Forum posts made by anon47

Topic Sucking on breasts/nipples
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:48

Maybe he never got to suck his mother's?

Topic Foreplay or straight to it?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:41

With guys, the more experience the get, the more they can cope with foreplay, ergo the more they can pleasure their women too.

My theory is that every horny inexperienced teenager should have a session with a mature 25-35 year old horny woman who may very well revel in their youthful exuberance rather more than inexperienced teenage girls will. After a few sessions with experts, they'll be ready to show more patience with the inexperienced young girls.

Topic Scorpio women
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:33

PersonalAssistants's zodiac signs and sex characteristics:

Based on my non-statistical life experience, I'd say:

1. Leo description is SPOT ON. Particularly the bit about 'your pleasure being their secondary concern'.
2. Libra description is SPOT ON. The best woman I've ever known is a Libra and she is a courtesan without compare.
3. Aquarius: certainly met Aquarian women for whom that is true.
4. Taurus: SPOT ON.
5. Cancer: SPOT ON.

Can't speak for the rest, but there's certainly something to it. These women came from many, many different countries, so it's not a sample of English women I'm talking about.

I know Scorpio men are sex mad, even if it's channeling that energy into sport. Can't speak for women.......

Topic How short or tall is too much difference for a lover?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:18

My comedian's theory is that women prefer men they can kiss a lot on the face and lips, whereas men are quite happy with a midget giving them head!

Seriously, though, the most obvious issue is that if there is any correlation between baby size and father size, then if you were a small girl and you married a giant, you might have been signing your own death warrant before Caesarian sections came along a few decades ago.

My cousin is short and married a tall beanpole, had three children all over 8lbs and needed 3 C-sections. As you're not allowed more than three, that meant no more kids (as it happened, she didn't want more).

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 23 Aug 2012 07:27

The sun is shining.

The first girl I asked to be friends with me on this site said yes and we exchanged 3 flirty emails yesterday.

Despite a poor summer, the tomato crop is yielding well.

I have no need to emulate my family any more, nor consider them wiser than me without justifiable proof. I can just be me.

I have completed a 9 year cycle in life concerning creative writing and am really happy with the output I produced. Really happy.

Topic Just wondering - can relationships begun through Lush last?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 03:02

No reason why not.

All you are doing is changing the order in which you share things.......

Topic Advice on depressed girlfriend
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:59

The most obvious reason for this depression is the transition from college to the life of work.

1. Is she unhappy in work?
2. Is her career not what she thought it would be like?
3. Does she feel unable to admit that for reasons of pride?
4. Are there deeper issues to do with childhood which means she is not emotionally comfortable being an independent adult?
5. Is the new situation you find yourselves in teaching you more about your relationship (trust me I've seen some where 'perfect couples' move overseas and rapidly split).
6. Are there things she needs from you which you don't realise?
7. If there are feelings of unworthiness, what is causing them?

What is absolutely key is recognising whether she is able to talk to you about these issues or not. If she can't, then you may need to speak to her parents about this. Not judgementally, but because you care. But before you do that, you need to tell her you're thinking of that: if there's a strong negative reaction, there may be challenges ahead.

If this makes you feel scared and unprepared: you will need help handling this too.

I don't know what the answer is, but depression is usually associated with loss. Loss of a dream, an idealised fantasy world which doesn't exist, loss of self-belief, self-worth. It's the emotion of not yet accepting that something is that way, cannot be that way, will never be that way.

It's important that these things are sorted, because a depression lasting a few months is curable. One which lasts 5 years often isn't.

I hope you can help your girlfriend but don't be afraid to accept all the help you can get: if you really care for her, the more help and support of the right kind she can get, the better.

Topic Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:50

Yes, got the t-shirt there.

Wrote the conclusion of first novel to stop topping myself, sold up and moved 200 miles away, got on with life without them.

Topic Someone For Everyone?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:47

In theory there's someone for everyone, but the imperfections of life means that not everyone gets to meet that someone.

Topic What do you think of my pics?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:44

You look like a horny girl who likes to tease the guys!

Topic Waking up to a blow job - yay or nay?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:40

Just do it!

I've not consented but few men feel the need to consent to being given a blow job, if truth be told........

