Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic Suction toys/Pumps
Posted 09 Feb 2012 10:57

This is a diferent kind of suction toy...

Omg... this is brilliant. I always feel like I'm going to break the shower head!

And it's probably convenient enough to tuck into a little purse for those 'just incase' occasions. That certainly lets a guy know that you are serious about good fucking when you whip those grips out of your bag.

Love it! icon_biggrin

Topic how many of you...
Posted 09 Feb 2012 07:30

You should ask the ladies to hand shadow cam. That is not very threatening. In fact it's just plain nutty. Women love nutty non-threatening guys. You know when you see that ugly guy with a super hot chick for a girlfriend or wife? They probably started out hand shadow camming!!!!

I hand shadow for my wife sometimes at home and I can make her laugh so hard that sometimes she snorts. Now that is really funny and she'd kill me for telling that!

I prefer puppetry of the penis. But maybe that's more of a second-date webcam night. clown

Topic would you pose for nudes ? artistix or personal?
Posted 09 Feb 2012 06:47

I've done both 'artistic' as well as personal... from artistic/subtle professional model shots for a photographer friend, to self-taken camera-timer pics, to the ever-popular self-pics in the mirror (yeah, I know, but they do get points for spontaneity).

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 08 Feb 2012 20:52

Topic how many of you...
Posted 08 Feb 2012 20:25

um.. not a gal, but lessee....
1. profile in textspeak = bad
2. avatar pic of topless self, with hint of "package" = bad
3. this is a writing site. no stories posted = bad
4. see above. no votes or comments to stories = bad
5. first forum post asks for webcam sex = bad

I respectfully suggest the one yes vote you got, my man, was a mistake. Just sayin'

Technically he's only been on the site for five days, so I'd give him a break on a few of those points. You don't have to vote/read/write in order to enjoy the social component of Lush.

I also think the Av is fine... In fact I encourage more men to use topless avatars of themselves. 3601

Topic Has this ever happened to you?
Posted 08 Feb 2012 20:12

I see nothing wrong with asking whether other people have experienced the same thing or talking about the 'jizz in the pants' thing. Pretty much, it's the ability to cum without using your hands which some women also have the ability to do (although it ends up being applauded in the female gender).

And don't worry Beck, you can post as many times in this thread as you want in reply to people's comments.

Jizz on, my friend! thumbup

Topic Let's be nicer/friendlier to newbies?
Posted 08 Feb 2012 20:05

This thread needs a fish

Bitching out the newbies isn't a competitive Lush Sport.

People seem a little edgy lately, no?

Topic how many of you...
Posted 08 Feb 2012 18:30

Ooooooh! I fucked this up!!!!!

I clicked on a 'Dancing Doll' post and I thought SHE was the one who was asking??????

And then I thought it was hysterically funny that everyone said no!!!!

('Cos let's face it, if the Dancing Doll sent you a postcard you'd eat it just 'cos she licked the stamp!!!)

XX Steph

Best! You always make me laugh out loud... Mwah! laughing8

Topic how many of you...
Posted 08 Feb 2012 18:09

lol yikes :p my bad i was just interested in all of your responses lol but the truth hurts :l

I think you picked the wrong demographic, that's all.

Most girls aren't going to webcam with a random guy and get excited about mutual masturbation unless the guy is depositing cash into her paypal account first. It's kind of like publicly soliciting for a free webcam girl, instead of being more selective and trying to get to know a girl first and finessing that kind of question later when she's already into you or intrigued/turned-on etc.

Don't take it personally.

Topic Something fun for all you Canadians out there :)
Posted 08 Feb 2012 13:02

Loved this... laughing8

Topic is it too much? is there too much?
Posted 08 Feb 2012 12:55

OMG, Just what I needed. More panties to buy, 200 here I come, LOL!! And I just love the color choices.

Are they truly one-size fits all? I have tried others before and they always seem to be too loose on me.

They truly are one-size-fits all. Go with 'low-rise' if you're short-waisted, slim or petite and a bigger or taller girl should go with 'regular rise'. They are literally the most comfortable thing you will ever wear. And yeah, the colour choices appeal to the little girl in me. LOL It's like candy!

They sell them at all the good department stores too... Holt Renfrew in Canada and most lingerie boutiques. Not sure in the US, but I'd assume Saks, Barney's, Macy's etc. They are extremely popular and quite a well-known brand over the past few years.

