About bookworm_sue

Hmmm ... what to say about me. I am a Navy brat as we're called and have lived in two other countries and from coast to coast. Why am I here and decided to join? I am physically, mentally, and emotionally drawn to the BDMS lifestyle and hope to put my toe in again here. Although I am not a writer I might give it a go.

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Reading, forensics, reading, archaeology, reading, mathematics, reading, biology, reading, chemistry ... and did I mention reading?
Favorite Books:
Way too many to list
Favorite Authors:
Again, too many to list them all but some are Nora Roberts and her alter ego JD Robb, Agatha Christie, Sir Author Conan Doyle, JK Rowling, Jeffery Deaver, Jefferson Bass, Kathy Reichs, ...
Favorite Movies:
I am not that into movies but I do like the CSI and NCIS shows. Most of my fav movies are old black and white ones, Sherlock Holmes with Basil Rathbone, Charlie Chan, Mr. Moto ...
Favorite Music:
America, Doors, Chicago, Train, Taylor Swift, Lady Antebellum ...
Date Joined:
06 Jun 2013
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Topic: The Man - The Master
Posted: 16 Aug 2013 21:42

Very apt description of any man wanting to be, claiming to be, or even thinking of being a Master.

Topic: what grabs your attention when reading profiles?
Posted: 06 Aug 2013 18:44

I don't look at anything specificic, I simply observe the general aspect of it. What catches my eye is when I can deduce an authentic vibe about what kind of person is behind it ; to me that's the main purpose of profiles. People who obviously take this into consideration are people I'd tend to become friend with, even if their personality is totally different from mine.

Personally, my profile defines me quite accurately. I can only hope people perceive and appreciate my authenticity. This is simply an act of respect for those I interact with.

I agree. When there is no profile details, I definitely will not accept a friend request without talking to them for a while.

Topic: what grabs your attention when reading profiles?
Posted: 06 Aug 2013 18:40

If they don't say they have superpowers, I immediately stop reading.

Well don't bother to read mine then. I have no powers super or otherwise.

Topic: Celebs that are considered HOT to many but not you
Posted: 17 Jul 2013 19:30

Brad Pitt,
Leonardo DiCaprio,
Jennifer Aniston,
Any Kardashian,
Any Hilton,
and the list goes on and on ...

Topic: A General Observation, from a Woman's Perspective (but, all perspectives are welcome)
Posted: 17 Jul 2013 14:44

From a guys point of view attraction is more visual;but I have always been attractive to other features as well,brains ,wit,class all add into the perspective.Sex is great but you can only do it for so long.Sharing each other is just as important knowing who your partner is.Can you trust her etc

All very true. Unfortunately many people are shallow and do not see beyond the physical. Noe if everyone was blind for a period of time as mentioned above by MadMartigan, maybe everyone would have more depth.

Topic: If you could only eat one candy for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Posted: 16 Jul 2013 19:19

Cadbury chocolate.

Topic: Seeking Beta/Proofreader for Return of the Rain
Posted: 15 Jul 2013 11:31

I will give you a hand if you like. Let me know.

Topic: Ladies...does it bother you?
Posted: 11 Jul 2013 05:20

Does it bother you to hear or read about the vivid details of two men fucking? If ever presented with a threesome with two guys, would it be off limits for the guys to suck each other off and ass fuck each other?

To hear or read about it, not really. I do not like to share so I do not do threesomes.

Topic: A General Observation, from a Woman's Perspective (but, all perspectives are welcome)
Posted: 10 Jul 2013 16:32

Well now. Women are more likely to not only judge themselves but others at times by their looks right or wrong. But unfortunately that is because we are raised and conditioned by society to do so. You never see models that are plain or even just mildly attractive. They are all tall beautiful girls. So if your short, you automatically feel inferior. Many of them are blonde so if you have dark hair then that makes you feel worse. At least until you have some self worth. I had this personal battle as I am only 5 ft 2 with dark dark brown hair. I rarely wear makeup as I am allergic to it and I wear glasses. In no way have I seen any models that look like me and society holds the models up as the ideal, right or wrong.

However, I would say that the guys also perpetuate this, not among themselves as I am not sure that they look at each other in terms of handsomeness but rather they make a women's looks key in whether or not they spend any time with her. I do not have any recent pictures of myself. But the first thing I get asked here by guys is what do you look like, will you send me a picture. What if I sent them a picture of a woman that was considered plain or weighed 400 lbs. Would they stop talking to me because of what they think I look like? I would say yes simply because it has happened before. Now I do not know if I would be considered plain or not as that really varies from person to person and while I need to lose weight, I do not weigh 400 lbs. But if either of these things or both were true, should that matter if you like who I am?

I totally get that attractiveness will often bring people together. But online, you have the chance to get to know one another without that barrier. The real question at that point is if you did meet, or share pictures, would that make a difference even if you have gotten to know one another? At that point it would depend on how shallow a person you are.

Did you mean this to be a philosophy session? d'oh!

Topic: Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted: 10 Jul 2013 16:00

More flexibility in searches. either multiple words or tags within categories or combination of all three.

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Posted: 10 Nov 2015 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 15 Jun 2015 08:51
thanks for the add sue , hope to talk very soon
Posted: 10 Nov 2014 20:56
Happy Birthday, Sue.
Posted: 10 Nov 2014 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 10 Nov 2013 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
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Posted: 13 Sep 2013 19:22
Just a little of this and then we'll shower ...

Posted: 13 Sep 2013 19:13

You add the caption ...
Posted: 07 Sep 2013 10:19

Just a little night time conversation

Posted: 21 Aug 2013 17:37

Posted: 19 Aug 2013 22:56
Thank you for your wonderful comment on my poem!
You are very kind!

Posted: 14 Aug 2013 01:59
Posted: 11 Aug 2013 16:04
Thank you, Sue, for your comments on "After the Meeting"!
Posted: 04 Aug 2013 06:59
Thanks for adding me, and the comments on my stories!

Posted: 29 Jul 2013 02:55
Thank you for your kind thoughts on A Personal Pleasure
Posted: 22 Jul 2013 14:52
this is a favorite
Posted: 22 Jul 2013 14:31
Thanks for adding me Sue!
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