About asleep

I've been on the road of life for awhile and am still learning new stuff about people each day. Retired ... for second time Dec. 2012 ... and enjoying it.

Even though I'm one of the "mature" folk around, I still try to remember what it was like when I was "your" age and relate to it. I am not really interested in random cyber stuff. I MUST have some sort of mental / emotional connection. I try to be a gentleman at all times and want to avoid drama.

My motto in life is: The "difficult" is no problem ... the "impossible" just takes a little longer".

The earlier stories I have written are fantasy / fiction with maybe a little bit of the "real me" thrown in. My two part story is "true" ... My Life Between Virginity & Celibacy. My earlier poems are pretty much reflective of very personal thoughts, feelings, and emotions at the time written while the later ones are more fantasy and playful. I have been called a "romantic" and I guess that might be true as I prefer the softer, gentler "touch". OK ... I'll admit it ... I have a bit of a flirty nature also...lol!

As so many people are apt to write in these profiles..."if you want to know more, just ask".

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North Carolina, United States
Family...first and foremost

Friendships taken seriously

Letting my mind wander a bit and learning new stuff.
Favorite Music:
most anything except hard rock, etc. I like the traditional C & W from the 60"s. Also listen to classical.
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Topic: Steak
Posted: 28 Jul 2015 17:23

MEDIUM .... as in somewhere between raw and sacrificed!!

Topic: Guilty or Innocent.
Posted: 28 Jul 2015 16:57


Have you ever answered the phone while having sex?

GUILTY ... and it was my Dad. He said..."you sound like you are not alone". SHORT phone call. This was over 40 years ago and with fiance`

PHONE SEX while driving?? Did you "O"??

Topic: Last one is the Sexiest (Bringing back an old but much loved thread)
Posted: 25 Jul 2015 07:09


It's me again.

Bring that ZEBRA back and we'll share!!

G'morning, Miss Margot!!

Topic: What Would You Do If You Had A Chance Encounter With The Person Above You
Posted: 25 Jul 2015 07:04

Coffee / drinks and have a nice chat. I bet we'd could find "something" in common to talk about and enjoy.

Topic: What's the last thing you put in your mouth?
Posted: 25 Jul 2015 06:50

still sipping my coffee!!

Topic: Would you go private with the person above you
Posted: 25 Jul 2015 06:49

Hiya, Jules ... I'm sure we could find something to chat about over a cup of coffee that would be mutually interesting!!

Topic: Fuck or Pass???
Posted: 25 Jul 2015 06:44

Gonna PASS this round!!

Topic: Do you agree with the following statements?
Posted: 25 Jul 2015 06:31

Disclaimer : The following opinion is that of a middle school teacher and the parent of an adult young man whom I worked very hard to raise. I am also a teacher. I teach students in the age range of 11-14.

When my son was young, there were no tablets (iPads, Androids, etc.) The internet was just on the horizon (and I'm talking about the old dial-up dinosaur.) My son played with Legos, blocks, Lincoln Logs, stuffed toys, cars, and other stuff. As he got older, I did expose him to a computer computer and video games. When it was clear his school work was suffering, the TV was turned off, the video game was put away, & his phone was taken away until I saw the changes necessary to let him have these items back.

I can say from what I've seen... a lot of parents don't do the same. I'm not saying ALL parents... but more than I would care to see. A friend of mine has a 3 year old daughter. When the child was about 1-ish, my friend posted on Facebook that her daughter was having a meltdown because her iPad's battery had died. I had to fight to bite my tongue. Why is the "go-to" toy for a 1 year old child an iPad? What happened to a stuffed toy (teddy bear, doll, dog, whatever)?

Parents are stuffing electronic devices into their child's hands to act as the electronic babysitters. There are now 5 year-olds who don't know how to use a real book. It doesn't sing, it doesn't talk, if they touch the cover or the pages, they don't react.

I'm all for incorporating technology into education... but not for the sake of the technology. I enjoyed the nights when I read stories to my son before he went to bed. We read the same books so often I nearly had them memorized. Later, he read them to me. He does enjoy video games... and he's the king of the texting people (so kidding here... but he is of that group of people) but he can and will pick up a real book and enjoy.

Technology is not the end all solution. Kids can find the answers to any questions they have. The problem is... they don't know what is a credible source and what is crap. They are still learning that rule about everything on the internet might not be the truth, and you must check your sources and double check your facts.

Kids can think... the problem is they don't know what to believe. My 2 cents


Do teachers have "term paper" assignments anymore? Do kids have to go to the library and actually look at and handle real books? I'm sure that "education" has changed a bit over the 50 ears since I was in high school, but as it really been made better?

IMHO ... Teachers are 1/2 step away from sainthood!!

