Topic Plagued by thoughts of the same sex
17 Jan 2016 13:47
Its been a while since i last posted; and i think this may be the first time I've posted in this forum. Anyway, my current situation:
Have been in a relationship with my bf now for just about 3 years; before him i had other boyfriends, i had no doubt in my mind that i was straight as I've only ever really 'fancied' guys and had crushes on men. I have however always been curious of women and have always appreciated the beauty of the female form.
Recently I've found I've had more and more thoughts based around women; the only porn I've been watching over the last few months in particular have been lesbian and I'm starting to feel as though I'm missing something in my life. I guess you could say I'm bi-curious. The opportunity has never arose for me to explore my desires and with my being in a monogamous relationship its doubtful that i will get to see if i am any more than curious.
Anyway, my question is, have any of you guys realised you were bi/gay/straight whilst in a relationship? How did you handle it? Did you talk to your partner about it or were you scared of their reaction? Or perhaps you had similar thoughts, tried it out at the first opportunity and realised it was no more than a fantasy?
Let me know your story :)
Topic Girls, do you SQUIRT?
27 Jul 2014 19:09
The word squirt doesn't really describe it well, it's not like squeezing a sport bottle and the liquid comes roaring out. As others have said 'gush' sounds more accurate.
I haven't been able to do it alone or with just sex alone, it's always been the unique way my boyfriend uses his hands on me that does it. First time was a shock as the sheets and mattress get virtually ruined, and if I've been laying down during it I feel the dampness on my legs and up my back by the time we're done.
As for how often.. I've learned how to control it to an extent, providing my guy is doing what he does best to me of course. If he wants me to do it I can force more of it and if I'm not wanting to strip the bed right away I can (struggle) to hold off if he carries on with me.
Topic A Sex toy question
27 Jul 2014 18:52
So for me before I had tried them myself I asked my then boyfriend what he thought about us trying a vibrator because, well naturally I was curious and wanted to see what the fuss was about.
I was his first sexual partner and I guess because I was more experienced than he was he took the suggestion as me thinking he wasn't good enough in bed. He really couldn't see the benefits and the fun it could bring and completely disregarded the idea in case in enjoyed the vibe more than him.
On another note though since splitting from him I have now got quite a collection of bedroom goodies and my current boyfriend encourages me to buy whatever I want so we can use them together.
So yeah, experienced both points of views with partners and I'm so glad my bf now is pro toys !
Topic Waking up your man for sex
26 Jul 2014 03:29
So ladies it's been a while since I last posted but here's a scenario for you.
You wake up before your guy and are feeling VERY HORNY, you realise it's not just a passing feeling and you need it right there and then. However the key to your fiery orgasms is still spark out in a deep sleep snoring his head off. So.... In this situation how do you start him off before he's even fully awake, what do you do to make him stirr and wake up so he too just wants to pin you down and fuck you before realising what day of the week it is?
Do you perhaps sensually massage him? Whisper dirty talk in his ear? Climb on top of him so he opens his eyes mid-fuck? Maybe you rub your already flowing lady juices across his lips so he smells and tastes you?
So tell me girls... What IS your proffered morning wake up call and what does your guy best respond too?
And gentlemen if you find yourselves reading this post, feel free to give your perspective. What has your sex goddess done to you to get you going?
Topic Does it turn you on if a man is forceful with you in the bedroom?
03 Jun 2013 17:22
hes a general softy kind of bloke in day to day life but he can get a little rowdy behind closed doors which is a turn on. its good when you presume at first that they'd be all tender in the sack but turn out to be a bit of a demon
Topic Do Tattoo'd women turn you on?
20 Apr 2013 15:55
Didn't see this topic on the search so thought I'd ask you guys myself, do you find tattoo'd women sexy? If so, what kind of tattoos and where on the body do you find them most appealing.
I ask because I'm becoming increasingly more obsessed with 'painting my canvas' as I call it, I live ink and think its a great way to show individuality. My bf says he loves tattoo'd women and eggs me on to get them, but my worry is tht there may be a line to cross where having a few sexy tattoos may turn into something tht looks a little more butch. What's your guys opinions?
