About Dancewithme


I strongly stand by the Human Rights of all people, and the equal rights of women.

Remember that the kind of human being you are matters more to me than your cup size.

My interests here are in good reading, and talking to my true friends.

My interests are far beyond my ability to manage them. I just love life. I have always been enchanted with it, and I won't change that.
To me, loving someone is having faith in them, the Other of our otherness, and believing that they do not change their stripes, but decisively keep that core faith that life is a good thing if we want it to be, nearly all the time. That's how we come to love it and others so much.
When you first get to know me you can say that I am a kind, loving, giving man. But I am also told by women that I have some real empathy for them, and their point of view. Men sometimes say that does not make me very masculine, or what many women want. DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE!! I FEAR NO MAN!
I NEVER cower in the face of life's challenges in standing by my children, women and what I respect (see above).
I have met some of the most incredible people here and have cut my friends list down drastically because I do not want to mislead others. I can only get close to a small number of people at a time...I mean really small.
I am too gutsy to ever take NO for an answer in life.
If I begin to cherish your presence you will know it: I crave so much more than a physical connection. I crave your words and depth. I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears. I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface if you are my friend.
I firmly believe that we live in a Rape Culture.
My ethnic origins are Madeiran, Roma, Ojibwe, Welsh-Irish, and French. I love my roots BUT more than them, I am a very proud patriot in a family on all sides that have served our country militarily as far back as in our very colonial development. I am currently spending my free time travelling my own state to get to know its history well: MA. Yet surprisingly I have books and articles published internationally in China's and Northeast Asia's history.

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Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, Sabrmetrics, art, science, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, boxing, world cultures and history, and many, many more.
My friends interests are of interest to me too.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc.Levinas, "Otherwise than Being." Locke, "Second Treatise of Government." Emily Dickinson's poetry(!!).
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language. See above.
Favorite Movies:
Far too many to list. I do watch more of the classics by now.
Favourite TV Shows:
X-Files (Gilian), Elementary (Lucy Liu) and Ellen DeGeneres Show. Charlie Rose Interviews. I watch very little TV. Very little.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV. Sports I prefer to see in person, especially with a friend.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, Latin, gypsy, folk, ballet, international (any culture or language), no borders in musical taste.


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Topic: What, in your opinion, is the best position for sucking a cock?
Posted: 21 Apr 2017 09:54

Especially when his hands are wrapped in my hair like this..

This is my favorite position but I must see her eyes now and then.

Topic: The rape of men: the darkest secret of war
Posted: 21 Apr 2017 08:38

Not sure what you're getting at in the context of this thread or how it's a response to what I posted.

You used this phrase:

victims of sexual assault

"sexual" and "assault" belong to two different kinds of acts as treated under the law.

If someone assaults another, whether it be in what we cal a "sexual" way or with a rock
in the vernacular doesn't matter as to how it gets tried. It is a criminal act of assault.

A sexual act is a mutually consensual act between two willing/consenting persons.

What makes this important is the way it clears up lots of confusion: how many times have women been assaulted and because they have become wet (out of fear probably), automatically conclude they must sexually want what is going on because they are wet, so don't put up a fight, or say no. They have mistakenly lubrication from arousal to be due to an desire for what the perpetrator of an assault is doing, and therefore, do not say no or try to defend themselves, not realizing that it could be from fear!

Topic: Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted: 20 Apr 2017 16:03

She does, she is wearing between her eyes, the eight pointed star of Ishtar, representing Venus :)

Right. She is drop dead gorgeous! lol
Any wonder why.....oh you know what I mean! :)
Yes, Ishtar, my favorite goddess.....why does it have 8 points rather than 6 or 20??? Is it right between her eyes because it affects her vision, or her trances?

Topic: Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted: 20 Apr 2017 12:43


She looks a bit like you Mely! <3

Topic: The rape of men: the darkest secret of war
Posted: 20 Apr 2017 10:08

I think it's more that male rape is just taboo, as men are not 'supposed' to be the victims of sexual assault. And male rape (and its victims) is also very much associated with homosexuality, still a taboo itself for many people around the world.

Yes, noll but under American Law, offences are grouped under two headings for prosecution: (violations of)
1) Civil Law: disputes between private parties, or negligent acts that cause harm to others.
This would include breach of contract, negligence (such a driving without due caution).

2) Criminal Law: acts of intentional harm to individuals. So if one person asks for sex and is told no, it is sex being asked for and being refused, or accepted. Neither party intends to harm another person's humanity, then it is still a civil matter. BUT when one person
disregards another's humanity, and assaults them intentionally, without their consent, they are committing an act of just that, assault. Thus, it is not treated as sex but as violence . Hence it is a criminal act and is prosecuted as such.

So when us men go to our urologist for our rectal and prostate exams, the specialist is not performing sex on you, nor is he assaulting you. So he is not violating either the civil nor the criminal law.

It is very easy to mix them up.

Topic: The rape of men: the darkest secret of war
Posted: 20 Apr 2017 04:32

Rape is always about dominance, dehumanization, and victimization. Either gender can be targeted by inhuman aggression.

Thank you Bethany!!

So this violent culture men and women live in, commits the violence of rape, which is not a sexual act but a form of ASSAULT(!!) that is committed against our humanity, is so full of fear about admitting what has happened to them by victims (especially men), that it just goes on unaddressed. Us men are "supposed to be able to take it better" than women. Where the f*** did that generalization come from? Go to a trauma unit for rape victims, and you will see how many are men are there!!

EVERYONE IS UNSAFE!!!!!!!!!! What are we going to do about it?

How many cases of male PTSD will our society sweep under the rug???

