Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic Ladies how many PM's do you get ?
Posted 01 Oct 2012 21:17

PMs, Pokes, Invites to go Private,...

I get at least 20-30 almost every time I get online!

I try to make contact with someone in public, like through a chat room or send a message first, before sending a PM.
Most of the time, I have a specific question and not necessarily trying to cyber-sex!

But like any women here, we all get the guys wanting to go private and have sex...BORING!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Full movie porn sites.
Posted 29 Sep 2012 13:34

Welcum!

I have seen some of the free sites that show the full movies but they are usually compressed versions of older or classic porn that I enjoy.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Can a woman call herself a MILF
Posted 27 Aug 2012 13:00

I guess I'm guilty of using the term in the wrong manner describing myself in my profile. I never really liked the term when it first came out but after it became the norm to hear in almost everyday slang terms, and I realized the joy I gave and got from it, I embraced it.

So, Am I wrong for using in in describing myself?
I've heard it a lot when guys talk about me and know it to be something that a lot of guys younger and older use to describe me being a mother and someone they would love to fuck.
Is it really wrong for me to use it describing myself?
If so, I guess it's a matter of opinion and structure of who and how it's used.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sister-in-Law - Need a woman's perspective
Posted 25 Aug 2012 22:08

You might have shown her male compassion, something that she did not get from her husband.
At this time, whatever happened between them, she is feeling hurt, abandoned and your simple gesture is of comfort to her.

On the Male fantasy side of things, there could be an attraction as many women never receive respect and care from a man in the simple way you did, and that could trigger an arousal in her. Something simple like care and chivalry can make a gal melt.

So it is possible and could be a need to just fuck, as we all do.

Now the only thing here is that you are playing with fire unless you live in a true open relationship like my Hubby and I do.
But you are still tracking on thin ice as she is related to your wife.

Be very Careful!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Doing it right, her clitoris
Posted 25 Aug 2012 10:19

Shylass is definitely right about talking to her about it!
It is something I completely left out.
Discussing your thoughts and desires to please her will be more of a turn on for the two of you!
It may lead to more fun and experimentation that opens new pleasures for the two of you!

I would also suggest the two of you look into some different toys and things to experience and try!

Sex is never ending. Be open to doing different things and trying anything that feels good between the two of you!
That is the way to grow together sexually!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Doing it right, her clitoris
Posted 25 Aug 2012 10:11

The fact that you are asking shows your desire to please her. That says a lot!
You may be overthinking this a bit as some women are more vaginal than clitoral.
Not all women are able to be completely sexually stimulated to climax by a direct clitoral action.
Some physiological differences can be the difference between arousing and triggering her to a complete climax.
There are other ways to approach this and experiment too.

I like to have mine lightly flicked and licked to start.
After some slight fingering and stroking, some suckling and light nibbling gets me more aroused.
If a person is patient and takes their time and not with a lot of direct contact, but a little attention then leaving it alone, it helps build up the tension and arousal more!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ever masturbate to fall asleep?
Posted 24 Aug 2012 13:16

At first, I thought you posted a silly question...

But after I re-read it, I realized that I do play a little to unwind and get myself to relax and fall asleep.

So my answer is YES!!!
An it is for those times when I don't have someone I'm with to fuck me to sleep! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Have an opinion?
Posted 24 Aug 2012 13:12

I Believe I am in the same group as Blaze and Marla here...

My opinion is that when guys have the opportunity to do it with breasty women like us, They really enjoy it!
It may be only a Boob man's desire but I certainly like doing it for nearly any guy.
It's amazing how even non-boob hounds can be with their dicks wrapped in soft warm boob flesh!
And Like Blaze and Marla stated, the messy results afterwards is our reward for a job well done!

My opinion? Just look at my profile!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 24 Aug 2012 00:54

She writes some of the most thought provoking, erotic poems!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Women! Do you have a second profile on here?
Posted 24 Aug 2012 00:53

Makes no sense to me why anyone would want or need to have a second profile!
Just makes it more difficult to be real!

Why play games?
Just log off or take a break away from the site!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 21 Aug 2012 22:13

Jessica has a great style of writing and a very sensual mind!

Kisses and Thank you for the compliment!

Steph

Topic if you had the chance
Posted 21 Aug 2012 21:27

Nikki cracks me up!
No wonder we get along so well!
And I bet it's a good thing we don't get together more often! People would be scared! LOL!

I Live by the old joke...

Kinky is using the feather...
Perverted is using the whole chicken!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic People Who Have It Out For The Opposite Sex
Posted 21 Aug 2012 21:24

I think you are very true on your assessment but I also see another element to the bashing.

It has to do with the egos of some individuals and when they are not the focus or center of attention, they may create negative comments against others so they look better in the eyes of people they desire to be attended by. It's basically a lack of self-confidence and does nothing productive as you say.

It is also a sign that the individual has a lack of maturity and does not live by the standard: "If you can't say something nice, Say NOTHING"!!!

Thanks for sharing this.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Other women
Posted 21 Aug 2012 21:17

I know Amber tastes so SWEET!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Other women
Posted 21 Aug 2012 21:09

I often people watch and fantasize...
I wonder if my touch would make them shiver...
I wonder if what arouses me would do the same to them?
I fantasize if they are not BI, can I take them across the line and make them enjoy it?
Would I change their attitude and make them want more?
What naughty thoughts could I evoke and make them live out?
How hidden or what deep dark desires can we bring out of them?
I wonder what they sound like, what they feel like and how they taste when I make them cum!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 21 Aug 2012 21:01

Has an intriguing profile!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic This one is bold, see how many reply!! What is your.....
Posted 21 Aug 2012 20:26

I'd Love to reply but there are so many that I love and the really good ones I used to enjoy, I can't find anymore!

