Forum posts made by basinah

Topic Can you "Learn" to squirt?
Posted 25 Jan 2012 16:14

Sprite - wow, thank you, that is a very thorough answer!
DM - sorry, I tired to search the forum because I thought it would have been asked before now, but didn't kind anything relevant.

Topic Can you "Learn" to squirt?
Posted 24 Jan 2012 08:47

After a few drinks my best friend (male) and I got talking about sex. He asked me if I had ever squirted, and I replied I wasn't a squirter. He corrected me "No, you just never have. Every woman can squirt, you're just never had someone who can make you". He claims he can make any woman squirt ... but stopped just short of offering to prove it :o(

Your thoughts?

Topic Guilty or Innocent.
Posted 18 Jan 2012 16:59

Totally guilty.

Ever tell a a good friend that you were fine with just friends, when in reality you were dying for more?

Topic why do girls have to shave their pussys for guys!!! ?
Posted 26 Nov 2011 18:32

I wax, just leave a little triangle at the front for looks, but I totally do it for myself, not for anyone else. My best friend talked me into doing it the first time, and she said once I did I would never want to go back; she was right. I like the way it feels, but more so it is so much easier to keep everything nice and clean. Most of my partners have appreciated it, but i don't think its ever been a deal breaker. Like I say, I do it for myself, because I prefer it. My choice.

Topic Guilty or Innocent.
Posted 21 Nov 2011 04:16


Ever get caught having sex in a public place ... with a *much* older or younger partner?

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 20 Nov 2011 09:08

Fuck, lick, suck, and taste ...

Topic which has a better effect for you ladies?
Posted 20 Nov 2011 09:04

Definitely prefer to be on my back, it just seems the angle of everything hits better ... but I certainly wouldn't say no to the other, if it was my only choice!

Topic who honestly likes to give blow jobs
Posted 20 Nov 2011 08:57

I love to give head, love the feel of a cock in my mouth, love the taste.

I DO NOT like it when the man I am with tries to force me or take total control - a bit of guidance as to what you like is nice, fellas, but please let me give you this gift. I am one who believes anything worth doing is worth doing well, so I have done my best to develop my techiques.

For the ladies who don't like it, we all have our own likes and dislikes; but I wonder if your first time was unpleasant (he tried to force you, he wasn't 'clean", etc) and that has coloured your view? I was lucky enough that my first time giving head was with an older man who wanted to teach me all the beautiful things about sex, he took things very slow and let me go at my own pace. I was very lucky to have such a kind teacher.

Topic Sexiest Things For Men To Be Caught Doing?
Posted 20 Nov 2011 08:50

My ex was military, and when he was "away" his mornings were often my evenings. We would web cam while he was getting ready for work, and watching him strap on the thigh holster for his side arm got me every single time.

Topic hand on head?
Posted 20 Nov 2011 08:46

I like the hands on my head, and tangled in my hair, but not "forcing" me to go deeper. I like a small feeling of him in control, and I like to get some feedback on what he wants, speed, depth, etc, but I do not like being totally forced.

I LOVE to give head, I truly do, but men who want to control totally and just fuck my mouth, vs letting me give them a gift, turn me off.

Topic If You Woke Up With The Person Above You What Would Be The First Thing You'd Say?
Posted 20 Nov 2011 08:42

Good morning to you too, sweetie

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 20 Nov 2011 08:40
I wanna be bad ...

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 16 Nov 2011 21:47

Definitely Fuck xx

Topic I am naked because .....
Posted 16 Nov 2011 21:45

because I am a hotel room all alone, and feeling naughty ...

