Forum posts made by shydreaming

Topic date, fuck buddies or pass?
Posted 12 Dec 2016 00:07

To date or to fuck that is the question of the hour... one night stand it is

Topic Let's have some fun. The person above you, are they naughty or nice?
Posted 12 Dec 2016 00:03

Seems nice but might be naughty

Topic For all you story writers out there Question,how do you start your Stories?
Posted 06 Dec 2016 19:00

I'm no expert but usually I just start with that something that is meaningful to me (a particular scene, moment, feeling or line, say for example how the character looked in a stream of light or the facial expression it had at a specific point in time) something that has me fixating, something I really want to get just right. Then I start painting it with words, an interior dialogue, like I'm having a conversation with someone and I'm trying to let that person in on the secret; it helps me put pen to paper (or finger to keyboard these days) and once I have that "scene" I just build on it naturally, it kind of flows, I give it a setting, create a backstory or the chain reaction. But everyone has a unique and personal way of doing it, the trick is to find what works for you.

Topic ICE CREAM !!!!!!
Posted 05 Dec 2016 19:24

Topic The person below me is...
Posted 04 Dec 2016 13:13

Not even close!

TPBM has had a wild weekend.

Topic Ladies, do u prefer shaved or hairy balls
Posted 04 Dec 2016 13:07

And if that was too subtle the answer is ... Shaved thank you.

Topic Let's have some fun. The person above you, are they naughty or nice?
Posted 04 Dec 2016 12:49

Nice as can be, with just a hint of naughty

Topic This or That
Posted 04 Dec 2016 08:13

Mountain view

Spur of the moment adventure or thoroughly planned in a advance holiday?

Topic date, fuck buddies or pass?
Posted 04 Dec 2016 08:10

not that you're not lovely, I'm sure you are, but I'll pass

Topic The World Women Live In - Rape Culture Part 2
Posted 03 Dec 2016 20:44

Childish unstable ridiculous people becoming teachers and showing children how to navigate the world does have something to do with the topic. Think about it.

While the influence of teachers is undeniable I must with all respect interject: it is not a teacher's job to educate your children but to teach subject A or B - it's why they are called teachers. The responsibility of teaching both genders to be mindful, considerate and respectful of each other lays with the parents. Through the course of our educational life we stumble upon dozens of people, each with their own ideas, mentality and views but the constant presence in our lives are our parents, our family. Yes, a good teacher will influence a child, however, the notions of gender equality, respect and a zero-tolerance policy towards things that in any way border on bullying, harassment and gender intimidation are and should be things that are learned and taught home.
I was brought up in a household of strong men and women and taught from an early age to stand up for myself and take no bull-shit no matter who dished it out. However, several of my teachers had other ideas, as an example a sociology professor no less who, in a class of mainly women, declared unabashedly the reason the family unit in falling apart is because of women who refuse to stay in their place - implying the kitchen, obedient at the whim of a man.
Should I have listened to that and changed my world view? Should all my classmates have taken their girlfriends and tied them to the kitchen stove?
I don't think so. And we didn't. I was pleasantly surprised to see my male colleagues voice their disapproval just like I did.
And one might say we were all grown and it's not the same but believe me when I say it can be equally intimidating and hurtful when you're only 19 years old and that man represents a figure of authority. But it doesn't mean he should mould my view of the world: that was my family's job.
Returning to Sprite's original post, I do find there is however a great lack of awareness as to what is indeed offensive when it comes to the so called "compliments" and there's a worrisome attitude among certain men who somehow feel the need to point out they can hurt -physically or otherwise- a woman just for the simple fact that she is a woman and somehow not acting on that impulse/ threat is worthy of praise. Perhaps the term, "rape culture" is a bit to serious, but I do believe, sadly, we're heading there.

Topic What Two words Describe Person Above You?
Posted 03 Dec 2016 19:35

Intrigued goldie

Topic What's the one word that pops into your mind when you see the avatar above you?
Posted 03 Dec 2016 19:32

Pillow - I see you took mine ;)

Topic cities game
Posted 03 Dec 2016 19:28

Almuñecar - Spain

Topic Make a new friend, with the avatar above you
Posted 03 Dec 2016 19:25

Nice to meet you Audrey. I'm Shy... pun intended

Topic How do I tell a friend that I want to have sex with her?
Posted 03 Dec 2016 15:36

Everything theses guys are telling you makes sense but to be completely honest sex with friends is rarely just a one-night stand with no repercussions. So think twice before you broach the subject. And heck, yeah, if you're really feeling this friend of yours ask her, that's the only way you'll know for sure if you have a chance, but regardless of her answer don't expect things to just carry on as usual after that. Because they can't. And charming people works for sure, but there's the inherent risk of them misinterpreting things as well as wanting more and thinking you do too. On the other hand, though brutal, I think ***rainesensually*** said it best, if she hasn't given you any sign she's interested then she probably isn't.

Topic Skinny dipping with the lush member above
Posted 03 Dec 2016 15:20

Well what do I have to lose? Lead the way!

Topic Have you Ever...
Posted 03 Dec 2016 15:17

No... I'm into the gentlemen so her sister presented no interest.

HYE had sex with someone who thought you were someone else?

Topic Drink, Date or Fuck no passing!
Posted 03 Dec 2016 14:56

I'll take Santa for a drink, why not?

Topic Cravings
Posted 03 Dec 2016 14:52

Chocolate chip cookie ice cream from Ben&Jerry's and the Almond bar from Merci

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 03 Dec 2016 14:46

James Arthur - Recovery

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 03 Dec 2016 14:46

Kerli - Fearless Hearts

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 03 Dec 2016 14:46

Kerli - Fearless Hearts

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 03 Dec 2016 14:32

wooden beads

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 01 Dec 2016 18:32

Topic Who would you rather kiss? (above or below)
Posted 01 Dec 2016 02:28

Well a charmer is hard to resist so above, and heck might as well be generous: below as well

Topic Sleep or Sex?
Posted 30 Nov 2016 13:43

I go for the practical approach: how early do I have to wake up tomorrow? Early=sleep Whenever=pucker-up sugar!