About MindSparks


Currently in the wet and rainy state of Washington. I've spent time in California, Arizona, and Illinois as well.

Relationship Status:
Washington, United States
Local Time:
23 Jun 2018 09:23
My favorite Lush pastime is role playing. In fact, don’t bother trying to friend me if you aren’t into it.

So if you are interested in playing out some sort of fantasy let me know! Open to exploring a fantasy space with bright, creative like-minded others (boys or girls).

Yes, I have rules for role playing... if you think you can hang with them then maybe you should say hello!

1. Don't put actions on the other person's character (for instance "you reach out and grab my cock"). If you were making out with somebody you couldn't control their body in the real world, so why try to do it in a role play?

2. Don't take too long to respond (in other words make the role play your focus). If you are typing on your phone don't even bother... if you are a super slow typer or are busy chatting with a dozen other people then it won't work for either of us.

3. Be descriptive.

I'm always looking for collaborative efforts by interested writers. I love first-time stories, MILF, older M with younger F, Dom/sub.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Rope bunny
96% Vanilla
75% Experimentalist
69% Non-monogamist
67% Voyeur
67% Exhibitionist
67% Submissive
64% Primal (Prey)
59% Brat
58% Ageplayer
54% Primal (Hunter)
42% Daddy/Mommy
42% Rigger
42% Slave
39% Pet
34% Switch
21% Boy/Girl
19% Dominant
4% Degradee
4% Master/Mistress
4% Masochist
1% Degrader
1% Owner
0% Sadist
Favorite Books:
Shogun, The Girl With All the Gifts
Favorite Authors:
John Irving, Chuck Palahniuk, Christopher Moore, Neil Gaiman
Favorite Movies:
The Princess Bride (a girl can dream, can't she?)
Favourite TV Shows:
The OA, Stranger Things
Favorite Music:
Radiohead, DeVotchKa, Wilco, Ryan Adams


Date Joined:
10 Nov 2010
Last Visit:
22 Jun 2018
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Topic: Would you go private with the person above you
Posted: 09 Apr 2013 15:15

So mysterious! of course! :)

Topic: Would you slip into bed naked with the person above you?
Posted: 09 Apr 2013 15:14

YES! He's big right?

Topic: Fuck or Pass???
Posted: 17 Dec 2012 20:43

Fuck (after he shaves).

Topic: Cyber Sex
Posted: 20 Oct 2012 21:35

My take on "cyber" is that it is only good if what you are doing is something that can't be done in your real world. This is why I've never done vanilla cyber, where I am who I am every day and it's like missonary-style-fuck-me-after-work-then-lets-go-to-sleep sex. I'll only role play with guys (or girls) who can hold up their end of the story. Sometimes you click and your imagination makes it a fun and novel experience. Sometimes you sit there and think... fuck, I'll never have those 5 minutes of my life again. ;-)

Topic: Fuck or Pass???
Posted: 18 May 2012 12:02


Topic: Favorite Roleplay
Posted: 08 May 2012 20:20

First time with an older man - my first time was soooo awful. Trying to make the memory go away! :)

Topic: do you go for older guys?
Posted: 09 Oct 2011 12:20

Age doesn't matter so much as all the other things... but more than about 15 years in either direction and I find we don't have much to talk about in common.

Topic: What would do with the avatar above you in the shower?
Posted: 08 Oct 2011 11:08

Point out the lime scale and hand him a brush.

Topic: How do you like your guy's hair length?
Posted: 06 Oct 2011 20:57

Each guy i've been with has had different lengths. it all has something to offer. Though I think I like short best.

Topic: Fisting
Posted: 07 Sep 2011 19:38

ummmm. Never thought about it. Never had it done to me. I might try given the right circumstances (bottle of tequila, my partner is a dwarf with exceedingly small hands, and i've just received a case of lidocained lubricant).

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Lover's Rock

Julia The heavens decide to open when I am fifty yards from the door. With a curse, I try to move faster, but it was difficult in the heels I had somehow decided were a good idea to wear that morning. By the time I enter the cafe, I’m soaked. The place is pretty quiet. The lunchtime rush is over and only three tables are occupied: an old man at one, a mother and toddler at another, and...

