Forum posts made by ravyn

Topic how do u get a girl to relax during sex when shes tense?
Posted 22 Apr 2013 11:21



Topic Collared submissives
Posted 22 Apr 2013 00:30

Topic Bondage pictures!
Posted 22 Apr 2013 00:29

Topic BDSM 101
Posted 22 Apr 2013 00:23

If you see yourself as a slave but prefer to be called something else... then aren't you still a slave, just by another name?

does not a rose by another name smell as sweet?

Again, I disagree and we will just have to chalk it up to that :)

Topic BDSM 101
Posted 21 Apr 2013 17:20

Dom/mes & subs (may be either 24/7, part-time or even just occasional play referred to as "scenes"), they generally have considerable knowledge about BDSM. I don't feel those who are Dom/mes & subs are specifically lower on a BDSM scale... they, IMO, just don't choose to take things to such an extreme as a Master/slave relationship.

I respectfully disagree with this part of your posting and yes I do realize that its your opinion and this is mine. A submissive can have the same desire and resolve as a slave but just prefer to not be referred to as a slave. Just because I do not like that term does not mean that I cannot live out a 24/7 D/s relationship to any extreme. It can be just as extreme and intense as any Master/slave relationship with the choice of being referred to as a submissive and not a slave.

Topic Why is girl-girl erotica so hot?!!
Posted 20 Apr 2013 18:49

Girl on girl does nothing for me at all. I would much rather see two men then a naked woman or two or however many. So to answer your question, its not hot at all.

Topic Accent
Posted 20 Apr 2013 15:03

Italian and Australian accents are the two that I find incredibly sexy.

Topic BDSM Movies anyone??
Posted 20 Apr 2013 14:58

A Dangerous Method with Keira Knightley, Viggo Mortensen and Michael Fassbender 2011. I enjoyed this film overall but then I enjoy the mind and what makes it tick. Its gives a lot of insight into Carl Jung and Sigmund Freud as well as touching on her need for punishment.

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 20 Apr 2013 14:52

He is barely a week old on Lush, welcome :). So far he is very forum active and seems to be making his way around here quite nicely. He has a nice avatar and his bio is filled out. Kudos for that.

Topic In your Relationship...
Posted 18 Apr 2013 00:35

I am a mother of two so outwardly I am very much in control, but my true inner self is very much a different person.

Topic Dominate or to be dominated or pass the above person?
Posted 18 Apr 2013 00:16


Topic Interesting article
Posted 18 Apr 2013 00:11

Status should have nothing to do with it, you can't help you fall in love with. Yes they do say that you can just as easily fall in love with a rich man as to a poor one, but in either case if there is nothing there, no connection, I don't care how much money one has it doesn't make them anymore appealing.

Topic Been spyed
Posted 18 Apr 2013 00:08

How would I know if I'm being spied on? If I know someone's watching, then it's not spying.

LOL Dani you are such a smartass :)

Topic Tie me up and abuse me??
Posted 18 Apr 2013 00:07

Who will volunteer for this??

It would help if you were a bit clearer, and be careful what you wish for.

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 18 Apr 2013 00:05

Has something nice to say about everyone which is a nice quality. He is very active in the forums as well and I am running out of things to say about his profile lol

Topic What do you do in real life as opposed to online?
Posted 18 Apr 2013 00:02

I am an office manager part-time, I attend college full-time majoring in Criminal Justice and I am a mother of two.

Topic Shyness regarding masturbation.
Posted 17 Apr 2013 23:59

I don't know if its so much embarrassment for some, it may just be a personal thing is all.

Topic Collared submissives
Posted 16 Apr 2013 19:14

Topic Toys and Bondage Gear
Posted 15 Apr 2013 22:34

i so want the teal jem stone Embarassed hint hint

Me too, I want a purple stone. Haha don't hint to me, hint to your Master :)

Topic Toys and Bondage Gear
Posted 15 Apr 2013 18:25

Based on your recommendation, I just purchased the one on the left. Embarassed

I hope you enjoy it as much as I do mine. :)

Topic Aggressive vs Dom
Posted 15 Apr 2013 00:21

I will end communication with a Dom who speaks to me as if I belong to him before I have agreed to such a relationship. Just because I am A sub that does not mean I am YOUR sub. I prefer Doms who are patient and wait for me to offer my submission to them. This tends to weed out the abusers. They make some stupid comment about me not really being a submissive and then they go on their merry way prowling for a weaker submissive.

This happens ALL the time, especially here on Lush.......

