Forum posts made by ravyn

Topic what r ur limits?
Posted 20 Oct 2013 22:20

Mouthy broads make me reach my limit pretty quickly.

Oh honey if you thought that was me being mouthy, you clearly do not know me :)

Topic what r ur limits?
Posted 19 Oct 2013 21:50

It would be most helpful if you were a tad bit more specific in your inquiry.

Topic Bondage pictures!
Posted 02 Oct 2013 15:51

Topic strangers
Posted 02 Oct 2013 11:25

Only if his first name was Jason and his last name was Statham. clown

Hell yeah I agree with you there!!!!!

Topic What to do?
Posted 01 Oct 2013 11:52

Im a baby girl submissive. My question is how do you deal/react when a Dom (is not your Dom just a Dom) starts accusing you of things that you never did.

How do you fight back with out stepping overboard?

What you have to realize is that there are so many on here who like to play the role. On Lush that is what 99% of the so called Dom’s are doing. Just because someone says they are a Dom/Master does not make it so. Trust your instincts and you won’t go wrong in dealing with them.

Here is my opinion on this and you can take it for whatever you wish. If you and your Dom have discussed things and you know what you can do and can’t then anything that any other man on here says to you does not matter. The block button will be the best friend you could have. When those men try and exert their “power” over you, just laugh at them and block them. Trust me, if you laugh at them and they get mad, it’s a sure sign they are nothing more than a wannabe. Or if you are like me, have a little fun with them first. Any true Dom would not treat you in that manner and if they do, just merely remind them that whatever arrangement, agreement or understanding you and YOUR Dom have is between the two of you and it’s not for him or anyone else to be questioning.

Just because you are submissive does not mean you have to be a doormat for others. You still have a mind and a voice; don’t ever be afraid to use it especially in your own defense. If your Dom does not have an issue with what you are doing, then you really have nothing to worry about.

Topic What to do?
Posted 30 Sep 2013 21:18

He probably thought/realized you were leaving a trail of crumbs leading to your cookie for the other doms to follow.

Jack, be nice. Throwing insults to the OP is not really constructive. Her question is a valid one and worth discussion by those who have something constructive to say on it.

Topic That Perfect Someone..
Posted 25 Sep 2013 20:00

If you're not with them then they aren't the perfect person for you, no?

For me I thought a girl was perfect but then I realized she didn't think I was so perfect. To be honest I don't think there are perfect people for anyone anyway. If you keep trying to get that perfect person and before you know it your life will pass you by and you'll end up alone .

Okay Jack lol hell is freezing over. I agree with you for once.

Topic Vibrators
Posted 25 Sep 2013 19:46

If there was anything I disliked about my vibrator, I wouldn't own/use it.

^^^ this

Topic How different are Fiction doms from real doms?
Posted 22 Sep 2013 20:32

Oh boy where do I start. Dani said a lot of the same things I would. The fakes are so damn easy to spot. Occasionally one might slip through ones radar but that could be more about ones feelings for the person rather than their domination over them. Many factors play into the D/s relationship. But anyone who pays attention can spot the wanna-be's a mile away and Lush is full of them. Its rather amusing at times to observe them in their habitats here on Lush. Those who are in your face about them being a Dom, 9 out of 10 times aren't.

As for the books we read, its merely the writers perspective or perhaps experiences or maybe even desires they may have had or have. 50 Shades is by NO means reality it was nothing more than a good read, for me at least. I took it for what it was a fictional story. A masochist will see it differently than the average reader, a Dom will view it differently as well. Submissive's/slaves will also view it differently depending on what type they may be.

As Dani suggested spend time in the various rooms on Lush and you will be able to answer your own question in a short amount of time, especially if you take the time to read profiles of those you observe. I have personally witnessed this as well as experienced the sole called "fakes" when they try and approach me. Its quite amusing :)

Topic the ultimate relationship level..
Posted 18 Sep 2013 15:39

Lol. Revange! Love ridiculous games. He has yet to beat my 'honey, I let the kids paint your sports car' prank. I took pics if their artwork, and used my photo edit program to layer it on his vehicle's photo. It was pretty damn real looking, took a long time - totally worth it.

^^ That is just awesome :)

Topic Collared submissives
Posted 12 Sep 2013 16:23

Topic Pit Sex
Posted 12 Sep 2013 15:28

Wow......Now I can say I've heard it all.

Topic Bondage pictures!
Posted 11 Sep 2013 14:23

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 11 Sep 2013 11:20

He is friendly and very active in our Lush forum community. Nice man who is kind to everyone.

Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 11 Sep 2013 11:15


Topic 1
Posted 11 Sep 2013 10:50

I usually grab what my hand touches first, unless something I'm wearing requires a specific type of panties or I want to wear a specific kind of bra...then it's the first I grab of that choice. Sometimes I'll feel like matching that day, so that's what I'll do. Other than that, it's not something I plan ahead or over think. for the do you share? Um no I don't thats disgusting.

Topic Fifty Shades of Grey
Posted 10 Sep 2013 18:18

This is the topic that doesn't end.

And it goes on and on dear friends.

One person started writing it because of what it was.

And people kept responding forever just because.

This is the topic that doesn't end......

Why should it have to end? For some the books were just good entertainment. As I posted before in this thread I enjoyed all 3 books. No reason why this as a work of fiction can't be enjoyed or disliked and discussed like any other topic or book might be on here. Just my opinion of course.

