About Elling50

I am a happily married man with children and grandchildren. I have a passion for good erotica, especially stories involving adventurous wives and couples. I have for the the first time written a couple of stories here on lush.
The picture is not of me. For personal reasons I cannot make my Lush activities public knowledge. I am also older than the picture - 63 years old. The picture is of a famous author. Quiz: who?

Elling Norman
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Reading, movies, music
Favorite Books:
Life of Pi, Game of thrones, Les Miserable, Utvandrarne (Moberg swedish),
Favorite Movies:
No country for old men, Fargo, One flew over the cuccoos nest, Avatar, Matrix,
Favorite Music:
Rebekka Bakken, Mahler, Beatles
Date Joined:
07 Mar 2013
Last Visit:
26 Sep 2016 (23 hours ago)
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Latest Forum Posts
Topic: Ethical nonmonogamy
Posted: 13 Sep 2016 08:43

I am really happy for you 1nympholes You have found love and a person you want to spend your life with, and you can continue to be who you are and live your life the way you want and need to. If my wife wanted to life her life like that, I would be happy to let her, but she do not. She want us to be monogamous faithful to each other, and so be it.

My question is really: If you shold meet me, with my wedding ring, and we found out that we wanted to have sex, would you worry or care about the relationship between me and my wife, if she was all right with this?

Do you get questions about your wedding ring when you want to play? Is the fact that your husband is OK with it, of importance to your lovers?

Or is it as 69kisses96 states, a matter strictly between the husband and wife. If I want to play with you, it is my responsibility to think about the consequences for my marriage, not your concern?

Topic: Ethical nonmonogamy
Posted: 26 May 2016 23:11

Living a straight monogamous life myself, I am a bit intrigued with open marriages, and I have learned to not be judgmental of different ways to have your sex life. As long as nobody is hurt, it is ok by me.

I think cheating is hurtful. If you have sex with someone who is married or in a stable relationship, do you have an obligation to make sure that their SO is ok with it? Or is that completely the responsibility of your sex partner?

Topic: would you ever want to see your girl fucked by another man?
Posted: 19 Jan 2015 10:14

I would love for her to get sexual pleasures that I am not able to give her. It is up to her. She is not interested, and that is OK. It should be for her, not for me.

Topic: What would you do if you came home and found your girlfriend masturbating?
Posted: 19 Jan 2015 10:11

I would love it. I have encouraged her to masturbate, but she says she has tried but been able to get off, and it does not interest her.

Topic: Do you like to cuddle after sex???
Posted: 19 Jan 2015 10:09

Oh yes! It is lovely feeling the connection. My emotions for her is never stronger.

Topic: sloppy seconds
Posted: 19 Jan 2015 10:07

My wife may have sex with other men if she wants, whick she does not. But I would insist on condoms. I will not risk STD. Therefor sloppy seconds is out of the question.

Topic: Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted: 10 Oct 2014 06:33

In the unlikely event of my wife allowing it, it would be a great to join forces with SweetKing126 to give ultimate pleasure to the beautiful and sexy TheSensualLady

Topic: Affairs
Posted: 08 Oct 2014 22:04

By affair I mean some kind of ongoing relationship. An onenight stand is not an affair.

Cheating is having sex or enganging in an deeper emotional relationship without your partners acceptance.
Cheating is wrong. Cheating is betrayal of trust. Cheating is destructive of a relationship and creats insecurities that undermines the basis of the relationship.

A onenighter is easier to accept and allow, and forgive if it is laid out in the open. It could even be agreed that onenighters are ok.
Ongoing emotional relationships are more dangerous territory. I do think polyamory is possible, but do not want for me and the wife to gop into that territory.

Forgiveness is always an option.

Topic: Husbands would you share your wife with another man while you watched?
Posted: 08 Oct 2014 21:21

The best part of sex with my wife is her pleasure. I am sure other men can give her sexual pleasure I cannot give her, and I would be delighted to see her in the throes of passion. But she does not want to, and that seals the issue.

Topic: Threesomes..
Posted: 08 Oct 2014 21:16

I my wife ever would expand our sexual life to include others, my favorite would be a MFM. But alas this is a hypothetical question.

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Recent Activity
Stories Published By Elling50
The massage

My wife enjoys her massages She lies down nude not even a towel over the nether regions A bit naughty today? The masseur warms oil in his hands spreading it, caressing over her skin massaging her neck, shoulders, upper arms, upper body My wife relaxes, the tension in her body melts away His hands glides down the sides and he briefly touches her breasts Do I see a...

Added 21 Nov 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 13 | Avg Score 4.77 | Views 7,961 | 5 Comments

Recommended Read Old love

in post orgasmic bliss I stretch out to touch her feel her face with wrinkles around the mouth and eyes cup her empty breasts that has fed our children caress her abdomen with the scar where our firstborn came out let the fingers slip down to the place which has given us so much pleasure there are unspoken and unfulfilled fantasies sexual thrills never experienced but...

Added 15 Oct 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 15 | Avg Score 5 | Views 871 | 12 Comments

A nude beach and then a nude resort

This is a sequel to ”I was so careful” where my wife discovered my reading erotica and watching ”dirty” pictures on the Internet. I had been so afraid. I thought that this discovery would make her mad at me, or even worse – despise me. But instead it opened up a communication around our sex life that we had never had before. We had sex more often, and she took initiative, which had...

Added 18 Mar 2013 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 29 | Avg Score 4.78 | Views 55,909 | 12 Comments

I was so careful

I was so careful to cover my tracks. On my iMac I used Safari as my default browser, and it was Safari I had on my dock. But I had also hidden away a Chrome browser, not sticking to the dock. I activated stealth mode. On my Chrome I had open stories from Lush, pictures and even small videos from xhamster, pages with information on swinging. Stuff I did not want my wife to know that I read...

Added 16 Mar 2013 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 34 | Avg Score 4.5 | Views 17,988 | 18 Comments

Friends Comments
Friends Comments

Posted: 18 Sep 2016 11:09
It's been awhile so I thought I would stop by and say hi...

Posted: 29 May 2016 08:57
Thanks for adding me as a friend.

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Posted: 23 Nov 2014 13:04
Thank you for being a friend.

Now make a wish....

Posted: 09 Nov 2014 13:10

Tack så mycket fӧr den sexiga bilden på min profil. Ha en bra dag.

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Posted: 08 Sep 2014 22:24
Thanks for the ad!
Posted: 01 Jan 2014 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 24 Dec 2013 09:29

Elling, wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year

Posted: 18 Nov 2013 04:24

Missing you!!
Posted: 17 Oct 2013 16:21

Sorry, forgot the pic!
Posted: 17 Oct 2013 16:20
Hi Elling
Thanks for reading "Anniversary Album" and taking the time to vote, and for your wonderful comment
Posted: 17 Oct 2013 11:08
Thanks for the add. Even Cherubs need a break every now and then...

Posted: 15 Oct 2013 05:56

Thank you so much for reading and commenting on Perfucktory!

I’m glad you enjoyed it, thank you for taking the time!

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