i am recovering from cancer knock on wood its in remishion cancer changes ones outlook on life and the choices one makes life is to short to hold a grudge and be ulgy to friends it may sond cheesey but live every moment as if it was your last cus one one it might be right i am a single parent of a teenage daughter who is my world_______________________________________________________________________ Nice guys finish last, as they always say... I'm a nice guy, and have been sucker punched a few times and learned my lesson. I'm still a nice guy, but the difference now is that I'm very clear about what I want and need, I won't settle for less, and I communicate those needs clearly. I have limits on what kind of woman I'm even attracted to, there has to be much more than looks (which are not all that important), and she has to be centered and aware enough to have a meaningful dialogue about not only BDSM, but life in general, and to convince me that she is real, sensitive, and willing to be open and honest from the beginning. If a woman wants to be treated badly outside of chat or real life or BDSM play, I'm not interested it doesn't work for me What I wouldn't give to find a soul mate Submission is not about sex. Submission is not something one can learn. It is not sex. It is not dirty. Submission is beauty. It is a beauty that comes from the very soul of a submissive or woman. It is a breaking down of the walls built up in his lifetime, allowing the beautiful, sensual man or women to come through. Submission is not about sex, it is about sensuality. It is about trust, communication, vulnerability, caring, and honesty. It is about being the graceful, sensual, beautiful human that resides within me. Submission is about knowing who I am, and what I want. A submissive is NOT a weak person, but just the opposite. I am strong. I am strong in myself, and in the knowledge of who I am. I will NEVER submits out of weakness or desperation. I will submit out of strength, love, and trust.Submission is freedom. It is a letting go of one's self, knowing that the dominant is there to catch you if you falter. It is about pushing to be the very best one can be, not only as a submissive, but as a man a person, a human being. It is about learning, growing, and giving.Please don't get me wrong. Submission is not about donning rose colored glasses, and the world is fine. Nothing worthwhile will ever come that easy.Submission is also about pain. There is no growth without pain, lest it be a temporary growth. There is no freedom without the inner struggle to let go. There is no sensuality without breaking down the barriers that took years to put into place. We often try to repeat the patterns that we have experienced, and then exercised throughout our life. That which we fear the most, is our strongest prayer. If we fear betrayal, then we subconsciously do everything possible to set up a betrayal so that we can feel that we were right about our fears and doubts." far too often we hide our true self from others for reasons only we know some ask who and what we are only we can tell them for some it takes a long time to not only trust but to open up and be willing to share a side of us few see as yall can see i am out spoken and I do not tolerate bullshit and liars, players and pretenders. As you can see I have a ZERO FUCKTARD POLICY thats just me And this doesn't mean I'm Angry!! I'm just sick of trolls and fuckwits etc who come on here and give the good men and women a bad name

Interests
restoring old caddys there is nothing like hearing a motor come to life for the first time after it was left for dead now it comes to life

Favorite Books
Stuart woods Robert b Parker

Favorite Authors
Stuart woods Robert b Parker

Favorite Movies
the god father 1 2 and 3

Favorite Music
classic rock some 60s 70s