Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic Health, Fitness and Eco-Friendly Trends
Posted 12 Dec 2014 07:15

I'm also obsessed with Lululemon's Vinyasa Scarf. I'm a bit of a scarf hoarder - these are my fave. You can wear them in a lot of ways and even turn them into a little shrug or vest. And they're soooo soft.


Topic Body Odor Airplane Passenger - What do you think?
Posted 12 Dec 2014 05:23

I was on an 18 hr flight once, when a sweet old lady in pastels, seated beside me, decided to kick it up and get completely hammered. When the flight attendant finally cut her off later that night, she grumbled about it for about an hour and then promptly vomited on herself. Twice. The flight attendant suggested that she go clean herself up, to which she said, no, she was just fine using napkins, no need to go to an actual bathroom. This forced the attendant to go to Plan B - namely handing her hot washcloths with tongs and providing a waste bag. I'm sure you can imagine the stank coming off this woman hours later. She didn't seem to mind though, because she tried to order herself a Vodka breakfast (denied).

The attendant apologized to us profusely and said he would move us (or her) if possible but the flight was completely full. So... yeah, it was a matter of endurance. I sprayed perfume in the sleeve of my sweater and continued to inhale into it when I needed a smell-break.

If it's a matter of BO (and I've dealt with that too on flights), you can ask to change seats, however if it's a packed flight, you might be SOL. Breathe through your mouth and count down those minutes.

Posted 11 Dec 2014 18:52

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Happy Birthday, Milik!

Hope you have a fantastic day!

Topic PicoBong™ launches the TRANSFORMER™ - plus enter a contest to win one!
Posted 11 Dec 2014 18:40

That does look very fun indeed...

It's a good one! I think most people have the basics, so it's nice to see something a little different. The bending/twisting portion is very sturdy and well-made, so it looks like it'll hold up to a lot of fun 'abuse'. ;)

Topic PicoBong™ launches the TRANSFORMER™ - plus enter a contest to win one!
Posted 11 Dec 2014 18:31

Is it as big as it looks in the photo? If I had one of these I think I'd end up using it to change the TV channel or scratch my back. I'm lazy like that. :)

They should have called it the 'Double Whammy'. lol

Haha... well... it's big enough. It's 24 inches with about 17 inches in between the vibrating 'knobs'. The knobs aren't scary big - they're a nice size but without being intimidating. But yeah, you could get a nice vibrating back scratch with it or put on a dirty cheerleader outfit and twirl it like a baton. :)

Topic Health, Fitness and Eco-Friendly Trends
Posted 11 Dec 2014 08:28

Interesting stuff in this thread!

I'm living abroad right now, and I'm loving the Uniqlo HeatTech thermals (as shown below, but I prefer darker colours).

I like how uber thin it is, yet it's really effective in keeping me warm during training and matches outdoors. I can just slip a normal sports tee and leggings over and I'm good to go in the winter :) I guess this is less of an obsession and more of an adaptation; I'm used to playing in a tee and shorts back home where it's 31-32 degrees C. I'm not complaining though, since leggings flatter every girl's legs and bum.

I like those!

Reminds me of my fave thin-tees for workout, running, general living - the Lululemon Swiftlys - they're lightweight and sweat-wicking. I get so much use of them - perfect for layering in cooler weather and unlayering when things have warmed up.

Topic PicoBong™ launches the TRANSFORMER™ - plus enter a contest to win one!
Posted 11 Dec 2014 07:57

Just adding my formal review to this post. I have to say - this is a pretty awesome toy, and great value for the money, in my opinion.

For a long time, I've been a fan of LELO Soraya and have always thought that a toy that combined anal/clit play would be fabulous. This toy let's you play like this, and bends and twists into whatever position works best for your individual body (or bodies). Everyone's anatomy is a little different, so being able to adjust this as you go is pretty awesome. And it's great for both solo and couples fun. :)



I’ve finally had an opportunity to play with a PicoBong™ TRANSFORMER™!

My first thoughts were – wow, this is bigger than I was expecting – in a good way. This is a solid toy and it feels well-made. There’s a nice weight to it. Bending and flexing it is very easy and it holds shape effortlessly. There’s no learning curve with this toy, so it’s very intuitive. It has three buttons: one to increase vibration strength, one to decrease, and an ‘M’ button to cycle through the ten different stimulation modes.

