Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic Letting your husband or your boyfriend watch
Posted 08 Jan 2012 11:23

I'm sure this doesn't apply to many but since we are in the lifestyle, we enjoy this somewhat frequently.
I really enjoy being with another man when my Hubby can be with the man's wife or significant other.
It may sound strange but it's almost like a competition to see who can better pleasure the other couple and drive them crazy!


I know my Hubby loves to watch me with another guy, just like I love to see him with another woman!
For me, it's knowing what he does and how he feels but also how the other woman reacts to his techniques and skills.

Hubby tells me that is similar for him watching me with another guy. Knowing it turns him on, lets me really try to put on a good show for him and make the guy I'm with really happy!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 05 Jan 2012 15:55

Are you Kidding?

Tami-licious is really Hot!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 05 Jan 2012 15:51

And she is the one who gets me WET!!!

Topic Finish the sentence...I remember when...
Posted 05 Jan 2012 15:24

I could do the splits.

Ha! Ha! I hear you Miss Lola!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sensuality
Posted 05 Jan 2012 15:23

I noticed that the Black and Whites or the photos with more stark contrasts seem to be more erotically stimulating than the regualr color photos!

Thanks to all who have posted!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Have you ever been strip searched?
Posted 05 Jan 2012 15:19

Good God! Abby's account is almost identical to mine!

I fly frequently around the world and on one trip back from the UK, I had orderd some custom made nipple rings that coil around the nipple like golden springs. The shop that made them was in the UK and I couldnt pick them up the night before as they got backed up on other jobs ahead of me. So the day my flight was leaving, I went to the shop and tried on the rings and had them adjusted to fit. I decided to wear them and get used to them so I wore them back to the hotel. I also got some other naughty items I've wanted and wore them out as well.

When I got back to my hotel, I thought I would have a few hours to relax, and take a swim but I found out that my schedule had been changed and I needed to get packed and ready to leave within the hour!

As you can imagine, I did so and forgot to remove the nipple coils and also the waist chain and clit clip before heading out to the airport!

Well, I got in line for the check and it was getting cold. My nipples started to harden and I realized I still had the coils on and the clit clip and chains! I was up next and couldn't turn back as my computer and other items had already gone through the X-ray scan so as I was called up, I asked if I could have a private search with a female agent. I got strange looks from the staff there as they were all male, and I was moved aside and escorted into the private inspection area.

I was already nervous about missing my flight and I was trying to explain to the male agent who was wanding me that I had some body jewelry I would remove and show if he would get a female agent! He seemed to ignore me and I got frustrated! I could tell the male agent was getting aroused and could see my nipples poking my blouse as I wasn't wearing a bra and I could also see he was amused at my frustration.

Finally, after a basic and lingering pat-down, I just thought to myself, "the Hell with it!" and started to undo the buttons on my blouse. I got the sleeves undone and all the buttons in the front and as I started to remove the blouse, a female agent came in and gasped. The male agent saw my naked boobs and was smiling like a chesire cat and the female officer yelled at him to leave!

She chased him out and apologized for the situation and asked me if I wanted to file a formal complaint. I said "no" and just wanted to get this done and make my flight. She was now standing in front of me and finally looked down at my boobs and saw my nipple coils and then smiled. When she looked back up at me, she asked if I was down in Bristol. I said yes. Then she asked if I purchased anything else. I then remembered the chain and clip and said "yes". She smiled more and I raised my skirt and spread my legs, ( don't wear panties), and she laughed. I explained my situation and she asked me if I had anything else she should "KNOW" about, and I said no. She started to write some notes down on a clipboard.

She then advised me to strip down to remove all the jewelry and gave me a clear bag that was marked with the TSA or security logo. I did so and then she then did her pat down, much like Abby's agent did to her and even lingered on my boobs and it seemed like she purposely rolled my nipples in the coils to get a reaction. It felt like she took extra time to "feel" my bum and examine between my legs before gliding a wand over all of me again.

She finished and told me to get dressed and took the clear bag. After I was dressed, she escorted me outside and had my belongings placed onto a cart and drove me to the gate so I would not miss my flight. She stayed there watching me get cleared to board and then handed me my "contraband" bag and smiled as I turned and left.

When I got on the plane I tossed my carry-on in the overhead but kept my computer bag with me as I sat in my seat. I was about to place the bag of my new jewelry into a pocket in my computer bag when I found a card inside. I opened the bag and found it was a note from the agent. I stated that her "friends" ran the custom shop and she was one of the models for some of the displays. If I ever return to the U.K. look her up and she would be happy to show me some of the custom items they made for her!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How many times have you cum in a day?
Posted 05 Jan 2012 14:46


Lol, yeah, so would I. I keep checking for a vid to show up online.

I like the math there Alison90! I find it's easy to have multiples when cocks are concerned!

And yes dancing doll, dehydration is an issue. I usually try and have a couple bottles of water nearby.

At least that and some desensitizing creame! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 05 Jan 2012 14:28

Has a beautiful profile pic and makes me wish I was there with her too!

(Thank you for your kind words too!)

Kisses!

Steph

Topic if you were really horny
Posted 05 Jan 2012 14:02

Me too Z1 and DD. You two always get there first!

Because we are setting up for your arrival dear!
Cum on over!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Why do some women??
Posted 05 Jan 2012 13:48

chef,

I believe it comes from the individual persons upbringing but also the lack of self confidence and the ability to be successful on their own, without a mate! Male or Female!

I have seen too many women who could not change and grow with the times and were never prepared to be on their own, so they are lost when their marriages crumbled apart. Part of that is also due to the relationship with their husbands in keeping the woman as subserviant rather than equal partners.

