About BrendaH


My husband and I met when we were very young...I was only 14 and he 16....and neither of us dated anyone else once we were together. We were married when I was 20 and we were both virgins at the time we were married.....and as I say to anyone who invariably will say that to either me or my husband "sure he/she was" with a roll eyes...trust me... we were virgins. The rest of our lives have pretty much proven that. Prior to marriage we had engaged in some light petting through our clothes but nothing more. Looking back on all of this, what sticks out, was that my husband never forced the issue. I never gave any indication that I "would" and so he never really "tried". At the time I thought it a good thing. Now I'm not so sure.

After we were married we had a very slow introduction into sex. Neither of us had any experience....at all....and neither of us seemed to be well schooled in what to do when we got there. It was a long time before we had oral sex....and I'm speaking in terms of a couple of years and not days or months and most of what we did do was in the missionary position. After a while we began to relax and we tried some newer positions and we got comfortable with oral and even anal when I was particularly aroused.

My outward appearance which has always been what I guess would be considered elegantly sexy...liking dress clothes...nearly always in heels....always made up well and not cheaply...lots of jewelry....sort of belied my inner sex drive which was extroadinarily cautious. Since my husband was also inexperienced, shy and cautious this had our sex life together move at a snail's pace and led to what I now know as inhibition and reluctance to ask for more or variety on both of our parts. My husband has always loved the way I dress, almost showing me off in public but would simmer down a bit behind closed doors. He has some fetishes which I've always been willing to appease such as clothes and a love of woman in high heels which was easy for me. He also has a gum fetish....he likes women who chew gum "elegantly"...not like a cow. He showed me a woman who he thought was attractive chewing gum and I copied her. To this day he loves it. He also is attracted to women who smoke. So I spent about six months learning to smoke in the fashion he likes with help from a girlfriend who smoked at work and surprised him one day. I managed to limit myself to only smoking for his benefit whether in public and private although more recently I've "cheated" in that respect as well as I'll smoke socially around other people now as well. Even appeasing his fetish needs did not bring out a great change in my husbands aggressiveness in the bedroom and his lack of aggressiveness or willingness to suggest anything new made me shy to do the same. My husbands fetish nature being focused on situations or actions he can observe rather than participate in has made me wonder if he'd like to be a third party observer watching me with another man or men but there isn't a chance in hell I would ever bring it up to him. It would ne so far outside anything we've ever discussed that it wouldn't go over well at all. So all of this inhibition on both parties was going around in circles for years until it got to the point of my first experience which I've already sent you. Now we can move on to some more salacious experiences I've had.

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Some Work in the Garage

This is a real short recap of a cute little situation my husband and I had a few weeks ago. It was during the week and my husband had a vacation week so he was home and doing a lot of fixit up stuff around the house all week. I, on the other hand, have been working some really long hours as it’s been incredibly demanding at work. So occasionally I come home and go back to work in the...

Added 11 Jul 2010 | Category Quickie Sex | Votes 12 | Avg Score 3.92 | Views 15,238 | 3 Comments

Opening Up - Part 2

As we lay together on the couch, my husband and I took a couple of more hits of the bong with me exhaling into his mouth. This wasn’t something we did a lot of….sharing a high together…and I noticed that he was once again becoming aroused. He was not one who normally was “ready” so soon after he’d cum and this really excited me. I ran my index finger lightly up and down his cock and we made...

Added 19 Jun 2010 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.43 | Views 9,743 | 1 Comment

Opening Up

Over the past several months I've opened up to my husband a bit and while I haven't told him about my previous encounters, I told him about my "fantasy" of multiple partner sex....male.....and female. Initially he was taken aback a bit by it although I told him about it while we were lying in bed naked. He spoke as if he was really upset about it however something else told me...

Added 15 Jun 2010 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 8 | Avg Score 4.75 | Views 13,891 | 3 Comments

A Holiday Surprise

Just passing the Holiday season brought back a memory of and experience a few years into my exploration outside my marriage. By this point in time, I had had additional affairs with a few men...almost all of them were in tandem with my friend and neighbor, Nadine who was also a coworker of mine. This was during a period in both of our lives in which our husbands were otherwise...

Added 12 Jan 2010 | Category Fetish | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.82 | Views 15,470 | 3 Comments

Chapter 5: The Real Turning Point Part II

Early the next morning....and early is relative in this case....I woke up a little startled and I felt a blanket being put on me. Nadine had come down stairs and saw Robert and I sleeping on the couch and was kind enough to get us a blanket. I looked up and was cuddling with a man other than my husband for the first time in my life, had a neighbor friend looking down upon this...

Added 17 Nov 2009 | Category Group Sex | Votes 8 | Avg Score 4.88 | Views 5,814 | 6 Comments

Chapter 4: The Real Turning Point Part 1

The morning after the dinner and subsequent events involving Nadine I woke up with a bit of a hangover and an urge for some lovin'. My husband had already gotten out of bed and was having breakfast and, after I pee'd I went out to try and entice him back to bed. Unfortunately two of our children were already up and my husband didn't want to chance that we would be interrupted. So we put...

Added 30 Oct 2009 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.78 | Views 12,470 | 3 Comments

Chapter Three: A Night Out With the Girls

The last story of the experience at the wedding failed to mention that the night of the wedding I still went home and made love with my husband. I was still a little buzzed and needed a little more anyway. When I woke up the next day, the first thing I concerned myself with was Helen. She's not one to mince words, is very talkative and her cryptic comment as I passed her concerned...

Added 04 Oct 2009 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 8 | Avg Score 3.63 | Views 14,690 | 1 Comment

Chapter One: First Time Stray

About 7 or 8 years ago my children were young and as one of my boys played football, we got to know a lot of the parents of his teammates. I became friendly with some of the wives and assisted in serving water, running concessions, etc. One wife, in particular, I was friendly with. She was attractive and our boys became friends and they'd spend some time together not associated with...

Added 24 Sep 2009 | Category First Time | Votes 28 | Avg Score 4.73 | Views 16,922 | 7 Comments

Chapter Two: Country Club Wedding

Well, after my first experience with another man life was a little awkward for me for a while. There was some guilt regarding my own marriage although not as bad as I thought it might be. I think I justified it in a "he made me do it" sort of fashion. It also made me feel awkward around Susie and Dan for obvious reasons. Dan and I tiptoed around the entire experience in barely mentioning...

Added 24 Sep 2009 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 11 | Avg Score 4.36 | Views 15,041 | 3 Comments

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