Topic What are you driving?
Posted 30 May 2013 22:09
My daily driver is a Cadillac CTS-V Wagon
Other times I can choose from our Corvette, Camaro, Truck or Motorcycles.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Having a Fuck Buddy or not.
Posted 18 May 2013 16:57
Leiza,
Sorry I didn't see this thread sooner and had a chance to give you my opinions and experiences.
I am glad you found the answer for what hopefully works out best for you and your Hubby.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Doing someone else's wife
Posted 18 May 2013 16:38
Another factor here is that the "Wife" may desire just a little attention. Not sexually but just enough interest from another man to be sure she still is attractive and "has the goods" to be desirable and sexy! She might just need validation and feels her husband might not be paying attention to her so her ego needs a little boost.
Another thing is that you could be a part in their fantasy. If she can get your attention and maybe let her husband know and possibly see it, it could be just a fantasy of theirs and it is a minor roleplay or fantasy for them.
Finally, it could be a jealousy play for her to use and entice her husband to fuck her more.
But be very careful about going for it!
You might have to move out of the neighborhood if you do get her in yours or her bed!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic need help with hubby
Posted 18 May 2013 16:17
Okay, I'll Bite....
So what is he into or what are you thinking we should do to make him and you feel better?
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Going down after sex
Posted 14 May 2013 01:36
Hell Yes!
It gets me ready for the next volley!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Are Quarter Cup (Shelf) Bras a turn on for women as well as for Men?
Posted 22 Apr 2013 21:00
Mandy,
I love wearing them, when I can find one that fits and supports me well!
That being said, it is harder for larger breasted women to find nice and sexy shelf or demi cup bras that don't look like industrial support frames covered in lace!
I also like low cut corsets or bras where the cups can be tucked under. Although they aren't the most comfortable that way, they sure make the "Girls" stand up and get attention from guys and other gals too!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Your Sexiest attention getter
Posted 22 Apr 2013 20:49
Have a very nice silk "gunny sack". Will you cum over and try it on? Prove your point to me?
Oh Tina! You would probably be even sexier than me in that as your attitude is totally HOT!
But you know I'm right either way!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Your Sexiest attention getter
Posted 20 Apr 2013 23:26
Not to sound conceited or egotistical but, I could wear a gunny sack and attract others.
It's not my clothes or lack of material,
It's not my figure or the way I show it off or not.
It's my attitude and how I project myself that gets me the most attention!
If I'm happy and smiling at anyone, it shows well.
If I'm angry or frustrated, than I come of bitchy and a real ball buster
But if I just be myself, I'm told I have a certain twinkle that makes people wonder and also gives them the impression of my mischievious side that can be alluring.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic How do you convince your wife to try swapping or swinging?
Posted 20 Apr 2013 09:13
The posters above are right. Take it from someone who has been in the lifestyle practically 30 years now!
We have many friends who are very active in the lifestyle and were never interested until being introduced to it.
Usually it was at the urging of the wife and the husband kept the desires to himself until it was brought up and discussed.
This is the key thing! Open and Honest Communications!
If you don't have it to begin with, you will never have a successful and lasting experience in the lifestyle!
Another situation we have seen is when a Husband and wife roleplay themselves while watching porn or reading stories together and they discuss the fantasies and eventually decide together to check it out. From there, they can search out local clubs and open members nights and just find a group to meet with and see if they have the right chemistry.
If this is just your fantasy and you are talking to us on a forum about it, I see you not having the communication that is so necessary to have a great and lasting experience with your wife.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Eye Contact during blow job
Posted 29 Mar 2013 21:34
I can only imagine how wicked Sherry would look into a guys eyes while driving him crazy!
But then again, I guess I would do the same! LOL!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Married or not? (same sex)
Posted 29 Mar 2013 20:06
It is a touchy political subject to many but I think it should be allowed.
Being a woman who is BI and married to a wonderful sharing man, gives me a different perspective than others.
On top of that, we share a girlfriend who has lived with us for many years and we feel she is more than family.
Not unlike a so called marriage of threesome with Porn Actress Nina Hartley and her Hubby and girlfriend. But we haven't attempted to make our union a legitimate marriage with the three of us.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Breast implants
Posted 29 Mar 2013 20:02
I've been accused of having implants because of my age and the size of my boobs.
I have many friends with implants and like my sweet friend Nikki above me stated, it depends on many factors.
Doctor, quality of the implants, type of implants, size, woman's body type, health, fitness level, muscle and tissue quality and so on.
For what it's worth, I think there are many great boob jobs out there and they seem to keep getting better!
I love how the newer ones feel and as time goes on, if I lose more firmness and elasticity, I am beginning to consider having mine done, but a little smaller than I am now.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Finding women to practice cunnilingus on
Posted 28 Mar 2013 19:34
I think you would best find an adult lifestyle club to join and get involved with. There would be many women who would enjoy teaching you how they love to be eaten. No two women are alike and the more you learn from, the better you can becum!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Ladies ever had sex with you Ex?
Posted 28 Mar 2013 19:29
I was going to say no, but Hubby reminded me of a mercy fuck I did with an ex, after we got together.
It was fun for me since I learned so much since being with him but he was in awe and couldn't handle me!
Hubby and I laughed that I ruined him and he hasn't been able to keep a relationship going sexually ever since.
But honestly, there were other issues with that guy...