At this point I’m having to hold back my excitement over this toy because – ahem… it’s FABULOUS. In fact, it’s shooting right up into the upper echelons of my very favourite toys ever. The reason is simple – this ingenious device does soooo many things! What’s even better is that you can switch up what it’s doing in mid-play with barely a pause. There’s nothing worse than having to take an untimely break when things are getting hot and intense, in order to reach for another toy to do something else, or realizing that you wish you had a buttplug handy etc. The oval-shaped ends on the TRANSFORMER™ are really the perfect size, in my opinion. I am not a size-queen when it comes to toys and with strong vibrations like this one has, it definitely fills you up nicely.

If you’re playing solo, you can turn it into a “rabbit vibe” (amazing!) or if you’re into a bit of anal fun, try double-penetration, or switch things up and have the hot-spots be an anal-and-clit combo (double amazing!). There’s no rabbit vibe on the market that I’m aware of, that can offer this kind of diversity, so it really just depends on what you’re in the mood for. And if your mood changes mid-masturbation, this toy will accommodate your sexual whims.

If you’re playing with a partner, there are more combinations and positions to try. It works as a cock-ring and a prostate massager and you can even hook yourselves up in tandem. There’s enough flexibility, length and bend to the device that it should work for most couples in a variety of positions. I’m thinking that this would be a great double-ended dildo for girl/girl play. Two guys would have fun with it too. And if you happen to enjoy sex parties, Hedonism or alternative scenes, this can double as a necklace/choker or a double wrapped arm cuff that would be perfect to have on hand at exactly the right moment. Ok yes, I’m kind of joking. But not really. You’re only limited by your own imagination.

If you’re bored with the typical vibrators on the market today or looking to pick up something unique and multi-functional to add to your stash, I’d highly recommend the TRANSFORMER™. I really don’t think you can go wrong with this one!

Topic Is Jealousy Good or Bad for Relationships?
Posted 10 Dec 2014 04:35

I think jealousy is a natural reaction when someone intrudes on your perceived territory. If you show extreme jealousy then she finds you weak and unsure of yourself. If you show none, then she feels like you don't care.

Yup, this pretty much sums it up perfectly. A little is good, a lot is bad.

Topic The Walking Dead
Posted 30 Nov 2014 21:14

Topic Suggestions from the ladies please
Posted 30 Nov 2014 07:24

Here's the thing... some women like to talk (often) about how they need to work out, they're feeling fat etc - even though nobody can tell the difference and they still look great. Sometimes this is meant to elicit praise - ie. no, you look amazing, you're so skinny etc. You'll see women do this more with female friends, but sometimes with their guys as well. If we're talking the difference of literally a couple of pounds, actually confirming that you see this extra weight on her *may* backfire on you and she'll end up upset or paranoid about it going forward. Depending on how sensitive she is to her weight, that might result in lights-out sex, more emotional eating, being self-conscious, lowered self esteem, latent resentment etc.

So... it really depends on what type of girl she is. If she's very health conscious and usually works out a lot and likes to stay active, she'll probably react more like Buz's take on it. She'll see it as a matter-of-fact assessment and and get to solving the problem by stepping up her workouts, curbing calories etc. without feeling all doom and gloom about it.

If she's not someone who regularly works out or counts calories or who - in any way - is sensitive about her weight, or has been a yo-yo dieter in the past - I'd tread lightly. Maybe just say that she looks great to you but you've been meaning to get more active as well, so turn it into something you can do together. Or do one of those New Year's resolutions pacts. If you like her body with more curves, make sure she knows that and still feels sexy and wanted - but support her fitness goals in positive ways and help her take the pound off in a healthy way.

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 30 Nov 2014 05:48

Has anyone tried using a battery operated cleansers? I'm think of buying one that has the dermabrasion brushes and massager pads, now that I'm 40 I want to step up my skin care routine

Funny you mention that - I was almost going to start a new thread just on those, because I was wondering if they're all that as well.

I haven't tried any of the them - the supposedly holy grail Clarisonic, or the Forreo line. I have used a manual face brush off/on at times, but I find that it 'over-exfoliates' my sensitive skin and then I end up with raw looking skin which eventually break-outs a bit. Or maybe I'm just being over-zealous with it.

For as many "omg, Clarisonic changed my life" testimonials, apparently there's a growing body of people turning up at their Dermatologists after using Clarisonic because it 'wrecked their skin' and caused thin, peely skin and acne flares etc. Now - maybe these people are using it too often or too intensively, but yeah... that's what's kept me on the fence about investing in one. I use good exfoliators and enzyme peels now and my skin is smooth and looks good - I'm afraid of possibly messing that up.

And then I wonder - does it really make that much of a difference if you already use a good cleanser and exfoliating products? They're a pricey investment.

I read on a skincare blog where a few people have said that they have Clarisonics but prefer this basic silicone cleansing pad thing on Sephora and no longer use their Clarisonics. I haven't picked one up yet, but I was surprised that it seems to get a lot of love.