Topic New Badge?
Posted 13 Apr 2013 21:49

I disagree. There are some excellent writers who would never write an incest story despite the popularity of that category here because it is abhorrent to them. There are other subjects where we lack knowledge or interest. For example, I am not interested in the supernatural and don't know enough about cross-dressing to write about it. My real objection is that I think that simply covering all of the categories is not an achievement. It has nothing to do with the quality of the writing like an Editor's Pick. I think that we should award excellence and not encourage writing that simply fills a quota but may have no other redeeming quality.

I agree with this.

Topic Blow Jobs: Balls or No Balls?
Posted 13 Apr 2013 19:06

If he enjoys the sensation then my mouth, tongue and hands will be all over them. Turning him on and making him moan to my touches just fuels my desire to please him in any way he wishes.

Topic Does it turn you on if a man is forceful with you in the bedroom?
Posted 13 Apr 2013 18:12

If the man is confident, strong, exudes that raw Dominant sex appeal and knows how to handle me, yes it is indeed extremely hot.

Topic RACK vs SSC
Posted 12 Apr 2013 23:19

thats one way of putting it

One could say an uninformed or judgmental way

Topic RACK vs SSC
Posted 12 Apr 2013 14:45

I would imagine most level headed people see it for what it is: an abusive relationship or self-harm by proxy.

Perfect for control freaks and adrenaline junkies, not so good for their victims - and yes, that is the right term for anyone in the passive (I won't even call it submissive) role in that "relationship"

Am I to understand you correctly, that anyone into the BDSM lifestyle is in an abusive relationship or into self harm by proxy?

Topic Aggressive vs Dom
Posted 12 Apr 2013 14:43

i could never give myself to someone if there wasn't more to it then simply the roles of Dom(me) and sub. that's me, obviously, but i do scratch my head when i see others doing it. this, more then any other relationship, requires SO much trust. it goes beyond just a spark for me. there has to be friendship first. i've been in several bdsm relationships. the ones that work, the one that is working now, that has been working for over a year, is based on friendship and genuine care. the ones that are just based on sex, like most relationships just based on sex, usually fade when the couple finds nothing else in common. if a Dom(me) doesn't genuinely care for their sub, isn't doing this out of wanting to fulfil their subs needs, then it's already broken. bdsm relationships are NOT about being selfish - they are about being selfless. my former Mistress, now my sub, taught me that. she's a very wise little kitty. i'm her Mistress, now, because that's what SHE needs and i do it because i care about her needs more than my own (not that i'm not getting a LOT of enjoyment out of this myself. mmmm).

I agree Rachel the D/s relationships that for in the matter of hours on here make me shake my head in disbelief. That is nothing more the the causal hookup for sex or roleplay. NO relationship can form in the matter of hours although many think differently on here. Ones submission is a gift and should only be given to someone whom cares and loves the one offering it. It is something that one receiving it should cherish deeply and protect that gift with everything they have. That can only come with time, trust, communication and genuine desire. I agree that it starts with a friendship and builds from there, whether it be online or in person, at least that how things work for me.

Topic Dom/Sub: Is that all there really is to you?
Posted 10 Apr 2013 22:02

Keep nibbling on my tail Pez, you're about to bite off more than you can chew.


(once again, I am typing in internetese vernacular and you're attempting to correct my intentionally flawed grammar, while missing an apostrophe on one simple word?)

You insult yourself well enough, without any assistance from me.

Lets not turn a good discussion thread into this. Let those who want to discuss this topic in earnest do so :)

Topic Missionary Sex
Posted 10 Apr 2013 12:19

I personally think that missionary is my favourite, not too many positions offer you so many options!

1) You stare into your lovers eyes as you slide in and out of her, stopping at times to kiss her lips, neck and shoulders. Taking your time to tease or just slide all the way in. You let her know just how good this feels and how sexy she making at it's finest!

2) The speed and intensity increase, you know it's difficult for your woman to cum through penetration alone so you "take the matters into your own hands". You switch from making love with her, go sliding between her legs and pleasuring her orally. You bring her to the very cusp of her orgasm to slide back up and start fucking her again. Your pace quickens, feeling your orgasm building. You can't hold back as she squeezes your cock and explode into her, knowing she hasn't cum yet you make your way between her legs and eat her out to a mind blowing orgasm!

3) Rough, raw fucking tonight, your balls slapping off of her pussy but need the feeling to go deeper into her. You raise her legs and place them on your shoulders, and tilt her hips upward. The sensation is amazing and you place your hand over her throat. You tell her how much of a dirty girl she is and scream in delight of just how fucking amazing this feels. You both finish and collapse next to each other on the bed and start to cuddle letting each other know how much you love each other......

Well there's more but that's a few of MY reasons as to why I like missionary. drunken

Very nice description. I to love it for what you've described plus feeling the weight of his body pinning mine beneath him is such a turn on.

Topic Public Handjobs
Posted 10 Apr 2013 12:12

In a movie theater and in a parked car.