Forum posts made by hasabrain2

Topic Putting Black Men in the Narrative.
Posted 10 Dec 2017 18:23

There is a lot of fuss in the media about women being underrepresented in STEM (Sceince, Techology, Engineering, and Math) occupations. This is true.

However, boys, particularly African-American boys, are much less likely to graduate high school than girls. For every two girls who fail to graduate high school, three boys
fail (all races). Kids who fail school gravitate to criminal activity to survive. For each woman in prison, there are eleven men with African-American men disproportionately represented.

Also, what doesn't get media attention, is that girls (all races) are much more likely to be valedictorians, that more women become lawyers than men, become doctors than
men, and in much greater numbers graduate college (albeit not in STEM jobs) then men.

Literature is one small part. Consider the very successful Twilight books. The heroine is courted by two men. In Harry Potter Heromine is courted by Harry and Ron. Can you name any best selling book that male character is pursued by two women?

Boys, particularly African-American boys, need to be part of the narrative.. What they need most are fathers. If the father is in the home, the children, boys and girls, have a much better chance of graduating and leading a law-abiding lifestyle.

Topic Pence rule and sexual harassment
Posted 09 Dec 2017 19:49

Even before all the allegations of sexual harassment by big names came out, Vice-President Pence had
a rule he would never meet alone, one on one with a woman. What do you think?
Do you meet alone with women in you work?

I didn't get much of a response when I posted this in "ask the gals". That was a surprise. I thought lots of women would comment.

What do you guys say?

Topic The Pence rule
Posted 27 Nov 2017 20:56

Well before all these sexual allegation scandals broke, Vice-President Pence had a rule that he would never
meet alone with a woman.

What does everyone think?

Good rule?

Unfair rule (as men can meet one one one).

Topic Pick a movie that has something in common with the above film
Posted 26 Nov 2017 11:13

I think the name of the movie was Barabella. It came out in 60s and started Raquel Welch.

Topic Tone at work: Has it changed with recent allegations of sexual harassment.
Posted 19 Nov 2017 17:24

Well I have notice a change at my work. Women are "all business". No one shares even the most innocuous personal information.

Some months ago, even before these scandals broke, one female co-worker commented that I looked nice in my coat and tie.
(Only on rare occasions do I need to wear a coat and tie at work). She was the practically apoplectic apologizing for
the remark. There was nothing suggestive. She is know as a very Christian person, I appreciated the comment for what it was and nothing more.

Just a few days ago, my female boss wore a nice scarf. It was just for show, . . it was particularly cold. Did I say anything?
No. Just too scared it could be misinterpreted.

Topic Tone at work: Has it changed with the recent allegation of sexual harrassment
Posted 19 Nov 2017 10:57

Since the recent revelations of sexual harassment have been made, has there been a change
in the tone in your workplace?

I'm talking about everyday tone, banter, chit-chat, not sexual harassment.

I'm asking the same question in the ask the gals forum.



My personal experience is that, with rare exception, women are now "all business".

They don't ask how my kids are doing in college or will I see family for Thanksgiving or any other of the mundane,
innocuous questions people ask of co-workers.

Topic Tone at work: Has it changed with recent allegations of sexual harassment.
Posted 19 Nov 2017 10:47

Since the recent revelations of sexual harassment have been made, has there been a change
in the tone in your workplace?

I'm talking about everyday tone, banter, chit-chat, not sexual harassment.

I'm asking the same question in the ask the guys forum.

Topic Women and doors
Posted 09 Nov 2017 19:01

Open the door and grab some ass


Wish I could, but there is there is thing called sexual harassment.

Topic Women and doors
Posted 06 Nov 2017 17:45

Guys have you had this happen to you? A young woman gets to the door first but she holds it open for you. I'm old-fashioned and was raised to open the door for a woman. OK if she is there first she should go in first, but several times and I mean several times, I've had a woman hold the door open for me, even though I was 10 even 15 behind her. I don't like being treated like an old man. I am still capable of opening a door myself.

Topic Guys do you like a womens pussy shaved, trimmed, or natural?
Posted 06 Nov 2017 17:40

Trimmed or natural is fine, but completely bald no. Complete turn off with the prepubescent look.

Topic Would you sell yourself?
Posted 06 Nov 2017 05:39

That I have done the cost of going to college is so high even some scholarships can't cover the cost and working at a fast food place or working in a store doesn't even come close to paying the tution unless you want to work your ass off all the time and that still won't cover the cost. So yes I did rent myself out while I was in college. The next question yes I would do it all over again if I had too. People can call it what they want to but it paid my way though college so I had time for studies instead of working all the time a worry about the cost. Next question is am I a shame of what I did no I'm not.


