About Dancewithme

I strongly stand by the Human Rights of all people, and the equal rights of women.

Remember that the kind of human being you are matters more to me than your cup size.

My interests here are in good reading, and talking to friends I keep.

My interests are far beyond my ability to manage them. I just love life. I have always been enchanted with it, and I won't change that. As a post war baby-boomer, I will never give up my faith that what you put into life, you get back. No you do not always win, but if you lose, make sure you can say you left it all out on the field and make victory your awareness that you played the hand you were dealt in life the best possible way. We call that "keeping the faith baby."
To me, loving someone is having faith in them, the Other of our otherness, and believing that they do not change their stripes, but decisively keep that core faith that life is a good thing if we want it to be, nearly all the time. That's how we come to love it and others so much.
When you first get to know me you can say that I am a kind, loving, giving man. But I am also told by women that I have some real empathy for them, and their point of view, and that that
does not make me very masculine, or what many women want. It has taken me most of a lifetime to learn how to do that because I grew up in one of the worst neighborhoods in America,
and had to learn to box and wrestle until no other young man my age dared challenge me.
A few did and NO ONE from then on ever challenged me again. Moreover I NEVER cower in the face of life's challenges in standing by my children, women and what I respect (see above).
I have met some of the most incredible people here and have cut my friends list down drastically because I do not want to mislead others. I can only get close to a small number of people at a time...I mean really small.
So yes, I can be disenchanted at times but I always bounce back. I am too gutsy to ever take NO for an answer in life.

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Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, SUDOKU, Logic puzzles, Sabrmetrics, art, science, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, world cultures and history, and many, many more.
My friends interests.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc.Levinas, "Otherwise than Being." Locke, "Second Treatise of Government." Shakespeare, anything.
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language. See above.
Favorite Movies:
Far too many to list.
Favourite TV Shows:
X-Files (Gilian), Elementary (Lucy Liu) and Ellen DeGeneres Show. Charlie Rose Interviews. I watch very little TV. Very little.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV. Sports I prefer to see in person, especially with a friend.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, Latin, gypsy, folk, ballet, international (any culture or language), no borders in musical taste.
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Topic: Who would you like to fuck that you know, but haven't ......yet?
Posted: 28 Aug 2016 09:44

I rather agree with Billy Crystal's observation in "When Harry Met Sally" as based upon my own experience, guys eventually get around to wondering what it would be like to bed any woman they come into contact with - though it seems in very few instances does it move beyond that. So, my list could get very long unless I focus it on the one I really, really wanted to fuck - a few years ago I fell very hard for a colleague at work and I think to some degree she reciprocated the feeling. But with two marriages with children in the mix along with the professional problems a workplace romance would have generated it just wasn't in the cards. Being bisexual (at least admitting it now for some years) there have been a few guys I've been attracted to but never enough to find out if they were also interested (thought the two guys I met at a local museum when they asked me a question as a volunteer working there - for them I would have done anything that day)

Call me anything you want I guess, but I am NOT like he says. To make that even stronger no woman who has ever encountered my sex drive has ever said it was average or weak, and I have been told over and over I have a terrific imagination.
But when I say that, I do not want to totally discount what he says for most guys. Are there any studies out there that prove that?

Topic: Who would you like to fuck that you know, but haven't ......yet?
Posted: 28 Aug 2016 09:40

You'd think that would be easy to answer but for me it's not, as I've only ever fucked my wife. Added to that I only tend be sexually attracted to people I know very well and really like. So that leaves me with a list of only 2. One I've worked with and the other was 24 years ago!

That's the perils of being attracted by personality rather than looks I guess.

I could have written this myself!! It is right on the money as they say.

Topic: Skinny or Curvy?
Posted: 28 Aug 2016 09:35

Nope you are not the only one. There is another category called fit. I into fit shapely women with confidence.

I totally agree with my friend Chuck.

Topic: Do you think women look good with nipple piercings and their clit pierced?
Posted: 27 Aug 2016 23:21

Not at all. The thought that anyone should in any way try to alter some of the beautiful women here makes me shudder. Why mess with the Mona Lisa?

Topic: How often do guys masturbate? (really)
Posted: 26 Aug 2016 15:32

A lady's hand feels so much better! But did you ever try to get them to just lend you a "helping hand?" ....and I ask nice too! Sheesh! It's recusterpating.

Topic: What are you listening to right now?
Posted: 24 Aug 2016 08:08

Hugh Laurie---St. James Infirmary

Topic: The Ongoing Geography Game...
Posted: 21 Aug 2016 23:51

The baseball game.....but that was hours ago. It is all I watch.