Topic Who and Why?
Posted 08 Feb 2012 12:51

Poison Ivy.. . glasses8

Topic is it too much? is there too much?
Posted 08 Feb 2012 12:27

Not to sound like a crack dealer here... but... have you ever tried the line of Hanky Panty low-rise thongs? If not.... you should try them. You'll really like them. *looks around shiftily*... the first one is always free. clown


You think I'm kidding, but I'm not. If out of 84 panties you haven't tried this brand, you may end up hitting the coveted triple-digit mark before long.

I used to be a bit of a panty-whore, but then I found the perfect 'everyday' style of panty and haven't really been that tempted since. Then again, I have a ridiculous number of Hanky Pankys in an endless assortment of collectible colours and there seems to be a must-have new shade of hot pink with every season's colour range.

I do have others - cute boyshorts, fancy La Perla, and Vic-Secret cheekies etc, but the Hankys are my addiction and pretty much the only thing any of the girls in my circle of friends wears anymore too (they make the perfect random bday gift for friends because they are one-size-fits-all... or uhm.. "most".. lol).

I say... if you want to have your panties... have them. They are like purses and shoes. They're fun things that make us happy and go with everything. And who can deny the little rush you get when you pull on a pair of sexy never-worn brand new panties. Indulge, indulge! And I'll see you in panty rehab later... Shhh

Topic Bad Habits
Posted 08 Feb 2012 08:25

I've been known to cancel on people a lot - from social outings to appointments to dates to general plans.

I never miss the really important things that I commit to, but I often back out of random things last minute if I'm not in the mood. My friends know this upfront about me though so are rarely shocked, but it's still a terrible and too-frequent habit.

Topic Collared submissives
Posted 07 Feb 2012 15:21

Topic Amount of Cum v. Size of Lass
Posted 07 Feb 2012 13:53

Nope, can't say that correlation holds true.

I'm a small girl, tight and extra juicy.

Topic Pick a Dick tickets
Posted 07 Feb 2012 13:10

This is exactly like something I would do...

You can see she can barely say, "I'm a judge at the sausage competition" with a straight face.

Bet she has an account on Lush... clown

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 07 Feb 2012 10:17

Topic Swingers club visit
Posted 07 Feb 2012 07:09

Yes, and I have gone to one before - but it was a pre-screened, high-end swinger's party.

A friend went to a more random swinger's club and wasn't that impressed with it.

None of us would be considered 'in the lifestyle'.

I think it's fun to check out, similar to going to a fetish party because you're curious what goes on there. Why not? Nobody forces you to do anything you're not comfortable with at these parties, and it's guaranteed to be more entertaining than your typical night at the same bar/club you always end up going to.

Topic voyeurism?
Posted 07 Feb 2012 07:04

How hot is he?

If he's really hot, I'll watch. If he isn't, I couldn't care less.

Topic What's a good size...
Posted 07 Feb 2012 07:03

The size that when he's hard, you can use his dick as a towel rack and then you get a nice surprise when you reach for one when you're getting out of the shower.

And no, I'm not kidding. Shhh

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 06 Feb 2012 17:35

Topic Anal pain? :(
Posted 06 Feb 2012 15:05

The best lube I've used was Astroglide. It's very thick and stays lubricated a long time

True... the right lube is important, especially with a more well-endowed guy.

There are also special 'anal-lubes' out there too for anyone that is interested. They are usually thicker and messier but might be worth trying if regular lube seems too watery or insignificant.

FYI from Wikipedia:
Anal-specific Lubricants
Many lubricants are safe for anal sex, but there are products that are specifically marketed or designed to enhance enjoyment of anal sex. Often, this is simply a thicker gel rather than a liquid. This thicker consistency is preferred because it helps the lubricant stay in place. Some lubricants contain benzocaine, an anesthetic. However, the use of any numbing agent for anal penetration is not recommended as a lack of sensation makes accidental injury more likely. In addition, benzocaine can cause an allergic reaction in those with an allergy to PABA (4-Aminobenzoic acid). Some lubricants are conveniently packaged for ease of application. Many of these products such as Astroglide Shooters have been pulled from the market recently due to FDA Medical Device Requirements. Products containing benzocaine can numb all body parts with which they come in contact.

Topic Cute kid or future terror/drama queen in for a let down?
Posted 06 Feb 2012 15:00

I love how they use the terms "pageant crack" and "special juice" for pixie sticks and mountain dew at these pageants.

It's like an after hours club for kids. They just need a DJ in the corner spinning tracks while everyone wears sunglasses under the strobe lights and does lines of sugar in the back corners.