I'm curious what others have to say on the topic as well!

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "The Morning After the Night Before" Competition
Posted 25 Nov 2014 12:11

Congrats to all the fabulous writers! 3601

Topic The Walking Dead
Posted 24 Nov 2014 11:01

Mid-season finale next week and I hear it's going to be fairly brutal. confused1

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Actor Norman Reedus told TV Guide that the events of The Walking Dead's midseason finale, airing on November 30th, were so emotional that he genuinely cried for an hour before he was able to shoot the episode's finale scenes.

Reedus describes the hour's final moments as so devastating that they unleashed an intense wave of feelings before the cameras rolled. "I sat on an apple box with my head between my legs and just balled for an hour," he says. "I really wanted not to tear up during — I wanted to be like I wasted every tear in my body before we started shooting — so I just sat there and cried and cried and cried."

That... that's not good. What could possibly be so awful for Daryl that Reedus himself was forced to sob himself out before shooting?
Obviously, not a lot of options come to mind, and they all revolve around a few specific characters dying.

Fingers crossed that nobody's crushes meet an untimely end. :(

Topic would u let a man suck your dick if no one would find out?
Posted 22 Nov 2014 06:44

Out of curiosity, where was it?

In the 'Ask Readers' section. This is definitely a better fit.

Topic would u let a man suck your dick if no one would find out?
Posted 22 Nov 2014 04:44

*Moved to 'Ask The Guys'*

Topic What's your favourite comfort food?
Posted 21 Nov 2014 13:33

If it's a rainy, crap day.... tomato soup and grilled cheese sandwich is my fave.

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 21 Nov 2014 06:10

Are any facial scrubs better than others. I like something really gritty or it doesn't feel like it does any good. I've always just bought whatever is the best price. My wife fusses at me about that. So is there any real difference?

Buz, I'm pretty sure they made this just for you! icon_biggrin

Bull Dog actually gets some good reviews in Men's Health and other men's blog-ezines. The scrub has the little gritty beads that you'll probably like.

As well - this Kyoku scrub gets rave reviews and is a best-seller.

I think the gritty scrubs are ok for guys because your skin is tougher than females. If you're sensitive though, I would go for the enzyme peel exfoliators (this is what I use). It less harsh and doesn't strip the skin. As well - once a week exfoliating masks are great for leaving skin baby soft. Not many guys are into masks though.

Topic Birthday Greetings To TWO of my favourite members of The Mod Squad, Raven Star and Sweet As Candy
Posted 20 Nov 2014 18:15

How did I miss this thread?

Happy Birthday!! Hope you both had fabulous days of celebration, love, and lots 'o cake! :)

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 20 Nov 2014 13:39

Did you know that there's something similar to Black Friday that occurs the day after Xmas in most places?

I'm not good at waiting when I get something in my head. Embarassed

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 20 Nov 2014 10:43

Here's the demo I mentioned earlier. It's long, but thorough:

I watched the video - fun. I wanted to spank her though for not taking off her mascara before doing the eye treatment mask. lol. I'm not sure I'd splurge for the eye one just because it seems pricy for just the eye-pods. I am, however, seriously lemming the green Powermud one. I'm now dreaming of a Black Friday or Xmas special at Sephora to justify it.

I use a foundation brush as well. It just makes sense.

This was the youtube vid that convinced me. I really this girl's videos - she has some great tutorials and reviews.


Topic Skincare 101
Posted 20 Nov 2014 09:51

I was waaaaay ahead of you on the demos. There's a really good one where a chick has all 5 of their masks, and she demos them all. It's great for GlamGlow evangelizing...seriously, they should hire her!

Anyhoo, to make a long story short, you owe me $69. Here's why:

That's the set from Sephora, but it was out of stock, so I actually bought it from I just thought the Sephora picture was better.

Dude! I totally wanted that kit as well - but yeah - out of stock on Sephora and in my local Sephora store too (they sold the last one the day before I went in... arghh!). I was going to wait to hunt it down but I wanted to use my Sephora discount on the masks, and I figured I'd want full-size anyway, so I bought them separately. That is a great kit though! You'll like the full-size Thirstymud - it has a hint of coconut scent to it - feels vaguely tropical, which is why I love it. Super hydrating too. I had some dryness on my chin and it totally zapped it.

The Youthmud has some bits of leaves in it (tea leaves, I think) so be forewarned - you will look kinda scary when you put it on. :p

Topic Poor mans Sybian using hitachi wand
Posted 20 Nov 2014 09:25

And what about storage? Do you just leave it in plain sight? Or do you break it down and bring it back out every time you're ready to use it? And if so, how long does that take? Overall it just seems like more trouble than it's worth.