Topic Intellectual sexiness test
Posted 11 Sep 2011 06:06

Your result for The Intellectual Sexiness Test ...
Hot Tamale
You have an intellectual sexiness factor of 76!
You're hot! You've read a lot. You've done a lot, and there's a lot you'd like to try in the future. You've got a sharp, sexy mind, and few inhibitions to restrain you from exploring all the pleasure you can get. You have few hang-ups, and there's not much you don't know about sex. You're open-minded and able to enjoy things that would make a lesser person squeamish. You're an exceptional treat as a lover, appreciated greatly by those who know the differnce. You were probably bored with a few of the people you've been with in your past, feeling like you had to drag them along with you in the sexual adventures you want to have, and probably dumping them for the same reason. It takes a lot to stimulate you; you realize it's not just about bumping uglies. In the end there's gotta be a lot more to it. Still, there is always room for improvement. Before you can graduate into a true sexual genius, there are a few things you've got to learn, to explore, to think through, talk through, and fuck through. A good place to start is in taking a look at the few things you're still a little hesitant to try. Break down you're last few barriers and discover the outer sexual frontiers, and you'll become a master.

Topic Lush Virtual Disco...
Posted 10 Sep 2011 15:52

Games without Frontiers, the Bob Holroyd and Happy Rhodes version

Topic List a favorite Song Lyric
Posted 10 Sep 2011 15:47

I'm who I am; I've known temptation;
All that I've done, all that I've seen ...
Strength is not a stranger; I take it day by day.
I know it looks like I've been fighting;
I didn't get much sleep last night
Strength is not a stranger; I take it day by day.

Bet E and Stef, Day by Day

Topic Person above you is naked and tied to your bed?
Posted 10 Sep 2011 15:22

Entirely too much untie-ing going on here.

SluttyKitty, I am going to leave you tied, and take a nice long feather, and some sparkly flavourved powder, and draw designs on your tummy, and then lick them off. Then the same thing to your arms, then your legs.

Then I am going to comb my fingers through your hair, and whisper naughty things in your ear, but not touch you. Maybe I will dust the feather lightly over your nipples while I whisper to you ...

Topic Alphabet Songs (A-Z)
Posted 10 Sep 2011 11:51

Necromancer ~ Nox Arcana

Topic if you had the person above you bent over, what would you do to them?
Posted 10 Sep 2011 11:49

push him off the edge into the pool, then run away ... but not too far, or too fast ...

Topic What song title does the person immediately above you remind you of?
Posted 10 Sep 2011 06:38

Human ~ Dionne Farris

Topic ipod/mp3 shuffle
Posted 10 Sep 2011 05:54

How Can I ~ Carol Tatum and Charles Edward

Topic Your top 10 celebrities you love to have sex with.
Posted 10 Sep 2011 05:48

Couldn't come up with 10, but, in no particular order ...

Nir Lavi, model

Sean Bean, Actor

Jason Momoa, actor

Elisha Cuthbert, Actor Cuthbert1.jpg

Timothy V Murphy, Actor

David Boreanaz, Actor

Charles Edward, vocalist

Topic 3somes... Good or Bad
Posted 10 Sep 2011 05:43

I have only been involved in a couple of tree-somes (and technically one 4-some) but my expereince, and that of friends I have discussed it with, is:

*It can add spice to an already strong primary relationship, but will tear a weak one apart.*

I admit I have a lovely time during my adventures, and would do it again in a heartbeat, * with the right people *. For my first experience, my partner became addicted to the rush, and "plain old me" was no longer enough for him. A lesbian friend of mine had the exact same experience, and I have heard it from others. That being said, these relationships already had other issues; this was just one more crack.

I agree with rockstar, lots of open, candid and sober conversation beforehand is very important.

Topic if you had the person above you bent over, what would you do to them?
Posted 09 Sep 2011 17:05

get down on my knees and help him try to find whatever he'd lost ...

Topic If You Woke Up With The Person Above You What Would Be The First Thing You'd Say?
Posted 09 Sep 2011 17:00

mmmm, can we please just stay here for 5 more minutes?

Topic I really need...
Posted 09 Sep 2011 16:57

One day, just one, that has nothing to do with work ...

Topic Alphabet Songs (A-Z)
Posted 09 Sep 2011 16:56

Kiss me thru the phone ~ Soulja Boy

Topic What Are You Wearing?
Posted 09 Sep 2011 16:54

A red t-shirt, and white panties

Topic Three words said about the person above you
Posted 06 Sep 2011 19:48

Intelligent, Creative, Cultured