Just a normal 20 year old, enjoy sex, drinking. Very flirty, which often gets me into trouble, please dont take it to mean more than it does! Have been told that I am very coy and shy but there is a filthy girl in there somewhere just too shy to be let out. I love oral, giving and receiving and being dominated, but i HATE name calling and humiliation (I may act like a slut but i dont wanna be called or treated like one thanks!)I usually have the lush page open if im at home. If i'm online but dont reply to you, ive most likely been distracted by something and left my laptop and everything open. My pics are for friends only so if you wanna see what I look like, add me * Just here to chat, and by chat i mean chat. No cybering please without actually making an effort to talk to me properly first. Also I'm not going to add you on skype or msn to do stuff on cam, and i'm not up for meeting in real life so dont ask.
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Ok so.... you're saying its shocking how many people are not themselves but go out there and find an honest one?? Yea easier said than done!
Thank you. From what i can gather so far I think he's just normal, keep to himself kind of guy, no hassle, no drama. He seems very laid back about life so maybe thats his attitude to dating as well.When ive brought up meeting he's seemed very positive, enthusiastic, he even told me he did come into my work once and i wasnt there. Maybe he is talking to other girls and wants to keep his options open. i like to think im a good judge of character so not necessarily a 'player'.So far Im just going to wait and see if he does pop into my work and if not, try and arrange a date. or chat to him without floating the idea of a date.. Ugh. dating is hard
I think if i waited to do that I'd never be in a relationship again! If we were to meet face to face and go on a date it would be fine I just dunno if i should be messaging him, keeping the conversation flowing or just wait for him to pop up.Basically, show you're keen, dont let him get away but risk coming across as a psycho stalker OR let him come to me, play it cool, but run the risk of him thinking 'well she's not interested' (which 9/10 is the outcome for me)
Hi everyone, havent logged in a long time!!Basically i just need general dating advice..... There's a guy i met on a dating site, seems like a perfect match, for me anyway, and i really wanna meet him. Ive asked him out and he's agreed but in a non-commital way, i.e. hasnt arranged a time/place. He has said he'll pop into my work to see me but i dont know if/when he will. If not I might try and set an actual date with him.In the mean time, I dont know how much to talk to him. I know this seems like a really stupid question but i am crap at this kind of thing. I dont wanna annoy him or put him off.... Even in relationships i just dont know how to..... be. This is hard to explain but does anyone have any advice?
Wow. I dont know if its because Im not from a very multicultural area so it doesnt happen much here but I cant believe (and didnt really know) that people still behave this way!! That she thinks its acceptable to treat someone that way, and behave like it in front of her kids. I feel sorry for them, I really do
So my life is starting to come to a point now where everything is going to change, and I dont know how to handle it.Im 24, and my sister is 20. Although she recently declined, her and her boyfriend have been talking about moving in together, probably not for a couple of years but its on the cards.I recently moved into a houseshare but i hated it do much I was home crying the next day and moved home a week later. Im currently waiting for the landlord to find a new tenant.I also want to start job hunting soon as Im not enjoying my work but am trying to get used to the idea that the job i want might not be somewhere where I can still live at home, i might need to move closer. Owning my own place is in my future plans, no one wants to live with their parents forever, but given what happened recently i dont know if Im ready, or when i will be. Of course I can stay in my current job but Im not enjoying it and feel like i need to move on.Everything is changing and i dont know how to deal with it.My sister will leave home and move away, i will probably have to, or definately should do by the age of 25.... Im terrified of things going wrong and not having anyone to support me. My family are so important to me, and i dont keep in contact with my close friends as much as id like to. I moved only about 9 or 10 miles away and i couldnt even handle that! Im single at the moment as well and dont even have any prospects on the horizon, so no chance of moving in as a couple or having someone over a few nights a week. Im going to have to do this alone.I so want to be able to do the things i want to without being scared but I dont want anything to change either. I dont my sister to move away, or me to live away from my family. All i want to do is stay here and have everything stay the way it is. I dont how to deal with any of this
Thanks everyone,I think the thing thats bothering me most is deciding on a 'career' path to take. I know that many people have several careers these days but I want to make sure the next job i get is one that i can stay in for a few years at least. Its all very well saying if you dont like it, then leave, but who is gonna wanna employ me after 8 years in coffee, 6 months insurance, then 5 minutes in another poorly chosen, half assed job. I'll have to live it with for 2-3 years and thats alot of pressure to get right, and like i say Im terrified of making the wrong decision.I could cope with the coffee shop job for 8 years because it was never meant to be a career, just a way to earn money. Now though I'd at least like something I can earn enough money in and have room to move up.
Thanks guys.I have some small idea of a career I'd like and trying to find out more about it. I have a meeting with a career advisor in a couple of weeks. I know Im the only one who can change things, no one will do it for me. Im just so terrified of making the wrong decision. I know Ill always have my parents place to fall back on, theyve told me, but thats probably one of the most depressing outcome i can think of. Ive already done a year of a teaching course which came to nothing, so I dont want to start on the next thing until im 1000% sure its what i want.
Hi everybody.Ive not been on for a long while but I really need help and think that the wordly wise, lovely people of Lush might be able to help!Ive reached a point in my life where I have no idea what to do! Im 24, Ive worked at a coffee shop for 8 years but left to do something else, have a change, earn more money, be more respected etc. Ive got a job at an insurance company in customer services and a bit of admin, been there 6 weeks now and I just know that this isnt for me for a long term career. I dont know what I do want but I sure as hell dont want desks, computer screens, sitting on my ass all day, typing like a mindless zombie. Luckily its a 6 month contract so Im forcing myself to think of other things, and make sure that the next job I get is one I could stay in for a few years, I just dont know whatThe other part is my living situation. I still live at home as I know its the most sensible option to save money and hopefully buy a house one day, but Im missing the social, freedom, independent living side of things! I should be able to get wasted, go out and get more wasted, burst through the door at 3am without worrying about waking anyone, not text home everytime I wanna stay out late. I think that if you want something in life you should go and get it, money can always be earnt but time can't. Everyone keeps telling me to stay and save though and I dont want to make the wrong decision.Soooo there. A bit of a rant and a ask for help really. I have so many options in life now and am terrified of making the wrong one. Whatever job I choose i'll need to be happy in for the next 2/3 years minimum and wherever I choose to live i'll be sacrificing something.If anyone has any advice for me I'll be so grateful as my family are sick to death of my whining,. Hope there's still a few old faces around!
I love coming across somebody who is into something unusual like some kind of extreme sport. Other than that I like interests that are similar to mine, similar music, hobbies like cars and if a guy likes cooking thats sexy too
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