But I do love all sorts of porn and have a variety of favorites from classics to current!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 21 Aug 2012 20:20

I love RC's Profile pic!
That time of the day is so enticing!

And I Love his priority of his family first!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic spontaneous arousal?
Posted 21 Aug 2012 20:15

It happens a lot for many women.
But unlike men, you can't always tell!

Some of us get really flushed and turn rosey or red.
Some get goosebumps all over,
Some of us quiver,
Some of us make funny sounds,
Some of us get super hard erect nipples,
Some of us need to sit down and breathe,
Some of us get dizzy,
Some of us get super affectionate,

Whatever happens, happens!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What if your significant other found out about you being on Lush?
Posted 16 Aug 2012 23:55

Hell! they encouraged me to be here!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ever used a Sybian?
Posted 14 Aug 2012 18:47

The Sybian is one of the ultimate pleasure toys!

It is something that every woman needs to at least try once!

It can be fun to experience in a party situation with other women but it is also something that couples can share in the pleasure!

I've had many fun times with others and by myself!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How old do I look?
Posted 12 Aug 2012 22:40

By the avatar photo, I have to agree with the general concensus.
you do look like you are in your late teens.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic In The Shower
Posted 12 Aug 2012 22:30

I love it!

It is always a great place of foreplay and sometimes wicked fun as well!
Anything and anywhere there is water, gets me going!

When I travel, I look for certain hotels with special facilities so that I can enjoy the showers / baths for myself or with others!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic question for the older women (over 30)
Posted 12 Aug 2012 01:45

I agree with Nikki and Sweet Penny.

Be nice, respectful and just talk to her.
Don't try to be a big shot or overly impress her.
Just be yourself and express your interest in her.

Best of luck to you and please let us know how it goes!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Is girls masturbating still considered taboo?
Posted 12 Aug 2012 00:53



I bought a GF a double ended dildo for her divorce party, she absolutely insisted we try it there at the party. We got applause from the other women there.

I have found that when using a double ended with anyone new, it always gets that reaction!

Love it!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Open Relationships
Posted 11 Aug 2012 19:16

To add an update: I would just like to let everyone know that we have decided not to open the relationship. We found that we both felt a little "weird" about the idea of being with someone else. I'm sure that even if the opportunity arose that I could actually sleep with someone else. Its just one of those things where we are comfortable and happy with what we have that we aren't willing to risk the consequences of our actions.

I am glad to hear that you two had discussions about this and have been open and honest with each other!
Coming from a marriage in which my Hubby and I have been in the lifestyle for decades, I can tell you that if you did not do this completely and honestly with each other from the beginning and continue on, IT WON'T WORK!!!

It's not for everyone! But if it can help enhance your sex play and add to the fantasies or pursuits of pleasures, then it's a good thing!

I like how others made suggestions of seeing others or trying some out of town open swingers events. There are often meet and greets with well organized clubs and it helps people get an understanding of the culture and social environments.

Personally, I would suggest you two continue being open and honest with each other and freely discuss the desires or fantasies you get and then use them as roleplay / foreplay for your personal enjoyment. If this becomes a continual desire for you both, you could also look into finding sex clubs or people who would do non-contact, same room sex or maybe allow you two to be voyeurs and have your own pleasures without the risks of swapping or trading.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic always having a backup guy
Posted 11 Aug 2012 19:07

Is it really a back-up guy? Or just a guy that gives you the thrill of knowing he desires you? You know? The chase?

Like others have said, it seems like you enjoy the attention but more so, the true factor here I believe is that knowing you are able to flirt with this back-up guy and string him along so that you are the object of his desires, even though you claim to never have sex with them.

I believe you are using these guys as your ego boost and need to evaluate how you would feel if you were treated that way.
Otherwise, you are not giving all of yourself to the relationship with your BF and are not being honest with yourself!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sister In Law
Posted 11 Aug 2012 19:03

I'm a contradiction here!

While I agree with what most people say about not going for it, I did the opposite and actually set it up so my Hubby and my older sister could get it on with each other.

But! Based on the way the O.P. started this thread, I don't think it is a good idea for him to pursue it without an open and honest discussion with his wife. If they are not in an open marriage, it is already a closed subject, in my mind!

However, if they are in an open marriage, then it really depends on the boundries set by the wife and husband, as well as the sister-in-law!

In almost any case, it is a DANGEROUS Situation that could cause problems later or even many years from now!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How many of you ladies actually get off when you're cybering?
Posted 05 Aug 2012 19:21

I usually get very "inspired" and try to make sure the other person enjoys our fun time online!

I will often get off somehow, either online or afterwards, recalling the chat.

No matter what, I enjoy the fun with someone new or the first time, the best!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Strapless strap-ons
Posted 05 Aug 2012 15:17

What Nikki stated about Kegels is true and still necessary for the strapless dildos.

I've had a lot of fun with the Feeldoe toys and if used with an woman of equal or superior vaginal and pelvic muscle control, it can be a wicked and amazingly enjoyable experience!

Kisses!

Steph