Topic What's Your Biggest Fear During Sex?
22 May 2013 13:27
Feeling a hand that isn't mine or my partner's. I've seen way too many horror movies, obviously.
Yes you have lol that is creepy
Topic Fake Profiles??
22 May 2013 13:22
If your looking for 'looks' alone then go find some images or a porn clip to watch. Why are we expected to put up actual images of who we are? Privacy still has some meaning to some of us. My avatar is not me nor is my gallery, its filled with images that I happen to find sexy or desirable to my tastes and wish to share them. Does that make me fake? No it does not. My bio states that none of these images are of me. Does anyone really read bios? Some do. Some people including myself have reasons for not using the 'real' us in our avatars due to jobs, family members etc. Those we feel we can trust can view images once they become a friend on the site. That is the beauty of being able to set who sees things and not make them avaialble to every tom dick and harry who may stumble upon our profiles.
I get so many men who think my avatar is me and I repeatedly tell whomever lacks the fortitude to read my profile that its not me. I see nothing wrong with using google based images as avatars on the internet like this as long as one is not trying to pass that image off as themselves. That is very deceitful, and to be honest very easy most times to spot.
With that said, try getting to know the person on a deeper level then what their avatar picture may or may not look like. Life is not all about looks it should come down to the person you are first and foremost and especially on a site like this as Sprite said, you learn through words, how one speaks and the things they say, that will truly show is is fake and who is real. Let that speak and not the avatar you see.
And of course if all you are after is a quick choke and spit then by all means peruse all the avatar and galleries you wish and happy stroking :)
Topic Question for all: What are you thankful for?
22 May 2013 13:14
First and foremost I am most thankful for my two amazing kids and for the wonderful adults they've become. I am also thankful for my health and my family and friends.
Topic Where do you wear - your heart?
22 May 2013 13:10
On a fob at the end of the chain to my pocket watch, just as any gentleman does.
I'm not sure the others got the same memo as you.
Topic Ever wanted to know your personality type?
22 May 2013 13:05
Extroverted (E) 58.97% Introverted (I) 41.03%
Sensing (S) 61.9% Intuitive (N) 38.1%
Feeling (F) 60.53% Thinking (T) 39.47%
Judging (J) 69.44% Perceiving (P) 30.56%
Your type is: ESFJ
ESFJ - "Seller". Most sociable of all types. Nurturer of harmony. Outstanding host or hostesses. 12.3% of total population
Topic Support Gold membership....
22 May 2013 10:27
Very nice thread Summer, and you are correct Lush is a very worthwhile site to contribute to.
Topic Where do you wear - your heart?
22 May 2013 10:26
Mine is securely lockd in a box, which is locked in a safe which is surrounded by 50' high walls of steel. At this point, nobody has or will have access to it anytime soon.
Topic How do I tell my wife of 20 years that I am interested in sucking cock and more with men and that I have already done it.
22 May 2013 10:13
There's more to it than her getting over you being bisexual. It also involves you telling her that you want to have sex with another person. If you've always been monogamous and she sees that as an important part of marriage, this is the bit that has the potential to be more hurtful and upsetting than you saying that you crave cock.
Imagine telling her that lately you have the strong desire to sample new pussy. It has the potential to evoke that same knee-jerk reaction that spirals into insecurity, doubt and suspicion as she now starts wondering what you're doing on the side and whether you're pursuing extra-marital activities.
Yes, the bisexual aspect of it is huge, but don't discount the impact of her potentially feeling that she's no 'enough' for you sexually and that you want other sexual partners. I know it's not exactly the same as hetero-cheating since she doesn't have the sex parts you are interested in but if she views sex as intimacy and fidelity as a key part of your commitment, then it's going to have an effect on her.
As some others have mentioned, you might want to start with just the fantasy of it or the idea of you both being involved in a MMF threesome but initially state that you're not planning on acting on it - you just like the kinky idea of it as a fantasy. You might also want to bring this up during the heat of the moment so that if she doesn't react favourably you can just blame it on you getting carried away while having been extremely turned on. Sitting her down in a serious way and confessing it will probably be more apt to freak her out. Feel out the situation first before you jump.
I agree with DD 100%. No woman wants to feel inadequate or not enough. Doesn't matter if the man is after another woman or man, the feelings are the same, "why aren't I enough". Think very hard before you broach this subject with her as it may turn your world upside down. If you are prepared for that change, then talk to her about it, otherwise I would test the waters somehow as DD suggested.
Topic Do Women Like To Suck Cock In Public?
22 May 2013 10:06
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That is some funny stuff Buz, thank you I so needed a laugh today :)
Topic Where has Leena00 gone?
13 May 2013 20:11
Leena00 had only clothed pictures on her profile but was so stunningly gorgeous and sexy that it was breathtaking. Now her profile has been deleted - anyone know why, or where she might be posting these days?
If her profile is suddenly gone she most likely has either deleted it or deactivated it. It happens all the time, people come and people go. But, most always return at some point.
Topic Safe words online?
09 May 2013 15:56
Good question. I got here through the scroll on the Lush Home page, and was simply curious to discover what question "Safe words online?" meant. And, yes, perhaps my response sounded a little flippant and even disrespectful, which I didn't intend. I was just stating my preference, not trying to disrespect yours.
As is your right to do :) and I appreciate your clarification. We all have our own kinks and quirks so to speak. One of the greatest things we have, is the power to learn, I personally love knowledge and can't get enough of it. Whether it be the vanilla world or that of the BDSM world, there is always room to learn, anyone who says any differently, is just plain full of shit.
Topic Making a Move
08 May 2013 00:56
In your case, I'd suggest 1) re-adjusting your attitude. Don't think of it as "making a move on" them (You're probably not a Top Gun), think of it as asking someone you like on a date to see if there's mutual "attraction" and the possibility of building some kind of relationship. 2) Making a move on someone sounds like you're looking for a quick pickup, a one night stand, and bragging rights (that sux, man) 3) Be sweet, tell her you like her, ask her out to do something she enjoys doing but doesn't get to do enough 4) Don't have expectations
Very well said. Just be open and honest with her and do not have an agenda. Women can sense that and its a complete turn off.
07 May 2013 17:30
good question ... why do some women call themselves Slut?
I would imagine it depends on the connotation of how /with whom one labels themselves "slut" to. Many would call themselves a "slut" to their SO ... just because it's a little naughty, dirty and exposed.
Maybe it's because they truly think that title is not derogatory or negative - and they are proud of that title.
What she said....Context is everything with this word. You walk up to a woman and call her a slut and you are likely to get either your head knocked off or a knee to your groin. But between two people who are involved, it can be a completely different thing and completely acceptable.
Topic Safe words online?
07 May 2013 16:59
No clue. BDSM I don't do.
May I ask, then why post in here? I can understand if you are curious but your statement does not sound like it comes from a place of curiosity or possible enlightenment.
Topic Safe words online?
06 May 2013 20:38
Don't break your hip on the way to the pisser tonight, you old twat.
Really? Surely you can do this without those names. As wrong as this feels, bend over Jack lol
Topic trust after affairs
05 May 2013 15:43
Were you just fooling around with me again Jack?
Com-er you little bastard
You know, you might come across a little more credible if you were to curtail your name calling. Intelligent adult conversations can and should occur without the use of profanity.