Forum posts made by ravyn

Topic Fifty Shades of Grey
Posted 10 Sep 2013 18:18

This is the topic that doesn't end.

And it goes on and on dear friends.

One person started writing it because of what it was.

And people kept responding forever just because.

This is the topic that doesn't end......



Why should it have to end? For some the books were just good entertainment. As I posted before in this thread I enjoyed all 3 books. No reason why this as a work of fiction can't be enjoyed or disliked and discussed like any other topic or book might be on here. Just my opinion of course.

Topic My girlfriend shows interest in bondage
Posted 10 Sep 2013 15:35

Nobody can tell you what you should do to her while shes tied up. You both need to figure out what you want and expect from this new found interest in bondage. Showing an interest in bondage is a far cry from being ready to be tied up or anything else BDSM related you might be thinking.

She is the best one to ask these questions of not a bunch of strangers on here. She better than anyone knows what she may want to try and what she doesn't. There needs to be clear and concise communication between you two in order to make this as safe as possible for her and I say that since you seem to be the wanting to act in the Dominant role.

Start out slow and play with rope bondage or cuffs. As for the toys, only you two can decide what is best for you to experiment with. The best advice I can offer you is to LISTEN to her and never push past anything she says is a no (as in a hard limit for her) and to use a safe word that she can say when she wants things to stop immediately. Consensual and safety are a must.

If your looking for explicit details of a sexual nature from the BDSM community then I suggest you go read a story here on Lush.

I hope you do your research and do lots of reading before you start down this path. It can be amazing if done in the right way and it can be disastrous if not. Good luck to you both.

Topic How to pick a Master?
Posted 05 Sep 2013 18:02

Masters..you can see it in their eyes...why go out shopping, when one could be next door. BDSM is not about play, its about a role...not played.


I disagree, its not about a 'role'. A D/s relationship is about who you are fundamentally. Yes some out there like to roleplay it and nothing more and that's fine if that is what you are after. Finding a Master or a submissive/slave takes a long time, or should. You can't not know someone's heart and mind and agree to a D/s relationship, or any relationship for that matter.

Topic Fifty Shades of Grey fans launch online petition protesting film casting
Posted 05 Sep 2013 16:06

I think Ravyn should be in the movie


Haha, not.....but thank you for the confidence there Zina :)

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 05 Sep 2013 15:55

He's fairly new to our community here, he is an author and has a well filled out profile. Welcome to Lush Alex :)

Topic Fifty Shades of Grey fans launch online petition protesting film casting
Posted 05 Sep 2013 15:48

I like the choice for Christian Grey. Charlie Hunnam does very well in his role on SOA. I think he has what it takes to pull of the arrogance and Dominance that is the character of Christian Grey. I can't speak much for the female choice, I am not familiar with her prior works.

I am looking forward to seeing what they do with the film. I have read the 50 Shades trilogy and loved it. Of course I read it for nothing more than enjoyment. Is it a BDSM bible? No, is it the way the D/s lifestyle is, of course not. Well for some perhaps but its not for me to judge. I read them for pure fiction enjoyment and nothing more. Each book left me wanting to read the next. I can't wait to see how the movie play out and can only hope they do right by the plot and not butcher it like so many books turned movies do.

Will either actor due their part justice? Only time will tell. Actor's are suppose to be able to take a role that perhaps isn't normally them, and pull it off. My expectations are set high since I have read them and I hope that whomever they cast in the roles can make me believe they are those characters. If they can, bravo. If not........potential box office flop.

Topic What is your experience with affairs?
Posted 04 Sep 2013 19:48



My original post still stands .... I would highly NOT recommend an affair because someone always gets hurt. Save your heartache. But by god, don't judge when you haven't been married for 2o years, have not had the experience and certainly cannot understand the complexities of marriage, family, obligations and other stressors.

I think that most people intend on honouring their marriage vows .... but sometimes what happens in life is not planned nor expected. It's reality.



I agree with you PA, yes I know shocking lol. It is very easy to judge others. Unless you have walked a mile in one's shoes, or own a crystal ball and can see everything, NOBODY has a clue what goes into any decision made by either party in a relationship. Right, wrong or indifferent, ultimately its their decision to make and its not for anyone else to judge.

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 04 Sep 2013 16:50

Alright you two, that's enough.

Topic Pity Fuck
Posted 03 Sep 2013 09:38

I've never heard of 'pity fucks' either, 'obligitory' fucks, yes but not pity.

Topic Glass or Silicone
Posted 03 Sep 2013 09:34

Without a doubt, glass. You can either heat or cool them, they are easy to clean and best of all, they feel the best (next to the real thing of course).

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 02 Sep 2013 23:29



I was giving advice. Being helpful like.

Uh huh........and that statement I bolded.....I for one take offense to. Not everyone believes whats written or shown via images on a profile. Geez Jack, beat_deadhorse

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 02 Sep 2013 21:34



It's because the tards in this forum section only think you're a real master if you have a guy wearing a suit as your avatar. Like have some dark haired suit guy as your avatar, change your name to "master-amnesia" or "amnesia-whispers" or something like that, have some rules in your profile, a gallery of generic black and white bdsm inspired photography and refer to bdsm as the lifestyle then all the people in this forum section will think you are a real master. follow it up by being as corny as can be too. Like if they ask you, "do you just spank bitches whenever?". You should reply, "no, I spank them where and when they want only to help guide them into their journey of submission. The satisfaction I get from it is seeing her blossom as a sub. And don't call them bitches, they are nice young ladies. Be a gentleman."

Do that then you'll be a master amongst tards.

I know you are trying to make a point here Jack, but seriously???

