24 Dec 2011 11:31
I have to agree with LittleBambi. I know when I was younger, all my friends would be extra frisky due to the emotions of seeing the couple all dressed up and in love! It's a fantasy that is happening before their eyes and a lot of women get caught up in it! It's something a lot of girls through the years have done. Even in this day and age, many women would hate to admit they had the fantasy when they were little girls. But now it's something they long for quietly inside.
I believe it is something that is like the modern "Harlequin" Romance that gets them all wet.
Whenever Hubby and I attended other weddings, I know I got aroused just because of the glam and glitz of the event and even though we were married, we'd still have a wild time afterwards.
When my oldest two kids got married, there were many "hook-ups" amongst people who would never be caught talking to each other! Some were one night stands and a few others actually began relationships.
With my other daughter getting married in the coming summer, I expect no less to happen again.
What MMonroe stated is probably true in many cases as well.
Think of the fact that you will be dressed up and they may see you in a different light and you may be someone new or different from the norm that they see all the time.
Plus! There is sometimes a hidden agenda where they may find a great fuck, but someone that may already be accepted by their family!
Topic Do you enjoy naughty chat?
23 Dec 2011 17:03
I live for naughty chats! It really is fun when you can have a good conversation with someone and not be talking sexually, and things gradually build from there!
The key to a good sexual conversation for me is that a good conversationalist will be able to flow as well in written form. You don't have to be super quick witted but it does help if the person in the chat or conversation are on the same pace and wavelength of the tension and anticipation build up.
Sometimes, a certain comment or series of inuendos can turn the direction or pace suddenly, but that is okay. It sometimes breaks up the pace and can add to the urgency of desire and tension!
It also helps to have a smooth flowing chat without too long a breaks in between. What I mean by that is that you and the person you are chatting with, need to give your full attention to eachother to keep the energy and momentum going. If there are long breaks between replies, it can get tedious or drawn out and the energy could be lost.
Of course, there could be a problem typing one or no handed if the chat is going well!!! LOL!
Topic Lingerie shopping
23 Dec 2011 15:51
The fact that you are loud and trying to be discrete is a turnon for many guys and gals too!
I've done the same thing with my Hubby and I can be very vocal too. It was hot that he took a set of frilly panties, (which I never wear), and stuffed them in my mouth while we fucked.
Very wicked and fun!
Topic New year resolutions
23 Dec 2011 12:34
No resolutions! I never keep them!
I just want to make changes in my life for the better and stick to them without the B.S. New Years Resolution garbage that never works!
More self discipline on my part will make anything I want change, will change.
Topic Drunken Sex
23 Dec 2011 12:28
Loislane said it best!
I don't drink to excess that much.
When I do, I usually go to sleep.
But when I hit the right combination and amount, I am more likely to be more amourous, slightly more aggressive and a little wilder to try things...
Thank God for Holiday Parties!
23 Dec 2011 10:19
Depends on how severe or serious of a bump!
If it were just a slight bump that was an accident, then I doubt you would be hurting as you state.
But even if it were an accident and you accidentally ran into someone who was moving their arm at a fast rate, it depends on the situation.
You need to state more details to get a reasonable answer Zoe.
Topic The Sybian
23 Dec 2011 09:28
I first got introduced to one at a "girls party" many years ago.
It was strange, funny and almost ridiculous at that time! But after getting on it and trying it with serious friends at the controls, it is pure WOW!!!
Several refinements and smaller versions have been developed over the years and now I am really amazed how great they still are. But it is not for everyone! Some women cannot get into the thought of riding a man made item and get a satisfying climax with something so mechanical and somewhat noisy. IMO, these women are holding themselves back.
They are great and unique but they are not the "replacement" for men that some people feel they are . They are great for getting off on as quickly or or as long as you want it to be. It is great for couples or women who like to play together.
We still have Sybian parties with gals and couples and it can get out of hand with the wrong person at the controls. But the right person and setting can really bring you to a mind blowing, body thrashing, sweaty, screaming climax!
If you can justify your pleasures, you can justify the cost of a unit!
Otherwise, look in the swingers / lifestyle adds for Sybian parties to try one out!
Topic Sheer Underwear
23 Dec 2011 08:42
I have many sheer lingerie but hardly any sheer panties since I never wear any.
Topic What Are You Wearing?
22 Dec 2011 16:49
A loose fitted white blouse, and nice warm blazer with a short ruffled black skirt and nothing on underneath!
Topic The "L" word
22 Dec 2011 10:31
There are so many ways that the words, "I LOVE YOU", can be used and expressed.
Growing up, my family wasn't very vocal about it but we did say it.
It has come to be more frequently used as we have grown.
I use it with my family and even my friends, even though the meaning behind it is slightly different depending on the person it is being said to.
My Hubby's family was never open and siad it so it was a culture shock for him to hear me say it so much. But he adapted and began saying it to our kids and they in turn taught him how easy it was to mean it. Now he even says it to his own parents and they reciprocate as well!
Topic Ladies, would you masturbate in front of...?
21 Dec 2011 17:58
I'm surprised I haven't answered this thread!
YES!!! To all Three!
