About ComealotSex


I'm a 66 year old African American man. Happily married for 26 years into my 2nd marriage. I'm a family man who's got a hall pass to hang out online.

Mark Fleshman
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Chicago, Illinois, United States
Local Time:
18 Feb 2019 12:29
I love to read, write and role play erotica. We’ve all got our kinks. My fetish is listening to women pleasuring themselves. I want to be a fly on the wall.
Favorite Books:
I like the books I write. Hot steamy erotica.
Favorite Authors:
I like them all, but mostly females who like sex and more sex. I get bored with the romance novel stuff. Just give me raunchy sex scenes and I'm happy.
Favorite Movies:
Don't get me started. I'm hooked on movies and watch 3 to 5 a week. Netflix is my best friend!
Favourite TV Shows:
Marvel characters streaming on Netflix. Have you seen the Luke Cage or Daredevil yet? I used to watch House of Cards until number 45 got to be more entertaining.
Favorite Music:
Electronica, rock, soul, pop, rap, the list goes on and on.


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02 Sep 2017
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Topic: Selfies on first date?
Posted: 12 Feb 2019 04:39

Hoping to clarify. You meet someone online for the first time, like a chat or a PM. It's strictly an online relationship. You're in different cities. You never plan to meet IRL. You start an online conversation. When is it appropriate ask for a selfie so you know what the person on the other end of the computer looks like?

And where do the girls who like dick pics on the first date hang out on here?

Topic: Selfies on first date?
Posted: 11 Feb 2019 21:33

Meeting online is not quite the same as meeting in person. Do you share selfies on the first date?

When you meet in person you can see what you're getting. Maybe...

True. You can't tell a book by it's cover, but you sure can get a sense for what's going to greet you when you look inside.

But when you're meeting online for the first time, what do you do? When is the right time to share a selfie? And what about nude pics too?

Is the first encounter too soon, too fast, too loose and too creepy?

Topic: Having an Affair
Posted: 10 Feb 2019 09:28

I turned to having an affair after my LL wife made it clear that she did not enjoy sex anymore. Our marriage became celibate. I was faced with stark choices: 1. remain celibate (too difficult, and, frankly, I didn’t see why I should) 2. leave my wife and find someone else (not an option; I love my wife and adore our children) 3. pay for sex 4. have an online affair. This last one seemed the “least bad” option. I reasoned with myself that even though paying for sex was just sex, an animal act, and I was not being emotionally unfaithful, I was being financially unfaithful because I was spending our hard earned money on something my wife did not want.

But there was another reason to have an online affair. Certainly my ego would be stroked more by having an affair and that’s what I knew I wanted. I would know that the person was doing it because she found me attractive, rather than just being paid. For some reason this made it feel even better to me.

Even though the risk of emotional attachment by one or both of us would be great, that’s a good thing. I find it erotic, like watching a paperclip pulled into the invisible force field of a strong magnet a few inches away. The thrill and excitement of animal attraction can be intoxicating.

Topic: Looking for Female Writing Buddy to critique my blog
Posted: 06 Feb 2019 09:18

I've got a blog and a book out but I can't seem to find a writing buddy.


I'm looking for a female writing buddy to bounce ideas off of. My latest quest is to write more love letters and love poems to my long lost love.

And at the same time I'm working on my next smut book, Comealot Gone Wild. My first set of books were all about masturbation and self pleasure. This next book has a lot more interactive sex scenes.

Topic: How to get into the mood for sex?
Posted: 05 Feb 2019 14:34

Here is the situation.

I'm a 66 year old male and "happily married" for 26 years. I've got the perfect relationship except for one small thing, I'm stuck in a sexless marriage. I've always had a high libido and my wife had a low libido. Somehow we made it work, but over the last couple of years, she has no libido.

Once my partner initiates, I’m into it, but it seems like it never even occurs to me to be the one to start things. What do women do to get into the mood? How can I get into the mood on my own without depending on my partner?

Topic: How to get into the mood for sex?
Posted: 04 Feb 2019 07:24

Here is the situation.

I'm a 66 year old male and "happily married" for 26 years. I've got the perfect relationship except for one small thing, I'm stuck in a sexless marriage. I've always had a high libido and my wife had a low libido. Somehow we made it work, but over the last couple of years, she has no libido.

I went to counseling and my counselor recommended self pleasure as a way for me to find sexual pleasure without depending on my wife. This makes sense except for two small snags. First, I grew up Catholic and I was brainwashed into believing that self pleasure was sin and ended in eternal damnation. Yes, that's right I grew up in a time when self pleasure was considered abnormal and my mother scolded me when she found me playing with myself. The only acceptable sex in those days was PIV sex. And here's where matters get worse. I'm so well trained that I rely totally on my wife to initiate.

How do women get into the mood for sex?
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Topic: Does anybody ever trade erotica stories?
Posted: 07 Jul 2018 09:10

I get inspiration to write by reading and responding to short 500+ plus erotica stories. I'm currently writing an anthology of love letters targeted to women who like to hear words of affirmation.

Topic: The Comealot Sex Clinic: Jasmine (Kindle Edition) FREE through July 7th
Posted: 07 Jul 2018 09:00

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Topic: Are there any female subs available?
Posted: 03 Sep 2017 03:16

Thanks for the response. Yep, I'm looking for both. A woman with common interests who may eventually turn into FWB over time. I only do online so recording scripts is my first priority.

Topic: Are there any female subs available?
Posted: 02 Sep 2017 08:30

Hello, I am an amateur erotica author and I just loving hearing my steamy, sexy, sizzling scripts recorded. I'm new to lush stories and thought I might find a female author like me who likes to record audio erotica.

I like to read, write and listen to erotica, but the thing I like the most is to provide erotica scripts for someone to record in a sexy voice. I produce several scripts a week, and the more they are enjoyed by me and the person performing them, the more motivation I get to write more.

And if you want a male voice to record your scripts, I can help with that too.

Any ideas on where to go to get scripts recorded for fun?

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Your lips are so sweet and soft and succulent. Every time I see your face I want to kiss and hug and hold you. Why am I so addicted to your love? I don’t deserve you. You are too good to me. I give you so little and you give me so much. Am I a fool to love you so?   Open your eyes and see me. I long for you. I need you. I can’t live without you. Can you feel my voracious appetite for...

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