Topic: How Lack Of Touch Is Destroying Men
Posted: 20 Apr 2017 03:54

These SIX words speak volumes that can / do affect the human condition. Well spoken and I appreciate this insight.

I do too sir.

Topic: Let's have some fun. The person above you, are they naughty or nice?
Posted: 18 Apr 2017 15:50

double post error.

Topic: Let's have some fun. The person above you, are they naughty or nice?
Posted: 18 Apr 2017 15:50

I don't know Yourstruly7 but she does seem to be well proportioned and definitely properly assembled! So she just has to have a little bit of a naughty side, otherwise, all that magnificent work .....Oh damn! She is not into guys like me....it would have been so nice to test my theory about the naughty side! *sigh*

Topic: How Lack Of Touch Is Destroying Men
Posted: 17 Apr 2017 23:41

So much of what you have all said so far rings true to me, yet unless we can find a way to see, and sort through what insightful Metilda calls

"a clusterfuck of social norms that have hailed from various pathways in our history" how can we possibly figure out what is appropriate behavior for members of our society as a whole? Unless we can do that doesn't it seem like we are almost fated to have irreconcilable values?

Don't we have to try to find compromises like Henry Clay was famous for doing? Must we always be all too willing to do battle? All the sides seem to have more and more lethal ways of doing battle!

Could this be because we need to hug more for starters? Having been to Pow Wows myself, Bethany is not exaggerating: there is no hesitation to hug any of our indigenous brothers and sisters. So it can be done!

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The Hayloft

In the dance hall, the lights are dim amber as you are walking back to your seat after a few fast dances. This scene is so familiar to me now, yet it never gets old. I've got it bad for you, yet you don't have a clue. As I sit at the rail, I order up a Courvoisier cognac to give me strength, and watch your every move intensely. Your eyes are so deep and sparkling with the joy of the...

Added 13 Oct 2014 | Category Love Stories | Votes 20 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,343 | 21 Comments

May I Love You?

May I Love You? May I stop here before you, And linger a while? May I ask you to dance, And get a big smile? May I reach for you gently, Your palm now in mine? May I place my hand here, Right at your side? May we step so very slowly, then quickly like this? May we speak in hot tango, Our moving, sweet bliss? May I dare to catch you, And hold you like this? May...

Added 02 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 28 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,376 | 31 Comments

I Kissed A Butterfly

I kissed a butterfly, My lips made her weep. I whispered to a butterfly, "Go not to sleep! Just stay awake, Why, I can make you weep!" Butterfly kissed me back! So I then quickly licked her, Most tenderly and sweet. She gushed with her excitement.  I can not be discreet, My heart was pouding loudly While kneeling at her feet, Like a suckling new born calf Right at its...

Added 04 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 24 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,460 | 22 Comments

My Love Calls Me Teddy

My love calls me "Teddy" Her heart calling mine I can never resist it Her voice is divine My love calls me "Teddy" A smile to my face As if she affirms me With her sweet, loving grace My love calls me "Teddy" My soul becomes tender It sends me to Heaven My life I would send her My spirit sends roses Bright red in bouquet For sending her blessing to "Have a...

Added 08 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 22 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,202 | 22 Comments

I Am Rom

I am Rom, My life it doth fly, Through hither and yonder, We ride you and I. Through the earth’s golden valleys, To the mountains above, We hang, heads in sorrow, No-“where” to call home. Twas ever a “one day,” A moment of bliss, Saw first my “Dark Eyes,” In the heavens domed skies. Stars all a glitter, The augury told, Fate it embraced me, My heart...

Added 28 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 1,008 | 13 Comments

Damned Ole Black Hole

Now before you go yelling And pummeling me Just hear these words Sooth sings unto thee! Damned ole black hole It's following me Wherever I go: By the tree swing Down at the lee But hardest of all It lays beside me… Every night, when‘s time for sleep The hole gets a bit deeper Swallowing me All night it stays there Calling to me With the voice of my angel Who once dreamed with me. ‘twas...

Added 10 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,229 | 14 Comments

Take My Sweet Lips, Babe

Take my sweet lips, babe Every gentle pore Let them make open Your tightly locked door Know that you'll want them The spirit they show No, not beneath them Are passions like snow? Just sweet, soft and tender Lips warm to your heart Then over your body They’ll warm every part Your face, oh so precious Your breasts so divine Legs soft as smooth satin Core sacred,...

Added 07 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,444 | 13 Comments

If thou would be here with me

If thou would be here with me Wearing silk eggshell flows I would have played Pachelbel’s Cannon Taken your hand as if a sweet rose Roaming ‘cross the dance floor In sweet flowing elegance The candle lights flickering Illuminating your face Every delicate feature Alive in its grace… Your heart beat I’d know it As it races like mine Look to each other And see the divine Your...

Added 06 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 11 | Avg Score 5 | Views 932 | 11 Comments

I Love You Suzy

Eyes so light blue Like the heavens above Stole my heart away Sweet gestures of love Lips made for kissing Wear an endearing sweetness A kindness there shining I see my completeness Your skin is like satin Your face oh so soft Slight brush of my hand Just sends me aloft Gold hair is so lovely Curves gently round your face Caressing and holding Thy head, as...

Added 30 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 12 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,111 | 11 Comments

Just One Little Finger

Just one little finger That's all that it takes To make my love wiggle To give her the shakes... Just one little finger Poking here, jabbing there Makes her so sticky All over down there! Just one little finger It's sucked in, then two She kisses all my fingers With succulent goo! So if you have fingers And your love is about You'd better offer So she doesn't pout! You don't...

Added 05 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 18 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,928 | 19 Comments

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