About Dancewithme

I strongly stand by the Human Rights of all people, and the equal rights of women.

Remember that the kind of human being you are matters more to me than your cup size.

My interests here are in good reading, and talking to friends I keep.

My interests are far beyond my ability to manage them. I just love life. I have always been enchanted with it, and I won't change that. As a post war baby-boomer, I will never give up my faith that what you put into life, you get back in some way. No you do not always win, but if you lose, make sure you can say you left it all out on the field and make victory your awareness that you played the hand you were dealt in life the best possible way. We call that "keeping the faith baby."
To me, loving someone is having faith in them, the Other of our otherness, and believing that they do not change their stripes, but decisively keep that core faith that life is a good thing if we want it to be, nearly all the time. That's how we come to love it and others so much.
When you first get to know me you can say that I am a kind, loving, giving man. But I am also told by women that I have some real empathy for them, and their point of view, and that that
does not make me very masculine, or what many women want. It has taken me most of a lifetime to learn how to do that because I grew up in one of the worst neighborhoods in America.
I NEVER cower in the face of life's challenges in standing by my children, women and what I respect (see above).
I have met some of the most incredible people here and have cut my friends list down drastically because I do not want to mislead others. I can only get close to a small number of people at a time...I mean really small.
So yes, I can be disenchanted at times but I always bounce back. I am too gutsy to ever take NO for an answer in life.
If I begin to cherish your presence you will know it: I crave so much more than a physical connection. I crave your words and depth. I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears. I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface if you you are my friend.

I firmly believe that we live in a Rape Culture. I think that means that a lot of what we are calling "sex" is actually a form of violence. Even the best people can indulge in it without being aware of it. It is so insidious that it is beginning to make it harder all the time to accept a lot of what gets said and done to me and even the words I speak, as well intention-ed as I am. I believe it is making me an "Ace."

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Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, SUDOKU, Logic puzzles, Sabrmetrics, art, science, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, world cultures and history, and many, many more.
My friends interests are of interest to me.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc.Levinas, "Otherwise than Being." Locke, "Second Treatise of Government." Shakespeare, anything.
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language. See above.
Favorite Movies:
Far too many to list.
Favourite TV Shows:
X-Files (Gilian), Elementary (Lucy Liu) and Ellen DeGeneres Show. Charlie Rose Interviews. I watch very little TV. Very little.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV. Sports I prefer to see in person, especially with a friend.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, Latin, gypsy, folk, ballet, international (any culture or language), no borders in musical taste.
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Topic: Taking you out for dinner to make up for giving you a STI... would you go?
Posted: 21 Oct 2016 09:07

Get a lawyer. File a police report.

I would not put up with that ... I'd sue his ass and have him charged for .... whatever grounds the lawyer can find as a precedent in your law abiding location.

fuck that .... no dinner, slap him with a lawsuit for mental anguish, medical costs and future therapy costs to learn to trust again.


absolutely vile man

I totally agree with the ladies. He made a life altering decision for both of you without telling you. He suppressed evidence that sex with him would affect your health!! I don't think he has a leg to stand on.

Topic: You've got your period and your fuck buddy calls...
Posted: 21 Oct 2016 09:01

This is a question I just recently had to deal with myself. Not all guys are into period sex and especially not when they aren't in a long term relationship. I have known my fb for several years and am very comfortable talking with him about anything. So it wasn't difficult at all to say, hey I'm at the tail end of my period and if that is a problem for you, I understand.

I think, how you approach this situation, really depends on your comfort level and his. If you are squeamish about the subject then just say you are busy.

As a man, I would use a condom only for this time, because the lady I first had sex with on her period was so hot I almost felt like I had a roast wiener!! haha! The condom helps with that and also eases her concerns too. My experience that some of the best sex is during periods.
So Miss Lola and the resat of you are on to something I believe anyway.
As Lola says, "I think, how you approach this situation, really depends on your comfort level and his."
The condom makes it very natural for me. If it is for her, then great!

Topic: Girls, what color panties are you wearing today?
Posted: 21 Oct 2016 08:48

None right now....maybe not all day.

You have me drooling so badly, I am afraid to stand up now as my floor is covered with the drool and I could break my neck trying to walk on it. Guess I will have to just stay close by you, on my knees, and seek your .......advice! What do I do now gorgeous?

Topic: Ok, this is kinda unusal but if a female human has sex with a female alien, does that count as lesbi
Posted: 21 Oct 2016 08:40

Is she blue? Going down on a blue girl would be wicked awesome. I wonder if she tastes like blueberry...

I take it the aliens are humanoid? In which case the answer to your question would be yes. :)


Now this I can agree with just because it is Liz's answer. I also think she is correct myself.
Yes, Liz, the blue ones make blueberry filling too for pies and such.
Their breasts are labelled, whipped cream and artificial whipped cream.

