About BigRockCandyMountain


I'm Married, Bi, 6' 2" about 225#'s Wearing shorter Brown hair now graying, always wear a beard or goatee, since sophomore year in High-school.

I learned Taoist Sexology and Tantra in High-school and College, and Taught Tantra with my first wife in Grad-school, we were swingers too. Then after we married and we were expecting our only child, she became a "born again christian zealot - and cut all ties we had with friends in those aspects of our life. That marriage didn't last long.

I went back to finish my MFA, and I dated a lot. Found that I was being hit on by guys, frequently - but, I always responded with: "Thanks, but No Thanks..." Yet I was also, always a bit curious at the prospects, I just didn't find guys attractive. Not that way... Finally One guy - a mutual friend of some married friends (we knew each other for a year or so) He said after hitting on me and my usual response; "That wasn't a No,"
I decided to let him seduce me. He was taller than myself, he was 6' 6" and I enjoyed the way I felt, taking on a receptive role for a change - taking the feminine role as in Tantra. I was appreciative for his patience, perspective, and persistence...

I remarried, then, had a mid-life crisis last year, my eldest brother passed away just before my 50th birthday. I had plans for a black birthday with a coffin birthday cake etc..., but family asked me not to throw it in respect for my deceased brothers memory... I shouldn't have listened . It ended up that I had to move out for a few months. The end of Youth and the birth of old age...

Relationship Status:
The state of acceptance because I\\'ve crossed over denial river...
Local Time:
22 Mar 2018 05:27
Many, various... shrugs


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Topic: If you COULD suck your own dick....?
Posted: 10 Sep 2013 19:34

What do you mean, IF? That's the pay off, from years of yoga

Topic: Blowjobs: Guys, do you like to suck cock as well as having your cock sucked?
Posted: 06 Aug 2013 13:00

Well, heck yeah, it's enjoyable giving as well as receiving

Topic: Advice (Guys only please): Need BF advice!
Posted: 02 Jan 2013 13:10

He might just want some privacy. The openness might have been something he wanted to try, maybe try for the first time with you. Don't judge him, just let him know it's ok that he want's his space. Make a space, he will come back and fill the void if you let him and he wants to. Be ok with yourself, that's perhaps what he liked most about you and your openness??? I don't know, but talking without looking for a solution is a good start.

Topic: Never Chatted and new to the site
Posted: 25 Aug 2012 12:02

New here to, looking forward to exploration.

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Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
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Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
14 Feb 2017 00:20

Happy Happy Birthday. Know it will be a naughty fun day. Stay naked and hard. Enjoy and smile.
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Happy Happy Birthday!!! Know it will be a naughty day. Stay naked and hard. Enjoy.
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Thanks for the add and would be honored to have you as a friend. Thanks. Let the fun begin.
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Happy Birthday!!!! Have a great day!!!!!
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Thanks so much for reading and commenting on my story, My Happy Ending. It is much appreciated.

Have a great day.
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Let's do it!

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