About Dancewithme

Male. Broad interests. Love to sing and dance. Enjoy life. Would like to meet good-natured women with a naughty imagination, and to enjoy reading and writing about the Aphroditic.

Guess you could say I've been around the block with places like this over 9 years but like this site a lot. Great writing, some great women, and some good guys, do it for me.
I try to be fair, honest and upbeat. But my passionate, sensual and discerning nature can be a lot of fun for most, but IS intense. My intensity is caring, no question. But is challenging for a few women now and then. Why hide the truth?
I am a writer of histories now and am admittedly cerebral and often buried in research.
I have no intentional biases of gender, race, age, style. We are all people and humility with confidence is nice to have. I was in a very troubled relationship away from Ep and am doing all I can to end its effects. I will not hide it either. If you have a serious relationship with another member or in real life, please don't ask me to be your friend unless you know me for a long time or have clearly marked on your profile that you ARE in a relationship. If you expect the truth of me and other members as stated above, be honest enough to state the truth about yourself so we can all know who you are.
I am proud of the special circle of friends I have, and try to develop meaningful friendships with all my friends. No, that does not mean I am poly-amorous.
I can be in a relationship with someone here and still have friends, though I will show my partner special attention reserved only for them. If I am in such a relationship I will say so.
I am a mature man who enjoys good people---class is important to me, but does not rule out playfulness.
Just fair warning: I will NOT tolerate stalkers, hackers, people who spy on others, using multiple accounts or try to use other members accounts.
Please have the courage to be YOURSELF. I am very tolerant but do not like to be deceived or left in the dark about you. Sudden jolting revelations are not my cup of tea.
This may sound like I am not a fun guy to get to know but all that warning above has become necessary to state precisely because I CAN be a lot of fun, because I am kind and easy going, and have learned some very painful lessons here and elsewhere.

Daddy O
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I like anything with quality and class in the whole fiend of arts, sciences, sports, entertainment, etc. Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, SUDOKU, Logic puzzles, Sabermetrics, art, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, world cultures and history, and many, many more.
Tell me what you like and maybe we can find common ground. The more the better as far as I am concerned.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc.
That list is the very tip of a huge iceberg.
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language.
Favorite Movies:
Mostly classics but some recent American, English, French, Italian. If a movie has a great leading lady who is acting in it I will probably like it such as Bette Davis or Meryl Streep but there are lots of others. Ingrid Bergman, Renee Zellweger, Diane Lane (very hot), etc. I love silent movies with Chaplain and Keaton and Valentino, etc. Clint Eastwood especially in "Josey Wales." John Wayne in "The Shootist." But most of all Yul Brynner in "The King and I." Pacino and DeNiro in "Heat," Raging Bull, Brando in "On the Waterfront," and a lot of what he after that. Musicals with great dance like Astaire and Rogers, Kelly and Caron, etc.
Favourite TV Shows:
X-Files (Gilian), The Middle and Ellen DeGeneres Show. Charlie Rose Interviews. I watch very little TV. Very little.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV.
Favorite Music:
Anything quality. Classical, jazz, international(!) (any culture or language).
I especially am deep into Ballet, flamenco, tango, opera and the cross over into more popular current forms.
Being part Romany and Objibwe, and have been studying our music for quite some time now, and am quite proud of my roots.
I have NOT stayed current with trends in music for about 10 years now because I am so busy with what I do pursue. I don't know if what is current is good or bad. I apologize for my ignorance.
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Latest Forum Posts
Topic: Does a more attractive partner correlate to a better sex?
Posted: 29 Mar 2015 03:54

Just because your partner is super hot doesn't mean you will have great sexual chemistry with each other. One of the hottest women I've ever been with was the most boring in the sack.


Topic: Word for the day
Posted: 28 Mar 2015 14:20

kosmic matriarchy

Topic: Word for the day
Posted: 28 Mar 2015 14:18

Medula obligada

It is "oblongata" I believe sweetie.

Topic: Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted: 27 Mar 2015 19:33

Wiccan and an earth goddess honest and sexy

I honestly don't know Shotgun. BUT what he says about Melissa is spot on if understated . Yes Melissa is a goddess and is very sexy.

Topic: If you could only eat one candy for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Posted: 27 Mar 2015 15:06

My lady friend's *****!
Though I do fancy dark bittersweet chocolate as a lousy substitute.

Topic: What's Your Current Mood.
Posted: 26 Mar 2015 04:39

I feel great today!

Topic: ... in my pants
Posted: 24 Mar 2015 17:58

Stairway to Heaven...In My Pants.

Topic: Guilty or Innocent.
Posted: 24 Mar 2015 17:55

Guilty The guy I was with let his cousin watch us, then they told me after. His cousin still tries to get in my pants.

