Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic making pussy tighter
Posted 23 Jul 2012 18:40

For what it's worth, here is my serious answer to the original posters question.

Believe it or not, it is possible to tighten your vagina.
But! like all physical changes, it takes a lot of time, dedication and conscientious thought.
What I am about to describe has worked for several women I know, including myself, and we are all over 40 and some even many years past 50!

I can't guarantee this works for every woman, but for those who are willing to work at it, it can make at least a slight, if not significant difference.

First, you have to get your mindset that with anything that you are trying to physically change about yoursef, it takes time and does not happen overnight! It's just like loosing a large amount of weight, or gain a major amount of muscle. It takes time!

The muscles in the vagina are like any other in your body. They can be built up from proper exercise and care, but can also be torn down from overuse and not taking proper care of them. There are many groups of muscles and they all can be exercised and strengthened, which will also make them naturally tighter and also stronger during contraction.

Everyone has heard of Kegels and without a doubt, this is the first step to learning how to get yourself familiarized with your physiology and understanding how to control and work the groups to get more strength while doing the contraction exercises.

Now here is a key lesson to add to the kegels. It is something people who play wind musical instruments would understand as you would have to build facial muscles so that their lips can maintain a tight and controlled opening that has the ability to open and close as needed but in a smooth and controlled fashion. The lesson is that while doing the kegel exercises that involve the clenching of the vaginal muscles, you need to take a full and deep breath, and breathe normally while clenching and relaxing. Most people will tend to hold their breath as they bear down or tighten the vaginal muscles and this will only give limited strength. By doing the clenching and relaxing while breathing normally, you are encouraging muscle control at all times and eventually, you can do it at will without having to concentrate on doing them.

Something else I should have mentioned in the beginning. You should have a variety of toys or objects that are decreasing in sizes. Essentially, you will start with a dildo or object similar to your normal lover's size and length if possible, then decreasing in size until you get down to something near the size of the pencil or pen. Yes! That small! The items can be ribbed but ideally, there should be a variety of diameters, textures and even tapered if possible. The reason for the variety is to be able to hold any thing and develop a clamp onto any shape or texture. The smooth objects will be the hardest to hold but a tight grip can be achieved to maintain a grip, even with a juicy kitty or lots of lubrication!

The next thing to consider is to do a series of exercises immediately after sex! Seriously! This is the method to overcoming the looseness from being over used! Like an athlete or musician, there is a warm down or cool down period and without it, muscles can loose memory. The way to start out is to use a dildo or object that is smaller than the lover who last fucked you. You start with inserting the object only part way, (like the head is just inserted), and breathe normally while attempting to clamp down and hold the object. Normally, your muscles at the opening with tighten down and push out the object so you will have to keep trying to hold it in position. If you are successful in holding the item, try pulling it out a bit and repeat the clenching until you barely have the item inside you. After you have done this for about 5-minutes, get a cold damp towel and pack your vaginal area to cool it down and help the muscles contract. You could also take this further by using a smaller dildo that can be chilled or frozen and inserted inside you. YES! It is COLD! But it helps to tighten down the muscle walls and contract the capillaries around the muscles.

As you become more proficient, move your position from lying on your back to being on all fours like in doggy style. Having your legs apart, creates more focus on your part to isolate the vaginal muscles and use them to control the contractions. Not relying upon using the inner thigh muscles! After you get more control in the prone position, try it standing up with you feet at a shoulders width apart!

The exercises goes further over time as you place the objects further inside and repeat the processes while also reducing the size and diameters of the objects used. As you develop the muscle contractions, you will also need to step up your cool downs and do those more often and not just after sex! Eventually, you can also develop control for small items like bullets or Ben-Wah balls. These are more advanced but you can exercise with them during the day while sitting, standing and walking to increase the control as well as tighten the muscles.

I have seen some women, (older than me! I might add!), who can keep a tight grip on a pencil! If you tried to grab it from them, it breaks apart!

It takes time and dedication but it has worked for me and a few friends to the point where I developed what guys call a "Snapping Pussy". And I'm happy that guys like it!

