In my mid-forties and have discovered a naughtier side to my Southern lady charms.... I love a good sense of humor - it can be very sexy and make for more fun in and outside of the bedroom. I can also be a big flirt, but that doesn't mean I necessarily want to "do" anything with you - I like to get to know someone and jumping right into the deep end is not my style. I have written a few erotic stories that people have found very enticing, so thought maybe I would publish them on here... it's just hard to decide which one would be the best one to start with on here! So many great stories written by some very talented writers with wonderful imaginations - I just hope mine can measure up. : )
According to a lot of experts (psychotherapists, etc...), Ban, as a man, you are having the typical male reaction - most men, if they find out that their woman is having or had an affair, they kick them to the curb; and Nikki, you are having the typical female reaction - trying to save the relationship if it is salvageable... I honestly don't know what I would do either...
Absolutely!! Especially if the story is constructed so you see how the sexual situation came to be. I do not like stories that get to the sex in the first paragraph. Its like sex without foreplay. I love a few pages of foreplay.And there are quite a few authors on Lush that never fail to get me wet!! Thanks to all of you!! I agree with Nikki703 - if the story has more than just the sex act going on - a plot - a lead-in - well, by the time the main characters are worked up, so am I - and by the time they reach their peak - I can too, sometimes (blushing) - okay, pretty much all the time, truth be told!Thank you Lush authors for a very "relaxing" evening <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="icon_biggrin">
Ispy - I feel for you - been there, done that, but my guy did NOT come back - so that is a definite plus on his side, I think. You need to be honest with him - saying you don't want to get hurt again - why has he changed his mind? Did he just get lonely? OR was he lonely for YOU? AND I would ask him the same question you posed here, "what happens when (IF) we get jobs in different cities?" Take you time, if he loves you and truly wants you - he will be patient and wait - there is no rush to answer him. I'm a romantic, though, I am hoping he just realized that he couldn't live without you and came back hoping you would take him back! Good luck - just keep these in mind (two of my favorite quotes): (some risks are worth taking - and I have found that risking my heart - yes, it makes me MORE vulnerable, but it also brings on greater rewards in the end!)The policy of being too cautious is the greatest risk of all. ~Jawaharlal NehruThe greatest risk is the risk of riskless living. ~Stephen Covey
Oh good im on the right track, I looooove giving it and knowing that i am giving him so much pleasure is such a turn on I agree with MM - I am glad to see this recurring theme because I LOVE taking him into my mouth - sometimes I just have to have it - taste him - hearing his sounds of pleasure just turns me on more!! Woohoo!:d/
I completely agree that dirty talk is best when it is spontaneous and natural - in the heat of the moment, I can't help saying "things" - things that I want to do and things that I want to have done to me and what I like.... I believe that good sex - great sex is physical, emotional AND mental - and talking dirty just gets things hotter!
The Results ARE IN! You are50% SlutYour above score was normalized against the average, so don’t even TRY to disagree with us. Science is certain, and so are we: you are absolutely 50% slutty.Anybody ever look to see what the average scores on HERE are?
<img src="/forum/images/emoticons/thumbsup.gif" alt="thumbup"> This really depends on your partner.I just think it comes down to really knowing your partner and what their kinks are, so I'd suggest talking about sexual fantasies and likes and dislikes. A good way to start might be for a couple to each pick their top three favourite porn scenes (or sex stories) and exchange them. Maybe you might be surprised that your girl likes rough sex with humiliation. Or a girl might not realize her man wants to be dominated in bed. This might help give you more confidence with talking dirty if you know what their 'sexual style' is and what will turn your partner on. As Vance mentions, he's worried that comment will offend a woman. To me, it would be a huge turn on, but another girl might feel like it's too degrading. You just have to know what your partner likes and what their limits are (if they have any). I think Dancing Doll is right - you have to know your partner - what they like and don't like - I love dirty talk, as long as it is not humiliating such as calling me a slut or a whore, but call me a bad girl or a naughty girl or tell me what you are going to do to me or that you own me or tell me what to do - dominate me and I melt like butter in a hot pan - whew! <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/thumbsup.gif" alt="thumbup"> Vance, to me, your comment is not offensive at all - to me, it shows how much you want the woman you are with and have to have her - what a turn on for your woman!! If you aren't sure, talk to each other - hopefully, you will get a clear indication if you can let yourself go and talk dirty to your heart's content! Good luck! <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/cheerleader.gif" alt="cheerleader">
I have only been given the opportunity, once, a long time ago to give a man a blow job until he came in my mouth and then there was no question, I was swallowing - it wasn't about the taste, it was about the idea that I had given him that much pleasure and pleasing him even more by taking all of him into me - I have read that spitting sometimes comes across to your partner as rejecting a part of him. Anyway, my husband (soon to be ex) has never let me get that far - and we don't talk about it (which I am open to talking about any of it with my partner). I just know that I get sooooo turned on giving a man a blow job - it is so erotic and to listen to his sounds of pleasure and to look up and watch the pleasure on his face as I change the speed or lick the tip or..... Okay, I have to stop, I get turned on just thinking about it! It has been a LONG time since I have even had the opportunity for any of it! I would like to have the chance to taste my partner's cum someday - to take him to that place that he totally loses control and for me to take it into my mouth and swallow - so erotic. And the best - when we kiss afterwards - so hot!
I am definitely a lady on the streets, but I am a freak in the sheets - and getting freakier... LOL! I have always been labeled the good girl, so the partners that I have had have been pleasantly surprised that I am NOT the "good girl" in bed - well, do you have to be IN BED? That's so vanilla!! I think sex should be fun and exciting and surprising and mind-blowing whenever possible!
A Small Fantasy, now called"The Meeting" (This ended up being a story that sort of lead me along of its own accord - it wrote itself basically and I had not planned to write such a story YET!) We have been talking and enticing each other over our online chats and on the phone, for sometime; when we decide to meet for real. Oh, God, I am soooooo nervous; but nothing can stop me from...
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