Topic Waking up to a blow job - yay or nay?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:39

Just do it!

I've not consented but few men feel the need to consent to being given a blow job, if truth be told........

Topic Boobs - Can you answer honestly?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:38

Absolutely not the case: sure, many men prefer a sizable cleavage to none, but for every size of breasts, rest assured that there are men out there who love them.

To me, without ever having got a tape measure out, you can sense whether the size of a woman's boobs fit the rest of her body. In general, women with bigger boobs have bigger hips, which may not be what all men want either.

I personally love women with medium sized boobs. I actually find women with really, really large boobs a bit gross but that's just me. They'd probably find my body pretty unappetising too.

Topic Why do men cheat?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:33

Men's biological heritage is spreading their seed as far and wide as they can: it maximises the chances of their continued lineage.

Women's biological heritage is to choose carefully which man should sire her children and then to stop him screwing around once they have had them.

I'm not condoning men cheating, just saying that all man's ancestors fought for the right to screw the female: just look at male stags in the rutting season for chrissakes!

In a more pragmatic way, my observations in life say that men who marry too early (which is before they have got the mindless screwing bit out of their minds) tends to predicate more screwing around after marriage. Those who got laid a lot and gloriously before settling down are less likely to need to stray.

Topic If your Girlfriend asked you to have a threesome would you and who would be the other person?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:26

Depends whether it was two girls or two guys I guess!

Topic if a exgf sent this how would you respond?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:25

If I bothered to answer (I doubt I would) I'd say: 'this email explains why we are no longer together. Goodbye, good luck and die happy!'

Topic Relatonship Issues...
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:23

Most obvious thing is; he needs a short break from you. Not breaking up, but to remember what he's missing.

If that doesn't work, try flirting with other guys when you're out with him. See if it arouses his jealousy and his dick at the same time.

If that doesn't work, ask him what's wrong, tell him that this has to get sorted or it's over. Emphasise you don't want it to be over but it will be over if this doesn't get sorted.

If that doesn't work, move out.

Topic The Noisy or the Discreet?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:20

Quiet girls who silently shake when filled with lust are fine by me!

Topic Are all men unsatisfied with the size of their penis?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:19

Unfortunately, boys growing up can use dick size as part of the social hierarchy at school. Those who grow late or who have small flaccid penises (however big they may get erect) are usually the ones who have miserable teenage years.

If your husband is obsessed, he's either got hang-ups from before he met you or he thinks, deep down, that you want men with bigger dicks.

If the latter isn't true, he needs to see you really enjoying sex with him. Telling him his dick is big enough isn't the answer if you have unfulfilled needs. Telling him what you need, or maybe showing him without telling him first, is a better solution.

Topic Is squirting gross or hot?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:15

If that's the female equivalent to male sperm juice, what do you have to be ashamed of???

Topic Which do men prefer? panties or au natural?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:14

Men like to be surprised, learn new things about a woman. Wearing the same panties all the time: too much of a good thing.

Keep your man surprised. Go to a prim and proper restaurant with no panties on. Wear demure underwear to a disco. Wear loud red ones if your man's getting boring and you're getting frustrated and hot. Wear yellow or pale blue if you'd like hours of lingering foreplay.

Match your underwear to your moods and your man will love it. The more moods you have, the more you understand your moods, the more you understand your man's moods, the more fun you'll have.

Topic Truth: Is it a turn on to cum all over a woman's face and boobs?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:08

For some I think it's an acceptance thing. The more a woman is prepared to do for her man, the more it shows that she loves him.

Just like the more a man attends to his woman's needs, the more it shows how much he loves her.

I think sometimes it's necessary to act out teenage fantasies to fiind out whether the reality matches the fantasy. Until you do, the fantasy remains. Once you have, you have a decision/outcome.

Topic Would you Feel intimidated in a relationship if your women made more money than you?? Or would you s
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:05

The difficulty comes if the woman starts expecting you to be her wife, not her husband/partner/boyfriend.

Your career becomes contigent on hers, life revolves around her career, she decides when you have kids, all that stuff.

There may be a few man who are happy being a housewife, but it'd be interesting to do a survey of how hard their dick remains.

The money isn't the issue, it's the woman's attitudes.