I know this is 'ask the gals" but I wanted to reply to this post. When I was in graduate school I was so broke I sold my blood (actually plasma) at the blood bank. I remember thinking to myself if I was a young woman I could work in a strip club and make my rent in one night. I don't know if I would have gone so for as too have sex for money, but I would have considered it.

Topic would you cheat on your partner
Posted 18 Oct 2017 10:44

Yes, I'm in largely sexless relationship . Because of her medical problems, when we do have sex, I have been on top
every time this millennium. A divorce not only due to alimony, but tax consideration, health insurance (I'm on her policy)
I would be out over 40% of my monthly pay. I live in an area where housing is expensive, I can't even afford
a mobile home in a nice park on that 60%. An apartment in a decent neighborhood would be even more.

Topic Flowers on a first date?
Posted 04 Oct 2017 18:36

On subject of flowers I thought I would share t)s true story. I was dating a girl in college. We had known each other since Jr High, but things were starting to get serious. I had to work on Valentine's Day before taking her out
I stopped at the florist nearest her house. I remarked to the young man at the counter that the flowers looked wilted (it was a small shop) No joke, he told me the flowers had been in a funeral earlier in the day. There was no time to go any where else, so I arrived without flowers. The relationship fizzle a couple of months later. I just wonder if the flowers had been fresh if my life would have taken a different turn.

Topic Flowers on a first date?
Posted 04 Oct 2017 18:29

It would be lovely. I would think he was old fashioned and trying to impress me. And I would be sweet, accordingly.

True story: a guy I was dating got me "flowers" for no reason one Friday night. They looked like black rose buds, which threw me. I wasn't sure if they were a gift or he was breaking up with me. But, then, all impish, he shows me that they unfold into sheer black panties. We hadn't had sex yet; in fact I hadn't had sex with anyone yet. Freaked me the fuck out.

I think we lasted another week or two.

Unless you're really, really sure of the girl, just flowers are a better bet than panties.

Yes panties would be a bit much especially on a first date,

Topic Flowers on a first date?
Posted 15 Sep 2017 14:21

What would think if I guy brought you flowers on a first date? Is he romantic? Trying too hard?
Terribly old fashioned?

What is your opinion?

Topic North Korea and The United States
Posted 13 Aug 2017 09:23

Most agree that a peaceful resolution, that protects American interests goes through China.

Please mail (an email will just get an automated response about visas etc.) a letter like this to the Ambassador of China
The address:

Embassy of the People Republic of China
220 Wisconsin Ave. NW Ste 110
Washington DC
20007

Do your part to help set change the course of history and promote peace, while protecting America. Thank you.




Dear Ambassador Tiankai,



You have no doubt observed that America is very much politically divided. President Trump has many detractors who are passionate not only against his policies, but his style as President. Others support the President and feel his “fire and fury” talk is just what is needed to push the North Korean crisis into a peaceful resolution.

Whether the detractors or the supporters are correct is not important. Americans speak with one voice on this point: All ballistic warheads which can threaten Guam or any other part of the United States and all nuclear capabilities must be removed from North Korea, preferably peacefully.

I trust your government understands this point and will do all it can to promote the swift removal of ballistic warheads and nuclear weapons from North Korea.

Topic What does your username mean?
Posted 01 Aug 2017 19:04

My username is self-explanatory too.

While I enjoy read stories on Lush, I also enjoy reading the daily newspaper, a popular science magazine, and nonfiction on a variety of different topics.

Topic DNA Test - am I right?
Posted 24 Jul 2017 11:31

You should be poised for a world of hurt. And if you go through with this crazy idea, if the results or the child isn't yours, NEVER allow your child to know. That would be cruel. You raised the child as the father. I seriously suggest you let sleeping dogs lie. Leave it alone!

I have a feeling you have a masochistic fetish. Don't force that kind of pain on your child and family.



I disagree with this advice, find out if your are the father. If your are not and the bio dad dies, the child you raised could be an heir.
Also, your child when becomes an adult will be giving YOUR medical history as the father -- not the bio dad (if is someone else).

Finally, alleged bio dad may blab (Hey I screwed so and so's wife) if there is "bad news" to share better for you and your wife, then there be a rumor about town.

Topic Guys, be honest: can breasts get too big?
Posted 23 Jul 2017 21:09

Yes they can get too big. Occasionally I watch "Botched" a true-to-life program about all types of plastic surgery.

