Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic your favorite place in your house to have SEX/masturbate ?
Posted 21 Nov 2013 15:22

Everywhere and anywhere!

But I particularly like places near or around water!

The giant tub or huge shower in our suite, the pool in the backyard, the deck with our hot tub, or the patio with a water hose...even the kitchen has possibilities!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic friends with benefits, married or not, do you have one?
Posted 21 Nov 2013 15:20

Nearly all our friends are with benefits.
Being in the lifestyle and surrounding ourselves with similar people, it's bound to happen!
But that doesn't mean we will be doing things behind our spouses backs!
It's actually a turn on knowing we share all with our spouses

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Have you ever had sex in the rain?
Posted 21 Nov 2013 15:18

Many times!
It's more arousing knowing you are outside than just in a shower and someone may see you!

We go down into the tropics a lot and usually take some time off during the rain seasons at an exclusive resort.
Being down there, dress codes are very nil, so I take advantage of it and wear as little as possible.
Many a times, we have been caught in a sudden downpour or torrential tropical rain and it always turns into a steamy fuckfest!

Done it a few times back in higher latitudes and not as enjoyable since it's much colder, but still very, very SEXY!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Watching yourself masturbate in mirror/recorded video... turn on/off/curious?
Posted 21 Nov 2013 15:10

It's a HUGE Turn-On!
It makes me see what others do and then I can also learn to do some other wicked things that drives others crazy when they watch me!

Nothing better than CUMMING!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you like to wear soft tight sweaters without a bra?
Posted 21 Nov 2013 14:35

I would love to wear those more!
But my nipples are so sensitive that I would be cumming just from the material rubbing me!
I do wear a lot of clingy Underarmor type items that fit like a second skin.
And sometimes I can find a nice soft material Sweater that fits like a glove to go without a bra.
I love how my boobs bounce and move about when I don't have a bra and enjoy the stares!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Lush Silver Membership now available .. want to win a free one?
Posted 03 Nov 2013 09:45

I'll go with my age...52 Please

Kisses!

Steph

Topic someone to trust..
Posted 27 Oct 2013 08:17

Regarding what? Dear...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ben Wa Balls!!!!!
Posted 25 Oct 2013 23:07

I have several sets of varying sizes and weights.
All Cold HARD Stainless Steel!
Love to insert them and work them then get them hot!
As you work your kegels, you can also work your inner muscles and learn to do some amazing things to a cock.
Hubby loves how I can snap and milk him inside me and pull on him at the same time.

It gets more fun when you try to use two different size balls and then wear a Venus Butterfly vibe under a thong and work it around the tip!

HAve fun experimenting and exploring!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic what colour bra are u girls wearing?
Posted 06 Oct 2013 19:06

Pearl stranded with no cups!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic say yes if you own a dildo,and hell yes if more than one dildo
Posted 30 Aug 2013 23:38

Fuck YEAH!!!

How's that???

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How often are you horny?
Posted 30 Aug 2013 21:01

How many seconds in a lifetime???

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Pearls
Posted 30 Aug 2013 17:45

Love this thread! Thanks for posting!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Have you ever had sex at work?
Posted 30 Aug 2013 17:39

All the time...

But I'm the boss so I guess I take liberties...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Pepsi or Coke
Posted 14 Aug 2013 15:06

This would start a war in our household!

Diet Coke for me!

Pepsi or Cherry Pepsi for Hubby...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic BBC
Posted 05 Aug 2013 12:53



HAHA! isn't that stereotyping? Are big white cocks BWC? Saying all black guys have big cocks, Im sure they don't!! Or is it this thread only dedicated to the big ones? LOL

Like I said, a Cock is a Cock!!!

And the ones you have lined up for you, must pass a test through your friends first! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Making fun of the guys and girls in pornos, who here does it?
Posted 08 Jun 2013 17:39

It's a double edged sword for me.

I hated the old pornos with the funky, heavy music beats.
Loved it when they had the music more subdued and you could hear them panting, moaning and talking.

But I really hate the constant "Re-Looped" edits that repeat the same scene or the same words over and over again!
Now, I don't mind it if it is really a hot scene and the guy is really excited and cums quickly. To me, the gal did her job and he couldn't resist!\

But nowdays, the real people shot on video are even hotter!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do your friends know?
Posted 30 May 2013 22:18

Yes! It was actually a Lover / Girlfriend of mine who recommended LUSH to me!

