About Hasabrain2


Let's be honest. I'm a middle-age guy trying to have some fun online . . . maybe even in person if the circusmstances are right. I like most mainstream erotica. I don't see the point in bondage. Good sex makes both partners happy.

California, United States
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24 May 2017 08:32
I often get on Lush during my lunch break. (I live close to work). As I have to get back to work, I'm not always available to chat.
Favorite Books:
I read exclusively non-fiction. Everything from the Dark Emperors (a book about the decadence of ancient Rome) to Stephen Hawking (of "Brief History of Time fame).
Favorite Movies:
I like movies with good dialogue. Whether it is Star Trek or Casablanca I want good dialogue. Action movies are great (I like Jackie Chan espcially) but good diaglogue makes the movie meaningful.
Favorite Music:
Soft rock, some classical music and please don't hate me . . . disco.


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Topic: Been dumped by a girl because your job was menial/low status
Posted: 20 May 2017 10:39

I posted a question on the "Ask the gals" of "would you date a garbage man?" For some women that might not be a problem but for many that would be deal breaker.
(What woman wants to boast she is dating a garbage man? )

However, not woman admitted it would be a problem for her. I got accused of being a snob, one woman even suggested I see a therapist!

So, guys have you ever been dumped because your girl found another guy, A guy who drove a better car, had a better paying or higher status job than you?

Surely I am not alone in this experience.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 17 May 2017 21:30

I have been a paperboy, a dishwasher, a short order cook, a blood donor, a drug dealer, an auto upholstery installer, a writer (paid, but not much), a theater director (paid, but not much), a telephone pollster, a "How to take the SAT" teacher, a middle school teacher, the head of a presidential polling operation, and (currently) an IT professional at a university.

I have been paid below minimum wage, and I have been paid relatively high corporate salaries.

I didn't change. All that changed was my job. It is a very superficial aspect of who I am, and who any of us are.

Really? Would Patton have been the same man without his armies? Trump the same man without his billions?

Would Van Gogh have committed suicide if had been commercially successful as an artist?

The job changes the man, in big ways and small.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 12 May 2017 13:07

I think your "question" is actually a self conceited declaration, filled with arrogance and in bad taste about a person's socio-economic status. Of which, you are a nobody to question about in the first place. Let alone women's choice of preference over selection of their desired partners based on occupation and status in society.

Really? You tell your girlfriend your dating a lawyer will get a much different response than telling your dating a garbage man.

Your father/mother might appreciate the work ethic of a garbage man, might not judge him, but most every mom wants to boast
to her friends, "my daughter is dating a doctor (or some other profession) now." She might tell her friends, if true, that Mr. Garbage Man
is good to you, makes you happy etc. His occupation will be way down on the list of things she tell her friends about your boyfriend.

If you were the first kid to learn to ride a bike in the neighborhood. your Mom (and/or Dad) boasted. If you marry a doctor/lawyer etc, she will
boast. Garbage man? Hardly. It is the way the world works.

Topic: Would you date a garbage man?
Posted: 11 May 2017 19:56

I say this because the other day, I went to a Taco Bell after my work out.
I was horny as hell because of the babes in the gym, but I know they are not interested in a middle age guy like myself.

In my head, I'm imaging them fucking some young dudes in uniforms. Well into the Taco Bell come a couple of young dudes.
I imagine them and the girls in the gym getting it on, but then I realize they are garbage collectors on their lunch break?

Really what woman would wan to date a garbage collector, even if he was hot?

Topic: How far have you gone Using your looks and sex appeal ?
Posted: 29 Apr 2017 10:34

To the bank haha, worked in bars for years and tips didnt come from my sparkling wit!

At work the other day, we were discussing jobs we had in college. A female coworker, who was not that hot looking, said she sometimes
made $450 a night as a cocktail waitress at upscale bar. . . . She made more in one night that my month's pay on my research grant.

Sometimes life isn't fair.

Topic: To those who Cheated while being in Relationship, what Instigated you ? was it worth ?? and what were the consequences ??
Posted: 09 Apr 2017 15:51

People can be too quick to judge. Circumstances are often not as simple as yes/no. A marriage that is sexless (health issues) over an extended time puts a log of pressure on the healthy member. For the past two years I've had a relationship with a woman who understands the situation and has helped me out. Without the frustrations of celibacy, the tension with my wife is reduced...sleeping sexlessly next to her is no longer a period of frustration and tension.

Does she suspect? maybe. She has told me on various occasions that there are certain things she does not want to know about. So I need to be discreet whether she knows or not..

How will it play? I don't know.

My wife has had health issues as well. She was overweight when we married (so was I). I have trimmed up, not as much as could, but I'm in better shape than I was ten
years ago. She is just not physically appealing. A lot of women here would say, "just get a divorce." But there are not the one who would have to pay alimony.
It is not just alimony, but I would not only lose the house, but the tax deduction that goes with the house, and health insurance (i'm on her policy, which is better than the one I have through my work).
Moving out would mean I would have to commute further much further to work, so there is wear and tear on the (and I would lost multiple car insurance discount).

Figure a divorce would cost me nearly 40% of my income, ever year until age 62 (when alimony ceases).

Cheating is lot cheaper, and besides I have two in college. So far with mom and dad's help they haven't had to take out student loans. A divorce would change that.

Topic: One thing you envy about females having or getting to do?
Posted: 31 Mar 2017 13:37

This is a little off topic, but when I was in graduate school, I was poor, really poor. So poor (no joke) I took advantage of blood
bank program where I could sell my plasma (not blood) for ten bucks.

While I laid in the recliner with a needle in my arm, I thought if were a woman, even not a hottie, I could make more make my rent and more with a just
a couple of nights work and wouldn't have to be sitting in the chair with a needle in my arm.

Topic: Does your gf/wife own a vibrator or dildo?
Posted: 31 Mar 2017 13:13

And, if so, how does it (pun intended) work into your relationship/lovemaking?

Topic: LBD (Little Black Dress)
Posted: 31 Mar 2017 13:07


The tattoos are a complete turnoff. Looks like someone took a magic marker to her arm.

Topic: Tattoos:yes or no?
Posted: 09 Feb 2017 21:32

Tattoos are a real turn off.

Women if you want to attract the "bad boy" get a tramp stamp or other tattoo. But remember "bad boys" often make bad fathers, bad employees
bad drivers, bad credit risks etc.

However, if you have the "Fortune 500" look, you will attract "Fortune 500" guys. A man who know how to treat his clients, suppliers,
subordinates etc., with respect, he will more likely respect you.

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