This is why every home needs a "Sex Room" with a lock on the door. You can leave out the sybian, the sex swing, the dildo collection, whips and ropes, porn collection, video camera, sex dolls etc.

And no, I don't have one (yet). :(

The Sybian sounds like fun, but there's no way I'd spend that kind of cash on a sex toy.

Re the device to work with a Hitachi - is this similar to what you're talking about?

It looks like fun, but I think it's just a cushion/seat that you stick the Magic Wand into in order to get a ride type feeling... except it's still all clit-stimulation instead of penetration, so it doesn't seem like it would be all that similar. I'm guessing you can probably even make something like this at home if you're handy?

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 20 Nov 2014 09:06


You made this post just for me, didn't you? I know you did!

You know how I am about this sort of thing. I'm a DIY gal at heart, but I have/had my share of pre-made masks and such.

I've heard of GlamGlow, but don't know anyone personally who uses it, and it takes a lot of convincing before I try anything new for my face. Typically I try to trick friends into using them first, but lately I've been their go-to for skin care, so now they wait for me to make the first move. angry7


I had a deluxe sample of the YouthMud and Thirstymud from Sephora that I tried and was like - omg... this is fantastic! Then I started looking into all their masks. The Supermud is the one that gets the majority of the attention because it pulls the gunk from your pores and you can see it as it dries (google images - you'll be like ewww but wowww). So... I ended up making the GlamGlow investment and I really love all three of them. I have a sample of their most recent mask, but haven't tried it yet. I would recommend going to Sephora and getting samples first for sure - easiest way to know if you'll like it because they're pricey.

Their masks have won a ton of awards (listed below), which is what put me over the edge in wanting to test out all the hype. They totally delivered.

Topic if you had the chance to have two men
Posted 20 Nov 2014 08:33

I've done it once. It involved a lot of Tequila. And yes, it was all kinds of fun. :)

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 20 Nov 2014 08:29

I've been really getting into facial masks again lately - maybe because of the change in weather.

Has anyone tried the GlamGlow masks? They're freaking amazing! At the very least, everyone needs a little Supermud in their life. And Thirstymud is like a skin-holiday in a jar.

I also love the Pumpkin Enzyme Exfoliator mask by Peter Thomas Roth.

I'm always on the lookout for something skincare life-changing.

Any recommendations or favourites as far as masks go?

I know technically there are DIY recipes, but I'm always nervous about reactions or breakouts from those - especially when it comes to straight food items like yogurts, honey, unrefined oils or fruits etc.

Topic Boyish vs Manly
Posted 20 Nov 2014 08:13

I can go either way, but I'll admit I've always veered more toward the slightly boyish faces (Hemsworth, Beckham, DiCaprio, Pitt, Tom Brady, Ryan Reynolds, and all the hotties you listed in your post). Nothing overtly feminine though.

Age might play a bit of a factor with those pics as well. Guys tend to look more 'manly' as they mature, but I'm still drawn to boyish (or standard 'pretty boy') features on a man's face.

Topic Plagiarism alert
Posted 20 Nov 2014 07:46

Totally outrageous, Alan. I just got caught up on FB - let me know if there's anything I can do.

I've had my bio plagiarized in conjunction with stories before as well. Amazon is good at pulling books once offered proof by the author/copyright owner. Unfortunately I've found that pulling bios on various websites isn't as straight forward or seen as critically. One time I just rewrote my own because I couldn't be bothered fighting it and wasn't particularly attached to the verbiage anyway.

With this particular plagiarist - I literally couldn't believe what I was reading when I learned she had conducted an interview, discussing how she was inspired to 'write' a book that she had actually stolen from another author. Balls.

Posted 15 Nov 2014 05:04

Happy Birthday! :)

Topic Favorite Sounds
Posted 13 Nov 2014 15:01

Rain against a window.
Crackling fire.
Ocean surf.
A cello.
Puppy hiccups.

Topic PicoBong™ launches the TRANSFORMER™ - plus enter a contest to win one!
Posted 12 Nov 2014 11:14

This looks like a very fun new sex toy and it just launched today. I'm getting my hands on one later this month, so I'll do a proper review then, but I wanted to post this now incase anyone wants to enter their contest where you can win one of ten giveaways (all you need is a webcam).

This toy differentiates itself in that it's really a gender neutral, LGBT-friendly toy that looks to celebrate sexuality in all orientations - a true 'flexisexual' product that celebrates a 'no-labels' attitude.