Topic: strange places out side you've had sex
Posted: 21 Aug 2016 12:32

Just one: On a picnic table in the middle of a public park. She was so damned sexy laying there with her skirt gathered up!

Topic: Guilty pleasure!
Posted: 21 Aug 2016 02:11


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Stories Published By Dancewithme
The Hayloft

In the dance hall, the lights are dim amber as you are walking back to your seat after a few fast dances. This scene is so familiar to me now, yet it never gets old. I've got it bad for you, yet you don't have a clue. As I sit at the rail, I order up a Courvoisier cognac to give me strength, and watch your every move intensely. Your eyes are so deep and sparkling with the joy of the...

Added 13 Oct 2014 | Category Love Stories | Votes 20 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,012 | 20 Comments

May I Love You?

May I Love You? May I stop here before you, And linger a while? May I ask you to dance, And get a big smile? May I reach for you gently, Your palm now in mine? May I place my hand here, Right at your side? May we step so very slowly, then quickly like this? May we speak in hot tango, Our moving, sweet bliss? May I dare to catch you, And hold you like this? May...

Added 02 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 30 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,189 | 31 Comments

I Kissed A Butterfly

I kissed a butterfly, My lips made her weep. I whispered to a butterfly, "Go not to sleep! Just stay awake, Why, I can make you weep!" Butterfly kissed me back! So I then quickly licked her, Most tenderly and sweet. She gushed with her excitement.  I can not be discreet, My heart was pouding loudly While kneeling at her feet, Like a suckling new born calf Right at its...

Added 04 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 26 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,319 | 23 Comments

My Love Calls Me Teddy

My love calls me "Teddy" Her heart calling mine I can never resist it Her voice is divine My love calls me "Teddy" A smile to my face As if she affirms me With her sweet, loving grace My love calls me "Teddy" My soul becomes tender It sends me to Heaven My life I would send her My spirit sends roses Bright red in bouquet For sending her blessing to "Have a...

Added 08 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 23 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,066 | 22 Comments

I Am Rom

I am Rom, My life it doth fly, Through hither and yonder, We ride you and I. Through the earth’s golden valleys, To the mountains above, We hang, heads in sorrow, No-“where” to call home. Twas ever a “one day,” A moment of bliss, Saw first my “Dark Eyes,” In the heavens domed skies. Stars all a glitter, The augury told, Fate it embraced me, My heart...

Added 28 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 16 | Avg Score 4.69 | Views 849 | 13 Comments

Damned Ole Black Hole

Now before you go yelling And pummeling me Just hear these words Sooth sings unto thee! Damned ole black hole It's following me Wherever I go: By the tree swing Down at the lee But hardest of all It lays beside me… Every night, when‘s time for sleep The hole gets a bit deeper Swallowing me All night it stays there Calling to me With the voice of my angel Who once dreamed with me. ‘twas...

Added 10 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,090 | 14 Comments

Take My Sweet Lips, Babe

Take my sweet lips, babe Every gentle pore Let them make open Your tightly locked door Know that you'll want them The spirit they show No, not beneath them Are passions like snow? Just sweet, soft and tender Lips warm to your heart Then over your body They’ll warm every part Your face, oh so precious Your breasts so divine Legs soft as smooth satin Core sacred,...

Added 07 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 13 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,265 | 12 Comments

If thou would be here with me

If thou would be here with me Wearing silk eggshell flows I would have played Pachelbel’s Cannon Taken your hand as if a sweet rose Roaming ‘cross the dance floor In sweet flowing elegance The candle lights flickering Illuminating your face Every delicate feature Alive in its grace… Your heart beat I’d know it As it races like mine Look to each other And see the divine Your...

Added 06 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 11 | Avg Score 5 | Views 843 | 11 Comments

I Love You Suzy

Eyes so light blue Like the heavens above Stole my heart away Sweet gestures of love Lips made for kissing Wear an endearing sweetness A kindness there shining I see my completeness Your skin is like satin Your face oh so soft Slight brush of my hand Just sends me aloft Gold hair is so lovely Curves gently round your face Caressing and holding Thy head, as...

Added 30 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 12 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,006 | 11 Comments

Just One Little Finger

Just one little finger That's all that it takes To make my love wiggle To give her the shakes... Just one little finger Poking here, jabbing there Makes her so sticky All over down there! Just one little finger It's sucked in, then two She kisses all my fingers With succulent goo! So if you have fingers And your love is about You'd better offer So she doesn't pout! You don't...

Added 05 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 16 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,744 | 17 Comments

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