Nowdays, it's almost mandatory for women to find some way to establish themselves as an individual. But I bet the answers are different from woman to woman and they results would be startling


Kisses!

Sy

Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 05 Jan 2012 13:40

BLONDE!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Agree/disagree
Posted 05 Jan 2012 13:38

Disagree!

I believe the MILF's / Cougar's/ and Mature Women have become more desirable these days!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic if you were really horny
Posted 05 Jan 2012 13:33

Ha! Dancing Doll read my mind!

But anywhere and anytime it hits me, I need to take care of it!
Whether I am alone or with someone, I take care of it!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic If You Woke Up With The Person Above You What Would Be The First Thing You'd Say?
Posted 05 Jan 2012 13:20

By All means! Where should we start?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 05 Jan 2012 13:18

Comes from an area of Switzerland I have yet to visit!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 05 Jan 2012 13:02

He has some tastefull and intriguing photos in his profile!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How many times have you cum in a day?
Posted 04 Jan 2012 15:25

Maybe a dozen. It was a weekend and I had several men to tend me, and they tried to keep me in a constant state of orgasm.

From what I've read of your profile, I would have loved to watch that happen!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How many times have you cum in a day?
Posted 04 Jan 2012 15:04

The most is well over a dozen times! But it was the beginning of long weekend and a short week of vacation and partying!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic porn in phone
Posted 04 Jan 2012 15:02

No.

Closest I get to that is some phone sex or maybe a lover may send me some pics but I don't keep them. Too much to risk if it's found by someone else!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Have you ever has sex with someone you know you shouldn't have?
Posted 04 Jan 2012 13:52

Personally? Yes.

I'm certain that the taboo has some thrill adding to the desires and sex!
But like all who are replying, we are slaves to our bodies desires!

Hopefully, everyone had good sex and no problems afterwards!
And we hopefully will never let it happen again!
(Yeah! Right! LOL!)

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Seducing a married woman?
Posted 04 Jan 2012 13:32

Horney and Desperate are two different things in people! Married or not!
Women and men are both suseptible to this if they don't have good communications and true love in their relationships!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic whats your favorite toy
Posted 04 Jan 2012 13:16

Yes! Nikki! I love the Lelo Soraya as well!

But I have to add a few things here like my trusty purple double dildo, my Fantasy Glide, a Sybian with all the accessories, a Medusa vibe, a Super rabbit, and some special custom made toys as well!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic how do you define the word 'slut'.?
Posted 02 Jan 2012 15:04

Sexually Loose Unashamed Tarts
Thanks Kim!

I thought I was beyond "tart" status but I love the definition!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Would Any of The Guys Wear This For His Lady?
Posted 30 Dec 2011 15:44

Nikki,

I have seen these first hand and it was at a party where someone brought it in to get others opinions.

They are nice for the guys of lessor endowments but they don't feel all that much better than a strap on or a dildo to many of us.

I believe it was our mindset that it was not a "free reign" on the design like some of the dildos out there and the fact that it is somewhat hollow to allow a guy to wear it. So it didn't really feel right.

But this was more of a party situation and we probably weren't really taking it as seriously as a couple who are looking to help or enhance their situation.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What does the avatar above you make you want to do?
Posted 29 Dec 2011 23:25

Run my fingers through his hair...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Guilty or Innocent.
Posted 29 Dec 2011 23:23

Guilty!

Have you ever seduced a coworker?

Topic cuddling question
Posted 29 Dec 2011 23:22

Real love most definitely does exist. And cuddling is all part of sex for me. I love to just cuddle after sex, in place of sex, in between sex, etc. There is no better feeling than holding my SO and making eye contact and knowing how we feel. It makes it all very special!!

Seems to me maybe you are looking for an excuse to have your cock run your life. But that is cool if sex is all you want.

Cuddling is part of the intimacy before and after the sex!
It can be a prelude to sex and it can be the loving carresses afterwards to say "Thank You" and " I enjoy being with You!"

But it can also be part of the pleasures before a hard and nasty fucking and also as a cool down afterwards.

True love it out there! But you have to make it happen!

And it is up to you to initiate it and accept it when your SO initiates it as well!

Your dick is just a means of connecting the physical aspect of sex!
The Cuddling can inspire and also reassure!
But it is also and expression of Love, too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic how long you stay on Top?
Posted 28 Dec 2011 17:54



Why would you want to delay her orgasm? Let her come and then come again, no? I've never stopped at just one if I'm having fun.

If she loses interest or energy after her first while on top, then just grab her hips and start thrusting upward and take over the work until she can 'recover' and get back into things.

I totally agree! Why stop unless she takes a lot to recover between climaxes?
But then , it's fun for you both if you tease and please eachother repetitively!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How fast can you orgasm?
Posted 28 Dec 2011 17:52

I recall the thread Curlygirl posted the link to.
But for the sake of this thread, I will state that it depends on my mood and the situation,

I can sometimes climax in 2-3 minutes if I'm really horney!

Other times, I enjoy the build up and need to let it come to me in waves!
It's always better with someone to help!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic how long you stay on Top?
Posted 28 Dec 2011 17:17

Hubby does some of the same to me that DD stated.

Another thing he will do is bring his knees up and lift his hips so I can't raise up. Or if he does it right, he will lift me up and just hold me where his cockhead is barely touching me and I start squirming and wanting that to fill me.

Once he has me going crazy, he usually has control of himself and then resumes.

Later, he will pump into me and bounce me off his hips so he pops out and rubs his cock against the crack of my bum for a while and I grind against him before trying to slip him back and into me.

It can be annoying and frustrating some of the things he does but it keeps us going!

Kisses!

Steph