I've seen one or two episodes of this show and I'm always amazed that people are willing to submit themselves to obvious ridicule and judgment by the general public. It's one thing to be Tila Tequila or Kim Kardashian and know what reality-tv means to your reputation, but these kids don't understand that people are gawking and laughing at them rather than cheering on what they're doing.

The whole pageant scene at this age should be banned - it does way more harm than good... all to satisfy the insecure egos of stage-mothers, rather than promote a positive life-learning experience for their children. Put them into dance classes, gymnastics or get a modelling agent where they can be in photos where they actually look like children . The whole super-glitz, pancake-makeup, frosty glamour tart look is beyond wrong. I saw one clip where they were dye-tinting a 4 year old's eyelashes because they were too blond. In my view, the whole thing seems like child abuse.

Topic Anal
Posted 06 Feb 2012 08:12

Nope, can't say I've ever been refused.

Topic Anal pain? :(
Posted 05 Feb 2012 12:50

For me it's not the fact it goes in. I don't mind. It's the movement of going in and out especially as my significant other is rather well endowed and he gets bigger. Even when I'm relaxed and well lubed it is still painful.

So any suggestions guys?

For me, if a guy is on the very well-endowed side, anal probably isn't going to be on the menu.

I'd try it once - slowly with lots of lube - but I really think some guys are not meant to be inside an asshole. Those types are usually far and few between though, and mostly hang out on the internet, where we all know that legions of men with anaconda-sized dicks apparently reside.

I guess there are those 'buttplug trainers' that graduate up in size if it's that important, but if you're relaxed, deeply lubed and still unable to enjoy it after the first few minutes, I think it's just something to chalk up to the fact that an ass isn't a 'one-size-fits-all' orifice.

Topic Happy Birthday to Dancing_Doll!!!!
Posted 04 Feb 2012 14:34

Hey Miss pretty Dancing_Doll - I'll be at Pravda Night club tonight!!! If you stop by, I'll buy you a few, and your sexy lil girlfriends too!

Hope you had fun last night! Haven't been there in a while. 952-67

Topic The Use of the Word "Baby"
Posted 04 Feb 2012 14:29

It may be a regional/country thing, too....and maybe a bit of age also. Now, that does being called "Mz. Rachel" or "Miss Ashleigh" sound. I'm old as of God's playmates, in fact...and I would likely use the Mz./Ms. or Miss when first addressing you. "Honey" will occasionally slip out, but only in a really friendly/playful situation and I kinda/sorta knew you. I guess "Babe/Baby" lost its appeal to me from all the fuel desk clerks using it...without really any friendly meaning in it....when I was a commercial truck driver.

So...bye BABY SPRITE...and if you happen to see them, give that BABY DOLL and MISS SUGAH CAT a big ole hug from me. (and we didn't even talk about "Sugar/Sugah")


I should clarify my original post... I am good with being called babe/baby by someone who is intimate with me (or is a friend). Strangers or casual acquaintances should just call me Ashleigh. No Ms. or Miss.... Just Ashleigh. Unless they need to get my attention, in which case, "excuse me, Miss. You dropped your scarf." is fine.

I'm thinking more of a boyfriend saying, "hey babe, how was your day" or "oh baby, I need to fuck that tight little pussy right now"... that kind of thing. I'm more used to those terms than a guy saying, "honey" or "sweetie". I've never been a fan of really cloying or sugary pet-names.

Context and intention has a lot to do with it. If it's an old person saying, "thanks, lovey" or "that's a beautiful necklace, dear", I think it's sweet. If it's some douchebag calling me 'babydoll' as I walk by on the street, it's lame.

My general feeling is... if you don't know the person very well, then just use their actual name.

Topic Have you ever reversed gender roles with you mate?
Posted 04 Feb 2012 10:43

Nope. Not my thing either.

Topic Erotic pen names
Posted 04 Feb 2012 10:40

I have gone through this too. Definitely avoid the porn-name route or anything that sounds too made-up or sex-fused. I'd just go with a masculine normal sounding name and base it more on the style of your erotica. If you're more into romance-erotica, maybe you'd lean to more of a seductive/soap-opera type name, and if you write edgier/hardcore stuff, maybe you'd be better to keep it clean/crisp and strong.

If you want to be taken seriously with writing, you need a serious name. Even if you look at porn these days, everyone chooses real/normal names. Think Manuel Ferrara and Evan Stone rather than Ben Dover or Seymore Butts.

You may also want to go back in your family tree for a name that you can pull that will give you more of an attachment to it, and make it more personal for you.