Topic: Lights Off Sex - Why do some women prefer it?
Posted: 19 Jul 2015 06:20

Maybe because she doesn't want to see you enjoying yourself ... same as closing her eyes during sex in the daytime~evil5 evil5 evil5

Topic: Using one word describe the person above you
Posted: 13 Jul 2015 21:04


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A Simple Seduction

“Hello,” or some such simple greeting, Is the truly innocent start to an on-line meeting. Pleasantries exchanged along with other friendly idle chat, Comments made and expounded on, Leading us to beginning to wonder, How did we get to talking about ‘that’? A place like this leads to so many topics, Some rather cryptic and others more optic. Subtle hints made that this could lead to...

Added 11 Feb 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 15 | Avg Score 5 | Views 2,416 | 13 Comments


Buttons, I like lots of buttons. No zippers as they’re too fast, No snaps cause the action just doesn’t last. Buttons, I like lots and lots of buttons. Lined up like little toy sentries, That are guarding what’s hidden. Yes, buttons, I like lots of buttons. Each one carefully undone, Slowly revealing the secrets of one. Buttons, I like lots of buttons. I want to kiss and smother, What I...

Added 03 Feb 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 16 | Avg Score 5 | Views 945 | 16 Comments

Reflections Of A Mirror

Mirror, Mirror, On the wall, Please protect me When I fall. Mirror, Mirror, On the floor, Of my Lover. Oh, let me see more. Mirror, Mirror, Oh so wise, Please… One lust filled gaze, Into my Lover’s eyes. Mirror, Mirror, So shining and bright, Please reflect her charms For my carnal delight!...

Added 28 Jan 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 10 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,020 | 12 Comments

My Life Between Virginity and Celibacy - Part Two (conclusion)

Life became humdrum in about all ways over the next two or three years, and we decided to have another baby. That decision coincided with our wedding anniversary. We got a babysitter and went out for dinner. After the babysitter departed, we went to bed and did ‘it’ again with a bit more enthusiasm than normal because it was our anniversary. Its been so long ago, but I seem to remember...

Added 08 Dec 2013 | Category Love Stories | Votes 12 | Avg Score 5 | Views 3,692 | 12 Comments

My Life Between Virginity and Celibacy - Part one

Foreword Dear Reader, What follows is an accounting of fifty years of my life as far as my lovemaking and sex life is concerned. I’ve tried to recall this in an honest manner with recollections of the good, not-so-good, and the painful missteps along the way. What started this was seeing a photo on a new friend’s profile page. Sadly, she has disappeared from my friends list. That photo...

Added 07 Dec 2013 | Category Love Stories | Votes 13 | Avg Score 4.92 | Views 4,589 | 15 Comments

Your Love Nest of Desire

Your love nest of desire Is where I long to meet you With my heart My soul And where our spirits are combined. Your love nest of desire Is where I yearn To feel at home Communing with you in nature’s own natural way While literally being soaked with you. Your love nest of desire Is where I linger On its vestibule Awaiting your bid to enter And be welcomed with open arms. In...

Added 15 Jan 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,079 | 14 Comments

Close Your Eyes

A chance comment made across the computer screens begs the question of just how really real we can make a cyber connection feel. I was drinking my coffee, and she was signed on to Lush when we started chatting via Black Boxes. I must say this about using the Black Boxes: you must use carefully chosen words that are carefully organized, so that you can get your thought(s) down without running...

Added 07 Jan 2013 | Category Love Stories | Votes 7 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,384 | 8 Comments

Angel Watching Over You

You are … Beside me … Curled up into a ball … Nestled against me Your shallow breathing … I am watching and feeling … The slow rise and fall of your chest … And hearing the soft sighs of contented slumber … It is so unlike the ragged, gasping breaths of last night’s ecstasy … When I was buried balls deep in you … Totally emptying myself … As my desire for you erupted and overflowed ...

Added 04 Jan 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 15 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,002 | 16 Comments

Open Your Eyes

Open your eyes ... To see the one who longs for you. Open your eyes … To catch the morning’s rays of love. Open your eyes … To see who reaches for you. Open your eyes … To let your soul’s light shine through. Open your eyes … That were sealed gently with a kiss. Open your eyes … To let me behold your dreams within. Open your eyes … To the passion you’ve created within me. Open...

Added 27 Dec 2012 | Category Love Poems | Votes 41 | Avg Score 5 | Views 8,092 | 14 Comments

Who Is This Woman ?

Who Is This Woman … that lives a world away? Who is this woman … that is so reserved? Who is this woman … I find to be so mysterious? Who is this woman … and what does her heart seek? Who is this woman … I can almost feel? Who is this woman … that seems so steady and sure? Who is this woman … is she really real? Who is this woman … I can tell of my real daydreams? Who is...

Added 17 Dec 2012 | Category Love Poems | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 829 | 8 Comments

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Thank you, Rick for reading, score and comment!!!
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love you, Rick

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Thank you again for adding one of my poems to favorites. I am honored. You are a beautiful writer, yourself, as I am seeing.
Posted: 11 Jun 2015 22:29
Thank you, dear friend, for your wonderful words about "Breath" and for adding it to your favorites!
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Happy Birthday Too!!!

Posted: 06 Jun 2015 13:05
I hope that I never disappoint my deer sweet friend.

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