Forum posts made by capone312

Topic leaving wife for an ex girl friend
Posted 25 Jan 2010 02:37

the thing is that i loved my wife and was devtoed to her no matter what until she cheated on me.
it's not like just once it was going on for over three years. finally i told her that if she wanted this other relationship that i was ok with it and even offered to let her girlfriend move in with us so my wife could have the best of both worlds but that was not good enough.

as far as my ex goes i loved her with everything in me. i was a stupid impatient jackass and walked away. to which i have kicked myself in the ass for for about 16 years.
it's not like i'm jumping into something that i don't know about already, but what do you do when you have to question every action and word of the person your supposed to live the rest of your life with?
i can see everybody's point but when i do look in the mirror i get pissed because i have tried everything to make this marriage work but all it does is get worse. case in point imagine coming home from work and getting greeted with hey bastard where is your check? i know the idea of leaving my wife for my ex makes me look like an asshole but there is only so much a person can do to fix a marriage and i've come to the conclusion that it's time to get out.

Topic leaving wife for an ex girl friend
Posted 25 Jan 2010 02:24

I have a question, why is the ex girlfriend you want to go back to an ex in the first place?

My advice, if your unhappy waking up in the morning, you should do whatever it takes to start off the day happy again.

If your not happy with you wife, leave her, find someone that does make you happy. But maybe you should find someone completely new instead of going back to an ex girlfriend.

because i was stupid when we were together and left

Topic leaving wife for an ex girl friend
Posted 23 Jan 2010 02:28

the thing that gets to me is not only the fact that she says it was my fault that she cheated(she was lonely and i was working 16 hour days)
but after i found out she swore that it would never happen again and sure enough not even 2 weeks later it was happening again.
the part that really kills me is she remains in contact with the person she cheated on me with. ("she is my best friend")
i know the grass might not be greener on the other side but it has to be better than weeds and burnt soil.
as for loving my wife, i did until she told me that "she loved me but was not in love with me".
oh btw i forgot to mention that she planned to divorce me with money from my paychecks and shack up with her gf!!!
now normally every guy would love to be married to a woman who likes women too, but if she wanted to do it why hide it?

Topic leaving wife for an ex girl friend
Posted 22 Jan 2010 14:07

she has been "bitchy" since i caught her cheating on me

Topic YOUR FAVORITE BEVERAGE!
Posted 22 Jan 2010 04:42

beer=budweiser
whiskey= gentleman jack on the rocks

Topic GUY'S AND GIRL'S: What's the weirdest place you've masturbated, or had sex?
Posted 22 Jan 2010 04:29

church confessional during midnight mass on christmas eve

Topic If you could do one fictional character.
Posted 22 Jan 2010 04:20

one word elvira

Topic leaving wife for an ex girl friend
Posted 22 Jan 2010 04:17

i am thinking of leaving my bitchy wife of 9 years for the proverbial one that got away any advice

Topic Is That A Fender Guitar???
Posted 22 Jan 2010 04:08

who cares about the guitar?

Topic Bet'cha can't watch this just once
Posted 22 Jan 2010 04:02

i would buy a gym membership just to sit and watch that class

Topic On New Year's Eve
Posted 22 Jan 2010 03:50

holy cow it's a fine ass parade