Forum posts made by mmonroe

Topic Dating help!
Posted 30 May 2016 12:36

Ok so.... you're saying its shocking how many people are not themselves but go out there and find an honest one?? Yea easier said than done!

Topic Dating help!
Posted 30 Mar 2016 11:05

Thank you. From what i can gather so far I think he's just normal, keep to himself kind of guy, no hassle, no drama. He seems very laid back about life so maybe thats his attitude to dating as well.When ive brought up meeting he's seemed very positive, enthusiastic, he even told me he did come into my work once and i wasnt there. Maybe he is talking to other girls and wants to keep his options open. i like to think im a good judge of character so not necessarily a 'player'.

So far Im just going to wait and see if he does pop into my work and if not, try and arrange a date. or chat to him without floating the idea of a date.. Ugh. dating is hard

Topic Dating help!
Posted 30 Mar 2016 06:57

I think if i waited to do that I'd never be in a relationship again! If we were to meet face to face and go on a date it would be fine I just dunno if i should be messaging him, keeping the conversation flowing or just wait for him to pop up.

Basically, show you're keen, dont let him get away but risk coming across as a psycho stalker OR let him come to me, play it cool, but run the risk of him thinking 'well she's not interested' (which 9/10 is the outcome for me)

Topic Dating help!
Posted 29 Mar 2016 12:35

Hi everyone, havent logged in a long time!!

Basically i just need general dating advice..... There's a guy i met on a dating site, seems like a perfect match, for me anyway, and i really wanna meet him. Ive asked him out and he's agreed but in a non-commital way, i.e. hasnt arranged a time/place. He has said he'll pop into my work to see me but i dont know if/when he will. If not I might try and set an actual date with him.

In the mean time, I dont know how much to talk to him. I know this seems like a really stupid question but i am crap at this kind of thing. I dont wanna annoy him or put him off.... Even in relationships i just dont know how to..... be. This is hard to explain but does anyone have any advice?

Topic Racist Woman Reacts To Black Man Starting His Car.
Posted 08 Jun 2014 06:52

Wow. I dont know if its because Im not from a very multicultural area so it doesnt happen much here but I cant believe (and didnt really know) that people still behave this way!! That she thinks its acceptable to treat someone that way, and behave like it in front of her kids. I feel sorry for them, I really do

Topic Dealing with change (growing up)
Posted 21 May 2014 11:52

So my life is starting to come to a point now where everything is going to change, and I dont know how to handle it.

Im 24, and my sister is 20. Although she recently declined, her and her boyfriend have been talking about moving in together, probably not for a couple of years but its on the cards.

I recently moved into a houseshare but i hated it do much I was home crying the next day and moved home a week later. Im currently waiting for the landlord to find a new tenant.

I also want to start job hunting soon as Im not enjoying my work but am trying to get used to the idea that the job i want might not be somewhere where I can still live at home, i might need to move closer. Owning my own place is in my future plans, no one wants to live with their parents forever, but given what happened recently i dont know if Im ready, or when i will be. Of course I can stay in my current job but Im not enjoying it and feel like i need to move on.

Everything is changing and i dont know how to deal with it.
My sister will leave home and move away, i will probably have to, or definately should do by the age of 25.... Im terrified of things going wrong and not having anyone to support me. My family are so important to me, and i dont keep in contact with my close friends as much as id like to. I moved only about 9 or 10 miles away and i couldnt even handle that! Im single at the moment as well and dont even have any prospects on the horizon, so no chance of moving in as a couple or having someone over a few nights a week. Im going to have to do this alone.

I so want to be able to do the things i want to without being scared but I dont want anything to change either. I dont my sister to move away, or me to live away from my family. All i want to do is stay here and have everything stay the way it is. I dont how to deal with any of this

Topic Miniature mid-life crisis help!!
Posted 16 Apr 2014 13:45

Thanks everyone,

I think the thing thats bothering me most is deciding on a 'career' path to take. I know that many people have several careers these days but I want to make sure the next job i get is one that i can stay in for a few years at least. Its all very well saying if you dont like it, then leave, but who is gonna wanna employ me after 8 years in coffee, 6 months insurance, then 5 minutes in another poorly chosen, half assed job. I'll have to live it with for 2-3 years and thats alot of pressure to get right, and like i say Im terrified of making the wrong decision.

I could cope with the coffee shop job for 8 years because it was never meant to be a career, just a way to earn money. Now though I'd at least like something I can earn enough money in and have room to move up.

Topic Miniature mid-life crisis help!!
Posted 15 Apr 2014 10:40

Thanks guys.

I have some small idea of a career I'd like and trying to find out more about it. I have a meeting with a career advisor in a couple of weeks.

I know Im the only one who can change things, no one will do it for me. Im just so terrified of making the wrong decision. I know Ill always have my parents place to fall back on, theyve told me, but thats probably one of the most depressing outcome i can think of. Ive already done a year of a teaching course which came to nothing, so I dont want to start on the next thing until im 1000% sure its what i want.

Topic Miniature mid-life crisis help!!
Posted 14 Apr 2014 11:20

Hi everybody.

Ive not been on for a long while but I really need help and think that the wordly wise, lovely people of Lush might be able to help!