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 30 Aug 2013 18:43



Yeah, looking at thousands of responses on a daily basis makes me think that too. Phew. I thought I was the only one.

Seems as though we might have a new attention whore here? And no I don't mean you :)

Topic Subs read this now.
Posted 30 Aug 2013 15:07



Poser.

Amen!!!!

Topic Doms only, Subs are ordered not to look
Posted 30 Aug 2013 13:41

If you are a sub and you are reading this, you fail as a submissive.

If you are a dom and you are reading this, if you look down i have a subs read this thread. This is testing the waters for an idea i have, of starting a little scavenger hunt for subs.

Subs will be instructed to find pictures, look at certain profiles, read certain storys. Varies things, this is just good fun. Subs need attention, need affection and need to be played with. I want to see if any doms are interested with any ideas or what not.

Now we just gotta find some subs..........


Wow is all I have to say........This is seen as nothing more than a joke to those who actively live the lifestyle. Good luck in your scavenger hunt, most times that is a party game at a childs birthday party. IMO no submissive worth her salt would want to participate in such a thing to begin with. The forums are an active place already incase you might have missed that. These types of threads will just get you responses you are not seeking, unless you are seeking ridicule and laughs then well done :)

Topic Newbie chat room
Posted 26 Aug 2013 22:15

A newb room is a great idea. It does take a while to get used to chat rooms. I have to agree, it is like the first day at school all over again! Chat room etiquette is a challenge to grasp hold off!


The trick is to keep going back :) segregating the newbies from the seasoned isn't the answer. Just join a room and jump right in you'll be surprised how welcoming some can be. If you see me in any room, don't hesitate to say hi, I guarantee I will say hello back!!!!

Topic Looking thread concern
Posted 26 Aug 2013 20:57

thanks for the support, sorry for wasting your time

No time wasted :)

Topic Looking thread concern
Posted 26 Aug 2013 18:46

I am a dom, looking for a sub.

I have concerns about the looking thread.

Very few people where sincere with there post, most of it was garbage, ten pages of garbage.

I spent the last seven hours sifting through the garbage to mail the few subs i found interesting.

Is it possible for a new thread to be posted, maybe have some requirements.


Those who are seriously looking will and have taken the time to sift through them. Posting requirements on a site like this is a hard thing to do. Not everyone is looking for the same thing and this thread is open to all who are seeking a Master or Mistress. Anyone worth finding, is worth the look :) Good luck in your search.

Topic Newbie chat room
Posted 24 Aug 2013 20:31

I am sorry some of you are finding it hard to be the chat rooms. Not all of the rooms are horrible and can be quite fun. A couple of things I would like to share is that make sure when you go into a room you try and interact, I know it can be intimidating to some but it really is the best way to get to know others and let the room know you are there to chat. The chat room lurkers are the ones that most do not like, people come into a room and sit and say nothing. If you come across a rude member, just right click their name in the user list and block them.

That feature will become your best friend on here. Most of our members come here to enjoy themselves but you will come across the occasional drama queens as well as the cliques that tend to form. There is a lot of fun to be had in the chat rooms it just may take you time to find the one you enjoy the most. Also, you can create your own, sometimes that is a great way to break the ice. If you run into a problem while in a room, just click the person with a hammer icon above where you type, see which moderator is online and just drop one of us a line. We are here to help if you need it.

Above, all relax and try and enjoy what our wonderful site has to offer :)

Topic Would you go private with the person above you
Posted 23 Aug 2013 18:55

Perhaps :) I believe we would one or two things we could discuss.

Topic How would you rate the avatar above, bland.. good.. funny... or perfect?
Posted 23 Aug 2013 16:16

good...would get a perfect if it was really him.


Him? I am not a him.

Topic Would you go private with the person above you
Posted 23 Aug 2013 16:15

If he needed assistance with site yes.

Topic How would you rate the avatar above, bland.. good.. funny... or perfect?
Posted 23 Aug 2013 16:11

Perfect, very sexy indeed.

Topic Would you meet someone from Lush in person?
Posted 23 Aug 2013 16:02

Yes I would and have. Was it for sex? God no lol since it was another woman (and I don't do women). You can make some great friends on here and meeting them just makes the friendship that much better. A few bottles of wine and a bottle of whiskey later we had tons of good laughs and conversation.

Topic hey,
Posted 23 Aug 2013 15:51

Always make sure you're having sex with her at the time though. Dont just slap women whilst eating a kit-kat bar.....they don't like that kind of thing.

Well duh, you'll leave a chocolate hand print....geesh.

Topic Collared submissives
Posted 23 Aug 2013 13:21

http://31.media.tumblr.com/faf15f98312169631af4a4ae0eedd717/tumblr_mje06cN6S21ruic7fo1_400.jpg

Topic Bondage pictures!
Posted 23 Aug 2013 13:20

http://31.media.tumblr.com/79f419de0ca04e0837646e88e71606a0/tumblr_mqcz7tytHu1ry2rtco1_500.jpg

Topic Have you ever complemented a guy on his cock size?
Posted 23 Aug 2013 12:44

Of course - it's one of the best ways to get into a man's good books!!

I have to disagree slightly there, taking the cock in your hand and then into your mouth, showing him with your mouth exactly how you feel about him and his cock is a much better way to get into his books, if thats your intention that is. As they say, or should say, one feeling is worth 1,000 words :) What better way to compliment him on his cock then by sucking it in ways that no other has before.

Topic Lush Auction: Would you buy the person above you and what would you do?
Posted 23 Aug 2013 09:46

I'd buy her and send her to Ardent with plenty of wax and toys.

Topic How would you rate the avatar above, bland.. good.. funny... or perfect?
Posted 23 Aug 2013 09:44

Perfect, I love a man in a suit.