One other thing, if you have taken large, tree-trunk cocks for a long time, this may help only a little bit as you have probably torn muscle ligaments over time. You may be able to tighten up but it will take longer and more concentrated efforts to get results. There are women who can take on the largest dicks believable but can also be tight for the smaller and average sized guys. It just is a matter of working at it with the right methods, attitude and patience!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How many partners have you juggled at one time?
Posted 20 Jul 2012 19:50

Oh Hell!

The answer makes me a SLUT!!! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ladies: Pubic Hair
Posted 15 Jul 2012 17:52

Depends on the occassion and people I'll be with!
Mostly shaved and smooth but will let it grow at times and have fun being shaved!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic nude photos
Posted 13 Jul 2012 13:04

Yes. I enjoy having my pics takesn and love showing off myself. But we have had problems in the past with people who found out and caused us much grief.
What we have posted since is very carefully chosen to not show faces or locations to give too much away, so that we don't have any more problems.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Describe your orgasm
Posted 09 Jul 2012 23:30

I wish I could!
There are so many different sensations and emotions and no two climaxes are the same!
I believe that is why I'm so constantly horney!
I might be trying to duplicate the last great experience again!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How many of you ladies actually get off when you're cybering?
Posted 09 Jul 2012 23:22

The few times I have cybered I did get off but I am really not into cybering. To be honest, I find cyber sex to be very awkward. I do however sometimes enjoy masturbating while chatting with someone about sex or fantasies, most times without the persons knowledge but sometimes I will tell them afterward.

I would cyber again with the right person, a few in particular I can think of, but so far they havent offered, LOL!!

Bet I can get you goin! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 06 Jul 2012 18:07

I could get lost in her eyes!
And her figure is awesome too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic women oral sex
Posted 06 Jul 2012 18:05

Just like Lani said, As long as we both get off!
But make sure we do it again and again and again and again...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 03 Jul 2012 23:30

She has an enticing avatar photo that I would love to see her from that angle!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What is your most embarrassing moment in public?
Posted 03 Jul 2012 23:28

My most embarrassing moment was walking out of my bedroom into our kitchen in just my panties not knowing two of my husband's best friends were there. I froze for a moment and ran back to our bedroom totally mortified. I'll never forget the look on their faces seeing my bare breasts and pantie covered bottom.

Somehow, I bet you got aroused by what happened after realizing what you did! I know I would!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Crossdressing
Posted 03 Jul 2012 22:36

My guy is too manly to fit into my clothes!
I think it would be funny and cute but not really much of a turn on for me.

But then, with him, I always get horney so who knows, I may be aroused...Will have to get back to you on this! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Would you be turned off if you were stronger than your man?
Posted 03 Jul 2012 22:34

I look at this differently. Not in the arm wrestling but in the foreplay of wrestling or just playing around.
When things do get more heated, it's almost like rough sex but with the intent of adding to our pleasure.
Kinda like when a guy wants to do it in one position, but I rather be in a different one and I can force my way into it.
We both win and end up fucking like crazy anyways!

Now if it is a group situation, then it becomes like a wild fuck fest frenzy of bodies and it really gets to be intense and fun too!
Trying to hold your own against a group of horney people is fun and tiring but the climaxes are well worth it!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ladies do you like it if your man has or uses toys:
Posted 03 Jul 2012 22:21

Before Hubby and I got together, he had a vast collection and used them frequently with women he was with.
It was a little intimidating to me as I wasn't sexually experienced when we first got together, but it became part of our pleasure play frequently.

Now as far as the dolls go, he never had those but I would get creeped out too if he did!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Caption requested
Posted 03 Jul 2012 22:07

Getting ready for our Lush Ladies Meeting...need to clean them first!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Underwear
Posted 03 Jul 2012 22:05

What Panties??? I never wear any!

Now a BRA is almost always a MUST!
But I can also wear a cupless!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 02 Jul 2012 23:22

She has a mind to match her sexy body!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sex with another man while husband/partner watches?
Posted 02 Jul 2012 21:35

1) Yes! Many times! And Me with Other Women TOO!!!

