Forum posts made by lord_mafija

Topic Anyone else excited about the new Great Gatsby movie?
Posted 21 Feb 2013 14:19

That may be the best explanation I have ever heard as to why people usually say "the book was better than the movie". I totally agree. Nicely worded.

Thanks :)

Topic Anyone else excited about the new Great Gatsby movie?
Posted 21 Feb 2013 10:20

It's one of my favorite books of all time, and I'm super excited about the film. Having said that I'm always a bit skeptical when it comes to adaptations. Every time you read the book, you choose what is important to you, and what speaks to you. When watching an adaptation somebody else's important bits are thrust upon you.

But I have a feeling it will be a great movie, and I think Leo will really shine as Gatsby.

Topic Hysterical literature
Posted 05 Oct 2012 14:53

Probably a better fit in The Pub or The Lounge, than here in this section of the forum. But hey, what do I know.

Thank you for your suggestion, maybe a mod could move it there.

Topic Hysterical literature
Posted 05 Oct 2012 09:12

Okay, so from a Lush standpoint this is a very interesting project. Just stumbled upon it today, so I wanted to share with the community. I think that it's a wonderful blend of Art and Sexuality and a definite proof that a large part of sexual excitement can come from the mind.

Your thoughts?

Topic Religion, Bad or Good?
Posted 01 Oct 2012 09:20

Okay, so basically we have two camps here. One says that religion is bad, one says its good.

On the one hand you can argue that religion brings false hope, and that people practicing it are basically trying to find a way of coping with the world as it is.
On the other you could point out that religious people tend to be more empathic then other people.

And you could argue back and forth all day long and still not reach a conclusion.

I'd like to make a reference to another thread that was featured here, and that is the Socialism thread. My point there is the same as here. Religion (Socialism) is a good idea!

However, the institutionalization of said idea is far form perfect. We, human beings, are flawed. We are led by our desires, and more often than not make decisions based on them. And the institution rests on human beings. Therefore the institution itself is flawed.

Now, the real question, at least for me remains, is a group people that abuse children, a group of fanatics and/or a group of indoctrinated sheep a representation of the entire religion, and should religion as such be judged by the actions of a few black sheep?

I say no. Christianity is great the idea of sacrificing oneself for the greater good is a moral and ethical Holy Grail, Islam is good (let us not forget that it was Islam who allowed polygamy to care for the wives and children of the killed Turkish soldiers during the Turkish wars in Europe, Buddism is good because it theaches of a balance, Judaism is gread because it really focuses on the spiritual.

Basically, religions are great, it's the people that are, as always, flawed.

Topic What does your username mean?
Posted 21 Sep 2012 15:29

an acronym of my first and last name coupled with the word I. Why lord? Why the hell not? :)

Topic Sexual words association
Posted 21 Sep 2012 15:10


Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 15 Sep 2012 08:58

Has a nice back... ground :D

Topic Socialism an illusion or the real solution?
Posted 13 Sep 2012 09:13

Hell, an 'ism' of any kind in pure form's going to probably fail, because societies, economies, and cultures are complex. Theories applied purely into practice won't often work as planned.

Damn right. Socialism is an ideology. And as such it's nothing more than a set of _ideas_ that constitute goals. The goal would be a classless society. In order to have a classless society everyone must forfeit their personal ambitions, or at least limit them to serve a greater good. Not many people can do that.

Politicians the least of all, in my experience.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 11 Sep 2012 13:43

Topic Socialism an illusion or the real solution?
Posted 09 Sep 2012 06:36

In no country has more than a little bit of "socialism" (really any form of collectivism) worked for very long. If we'll agree to use the term socialism loosely, it suffers from being unable to compete against other societies that have less of it. In Europe, this led to two huge costly wars. They way out of a war cycle was to implement a libertarian form of government over the many socialist countries there. The key elements were that labor, capital and goods had to be allowed to flow freely away from excessive socialism and toward respect for individual rights to own property and retain created wealth. That's what the EU is. That's what the US was intended to be for the individual states of the union, but we got it wrong.

France doesn't really deserve to be called a country anymore. Other Europeans can freely move in and take advantage of their social generosity if they can find a job there. To prevent that, France would have to break the EU treaty.

I wouldn't agree with you that that's what the EU union is all about. Granted, maybe that was the principle on which the EU union was founded, but that as relevant now as the "All men are created equal" part in your Declaration of Independence. The problem with the European Union, as seen by me, a lowly worker in one of the soon to be member countries. I, and some of my fellow compatriots, see the European Union as a staggering behemoth, fighting to sustain its own life by merging countries that aren't ready for such a leap (such as it is with my country).