Ive reached a point in my life where I have no idea what to do! Im 24, Ive worked at a coffee shop for 8 years but left to do something else, have a change, earn more money, be more respected etc. Ive got a job at an insurance company in customer services and a bit of admin, been there 6 weeks now and I just know that this isnt for me for a long term career. I dont know what I do want but I sure as hell dont want desks, computer screens, sitting on my ass all day, typing like a mindless zombie. Luckily its a 6 month contract so Im forcing myself to think of other things, and make sure that the next job I get is one I could stay in for a few years, I just dont know what

The other part is my living situation. I still live at home as I know its the most sensible option to save money and hopefully buy a house one day, but Im missing the social, freedom, independent living side of things! I should be able to get wasted, go out and get more wasted, burst through the door at 3am without worrying about waking anyone, not text home everytime I wanna stay out late. I think that if you want something in life you should go and get it, money can always be earnt but time can't. Everyone keeps telling me to stay and save though and I dont want to make the wrong decision.

Soooo there. A bit of a rant and a ask for help really. I have so many options in life now and am terrified of making the wrong one. Whatever job I choose i'll need to be happy in for the next 2/3 years minimum and wherever I choose to live i'll be sacrificing something.

If anyone has any advice for me I'll be so grateful as my family are sick to death of my whining,. Hope there's still a few old faces around!

Topic What are the Most Attractive Interests?
Posted 28 Jan 2013 12:05

I love coming across somebody who is into something unusual like some kind of extreme sport. Other than that I like interests that are similar to mine, similar music, hobbies like cars and if a guy likes cooking thats sexy too

Topic Maxipad company's brilliant response to man's facebook posting.
Posted 18 Oct 2012 12:07

I hope she is the real CEO!!!!

Topic Is a passionate sex life important to you and why?
Posted 18 Oct 2012 12:02

Absolutely! Ive just come out of a very brief 3 weeks 'relationship' but it was the most passionate, romantic, sensual ive had. Made me realise what i've missed out on and what i need in future

Topic after a dispute with your loved one and u r alone now and an opposite gender trys to care u will u a
Posted 18 Oct 2012 08:19

Only if i had decided to break up with loved one and i had a crush/liked the other guy then MAYBE.

Otherwise, somebody trying to score with you after a major row when all you want is a hug is that last thing you need

Topic What is boring in missionary?
Posted 16 Oct 2012 11:25

I actually love watching missionary, although i guess it helps that im a straight female and love watching his hips go!

Topic What is boring in missionary?
Posted 13 Oct 2012 15:04

Oooooh ok well i already do all those things mentioned anyway, just out of my own enthusiasm so thats good to know

Topic What is boring in missionary?
Posted 13 Oct 2012 09:49

This hasnt really answered my question

Topic What is boring in missionary?
Posted 12 Oct 2012 08:39

So you hear alot of guys talking about their worst time was doing missionary with a girl and she just laid there doing nothing.

I totally get why that's boring, but what i want to know is exactly what is classed as boring and what is classed as getting more involved? I dont think im boring, i definitely try not to be but it would be nice to know exactly what to do/what not to do.

Thanks :)

Topic do you like your partner to suck your tits or just caress them?
Posted 09 Oct 2012 09:25

Licked, bitten, sucked, pinched, caressed, massaged, everything!

Topic Uneven booobs!
Posted 15 Sep 2012 14:25

All women have boobs that are not completely identical, one is usually bigger or a slightly different shape or something. Dont worry you're not abnormal.

Topic When you're aroused and walking
Posted 13 Sep 2012 03:22

Yep, i have before, not everytime though. I feel it more when im swollen though, especially after i've cum

Topic New girlfriend and the awkward question of past sexual health.
Posted 12 Sep 2012 13:18

I agree with everything, nothing wrong with asking at all, you have a right to know if she's clean or not and if she uses any birth control.

And like Nikki said, i would respect a guy more if he came to me first and asked about it, rather than when he's about to cum and thinking 'oh god, where do i do it?' (I was on the pill or i wouldnt have allowed anything)

Topic Would you donate your body to science or for organ donation?
Posted 12 Sep 2012 10:57

Im already an organ donor, have been since about the age of 17/18. My brother died a few years ago and parts of his leg muscles went to people, skin, even his corneas. Im not gonna need my body after i die so it might as well go to somebody who needs it rather than be cremated or rotting in the ground.

Topic Pics you like of Men!
Posted 11 Sep 2012 09:31

I watched The Hangover for the first time the other day - barely know what the film was about

Topic Jersey Shore
Posted 09 Sep 2012 12:28

Never seen Jersey Shore, Geordie Shore or the only way is essex and i never intend to! I'd rather rip my own eyes out.

Oh and im from essex and we dont all talk like retards ta :)

Topic Your FIRST ever orgasm.
Posted 09 Sep 2012 12:24

Mine was a good couple of years before i lost my virginity. I had discovered some very soft core stuff on the internet, just two girls kissing, not even naked and it felt good to rub myself and before i knew it i just exploded.... whacked my knee on the desk as i jumped.

Never felt ashamed or guilt after it, just felt right to me

Topic Why Are So Many Girls Lesbian or Bisexual?
Posted 07 Sep 2012 13:29

So many Girls like Lesbian or Bisexual but most boys are doing straight
Why Are So Many Girls Lesbian or Bisexual?

Im not!

However I would suggest that here on Lush, unfortunately, many so called 'bi' or lesbian girls are in effect men masquerading as females. The next bi or lesbian you guys or girls chat to here may be some crusty 55 year old perv just on here for vicarious thrills - at your expense.

And this

Topic Pretty female names
Posted 06 Sep 2012 09:28

Out of those names? Grace

Topic Does girls with glasses (prescription) sexy?
Posted 06 Sep 2012 09:23

I wear glasses to drive and they dont bother me too much but tbh if i had to wear them all the time i'd probably get contacts

Topic Happy Trail
Posted 04 Sep 2012 09:32

It is sexy but NOT when they wear their jeans so low on their hips you can see it and their pelvis. Then i just think 'eww put it away'