What I want to know is, if their bums are blue, what color do they turn if you give them a spanking?
I wonder what their answers would be like in our lush forums. Hmmmmmm

Topic: Ok, this is kinda unusal but if a female human has sex with a female alien, does that count as lesbi
Posted: 21 Oct 2016 08:32

OK, I will grant you that there are aliens. But why would they be gendered? Maybe the are all hermaphroditic or something.

Topic: Husbands would you share your wife with another man while you watched?
Posted: 20 Oct 2016 23:28

No I wouldn't. I don't share

Neither do I.

Topic: cleaning up
Posted: 20 Oct 2016 23:25

Missed a capitalization of first word and I think you meant 'their' not 'there.' To answer your question, I prefer a wash cloth.

What I do too most of the time.

Topic: What part of a girl you look at first when you see her? What turns you on about girls?
Posted: 20 Oct 2016 23:13

I always look at a woman's face first and foremost. What turns me on? She/we does/do with how we talk, laugh, "take to each other." By then I have become excited at our prospects for a real connection. If we seem to have some chemistry, we may notice that too, and then the turning on can become sexual in nature. I said "can."
There is so much more to this question than it at first seems.

Topic: Would You Like to Carry on an Intelligent Conversation with the Poster Above You?
Posted: 20 Oct 2016 15:32

Im sure we shall

Would love one with sweet ginger

Then can we have one? <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/bighugs.gif" alt="Big Hugs">

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The Hayloft

In the dance hall, the lights are dim amber as you are walking back to your seat after a few fast dances. This scene is so familiar to me now, yet it never gets old. I've got it bad for you, yet you don't have a clue. As I sit at the rail, I order up a Courvoisier cognac to give me strength, and watch your every move intensely. Your eyes are so deep and sparkling with the joy of the...

Added 13 Oct 2014 | Category Love Stories | Votes 19 | Avg Score 4.95 | Views 5,121 | 20 Comments

May I Love You?

May I Love You? May I stop here before you, And linger a while? May I ask you to dance, And get a big smile? May I reach for you gently, Your palm now in mine? May I place my hand here, Right at your side? May we step so very slowly, then quickly like this? May we speak in hot tango, Our moving, sweet bliss? May I dare to catch you, And hold you like this? May...

Added 02 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 29 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,262 | 31 Comments

I Kissed A Butterfly

I kissed a butterfly, My lips made her weep. I whispered to a butterfly, "Go not to sleep! Just stay awake, Why, I can make you weep!" Butterfly kissed me back! So I then quickly licked her, Most tenderly and sweet. She gushed with her excitement.  I can not be discreet, My heart was pouding loudly While kneeling at her feet, Like a suckling new born calf Right at its...

Added 04 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 25 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,364 | 22 Comments

My Love Calls Me Teddy

My love calls me "Teddy" Her heart calling mine I can never resist it Her voice is divine My love calls me "Teddy" A smile to my face As if she affirms me With her sweet, loving grace My love calls me "Teddy" My soul becomes tender It sends me to Heaven My life I would send her My spirit sends roses Bright red in bouquet For sending her blessing to "Have a...

Added 08 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 23 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,110 | 22 Comments

I Am Rom

I am Rom, My life it doth fly, Through hither and yonder, We ride you and I. Through the earth’s golden valleys, To the mountains above, We hang, heads in sorrow, No-“where” to call home. Twas ever a “one day,” A moment of bliss, Saw first my “Dark Eyes,” In the heavens domed skies. Stars all a glitter, The augury told, Fate it embraced me, My heart...

Added 28 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 15 | Avg Score 4.67 | Views 903 | 13 Comments

Damned Ole Black Hole

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Added 10 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,141 | 14 Comments

Take My Sweet Lips, Babe

Take my sweet lips, babe Every gentle pore Let them make open Your tightly locked door Know that you'll want them The spirit they show No, not beneath them Are passions like snow? Just sweet, soft and tender Lips warm to your heart Then over your body They’ll warm every part Your face, oh so precious Your breasts so divine Legs soft as smooth satin Core sacred,...

Added 07 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 13 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,330 | 12 Comments

If thou would be here with me

If thou would be here with me Wearing silk eggshell flows I would have played Pachelbel’s Cannon Taken your hand as if a sweet rose Roaming ‘cross the dance floor In sweet flowing elegance The candle lights flickering Illuminating your face Every delicate feature Alive in its grace… Your heart beat I’d know it As it races like mine Look to each other And see the divine Your...

Added 06 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 11 | Avg Score 5 | Views 865 | 11 Comments

I Love You Suzy

Eyes so light blue Like the heavens above Stole my heart away Sweet gestures of love Lips made for kissing Wear an endearing sweetness A kindness there shining I see my completeness Your skin is like satin Your face oh so soft Slight brush of my hand Just sends me aloft Gold hair is so lovely Curves gently round your face Caressing and holding Thy head, as...

Added 30 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 12 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,039 | 11 Comments

Just One Little Finger

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Added 05 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 17 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,791 | 18 Comments

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