I would now like to put forth the example of Sweden (and generally Nordic states, Denmark, Norway, Finland). I don't know if there are any swedes reading this, but if there are, maybe they could share some further insights into the working of the country, because as latinfoxy wrote, the grass is always greener on the other side.

As far as I know, and based on my conversation with people who lived there, Sweden has a very high tax rate, but through that tax the entire healthcare is funded, and no additional medical insurance is needed. In Denmark (or so I'm told), when a young person wants to move out, he/she can get a county owned apartment assigned to them with a randomly selected roommate.

Also, in Denmark, people can get unemployment benefits, but those benefits are strictly controlled. I've heard of a case of a family form my country that moved to Denmark, got on welfare, and then left for a month for a vacation in my homeland. When they got back, they were summoned by the county and their welfare revoked. The power company noticed a drop of electrical current consumption in their household, reported the inconsistency, and police were sent to investigate. They found an empty apartment. The question put forth to this family was, "How can you have a vacation if you are using welfare?".

In my education, European nordic stated were always praised as a good example of socialist goverment.

Topic Sexual words association
Posted 02 Sep 2012 07:14


Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 02 Sep 2012 06:54

Be free with your body.

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 02 Sep 2012 06:42

Enjoyable things make my day!

Topic Morning orgasm.
Posted 02 Sep 2012 03:03

Well i do not know about any theories i always thought it was my pent up feelings whilst i was sleeping. I do enjoy bringing myself to orgasm first thing in the morning, i find they are the most fulfilling ones happy8

I talked it over with her now, suggesting some ideas put forth here, and she says that the morning orgasm is stronger physically, whereas afternoon and evening the orgasm has a stronger emotional component...

Topic Morning orgasm.
Posted 02 Sep 2012 02:45


'During the first hours upon awakening, especially after having some erotic dreams, the stronger gender is very much in the mood for an intercourse. At 7 am the male sex hormones activity exceeds the norm by about 20 percent, by 9 am – by as much as 50 percent. The arousal starts to decline by 10 am and then raises once again by 11 am. But here comes the difference, since the arousal in females is not yet awaken by this time of the day. Desire hormones join the female bloodstream only closer to noon.'

Which, although, at first glance, contradicts what you've said it could actually be the reason for her stronger orgasm: if you are more 'up for it', chances are you are, to put it simply, 'better' at that time of day - which would explain her having a stronger orgasm.


Okay, I have a little idea now. Her hormone levels join the bloodstream closer to noon. Would it be correct to assume then that she is actually less sensitive in mornings? That would be consistent as it usually takes her quite a bit longer to come in the morning. But I don't think it's performance related, because yesterday we used a vibrator to get her off in the end, and the effect was the same.

So, my theory of being more sensitive has been disproved, what now? :D

Topic Morning orgasm.
Posted 02 Sep 2012 02:27

I must not be clear on this subject. Are you saying that there are a sexually mature woman who start the day without an Orgasm, either with or without a partner?

How strange!

I must have misunderstood the subject.

Well, as strange as it may seem to you, I assume there must be sexually mature women who start the day without and O and maybe even go a whole day without having one. As I am sure there are men who don't have morning wood, or have a lessened sex drive.

We are all different, wouldn't you say :)

Topic Morning orgasm.
Posted 02 Sep 2012 02:20

I agree with you my morning orgasms are noticeably stronger than at night or during the day! I also find that I'm hornier in the mornings I guess because u have to pee in the morning so all the blood goes to ur clit & bulids tension? That's my theory.

That was one of our initial assumptions, however, yesterday she peed before the sex, so that's down the drain :)

Topic Morning orgasm.
Posted 01 Sep 2012 07:57

Sorry if its been discussed before, but my gf and I have discovered an interesting phenomenon. When we do the nasty first thing in the morning, her orgasm is much more intense (body shuddering intense) and lasts far longer.

So, the theory we are going by right now is that her body is more sensitive in the morning, but I don't think that's the main reason. Any ideas?

Topic Sexual words association
Posted 01 Sep 2012 07:50


Topic Three words said about the person above you
Posted 01 Sep 2012 07:46

Frequent forum poster!

Topic Three words said about the person above you
Posted 30 Aug 2012 12:05

Great musical taste ;)

Topic Experimentation?
Posted 30 Aug 2012 11:19

Toys are a nice way of broadening your experience. There are so many kinds out there that you can choose to your heart's desire, and get something that will suit you both. a1089

Topic Would you masturbate in front of...?
Posted 26 Aug 2012 09:58

Ever since I was caught doing the deed with my ex I've had a secret exhibitionist streak in me so yes yes maybe icon_biggrin

Topic Eye Contact during blow job
Posted 26 Aug 2012 09:54

Nothing quite as sexy as seeing in her eyes that she's enjoying herself icon_smile