Introducing the TRANSFORMER™ by PicoBong™!

It's always exciting to see new innovative products launched around this time of year. And even better when one has the potential to be a holiday gift that actually 'gives' to whatever gender dynamic you're currently loved up in. Boys. Girls. Boys and Girls. Threesomes and Moresomes. The TRANSFORMER™ promises to be an all-inclusive 'flexual' sex toy that works as:

* A rabbit vibe
* A prostate massager
* A cock ring
* A butt-plug
* A double ended vibrator/dildo

The bendy design means that you can use it a variety of different ways. Basically it's a waterproof, rechargeable, double-ended dildo that vibrates at both ends and has 60cm (24 inch) of hyper-flexible length in between that you can bend and hold any way that makes you (and your partners) feel good. Sounds fun, right?

The tagline follows that, 'If you can think it, TRANSFORMER™ will make it happen.'


The first thing I thought of was that this would be a great little device for solo double-penetration play. Two girls can share it as a double-ended vibe. And, if you're in a hetero relationship, this might be the perfect opportunity for guys that are a bit shy about buying a prostate massager or exploring their P-spot to (discreetly) try it out as well. My mind is rolling through all the different positions and pleasure connections and possibilities. And really, that's what this toy and PicoBong™ encourages you to do!

Because the TRANSFORMER™ is an all-inclusive toy, it's ideal for people that don't have a vast collection of toys to begin with. You get a lot of different capabilities in one device. It also does away with thinking about toys as belonging to traditional gender boxes (his, hers, couples) or individual functions (eg. toys designated as g-spot, prostate, butt-plug, clit-vibe). It's flexible and freeing in many more ways than just the literal interpretation.

In order to celebrate this, PicoBong™ is hosting a competition, where you can win a TRANSFORMER™ absolutely free. There are TEN up for grabs, so check it out!

A Message From PicoBong™: It's Competition Time!

To support the launch of the new PicoBong TRANSFORMER™, we want you! This product is more than just a sex toy, it’s the first ever gender neutral pleasure object ever made. It addresses the most important issues of our age: sex, sexuality and gender without judgment, dogma or prejudice. These topics are important to us, and if they’re important to you then we’d like you to be involved.

In exchange for your participation, you could get your hands on a TRANSFORMER™ absolutely free. Here’s how:

What do you have to do?

Send us a video of your original reinterpretation of the Transformer Manifesto and you can be one of 10 lucky winners.

We will select the best 10 videos and they will become our voice in a video that will be released in December and promoted on all our social media channels and online media.

The competition will take place between 12th and 28th of November.

We will announce the competition on all the social media platforms - Facebook, Twitter and Instagram using the handle @picobong.

1. Go to this page:
2. Start your webcam and film yourself reading the manifesto.
3. Send the recording to
4. Actually, there isn’t a 4. That’s it, you’re finished, and we’ll be in touch very soon.

The Manifesto

Brothers and sisters, comrades and friends.

We live in a time of accelerating change. Borders are torn down as fast as they go up, our language changes by the hour, and just when we think we’ve caught up, everything’s moved on and left us behind.

Nowhere is this truer than in issues of gender and sexuality: the most important and most defining issues of our age. Our minds are only just catching up to the changes our bodies have undergone during 3 million years of development. It’s only in the last 100 years that we’ve begun to try to make sense of the instinctive urges and desires.

To bring some order to it all, we’ve created countless labels and categories for ourselves. Gay. Straight. Bi. Queer. Intersex. Transgender. Cisgender. And thousands more, all of them meant to define us; instead they only confine us.

The one thing that’s supposed to unify us – sex – is driving us apart.

Enter the PicoBong TRANSFORMER. A sex toy that isn’t just a sex toy. It’s a sexual revolution, the vibrating underground. It’s The Resistance.

The TRANSFORMER is fighting back against centuries-old heteronormative standards of sex and sexuality, which dictate what we should and shouldn’t do with our bodies and with whom we should or shouldn’t do it. The Transformer makes no judgments about how you use it, who you use it with or where you put it.

The TRANSFORMER is so free that its very existence is an act of rebellion, a call to arms. To own one is to signal that you understand your sexuality, that you won’t accept the rigid sexual conventions of the mainstream.

It doesn’t care whether you ascribe to a label or reject labels entirely. All that matters to the Transformer is that you enjoy the journey.

After all, all’s well that double-ends well.


If you're interested in the comp or learning more about the TRANSFORMER™, you can check out and get involved in 'Joining the Revolution' on social media.

ps. It retails for around $125, but they have great intro prices on Amazon right now.
It should be up on the Lush Store within the next couple of days as well.