It is arousing and foreplay for Hubby and I or any of my lovers and a I to masturbate in front of each other.
It is fun to do it as temptation for someone new!
And it goes back to the first one when I do it in front of another woman!
All make me feel good, Hot and Sexy!
Topic Lesbians kissing pictures please
21 Dec 2011 16:49
Now THAT looks like part of a really HOT series!
Topic girls, which one is better, circumcised or noncircumcised?
21 Dec 2011 16:35
I LOVE the one with the skill and endurance that can keep me happy and going as long as I want!!!
Uncut or cut doesn't matter!
Just like size!
It's how he fucking uses it that makes all the difference in the world!
Topic How to get your girlfriend to do anal
21 Dec 2011 14:35
After taking a look at your profile, I am assuming you are a typical Irish guy.
Trying to be manly and somewhat aggressive and cocksure of yourself.
But if you really want her to take your cock in her bum, you need to make it pleasurable for the two of you!
Just fuck the crack of her bum after massaging her all over with warming oils
Tease her bumhole gently over many sexual interludes but not constantly, just on occassion.
Work a finger into her gradually, (with lots of lube!), and talk to her in whispers while doing it and tell her how sexy and hot she is for doing it.
Just be ultra patient and only very little steps at a time!
You may find that she will start to accept the act but let it be on her terms!
You might be only able to get just part of your cockhead in her and have to stop! Just follow her lead and accept it! If she relaxes and lets you go further, take it very slowly! Very! VERY!!! SLOWLY!!!!
If it never happens again, then either you have to accept it or move onto another girlfriend!
But in either case, anal sex is not a deal breaker if you really love a person!
Topic hygiene down under
21 Dec 2011 14:18
I totally agree with MMonroe.
It could be physiology and a situation from her diet and health habits.
I like nothing more than a morning fuck in the shower and it is sexy when someone goes down on me there!
Topic Does it continue in the same way it starts?
21 Dec 2011 13:36
I am a woman of many experiences so I can tell you that you are not unique or alone in this aspect.
I am not of the desire to have it rough everytime and there are occassions where I do enjoy a little bit of coersion or some forceful and slghtly rougher play.
But I also know the power of a soft and subtle tempation and tease that cause me to unleash a primal and wild desire to fuck and get fucked hard!
So enjoy what you like but also be open to other fun as well!
Topic Merry Xmas everyone!
21 Dec 2011 13:23
Thank you Nicola!
and thanks for keeping a fun and respectable place to cum to!
The joke was appropriate for the season!
Topic Do you watch porn? How often?
21 Dec 2011 13:18
I like to chat and read forums mostly but I will often check out some of the websites that I know to see what's new and interesting.
Like some of my other friends who have replied here already stated, I don't care for a lot of the newer forced or degraded stuff and actually prefer the older porn with stories, even if the acting was lame. I've found the amatuer stuff interesting and more arousing since it seems more real!
And because I have a limited amount of time, the shorter clips are more enjoyable to watch!
Topic How many ladies try to turn their husband or bf into their personal Ken doll?
21 Dec 2011 13:12
Its time for a REVOLUTION!!!! Guys lets change our ladies styles!!! Demand ultra short mini skirts, crotchless panties, stiletto heels, fishnet stockings, see through tops and colors that don't match!!!! And that would be business & church attire! How about get them to wear camouflage spandex? Or crotchless jeans!!!
Geeze Buz! Where the hell you been the last 40-50 years? You guys have been trying to do that to us gals forever!!!
Topic Ladies, tell us of your first experience with cock
21 Dec 2011 13:09
Being that we are discussing the first sexual time with a cock, I would assume most if not all women would say it was not good or disappointing.
For me, it was a typical young teenaged girl giving into my boyfriends line about doing it because it showed I loved him.
He was just using me and getting himself off and it hurt but I remember thinking how lame and small he was compared to what I imagined.
I later learned what a great cocksmith is!
Topic How do you pick which story on Lush to read?
21 Dec 2011 13:03
I usually look at the people who post on the forums and if I find their posts interesting, I check their profiles to see if they have submitted any stories. If I like them, I follow them.
I have several friends who asked me to join here from other story sites and I follow their stories.
I like the way the main page has new stories and catagories and with the way you can read a short excerpt as well as the keywords, I will get an idea of the story and glance it over, then re read it if it is interesting or arousing for me.
I wish there were a way to mark stories I would like to read but don't have time to, so later I can go back.
Topic US Government officials want to ban cell phone use in automobiles
21 Dec 2011 10:25
I'm just like Missy and have the bluetooth equipped hands fee in all my vehicles and when I travel.
I like the convenience and the ability to travel and have some sense of direction with GPS but don't rely on them to be 100% accurate. Also having the hands free but being able to talk is good but at times, I see both as distractions that do make it difficult for me to drive with my attention to the road and what is around me.
I have a car with a manual transmission, so I have to have my hands free to shift and drive safely!
In many ways, I support the federal government if they do enforce this as I am too frustrated with the people who are supposed to have hands free devices but still drive with the phone to their ears and are unaware of what is going on around them. But I also see those with hands free not able to drive properly either so maybe a complete ban is good.