About Dancewithme


I strongly stand by the Human Rights of all people, and the equal rights of women.

Remember that the kind of human being you are matters more to me than your cup size.

[b]Before I even begin, I am 61 years old. If that turns you off then stay away. I am not interested in anyone who has decided ahead of time, that because of my age I am not of interest to them.[b]
As for being my friend, I keep as close to twelve as I can. It is just a manageable figure that I can really get to know and really care about, maybe even love to bits! If you are new, then I will try to get close to you, not just for sexual reasons (yet I am a man and do like cyber-play with people I care about if they are interested), but my primary reason for wanting to know you better is because I sense some kind of chemistry between us, some really nice things for us both can develop. That can be of almost any kind. It is pretty normal I think to see where such things go, don't you think? Please don't think I have a one track mind! If you do not like where things are going in our friendship, say goodbye to me.
I am not a god who is always going to get it right. But I do try to welcome you into my world.
Obviously in the fog of this life, I can not guarantee anyone anything but my best shot. I hope you will let me into your heart and world too.


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22 Jan 2018 15:34
Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, dancing, Great Women, Sabrmetrics, art, science, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, boxing, world cultures, linguistics, history, and many or much more.
My friends interests are of interest to me too.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc. Levinas, "Otherwise than Being." Locke, "Second Treatise of Government." Emily Dickinson's poetry(!!).
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language. See above.
Favorite Movies:
Far too many to list. I do watch the classics more by now.
Favourite TV Shows:
I watch very little TV. I may just get rid of it someday soon.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV. Sports I prefer to see in person, especially with a friend now but so much playing. I am not just a smart guy but a playful man who loves the exhilaration and love of life, and that one special woman.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, Latin, gypsy, folk, ballet, international (any culture or language), no borders in musical taste. I even have made studied of Rap.


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Topic: Guys your feelings on pubic hair on women
Posted: 15 Jan 2018 15:58

how do you feel about merkins, then.

I feel it could be great to rub two kitties' noses at the same time. <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/icon_cat.gif" alt="cat"> <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/icon_cat.gif" alt="cat">

Topic: When a new piece just devours you.
Posted: 15 Jan 2018 11:32

I know a man of 80 who is still working on his first novel.

This is my fourth but the other three took over a decade each too.
One of the problems I have is that I love to take on subjects no one else has been able to take on, so I have that reputation as one of what one of my early research assistants said make me "the great problem solver." So it serves me right for having a disproportionate sense of what I can do. It is no that I can't figure things out over time but one can only get so much onto paper in a lifetime. It is a form of stupidity some of us have.
It is usually called "poor time management skills."
THAT is a major piece of all creativity.

Topic: Older men, younger women
Posted: 15 Jan 2018 05:44

Just as an observation, studies have shown that women commonly reach their sexual peak in their thirties, while men more often reach theirs around eighteen. I don't disagree with these statistics. I think I reached my peak about that time. However, for me I don't notice that the peak ever really went down all that much. I've retained virtually the same amount of interest over the years.

One thing to take away from this observation, though, is often older men are attracted to younger women who have not reached their pinnacle of sexual needs, while young ladies are attracted to men who may be losing their urges. In an ideal world the ladies in their thirties and forties would be having fun with those young fellows just reaching their twenties.

Now I know why I was a young guy who got infatuated with my lady classmates but lusted after women in their 30s.

Topic: How does if feel if you dont cum for a long time?
Posted: 15 Jan 2018 05:38

Even more LONELY ...

You tell 'em Smoocher.

Topic: What type of arses turn you on?
Posted: 15 Jan 2018 05:35

have some women friends here with asses (arses) to die for, but they all have different sizes and shapes. Besides, if I named them here I would get a free ticket to my eternal dirt nap!

Topic: have you ever regretted have sex in the middle of having sex
Posted: 15 Jan 2018 05:25

It wasnt necessarily bad, but no matter what I did, she was just annoyed with it... Looking back, as much as she wanted sex, when we started, she didnt want it... As far as finishing? her annoyance was such that it caused me to lose my erection... Of course then it was my fault we couldnt have sex... C'est la vie!

Been there sir with my Ex many times. It destroyed my self-esteem and it took many years to overcome and realize I can make a lady scream or moan or both (+) with some loving, sexy women. It is called "e-masculation."

Topic: About those bikinis
Posted: 15 Jan 2018 05:10

I never felt sexy in things like that, just stupid - I wore a one-piece, with a t-shirt and shorts... what skin? LOL . . . I'm showing more skin in my avatar than I ever did on any beach.

However - I have helped a rather slender girl buy a bikini. The biggest pain in the ass ever. took longer than when I go bra shopping. Seriously. XS is not a common size - and I still had to alter it with a sewing machine to take it in. Total nightmare. I see girls in 2-pieces and that's all I can think of, the fitting hell.

