About SixtyMinuteMan

Little bios are harder to write than sexy stories. Um, I live in California with a partner of many years. Writing is a hobby, and maybe someday something more. Hope you like my stories.

Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
San Diego, California, United States
Lots, but for our purposes let's stick with "good erotica."
Favorite Books:
Presently working my way through Craig Williams' book on sexuality in Ancient Rome.
Favorite Music:
Been exploring old jazz lately, but mostly I stick to indy/alternative/college radio/whatever we're calling it this week. Daft Punk still gets me moving instantly.
Date Joined:
06 Jun 2010
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Topic: So Rolf Harris just got jailed for 5 years and 9 months...
Posted: 13 Jul 2014 15:36

Blah, blah, blah, I'm defending DA LADEEZ.

Behold, a White Knight doth appear! Forsooth, gallant sir, thou hast verily proved our villainy upon our bodies! Lo, we are vanquished.

Lighten up, Francis.

Topic: Brazil are going to win the World Cup!
Posted: 08 Jul 2014 13:56

Is there a mercy rule? Goodness.

Topic: How to explore Bi-sexuality?
Posted: 08 Jul 2014 13:41

This. I think this is true for women as well, although the stigma is fading much more quickly.

I think it's in human nature to want to branch out sexually. We are sexual creatures that use sex for personal fulfillment, social bonding and as a means of strengthening our. Relationships. Being limited in our desires is not hard wired into our psychology. Remove social pressures and a very large portion of the population would willingly indulge in both straight and homosexual sex.

This was actually the norm among men in the western ancient world. Before the rise of Christianity, most men engaged in homosexual behavior. It was generally accepted as a normal part of life.

Monogamy between men and woman became culturally important because of the line of inheritance. If women were engaging in sex with multiple partners, then who their children were fathered by became impossible to determine. It was a matter of politics and economics that forced the classic family structure on society.

Back then though, a man could have sex with another man without enraging his family or threatening the line. It was accepted without much more that a raised eyebrow and when they did it, they didn't have to fear being hunted down by an enraged father, husband or brother. Under those social conditions, bi sexuality made perfect sense.

It wasn't until about two thousand years ago when the church began to vilify sexual practices in general in order to inhibit pagan practices that bi and homosexuality were pushed into the real of taboo.

This is extremely well written and well thought out. Thanks for posting it.

And yeah, the development of homophobia, biphobia, and rigid lifelong monogamy (at least for women) in the West is an interesting study. Some form of bisexuality was the norm of human existence right up until the end of the Roman Empire, and very widespread even after. And even women often had a degree of sexual freedom once they'd produced the expected heirs. Yet now here we are, homophobia systemized and bi erasure the absolute norm, and women's sexuality heavily stigmatized. Yay Christians.

I'm very glad to be alive to see it start to break down. And break down in a more modern, healthy, self-aware kind of way- one could never accuse the aforementioned Romans of being healthy about sex, after all, except by comparison to Christians.

Scholarly works are starting to either use prefixes like bi- and pan- instead of homo- in front of sexual when describing pre-Christian sexualities or even better, referring to sexual behavior as opposed to a modern, artificial construct of orientaton.

We're even starting to see a chipping away of gender role stigma. Does my heart good to see trans* acceptance become a thing. My first serious girlfriend was a trans woman, and I remember vividly how rough it was for her. Maybe our kids will be as amazed and appalled at previous generations' slut-shaming and homo, bi, and transphobia as we are at our grandparents' open racism.

Topic: How to explore Bi-sexuality?
Posted: 08 Jul 2014 13:04

What could be sexier?


Topic: Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted: 07 Jul 2014 15:47

I actually back this (only with "heterosexual" spelt correctly). I try to avoid using the word "straight" in this context for similar reasons.

Thirded. This site is a step above most with designations like "Trans" instead of the pejoratives other sites use. Would be great to set the curve all the way down the line.

Topic: Elliot Rodger kills 6, injures 13 others. Is it rape culture, guns or something else?
Posted: 07 Jul 2014 15:43

like Dani said, most of us just want sane gun regulation, but then, along come the ranters, and scare the fuck out of us and make us think... damn... ok, if folks like that are out there, maybe just doing away with guns completely isn't such a bad idea.

Yeah, I find it ironic that they're going to drive us there. I'd have settled for bringing back Brady and the Assault Weapons Ban, but the more I participate in the debate on, f'rex, Gawker, the more I swing toward the idea of completely banning most categories of guns. The NRA is creating the monster they fear.

Topic: How to explore Bi-sexuality?
Posted: 07 Jul 2014 15:11

I never gave bisexuality much thought before joining lush. I never asked a guy if they were into women.
I think some gay guys think it's a betrayal of gayness or that a guy is gay but scared to come out.

Yeah, that's exactly what a lot of gay guys think. But the notion that someone else's sexuality is a betrayal of theirs is just transparent bullshit. Disliking someone because of their sexual orientation sucks, whether it's straight people doing it or gay people. And it is no reflection on the disliked person or their quality, but only on the hypocrisy of the person making categorical decisions on friends.

Take it from me, it's disappointing and hurtful, even on iteration 98775. Feels just exactly the same as a straight friend dropping you when you come out.

I find it odd if a bi guy won't kiss because it's too gay but will chow down on your cock, that apparently isn't too gay!

Yeah, I find that odd, too. I've seen all kinds of repressed guys with weird definitions of what's gay, bi, and other.