Excessive large/misshapen implants are common procedures the two doctors on the show resolve.

Tits can be easily too small. A woman should look like a woman.

However a woman with an A cup, can still have great sex. A guy with a commensurately small dick. . . not as much.



Topic camel toe.. turn on or turn off?
Posted 22 Jul 2017 09:24

Yes turn on. FYI there is a very funny Camelltoe (or three ) out there.

My question: Don't most woman know how they look?

Topic Ass play questions
Posted 12 Jul 2017 18:13

Call me old-fashioned, but I have no desire to have anyone's tongue anywhere near my asshole, nor get my tongue near hers.

Topic What is the biggest secret you keep from your partner?
Posted 05 Jul 2017 19:41

That I am not sure about who s the real father of my baby.


You need to tell him and the child (if old enough) the truth. The child will find out sometime (23 and me, ancestry.com, somehow).

Also, genetic history is important for any medical issues.

Topic Movie: Blue is the warmest color
Posted 01 Jul 2017 10:34

Yes it was a good film with good acting, but it reflects a double standard.
Imagine a movie with a 24 year old man and a 17 year old girl. In some states, their sexual behavior would be considered child abuse.
A man seducing/developing a relationship was a teenager who be considered exploitative. Critics would say "why can't that
man find a woman his age? What is wrong with him?"

I also didn't like the smoking.

Topic Movie: Blue is the warmest color
Posted 24 Jun 2017 16:07

If you Google "hottest movies on Netflix" you should see "Blue is the warmest color" among the movies listed.

Now, I admit I started watching this just for the hot scenes, but it is actually quite a good movie. (Much, much better than
some of other listed). I believe it won honorable mention at Cannes'

Just wondering if anyone else had seen it?


Topic I need your advice about cuckolding ( ladies only please )
Posted 08 Jun 2017 20:00

we never talked about it, but she said she wants to try everything once, so I think if I tell her its my fantasy she would be willing to give it a try.
and yes, one part of me would be angry, jealous, humilliated if she fucks another guy, but still at the same time, it turns me on so much.
when I imagine this I always imagine it with a masculine black guy with a huge cock to fuck her really hard and cum inside her, and I have to clean her up, and if they want, clean him up too. I imagine her getting fucked hard, moaning and telling me how bigger he is than me, and he can make her cum many times, and that he will cum so much inside her that he will put a black baby inside her.
thats my ideal fantasy...


Please, if do act on your fantasy, don't let the bull father a baby. A night worth of fun isn't worth decades of questions of "why doesn't (name of child)' look like (your name)?

Topic Would you date a garbage man?
Posted 08 Jun 2017 19:52

Ok, let's break this down as a riddle. A NFL quarterback, a high school PE coach, and a garbage man walk into a bar.

What are the chances that only the garbage man will get lucky?

Topic Have you ever cum in your pants?
Posted 07 Jun 2017 16:01

Two situations:

1) A strip club in San Francisco. I was young and the lap dances felt really, really good. I came hard. Glad I had on jeans and it was nighttime when I got out.

2) Wife was well along in pregnancy, hadn't got any in weeks. We started kissing in the kitchen. She rubbed her hand against my crotch standing up. I think she felt it was the least she could do. We hadn't had sex in weeks and wouldn't for weeks after the baby. While she didn't get any physical satisfaction, she was happy I was happy.


Topic Sexual or non-sexual, what is the last thing you looked up online and where?
Posted 03 Jun 2017 14:01

Flight schedules for a vacation to Florida.

Topic Would you date a garbage man?
Posted 28 May 2017 19:50

I don't want to debate this issues to death. But Wilt Chamberlain, the basketball legend boasted he had slept with a 10,000 women (yes 10,000).

Even if he slept with just a 1000, does anyone really think the black (or white) guy working the graveyard shirt at 7/11 would be so lucky?

Since the beginning of civilization, a certain portion of the female population has gravitated to the rich and powerful.

There was no safety net in ancient times. There was no social safety net, better to be King's consort than a poor peasant and risk starvation with the next bad harvest.

These days more women become doctors, lawyers, and graduate college than men. I would imagine that most, like their male counterparts would want
to marry/live with someone like them. That is just how people are.

Topic Would you date a garbage man?
Posted 27 May 2017 15:19



What the fuck was the point in telling that story?

The point should be obvious. There are some rich people who are snobs, but most are nice. Probably most poor/low status people are nice too, but
by maid friend clearly showed there are more jerk in the poor group.