Forum posts made by curlygirly

Topic Daily Message Limit
Posted 05 Oct 2013 13:09

I had a go.

WOW!! Thank you!

Topic Please help
Posted 05 Oct 2013 05:14

Maybe NOT getting an answer is your answer?? dontknow

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 04 Oct 2013 18:19

Damn that Sully Erna!


Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 04 Oct 2013 16:50

Slight girl crush on her. ;)


Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 04 Oct 2013 16:37

Metallica - Damage, Inc.


fuck it all, fuck it, no regrets

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 04 Oct 2013 05:34

Topic The male physique...
Posted 04 Oct 2013 04:26

Nah, I'm all over the road.

Topic One of my poems was read tonight as part of a poetry festival in Northern Ireland...
Posted 04 Oct 2013 04:09


Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 03 Oct 2013 17:16


Topic Daily Message Limit
Posted 03 Oct 2013 14:04

I could write you some, and send them randomly, if you like?

That's kind of you to offer, Daisy. Please feel free to start at any time!!


Topic Daily Message Limit
Posted 03 Oct 2013 11:15

Some of us got that message twice. angry7

I asked Gav if there could be an option that we could choose that meant we never get mass PMs from anybody , but apparently even he can't do the impossible. It's like finding out that the Great and Powerful Oz is a little old man with a microphone and a screen to hide behind. Amazing imagination and stunning talents, but limited by reality. *sigh*


Great idea, but how I would miss those mass PMs when guys perv on every woman on their friends' list.

Hey beautiful,

I haven't talked to you lately. Why don't you hit me up on whatsapp. My # is 6969696969, cuz I sure would like to lick you! "

Signed sincerely,

Topic What do you do if your partner builds up your climax then leaves you hanging before your release?
Posted 03 Oct 2013 06:30

Happened to me thrice today. So much sexual frustration. :)

First: Finish myself off.
Second: Find a new sexual partner.

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 02 Oct 2013 14:03

I know I've seen that profile some place before. evil4

Very complete bio and very eclectic taste in music. I like it!

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 02 Oct 2013 10:23

Seems appropriate for October.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 02 Oct 2013 10:07

Topic Announcing our "Autumn Equinox" Competition Winners
Posted 01 Oct 2013 13:08

Congrats to the winners! Some awesome stories! hello1

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 29 Sep 2013 04:29

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 29 Sep 2013 04:03

Easy Like Sunday Morning


I think I like this cover better than the original, probably because I'm NOT a Lionel Richie fan. Plus, I love the video, has sort of a Lush quality to it.

Topic Can online relationships be significant or meaningful?
Posted 28 Sep 2013 04:47

I've had two great relationships on here that have meant a lot to me and has lasted a long time, I feel connected and have real feelings toward these two even though I may never meet them in real life. Can online relationships really be meaningful and can someone really have a connection with someone across the web?


However, my most meaningful relationships and/or friendships on Lush have moved into real life and not just stayed online, although that was not a quick process.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 28 Sep 2013 04:28

Topic Is everything okay babe?
Posted 28 Sep 2013 03:41


Just wondering. Women are able to include a man in their world more easily then men can. Face it, we're easy. But, rather than be with someone who cares and thinks of you in every way, women seem to prefer being alone or waiting. To be with someone that's a momentary turn on, rather than be with someone who cares. Not a beta male, or push over, just someone who actually cares.

Back story: I'm totally in love with a lady at work. She's a single mom, my age, beautiful. In my eyes. I've invited her to lunch, nothing. She doesn't go to lunch with others either. I've looked out for her when she's sick/down. Never leaned toward anything more than just lunch in order to get to know one another. Nothing. I know it's a dead end road. But, what is in her head? The proverbial question of most men, married or single, if they actually care. We've talked frequently, and we get along well, and like me, she's probably home now sitting alone as I am.

Problem: excuse my frankness, but I usually don't shit where I eat, but she is persistently on my mind, like now. She's very timid, and very shy although she is always dressed fashionably. She never leaves the office, so she doesn't dress for attention, she just has self respect and she always looks great. And, no, she does not have a boyfriend, or steady, we've talked about that. Two adults, single parents, I'm totally confused.

So, how do I make it better?

p.s.: Video found by inspiration from personal assistant.

I can't tell you what's in her head, but I can tell you what's in mine.

I was introduced to a man by a mutual friend a few months ago. He's also divorced, has kids, lives in the same town, funny, kind, active as I am, and thoughtful. However, I am not physically attracted to him in any way shape or form. There is absolutely no spark for me. It's just not there and it's not something that can be forced. Even with beer goggles on there's nothing. (I'm serious) I mentioned from the beginning that I am not interested in a relationship, but he doesn't seem to be taking the hint and mentioned to our mutual friend that he would like to pursue things further. This has now caused me to back off being friends with him. I'm not trying to lead him on, but I'm also not jumping into a relationship with him just because we're in parallel places in our lives. So, as you said, I will be alone and waiting for someone I have a connection with and not just someone who is around and available. So that's how it works out in my mind. I just want to add that my "alone and waiting" is spending a huge amount of time with my kids, family, and friends and enjoying my life for the first time in a long time. This has been a fabulous summer "alone."

Also, once upon a time in the land of my youth, I dated a co-worker. That shit went bad fast. Learned my lesson and never ever ever made that mistake again. confused5 Don't know about your friend, but this is definitely why I don't shit where I eat.

Take care and good luck.

Topic Feeling Daring or Naughty?
Posted 27 Sep 2013 08:27


Correct! Shhh

Topic Feeling Daring or Naughty?
Posted 27 Sep 2013 08:11

I don't do naughty OR daring clothes in front of family. Silly me! sad1 Ick!

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 27 Sep 2013 05:49

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 27 Sep 2013 05:33

It's Friday. You know what to do...

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 27 Sep 2013 05:24

To all the Big Sandwich Partiers! Thank you!!

Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 26 Sep 2013 16:51


Topic advice for newbie?
Posted 26 Sep 2013 16:50

Hi and welcome to the forums! hello2

I've never really used the chat rooms before, but I've made a lot of friends in the forums. I think the word games forum is a great place to start. Most people are usually very friendly and fun there. Once you get used to that, you can always start posting in the different forums and, hopefully, making new friends. Good luck!

Games Forums

Topic sense of humor
Posted 26 Sep 2013 16:23

I agree with this entirely. I'm practically the same ; I'm generally calm and serious, but smile easily and can throw hilarious punch-lines here and there when no one expects it. When people witnessed that funny side of me, even serious conversations will be considered fun and humorous as people expect me to say something funny at any moment. I'm quite unpredictable, which is even more enticing and keeps people on their toes.

And there is such a thing as too muchhumor I believe. Some guys are not really funny, but goof around just to attract attention. Often times people will laugh at them simply because they make a fool of themselves. They also act childishly and can't hold serious/meaningful discussions, which can be annoying, and even boring.

I agree. It can be very painful to watch! confused5

There's really not too much to read into this. When girls say they like a guy with a sense of humor, they just mean a guy that doesn't take himself too seriously. And a guy they can share a laugh laugh at things that are actually funny...and even laugh at each other. And having a guy that can make you laugh is great on a bad and/or long day.

When it's not cool is when a guy tries too hard to be funny. It just comes off as obnoxious...and lame...and annoying. There's something really special about a guy that's naturally funny and/or a really charming amount of goofy/silly.

Exactly! thumbup

Humor is at least a 10 for me. There are not a lot of physical traits that are a must have for me (height and strong chins), but humor is a must!!

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 26 Sep 2013 10:27

Can never be enough hoops, Poppet!