2) Yes! And It has happened Many Times!

3) Yes! Like Shawna, We've been in the lifestyle nearly 30 years...

What else ya got? LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Embarrased to ask re Ben Wa Balls
Posted 01 Jul 2012 21:48

I would also suggest you get yourself a nice pearl G-string thong to wear when you have them inside you!
The double sensations are wicked!

Personal Assistant is correct about not losing them!
I would also suggest you learn to do different types of Kegel exercises with them inside.
It strengthens and coordinates different muscles for outstanding control!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic outdoor sex
Posted 01 Jul 2012 21:09

Anywhere that there is water!
A beach, a lake, a river, a waterfall, an ocean, a pool, a hot tub, the rain, whatever, I get horney and love doing it!

It is a natural arousal to be outside and enjoying the best thing in life! CLIMAX!!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you like a girl that watches porn?
Posted 01 Jul 2012 17:40

This has been an interesting thread to watch and especially read those comment on the reasons and other details!

Thanks to the OP for starting and those who have taken the time to post!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How to sort out my wierd sex drive and make him last longer?
Posted 25 Jun 2012 22:06

Snowmynx,

Start talking to him NOW!!!
And the two of you need to see an intimacy / couples counselor QUICK!!!

If you don't get a handle of this now, your marriage is almost certain to fail!

For you love and the strength of your relationship, see someone and get help together!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you like to.watch......
Posted 23 Jun 2012 03:25

Watching someone who doesnt know they are being watched is HOT!
Watching someone and doing it with them is also HOT!'
Just knowing they are in lust and deriving pleasure is awesome!.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Which Is Hotter: Big Boobs or Big Nipples?
Posted 23 Jun 2012 03:20

I like big boobs much more. Huge aereolas and very long nipples can be kind of a turn off, but only if extreme.

Awww. I may be a bit of disappointment for you Nikki!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic when did you masturbate last?
Posted 15 Jun 2012 13:01

This morning after our wake-up fuck...
No Wait!
In the shower after getting up...
No Wait!
On the way to work while stuck in traffic...
No Wait!
In my office while I was daydreaming about the fun I had last week,
No wait!

Right NOW While on Lush!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Frozen cucumber --- what do you think.
Posted 13 Jun 2012 23:01

I KNOW this is not just a guys fantasy!

Cum On Girls! You can't tell me you all have never used a vegetable or something similar to play with??

Seriously???

Okay! I'll admit that I have used a few like a cucumber and a few different types of squash or gourds.

I believe I heard the story that the O.P. heard on the radio and it was some popular former adult star who now has their radio show. Whatever the case may be, I can see the situation as described but I can't imagine that the feeling would be the same. I mean, seriously! When a cock cums, you feel the pulsing and throbbing of the member inside you, not just the oozing of the sperm like a melting cucumber!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 13 Jun 2012 22:52

He posts many classy, erotic and intriguing images that rarely fail to arouse me!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic do you let guys see up your skirt?
Posted 10 Jun 2012 02:27

I guess I have to answer YES!
Since I don't wear panties or thongs unless absolutely necessary!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic How bad is my situation?
Posted 09 Jun 2012 09:05

I bet Nikki and I think similar being women of some experience...

If we did not know you were inexperienced, we would have a lot more fun!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ideal cup size
Posted 09 Jun 2012 09:03

Without a doubt either a B or C cup. A's are too small and anything beyond a C is just way too much. Besides the most sensitive nipples are in these cup sizes and are wonderfully well formed and so beautiful. It will be interesting to see the results from this question.


I doubt you've enjoyed the lesbian pleasures with a busty woman! If it were with me, I know a few things my boobs would do to you Bethany!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic pleasuring yourself
Posted 07 Jun 2012 22:43

Hubby had a really wicked shaped knob custom made for one of our cars and it was almost phallic but it felt so good to rub against! When I got really naughty and wet, I would ride it but not while the car was running, as it was a stick shift.

Other times, I was like Jenni and have a few antique hair brushes with some truly ornate designs that feel better than some dildos!

Kisses!

Steph