Topic Getting over Shyness and dirty talk
20 Apr 2013 15:39
Thanks girls, I think personally I grew up with a family that thought any mention of the word 'sex' was embarrassing and should be avoided. I learnt everything through sex ed at school and through things I picked up myself along the way, I guess it's still tht embedded thought tht it's embarrassing to say these things out loud. The noises come out naturally, but the words are a struggle, I just feel like I'll sound ridiculous and unnatural saying them. Maybe practice is all it takes tho ey.
Topic Girls on top
16 Apr 2013 20:00
I don't believe there is much more to add to what's been previously said :O
Topic Tell BF about Lush?
16 Apr 2013 19:58
I've been honest about this from the beginning with my bf, he's cool and laud back. I don't cyber or anything here, just chat casually to friends, read and post stories and check out the forums. Lush had helped me explore what I like and what I want. Letting him know how much I've learnt from lush has helped him be cool and relaxed about it, but I can imagine if you cyber it may open up a whole other kettle of fish :/
Topic Getting over Shyness and dirty talk
16 Apr 2013 19:46
Here's the thing guys, basically I used to have a boyfriend that made me feel quite belittled, it lead to me being extremely shy in the bedroom to the point where I ended up not wanting any sexual activity because of it. I never took my clothes off around him, never tried new things, even felt embarrassed doing anything other than missionary when we were together in that sense.
However, the silver lining! After parting from him my confidence has come back, especially since joining lush and exploring my sexuality through the stories and forums here. I am now ia much better relationship and am confident enough to be naked around him, try new things and even show him a thing or two ;) but despite all of my improvements, I still have a mental block when it comes to actually speaking dirty. I can think of things to say, but the words just won't escape my mouth. It's frustrating because he isn't shy at all and can say whatever comes to mind. It's a turn on to hear him and I know he'd love it if I did the same.
What I'm asking is, to stop rambling, how did you guys get more confidence in talking dirty? Could you share your experiences with me? What makes you more comfortable doing it?
Topic Ok With
16 Apr 2013 19:35
I don't see why it should bother me when I will watch it sometimes myself.
My boyfriends ex apparently hated him watching it, I really don't see why some ppl make a big deal out of it personally
Topic Do you like your ass being licked?
09 Apr 2013 20:41
Like the licking but still find the ol' in and out motion there a little strange, altho it seems to b one of them things u hav to keep trying to get used to tho right?
Topic Uncut Cocks
09 Apr 2013 20:14
Not been with anyone that was circumcised, maybe our British men don't seem to have it tht way as much as other nationalities do? But then again the only ppl I know tht have said they were cut have it that way due to religion, and it doesn't seem tht there are many really religious ppl where I come from.
Overall, I don't think it wud matter to me or change the way I approach anything even if they were. Like others have said, it's the guy it's attached too tht I'd be attracted too, so it really doesn't matter either way. Afterall, it's only a little bit of extra skin.. Not exactly an extra arm or leg lol
Topic Guilty or Innocent.
04 Apr 2013 03:33
Have you ever injured yourself during any sexual activity?
Topic Rimming/ass licking.. Taboo?
26 Mar 2013 14:11
used to think it was dirty but ive become more open with things lately and have come to find it feels quite good and have tried it on my bf too.
Topic C - String
23 Mar 2013 17:52
i have seen these on a few websites and catalogues but never actually tried them myself. Intrigued about them tho, whether they'd be comfortable or not.
Topic Stripper name!
23 Mar 2013 13:59
bobby roundhill :/
i sound like a tranny comedian
Topic Sexy Games
23 Mar 2013 13:50
you can get dice with words on them, on one you would have things like 'suck', 'kiss', 'lick' and on the other it would give you a body part. Each person takes it in turns to roll the dice and perform the move on the other person. e.g. 'bite ear'
would be fun as a foreplay game, altho im yet to try this personally
Topic Do you like to sleep naked?
23 Mar 2013 12:49
love to sleep in the nude, except when its really cold, then i like some pajamas or a little night dress