different varieties and styles.
Does that make me a bad girl?

Only when I want to be!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Small Dicks
Posted 09 Feb 2012 22:27

Nothing wrong with a small cock!

Some of the best lovers make up for their lack of size by other techniques and skills.
One of the hottest things I've ever seen was a girlfriend who was scared of anal but a small dick made her mad for it!
The lucky guy was in the right place and had the right stuff to rock hers and my worlds together!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic have you or would you ever do ass to mouth like in the movies
Posted 09 Feb 2012 21:05

Like DD, I might do it when I am properly prepared and want to give a guy something a little "extra".

I love anal but not all the time.
And I enjoy doing A2M when I want to really get dirty and blow a guys mind and his load!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Two girl Photo Pics Please !!!
Posted 09 Feb 2012 00:10

Oh! So delicious!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Pros and cons in movies and series.
Posted 30 Jan 2012 23:55

Nikki as a cat burglar who comes into my room late one night and....

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Massages.....
Posted 23 Jan 2012 00:25

I am a frequent massage client and almost always get aroused!

But I know it is different for guys!

Do your homework and research a qualified, licensed massage therapist!
Start with a good simple Swedish Massage for relaxation.
You can work your way up different techniques and styles until you find one you prefer.

Hubby and I sometimes will seek out a therapist who is adept at Deep tissue massages. This can be painful for many but for people with severe knots or circulation problems, it can be bliss! But not a frequent technique!

Set up a meeting with a potential therapist and discuss what you are seeking.
They should discus what parts of your body need attention, weather you will be fully nude or not, and what your comfort level is.
They will also talk about the oils or lotions they use and how you should prepare for a session.
If it works out and you are comfortable, book an appointment.

It is entirely up to you if you want to be fully naked or still wear your underwear. A good massage therapist will work to your comfort level.
Don't be afraid to tell them what feels good, or not and if more pressure or attention is needed in a certain area, or less. The more feedback you give them, the better experience you will have!

Finally, if you don't make a big deal or get overly embarrassed about an erection, a true professional therapist won't either. They've seen them and it is very common if you really think about it! It's because they are doing their job right and freeing up the blood flow from other areas!

As long as you are not looking for something sexual, you should be fine.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you like to be solicited for casual sex by strangers in bars?
Posted 23 Jan 2012 00:01

In a fantasy world/porn film - the guy is hot, successful, amazing in bed, and its completely safe to wander off with him to god knows where without even exchanging numbers first.

In the real world - the kind of guys that solicite girls for sex are creepy, slimy, think they're gods gift and are most likely crap in bed. Oh, and they usually cant take no for an answer.

It would be nice if everyone could be that open about casual sex and not mind being asked for it that frankly but they're not, and i wouldnt go for a guy who just asked straight out, without even asking for a number first, no matter how hot/confident/rich he was. You dont know what you're getting and its not safe.

Basically, chat girls up all you want but ask for numbers, chat a bit, and be prepared for it to take a little longer than 'wanna fuck?'

I have to agree with MMonroe...
As a person in the lifestyle, many people think we live the "free for all" sexual attitude but it is a more responsible group of people that are a pool of friends or like minded individuals who can enjoy other partners without fears and stress...

The fantasy of casual sex is always there but the reality and the consequences are more scary!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Mirrors
Posted 12 Jan 2012 12:53

Oh Hell yes! It is a great turn on to see yourself and the person(s) you are with in action! It takes a 2nd place to making a lot of noise and hearing some really hot and sexy moaning and screaming but the two can go hand in hand or cock in kitty! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Let's be nicer/friendlier to newbies?
Posted 12 Jan 2012 12:38

I'm still realtively new here, even though I've probably shot my mouth off in threads and chats.

But I do agree that I have found this place a little more active and fun than the last site I used to hang out at!

But I did notice that besides the friends who introduced me to lush, it took a little effort on my part to make connections and get "accepted".