...and what you show in your avatar is pure heaven to my eyes. The jet black curly waterfall of hair beckons to the long smooth stretch of soft, luscious finger-tingling skin, leaving me to pray that just one rock of those sensuous hips will turn your jpeg into a gif!

Topic: Alphabetical Adjectives
Posted: 14 Jan 2018 02:48


Topic: What was the question?
Posted: 14 Jan 2018 02:42

Couldn't you fly them to a nice spot under an apple tree?

Topic: Last one is the Sexiest (Bringing back an old but much loved thread)
Posted: 14 Jan 2018 02:38

While Banes1 is out golfing, I rightfully declare my throne!

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The Hayloft

In the dance hall, the lights are dim amber as you are walking back to your seat after a few fast dances. This scene is so familiar to me now, yet it never gets old. I've got it bad for you, yet you don't have a clue. As I sit at the rail, I order up a Courvoisier cognac to give me strength, and watch your every move intensely. Your eyes are so deep and sparkling with the joy of the...

Added 13 Oct 2014 | Category Love Stories | Votes 23 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,873 | 23 Comments

May I Love You?

May I Love You? May I stop here before you, And linger a while? May I ask you to dance, And get a big smile? May I reach for you gently, Your palm now in mine? May I place my hand here, Right at your side? May we step so very slowly, then quickly like this? May we speak in hot tango, Our moving, sweet bliss? May I dare to catch you, And hold you like this? May...

Added 02 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 28 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,615 | 31 Comments

I Kissed A Butterfly

I kissed a butterfly, My lips made her weep. I whispered to a butterfly, "Go not to sleep! Just stay awake, Why, I can make you weep!" Butterfly kissed me back! So I then quickly licked her, Most tenderly and sweet. She gushed with her excitement.  I can not be discreet, My heart was pouding loudly While kneeling at her feet, Like a suckling new born calf Right at its...

Added 04 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 24 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,637 | 23 Comments

Just One Little Finger

Just one little finger That's all that it takes To make my love wiggle To give her the shakes... Just one little finger Poking here, jabbing there Makes her so sticky All over down there! Just one little finger It's sucked in, then two She kisses all my fingers With succulent goo! So if you have fingers And your love is about You'd better offer So she doesn't pout! You don't...

Added 05 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 18 | Avg Score 5 | Views 2,135 | 19 Comments

My Love Calls Me Teddy

My love calls me "Teddy" Her heart calling mine I can never resist it Her voice is divine My love calls me "Teddy" A smile to my face As if she affirms me With her sweet, loving grace My love calls me "Teddy" My soul becomes tender It sends me to Heaven My life I would send her My spirit sends roses Bright red in bouquet For sending her blessing to "Have a...

Added 08 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 24 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,352 | 25 Comments


Honey? Is that you? I can't see in the night Though the hopes and the dreams Are still burning bright In the brightness of day In the darkness of night I love you I love you But you are away… Should you come to me now While my heart still knows how To love life in fun Our victories won… While the smile on my heart Holds on to be ready For your first Hello Its timbre I’ll know… Who...

Added 29 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 10 | Avg Score 5 | Views 2,274 | 11 Comments

Take My Sweet Lips, Babe

Take my sweet lips, babe Every gentle pore Let them make open Your tightly locked door Know that you'll want them The spirit they show No, not beneath them Are passions like snow? Just sweet, soft and tender Lips warm to your heart Then over your body They’ll warm every part Your face, oh so precious Your breasts so divine Legs soft as smooth satin Core sacred,...

Added 07 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,564 | 13 Comments

I Love You Suzy

Eyes so light blue Like the heavens above Stole my heart away Sweet gestures of love Lips made for kissing Wear an endearing sweetness A kindness there shining I see my completeness Your skin is like satin Your face oh so soft Slight brush of my hand Just sends me aloft Gold hair is so lovely Curves gently round your face Caressing and holding Thy head, as...

Added 30 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 13 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,243 | 12 Comments

I Am Rom

I am Rom, My life it doth fly, Through hither and yonder, We ride you and I. Through the earth’s golden valleys, To the mountains above, We hang, heads in sorrow, No-“where” to call home. Twas ever a “one day,” A moment of bliss, Saw first my “Dark Eyes,” In the heavens domed skies. Stars all a glitter, The augury told, Fate it embraced me, My heart...

Added 28 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 1,170 | 13 Comments

Damned Ole Black Hole

Now before you go yelling And pummeling me Just hear these words Sooth sings unto thee! Damned ole black hole It's following me Wherever I go: By the tree swing Down at the lee But hardest of all It lays beside me… Every night, when‘s time for sleep The hole gets a bit deeper Swallowing me All night it stays there Calling to me With the voice of my angel Who once dreamed with me. ‘twas...

Added 10 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 13 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,355 | 14 Comments

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