I'm so glad I did! Now I'm finding even more friends on here than what I expected!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic say yes if you own a dildo,and hell yes if more than one dildo
Posted 30 May 2013 22:16

Maybe not as many as Mazza....

Oh Hell! Who am I Kidding???

I'm F'n worse!!!

IS there a prize for the slut with the most or most innovative??? LOL!


Kisses!

Steph

Topic sex with condom or without condom
Posted 30 May 2013 22:13

Condoms are a MUST in the lifestyle!
We cannot play with others without them!
It's worked for us going on 30 years now so it's not a problem.

But I can still get a nice shower of cum on my boobs too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How many of you women pee in the shower?
Posted 30 May 2013 22:11

Yes! I do!

What's the big deal? You guys do it all the time!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What are you driving?
Posted 30 May 2013 22:09

My daily driver is a Cadillac CTS-V Wagon

Other times I can choose from our Corvette, Camaro, Truck or Motorcycles.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Having a Fuck Buddy or not.
Posted 18 May 2013 16:57

Leiza,

Sorry I didn't see this thread sooner and had a chance to give you my opinions and experiences.

I am glad you found the answer for what hopefully works out best for you and your Hubby.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Doing someone else's wife
Posted 18 May 2013 16:38

Another factor here is that the "Wife" may desire just a little attention. Not sexually but just enough interest from another man to be sure she still is attractive and "has the goods" to be desirable and sexy! She might just need validation and feels her husband might not be paying attention to her so her ego needs a little boost.

Another thing is that you could be a part in their fantasy. If she can get your attention and maybe let her husband know and possibly see it, it could be just a fantasy of theirs and it is a minor roleplay or fantasy for them.

Finally, it could be a jealousy play for her to use and entice her husband to fuck her more.

But be very careful about going for it!
You might have to move out of the neighborhood if you do get her in yours or her bed!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic need help with hubby
Posted 18 May 2013 16:17

Okay, I'll Bite....

So what is he into or what are you thinking we should do to make him and you feel better?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Going down after sex
Posted 14 May 2013 01:36

Hell Yes!

It gets me ready for the next volley!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Are Quarter Cup (Shelf) Bras a turn on for women as well as for Men?
Posted 22 Apr 2013 21:00

Mandy,

I love wearing them, when I can find one that fits and supports me well!
That being said, it is harder for larger breasted women to find nice and sexy shelf or demi cup bras that don't look like industrial support frames covered in lace!

I also like low cut corsets or bras where the cups can be tucked under. Although they aren't the most comfortable that way, they sure make the "Girls" stand up and get attention from guys and other gals too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Your Sexiest attention getter
Posted 22 Apr 2013 20:49

Have a very nice silk "gunny sack". Will you cum over and try it on? Prove your point to me?

Oh Tina! You would probably be even sexier than me in that as your attitude is totally HOT!
But you know I'm right either way!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Your Sexiest attention getter
Posted 20 Apr 2013 23:26

Not to sound conceited or egotistical but, I could wear a gunny sack and attract others.

It's not my clothes or lack of material,
It's not my figure or the way I show it off or not.

It's my attitude and how I project myself that gets me the most attention!
If I'm happy and smiling at anyone, it shows well.
If I'm angry or frustrated, than I come of bitchy and a real ball buster

But if I just be myself, I'm told I have a certain twinkle that makes people wonder and also gives them the impression of my mischievious side that can be alluring.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How do you convince your wife to try swapping or swinging?
Posted 20 Apr 2013 09:13

The posters above are right. Take it from someone who has been in the lifestyle practically 30 years now!

We have many friends who are very active in the lifestyle and were never interested until being introduced to it.
Usually it was at the urging of the wife and the husband kept the desires to himself until it was brought up and discussed.
This is the key thing! Open and Honest Communications!
If you don't have it to begin with, you will never have a successful and lasting experience in the lifestyle!

Another situation we have seen is when a Husband and wife roleplay themselves while watching porn or reading stories together and they discuss the fantasies and eventually decide together to check it out. From there, they can search out local clubs and open members nights and just find a group to meet with and see if they have the right chemistry.

If this is just your fantasy and you are talking to us on a forum about it, I see you not having the communication that is so necessary to have a great and lasting experience with your wife.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Eye Contact during blow job
Posted 29 Mar 2013 21:34

I can only imagine how wicked Sherry would look into a guys eyes while driving him crazy!
But then again, I guess I would do the same! LOL!
Kisses!

Steph