Kisses!
Steph
Topic do we have any bi-girls or lesbians on the site?
Posted 26 Mar 2013 09:18
Rubyjane,
Not sure what your question was, but I feel we have the best of everything since we have less hang ups about being with either sex.
Also, I think that society allows women to be with women and not look upon it as a negative, even though same sex couples.are not fully accepted everywhere.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic do you like to spy on male nudity?
Posted 04 Mar 2013 21:42
Spying or Voyeuring on a naked guy sometimes can be such a turn on!
Especially when they start stroking themselves when they think they are alone...
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Girls, do you like it shaved or ...?
Posted 04 Mar 2013 21:39
SheriPie stated it best!
But Hubby and I or my lovers and I have our maintenance sessions and it always turns out to be foreplay!
It's fun to shave or trim each other and then smooth some creame, lotion or oils on afterwards and start up something between us!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Can girls take advantage?
Posted 03 Mar 2013 21:01
Cum On! Seriously?
If it happened, there has to be some evidence of it on you, your bedding or something...
Kisses,
Steph
Topic Pierced Nipples?
Posted 24 Feb 2013 00:14
For a long time, I've wanted to do mine but am too chicken to deal with the pain! I'm such a wimp!
I used to have inverted nipples and wanted to make them pop out and more prominent.
We found some really nice gold nipple coils in Europe that wrapped around the nipple and made them stand out more. Those were great until I saw a friend who had bars on hers with really neat triangle dangles and occassionally a chain between them!
Even though nowdays my nipples are more erect and rigid due to constant pumping and sucking, I still think about it.
But the thought of the pain keeps me from going there.
And, with all the neat newer clamp on accessories, there is rarely a need anymore.
Still, those triangle dangles would look really cool...
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Ladies Have you EVER?
Posted 03 Feb 2013 10:37
Like the other mature ladies here, I would not have done that before.
But being older, wiser and more in tuned with my needs, I have no problem calling a "friend for a fuck"
Adding to that factor is that Hubby and I have been in a strong marriage and communicate everything so for what it's worth, I may have the unfair advantage being in the lifestyle
Kisses!
Steph
Topic What would you be?
Posted 03 Feb 2013 10:29
Sorry! Not to be cruel or sarcastic, but I see this as horney and open minded...
Kisses!
Steph
Topic how often do you masturbate in a day?
Posted 03 Feb 2013 10:27
Honestly, at least two to three times a day.
I wake up touching myself and will often carry it through my morning shower...
Sometimes in the middle of the day
And often at night to make myself go to sleep...
Chances are, it could also stirr my HUbby and we start of with a morning fuck.
The mid day may come and remind me of the morning so I go at it myself.
Then the night may be where I start things off again so he can finish me off.
Kisses!
Steph
Topic The Appeal of Virgins?
Posted 28 Jan 2013 18:28
This is a different side of the answer....
As may have stated above, it is not always desirable to have sex with a virgin.
Insecurity, fears and other factors can make what should be an enjoyable experience, a chore.
Now, from another perspective, as mature woman, who has had a few experiences bedding virgin guys and gals, it was more of a training and teaching exercise which I relished and enjoyed taking part of.
No! It wasn't the Cougar in me! But Yes! It was the horny woman wanted to share the pleasures of the flesh and open new doors for these people!
It was not the case of a horny guy who wanted a hot older woman.
It was not the situation of a Old Broad who wanted to train a girl to be les.
It was not a lot of other situations!
It was a loving introduction to sex with the opportunity to make it a special experience that will encourage them to learn and experiment to do more!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic neighbor female flirting with your husband and caught by you whats your reaction?
Posted 28 Jan 2013 16:42
It really depends on a lot of factors.
Like others above, It depends on if they are both hot.
It also depends on your relationship with your spouse!
For us, we are in the lifestyle, so it is open season if we want.
I would love it if one of our neighbors came onto Hubby!
To see her get the fucking of her life would be hot!
But then, I would also make sure her hubby is around so I can return the favor to him...If he's cute!
But if it were just a casual flirtation, it would end up where I use it as a fantasy for Hubby and I and we end up having our fun!
And then figuring out a way to make it happen!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic period sex
Posted 28 Jan 2013 16:14
I have but Im not crazy about it. I much rather give oral or anal to a guy and if with a woman, I perfer to concentrate on her. She can always do anal with me too. LOL!!
I'm SO There Nikki!!!!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Spitting on genitals during sex .......
Posted 25 Jan 2013 17:13
For a Hot Fuck, then it's okay and I deal with it!
But as an older fuck, I know I may not be the juiciest lay. However, when I have been with some people, they have done some very sensual and erotic drooling that lets down their salive to my sex and gets me even wetter!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic what is the main reason for shaving your pussy?
Posted 25 Jan 2013 15:11
It's a turn on!
The styles of clothes out there in super sexy bikinis and lingerie practically demands it!
But it is also a source of erotic foreplay like I stated in the thread about letting our lovers shave us!
Nothing more intimate than having your lover shave you and get you turned on to fuck!
Kisses!
Steph
Topic Missionary Sex
Posted 25 Jan 2013 15:08
It is intimate and fun!
Especially great for us gals to see the expression on a guys face as he gets close and starts to cum!
Nothing wrong with it, as I want to face and see the fuck I'm with!
Kisses!
Steph