Added 08 Mar 2017 | Category First Time | Votes 24 | Avg Score 4.95 | Views 4,973 | 17 Comments

Swim Coach (chapter 12)

I'm surprised by what flows out as I write the story. Yes, it started out being a very autobiographical account, however has now crossed in to a strictly fictional space. I'm sure a few years of analysis will help me sort it all out! You've almost got to read the first parts of this story to understand what's going on, but for those with short attentions, I'd suggest starting at chapter...

Added 03 Apr 2012 | Category Novels | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 4,211 | 6 Comments

Lightning and Thunder

“Fuck. This heat is unreal.” I think to myself. The sun has been relentless today, baking the dead calm air into miles high thunderheads. I can feel the air around me growing heavier with humidity. Electricity is building in the clouds west of the pool where I’m lifeguarding. Making eight dollars an hour, sitting in a lifeguard’s chair, yelling at punky kids and developing my future age...

Added 11 Jun 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 23 | Avg Score 4.95 | Views 9,775 | 12 Comments

Blind Date

I seem to have a thing for "strangers". Many of my stories involve first "very hot" encounters, one time encounters, spontaneous encounters, no attachments, nothing too serious... I knew him the moment our eyes met. I was more than pleased and sensed that we would connect in a most delightful way.  When we first spoke on the phone I was utterly surprised at the affect his voice had...

Added 13 Apr 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 10 | Avg Score 4.8 | Views 7,852 | 4 Comments

Becky and David

Author’s Note: This is by far my favorite collaborative story (my contributions are in focus largely on Becky - the italic bits). I really loved the way it developed and that it just didn’t end with mutual orgasms or falling asleep. There are days when things work, and there are days when things don't. David knew he'd have to come to terms with this, but the situation since he'd...

Added 21 Jan 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 8 | Avg Score 4.75 | Views 11,108 | 3 Comments


Percussion There are these transcendent moments in my life, moments when my consciousness expands beyond the normal, day to day concerns regarding the next patient, what to eat for dinner, toe jam, the fucked-up state of our Union. Most of these moments have happened during times of intense physical exertion of some sort. I think my first happened when I was playing ball in high school -...

Added 26 Apr 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 2,569 | 7 Comments

Swim Coach (chapter 8)

I got up, grabbed my new letterman’s jacket from the arm chair in the living room and crossed over to the bathroom. Inside the bathroom I took a moment to straighten my hair and then to reapply my lipstick which had mostly been kissed off on Matt’s lips. I felt so wonderful, feminine and graceful; I felt wanted. I looked into the mirror and unzipped the skirt, letting it fall to the floor...

Added 16 Nov 2010 | Category First Time | Votes 25 | Avg Score 4.91 | Views 20,380 | 8 Comments

A Good Idea (Chap 1)

It sounded like a good idea at the time. But now she wasn’t so sure. She met Nick online, on one of those dating sites, and they had met a few times and she was definitely attracted to him and the feeling appeared to be mutual. As she was new to dating once again, having taken about a year off, she wanted to move slowly, not interested in just jumping in the sack. First, she wasn’t on the...

Added 30 Mar 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 6 | Avg Score 4.83 | Views 3,202 | 5 Comments

Swim Coach (Chap 1)

I think back to my days on my swim team with a great deal of fondness. It was a magical time in my life, with the triumphs and tragedies of my teen years seeming to be captured by what was happening on the swim team. My best friends were on the team and we became young women and men during those years and experienced all the pains and all the joys of that time together. It is often only...

Added 17 Jan 2011 | Category Novels | Votes 21 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 11,577 | 11 Comments

Swim Coach (Chap 2)

I told my mom about my presents and my thoughts about getting a more adult haircut. With a wistful look on her face (that I didn’t understand then, but do now) she suggested that we make an appointment at her favorite day spa in downtown Chicago and spend Saturday there together - a girl’s day out as it were. I think I paused for just a second too long when considering her offer; before I...

Added 18 Jan 2011 | Category Novels | Votes 13 | Avg Score 4.77 | Views 10,228 | 6 Comments

Stories Coauthored By MindSparks


Alec had just finished working with a mother to get some shots of her six month-old baby girl. As he walked into his office he wondered how many baby pictures he had taken in his thirty years as a professional photographer. He reminded himself he shouldn’t complain about anyone that still used a photographer. With the number of cameras available to people now, it was a wonder he had...

Added 27 Apr 2016 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 53 | Avg Score 5 | Views 26,731 | 25 Comments

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I miss you, our chats.. and so much more xxxx

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