Topic: do all lesbians have an anal fetish??
Posted: 07 Jul 2014 13:25

Im not a lesbian but I would say NO. And I bet they all don't like to use Strap-ons either, LOL!!

BTW, I am bi and while I love anal play, not all Bi women do either!

There is a big difference between Porn and Reality.

Do you believe every pizza delivery boy has sex with his customer as payment for the pizza like you see in Porn vids? I can tell you from experience that isn't true. I pay him with cash at least half the time!

Have I been tipping pizza delivery people wrong all these years? Next you're going to tell us that not all nurses wear miniskirts and screw all their patients.

Topic: How to explore Bi-sexuality?
Posted: 07 Jul 2014 13:20

The longer I live the more I think there's way more bi men out there than most people can imagine. I just know so damn many guys who are straight in who they date, but get a little dick on the side. Hell, I'm among them. I have been "faithful" to all my wives and girlfriends over the last 20 years in not sleeping with any other woman while I was in a committed relationship, yet at the same time, I've had the same male FWB for going on 20 years now. It's just an itch I choose not to stop scratching.

I think you're right. I'm openly bi, and I cannot tell you how many times ostensibly straight guys have gotten me alone and had that conversation that starts "So, um, you're, um, into guys, right?"

It's easy to see why, though. All the bigotry from the straights and a side helping of bullshit from the gay side of the fence. It's amazing how often gay friends drop you like a hot rock as soon as they find out you like women, too.

Ah well. I'm glad I was born without whatever it is that restricts people's attraction to just one gender. Bi, Pan, Omni, whatever label people use this year, our sexuality is the best sexuality.

Topic: How many sexual partners does it make a girl a slut..?
Posted: 07 Jul 2014 10:31

Well I was just thinking and its always something interesting to read about. What do you fella's consider a girl, a slut after however many sexual partners shes had..? Would you Marry a girl if shes slept with 20-30 men?

And how many women have you slept with? Lets be honest.

Shoot evil4

Wait, 20-30? I seriously just did this:


I hate the slut bullshit in general, but 30? Hell, that's not even a "slutty" number for one's college years.

Kind of curious to see what kind of numbers people ring up now that hookup apps are a thing. For that matter, I'm going to be curious to see if some form of non-monogamous sex-positivity spreads now that a couple can look for a third person of either gender on a whim.

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Stories Published By SixtyMinuteMan
Samuel, Pt. 4

Afternoons in the barracks complex's communal lounge had become a sort of informal study group since the start of my relationship with Sam. I had to work hard to keep up with the math required by our school and there was no way I could concentrate alone in a room with my lover, making a crowded public place the only real option. And it was a tough school, so I seldom lacked for company. ...

Added 05 Jul 2014 | Category Gay Male | Votes 7 | Avg Score 5 | Views 4,352 | 1 Comment

Samuel, Pt. 3

Note: This won't make much sense without having read the first two chapters. Sleeping with Sam curled around me was... well, if I use words like “dreamy” I'll have to make fun of myself. Let's just say I enjoyed it. Didn't do much actual sleeping, of course. Tough to drift off with a new lover's bare skin all over yours. And it was the same for Sam, he spent a lot more time nuzzling my...

Added 31 May 2014 | Category Gay Male | Votes 4 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,284 | 4 Comments

Samuel, Pt. 2

Samuel and I went through our morning routine the day after the handjob in a sort of grinning awkwardness. The only acknowledgment of what had happened was Sam feigning throwing his cum-encrusted towel at me when he got up. No comment was made until we were sitting in the galley at lunch and someone started going on comically about how horny he was. “Yeah,” said Sam amidst the...

Added 25 Jun 2014 | Category Gay Male | Votes 4 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,626 | 2 Comments


Setting note: I was in the US Navy before DADT was implemented. Samuel and I weren't paranoid, there was actual imprisonment on the table if one was caught being gay. I subscribe to the belief that it is no crime to break an unjust law, but the military doesn't exactly share that view. I didn't realize my sexuality until after I'd enlisted, and the choice I made was to stay for my...

Added 30 May 2014 | Category Gay Male | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.91 | Views 8,973 | 7 Comments

Educating Ken

"Hey, you alright?" said a voice from behind me. I recognized it as belonging to Nic, the younger and more obviously gay of the partners who owned the little seaside B&B on whose back patio I was presently sulking. "Yeah, I'm okay," I said. "Or I will be." "Don't kid a kidder, boyo," he said in a gently amused tone, coming around to sit by me on the padded, loveseat-sized bench. I glanced...

Added 07 Jun 2010 | Category Gay Male | Votes 10 | Avg Score 4.7 | Views 15,770 | 6 Comments

Commander Rainey

I was sitting with my back to the door when Commander Rainey came in. My feet were up on the windowsill, the weekend’s watch roster on my lap. I’d like to say I was working on it, but really I was kind of staring into space. She tapped twice on the open door. “Come in,” I said without turning, thinking it was one of my girls. “I’m already in,” she answered. I turned to see her halfway to...

Added 06 Jun 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 12 | Avg Score 5 | Views 6,030 | 6 Comments

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Posted: 18 Jul 2015 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 18 Jul 2014 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 03 Jul 2014 16:29

Eye candy
Posted: 03 Jul 2014 11:01

Just keeping an eye on you.
Posted: 27 Jun 2014 17:30

Thank you for accepting my friend request.
Posted: 18 Jul 2013 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 18 Jul 2012 02:00
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.

Posted: 26 Jul 2010 08:16
thx for the add, Ken. See you around.
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