Have you ever had a threesome?


Have you ever gone dancing without your undies on?

Topic: What Are You Wearing?
Posted: 24 Mar 2015 17:53

Short faded jeans skirt and white tank top

Really? Whew! angel7

I am wearing jeans and a pullover knit shirt to combat the cold.

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Stories Published By Dancewithme
The Hayloft

In the dance hall, the lights are dim amber as you are walking back to your seat after a few fast dances. This scene is so familiar to me now, yet it never gets old. I've got it bad for you, yet you don't have a clue. As I sit at the rail, I order up a Courvoisier cognac to give me strength, and watch your every move intensely. Your eyes are so deep and sparkling with the joy of the...

Added 13 Oct 2014 | Category Love Stories | Votes 11 | Avg Score 5 | Views 3,866 | 11 Comments

May I Love You?

May I Love You? May I stop here before you, And linger a while? May I ask you to dance, And get a big smile? May I reach for you gently, Your palm now in mine? May I place my hand here, Right at your side? May we step so very slowly, then quickly like this? May we speak in hot tango, Our moving, sweet bliss? May I dare to catch you, And hold you like this? May...

Added 02 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 17 | Avg Score 5 | Views 694 | 18 Comments

Damned Ole Black Hole

Now before you go yelling And pummeling me Just hear these words Sooth sings unto thee! Damned ole black hole It's following me Wherever I go: By the tree swing Down at the lee But hardest of all It lays beside me… Every night, when‘s time for sleep The hole gets a bit deeper Swallowing me All night it stays there Calling to me With the voice of my angel Who once dreamed with me. ‘twas...

Added 10 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 9 | Avg Score 5 | Views 669 | 9 Comments

Just One Little Finger

Just one little finger That's all that it takes To make my love wiggle To give her the shakes... Just one little finger Poking here, jabbing there Makes her so sticky All over down there! Just one little finger It's sucked in, then two She kisses all my fingers With succulent goo! So if you have fingers And your love is about You'd better offer So she doesn't pout! You don't...

Added 05 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 10 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,157 | 11 Comments

I Kissed A Butterfly

I kissed a butterfly, My lips made her weep. I whispered to a butterfly, "Go not to sleep! Just stay awake, Why, I can make you weep!" Butterfly kissed me back! So I then quickly licked her, Most tenderly and sweet. She gushed with her excitement.  I can not be discreet, My heart was pouding loudly While kneeling at her feet, Like a suckling new born calf Right at its...

Added 04 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 15 | Avg Score 4.8 | Views 897 | 15 Comments

My Love Calls Me Teddy

My love calls me "Teddy" Her heart calling mine I can never resist it Her voice is divine My love calls me "Teddy" A smile to my face As if she affirms me With her sweet, loving grace My love calls me "Teddy" My soul becomes tender It sends me to Heaven My life I would send her My spirit sends roses Bright red in bouquet For sending her blessing to "Have a...

Added 08 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 12 | Avg Score 5 | Views 698 | 12 Comments

Take My Sweet Lips, Babe

Take my sweet lips, babe Every gentle pore Let them make open Your tightly locked door Know that you'll want them The spirit they show No, not beneath them Are passions like snow? Just sweet, soft and tender Lips warm to your heart Then over your body They’ll warm every part Your face, oh so precious Your breasts so divine Legs soft as smooth satin Core sacred,...

Added 07 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 8 | Avg Score 5 | Views 889 | 6 Comments

If thou would be here with me

If thou would be here with me Wearing silk eggshell flows I would have played Pachelbel’s Cannon Taken your hand as if a sweet rose Roaming ‘cross the dance floor In sweet flowing elegance The candle lights flickering Illuminating your face Every delicate feature Alive in its grace… Your heart beat I’d know it As it races like mine Look to each other And see the divine Your...

Added 06 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 8 | Avg Score 5 | Views 616 | 8 Comments

I Love You Suzy

Eyes so light blue Like the heavens above Stole my heart away Sweet gestures of love Lips made for kissing Wear an endearing sweetness A kindness there shining I see my completeness Your skin is like satin Your face oh so soft Slight brush of my hand Just sends me aloft Gold hair is so lovely Curves gently round your face Caressing and holding Thy head, as...

Added 30 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 9 | Avg Score 5 | Views 721 | 9 Comments


Honey? Is that you? I can't see in the night Though the hopes and the dreams Are still burning bright In the brightness of day In the darkness of night I love you I love you But you are away… Should you come to me now While my heart still knows how To love life in fun Our victories won… While the smile on my heart Holds on to be ready For your first Hello Its timbre I’ll know… Who...

Added 29 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 8 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,836 | 10 Comments

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