I think it is important for all of us to acknowledge and welcome someone new on the forums and especially the chats! There are some cliques but if we are more accepting and greeting newer people, I would not doubt we would see more interaction throughout the day!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Rimming
Posted 12 Jan 2012 12:18

I would suggest a couple of ways to approach it while playing, but why not just ask her about her thoughts with anal foreplay? Sex is so much better if you can talk to the person you're with and let them know your thoughts and desires, then being able to know the limits and act upon them!

If you cannot find a tactful way to approach it casually, then when you go down on her, you can also take a well lubed finger and lightly rub and touch her around the area past the perinium. Gently stroke in large circles and then decrease and close in until you can lightly touch her hole but not enter it and watch her reactions.

If things are favorable, you can dart your tongue lighty past her slit and approach her from underneath and pay attention to her reactions and go from there.

Good Luck!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Favorite Role Play Scenario
Posted 12 Jan 2012 12:10

Like Cathy stated above, it's difficult to do with people you are still getting to know. I don't like to wonder if what I say or how I react is okay with them. I think it takes some advance communication and understanding of the persons ideas and kinks before moving into the rp. It can be awkward if you don't really know if what you say or do is a turn on for the other person(s).

Now, with that said, I like the common everyday, casual settings of just meeting friends and having lunch or shopping and getting aroused by something simple or indirect and things lead to a hot and wicked sexual frenzy! For some people, that takes a lot of build up to but the inuendos and hints along the way need to be tactful and very casual...

I also like dealing with age differences since I fall in the middle now. I can be the older desired woman or the younger woman learning how kinky the older neighbors are and how they seduce me!

Les and BI are always good for me and I really enjoy first time experiences for new and younger couples!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Titty Fucking
Posted 12 Jan 2012 12:00

I'm surpurised I haven't seen this thread yet!

As you can tell, I'm pretty well equipped for this! LOL!
But I do get a lot of enjoyment with the whol act. Not just the fucking but the rubbing of his cock on my sensitive nipples and the licking and teasing before, during and afterwards.

I think that most people feel it is only for the guys but I've had other girlfriends tell me how much they enjoy it as well! We've all shared how it feels to hold him there and to tease him and watch his expressions as he fucks our boobs. It's also somewhat powerful for us knowing their desire and how we can do certian things that make them loose control and cum!

Yes! it is something I enjoy but even more so with another busty girlfriend and a well endowed guy who we can share! How about it Nikki? Cathy? Jenni? or anyone else?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 10 Jan 2012 01:46

If it wasn't for her ^ I wouldn't have such a fun place to cum to!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Why cum on your face?
Posted 09 Jan 2012 16:32

I don't like it on my face!

Maybe in my mouth but mostly on my boobs or on my buns but usually anywhere but my face or hair.

Kisses!

steph

Topic after cum.
Posted 08 Jan 2012 17:32

For Hubby and special friends, I enjoy keeping them in me and feeling them get hard again to go another round!

Others I enjoy seeing them cum on me and I love to play with their cocks and get them hard again! I may be just touching but mostly enjoy sucking and licking them and getting them full and hard to go for it!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Black and Whites
Posted 08 Jan 2012 17:29

Oh God! Some pretty wicked B & W's here!

Thanks to all who are posting!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Cum in your pussy or your mouth?
Posted 08 Jan 2012 17:18

And I believe the man will enjoy watching the woman enjoy herself playing with his cum!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Cum in your pussy or your mouth?
Posted 08 Jan 2012 17:01

A gal's gotta enjoy herself too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Cum in your pussy or your mouth?
Posted 08 Jan 2012 16:45

Yes! or on my bum! I like to feel it and see it so I can also play with it and see how the guys like to watch!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Cum in your pussy or your mouth?
Posted 08 Jan 2012 16:23

Neither!

On my Boobs!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic having a fuck buddy is a good thing right!!!
Posted 08 Jan 2012 16:04

jerseylynn is absolutely correct about it being just for the enjoyment of two people!

However, Hubby and I do have relationships with our FB's outside of the bedroom. But part of that is our lifestyle and the arrangements made in advance. Plus the fact that we know each others FB's and get along just helps.

But for the average person or couples, I think it is helpful but without clear communication with all parties, it can be potential for disaster!

Kisses!

Steph