Topic My girlfriend shows interest in bondage
Posted 10 Sep 2013 15:35

Nobody can tell you what you should do to her while shes tied up. You both need to figure out what you want and expect from this new found interest in bondage. Showing an interest in bondage is a far cry from being ready to be tied up or anything else BDSM related you might be thinking.

She is the best one to ask these questions of not a bunch of strangers on here. She better than anyone knows what she may want to try and what she doesn't. There needs to be clear and concise communication between you two in order to make this as safe as possible for her and I say that since you seem to be the wanting to act in the Dominant role.

Start out slow and play with rope bondage or cuffs. As for the toys, only you two can decide what is best for you to experiment with. The best advice I can offer you is to LISTEN to her and never push past anything she says is a no (as in a hard limit for her) and to use a safe word that she can say when she wants things to stop immediately. Consensual and safety are a must.

If your looking for explicit details of a sexual nature from the BDSM community then I suggest you go read a story here on Lush.

I hope you do your research and do lots of reading before you start down this path. It can be amazing if done in the right way and it can be disastrous if not. Good luck to you both.

Topic How to pick a Master?
Posted 05 Sep 2013 18:02 can see it in their eyes...why go out shopping, when one could be next door. BDSM is not about play, its about a role...not played.

I disagree, its not about a 'role'. A D/s relationship is about who you are fundamentally. Yes some out there like to roleplay it and nothing more and that's fine if that is what you are after. Finding a Master or a submissive/slave takes a long time, or should. You can't not know someone's heart and mind and agree to a D/s relationship, or any relationship for that matter.

Topic Fifty Shades of Grey fans launch online petition protesting film casting
Posted 05 Sep 2013 16:06

I think Ravyn should be in the movie

Haha, not.....but thank you for the confidence there Zina :)

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 05 Sep 2013 15:55

He's fairly new to our community here, he is an author and has a well filled out profile. Welcome to Lush Alex :)

Topic Fifty Shades of Grey fans launch online petition protesting film casting
Posted 05 Sep 2013 15:48

I like the choice for Christian Grey. Charlie Hunnam does very well in his role on SOA. I think he has what it takes to pull of the arrogance and Dominance that is the character of Christian Grey. I can't speak much for the female choice, I am not familiar with her prior works.

I am looking forward to seeing what they do with the film. I have read the 50 Shades trilogy and loved it. Of course I read it for nothing more than enjoyment. Is it a BDSM bible? No, is it the way the D/s lifestyle is, of course not. Well for some perhaps but its not for me to judge. I read them for pure fiction enjoyment and nothing more. Each book left me wanting to read the next. I can't wait to see how the movie play out and can only hope they do right by the plot and not butcher it like so many books turned movies do.

Will either actor due their part justice? Only time will tell. Actor's are suppose to be able to take a role that perhaps isn't normally them, and pull it off. My expectations are set high since I have read them and I hope that whomever they cast in the roles can make me believe they are those characters. If they can, bravo. If not........potential box office flop.

Topic What is your experience with affairs?
Posted 04 Sep 2013 19:48

My original post still stands .... I would highly NOT recommend an affair because someone always gets hurt. Save your heartache. But by god, don't judge when you haven't been married for 2o years, have not had the experience and certainly cannot understand the complexities of marriage, family, obligations and other stressors.

I think that most people intend on honouring their marriage vows .... but sometimes what happens in life is not planned nor expected. It's reality.

I agree with you PA, yes I know shocking lol. It is very easy to judge others. Unless you have walked a mile in one's shoes, or own a crystal ball and can see everything, NOBODY has a clue what goes into any decision made by either party in a relationship. Right, wrong or indifferent, ultimately its their decision to make and its not for anyone else to judge.

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 04 Sep 2013 16:50

Alright you two, that's enough.

Topic Pity Fuck
Posted 03 Sep 2013 09:38

I've never heard of 'pity fucks' either, 'obligitory' fucks, yes but not pity.

Topic Glass or Silicone
Posted 03 Sep 2013 09:34

Without a doubt, glass. You can either heat or cool them, they are easy to clean and best of all, they feel the best (next to the real thing of course).

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 02 Sep 2013 23:29

I was giving advice. Being helpful like.

Uh huh........and that statement I bolded.....I for one take offense to. Not everyone believes whats written or shown via images on a profile. Geez Jack, beat_deadhorse

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 02 Sep 2013 21:34

It's because the tards in this forum section only think you're a real master if you have a guy wearing a suit as your avatar. Like have some dark haired suit guy as your avatar, change your name to "master-amnesia" or "amnesia-whispers" or something like that, have some rules in your profile, a gallery of generic black and white bdsm inspired photography and refer to bdsm as the lifestyle then all the people in this forum section will think you are a real master. follow it up by being as corny as can be too. Like if they ask you, "do you just spank bitches whenever?". You should reply, "no, I spank them where and when they want only to help guide them into their journey of submission. The satisfaction I get from it is seeing her blossom as a sub. And don't call them bitches, they are nice young ladies. Be a gentleman."

Do that then you'll be a master amongst tards.

I know you are trying to make a point here Jack, but seriously???

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 30 Aug 2013 18:43

Yeah, looking at thousands of responses on a daily basis makes me think that too. Phew. I thought I was the only one.

Seems as though we might have a new attention whore here? And no I don't mean you :)

Topic Subs read this now.
Posted 30 Aug 2013 15:07