Forum posts made by curlygirly

Topic Is using toys cheating
Posted 07 Oct 2013 11:39

I recently had an odd offer.
I was talking with a close friend who is big into her toys about a recent drought in my sex life.
At the end of it all I jokingly said id like to watch her get off while I rub one out.

She said ok!!!! We haven't actually done it because shes my girlfriends bff and we agreed it wouldn't be appropriate .

But shes really hot and its just a show so... maybe.
What do you guys think

If you both agree it's not appropriate, then I'm pretty sure that you both know it's cheating.

Toys aren't really the issue here. Are you going to be using toys to rub one out? Nope! confused5 It doesn't matter what either of you are using to actually get the job done. It's a sexual act that you would be performing with another person without your gf knowing. Cheating. Period.

Not judging here; that's just my answer.

Topic Why not Skype?
Posted 07 Oct 2013 11:20

I guess the other side of the question is..... Why wouldn't you want to see the person you are talking to? Please understand, I'm not talking about the randos that you've spoken to like twice and all they say is "Hey baby, I'm horny." I'm talking about the people that you regularly chat with and have an actually friendship with. Don't you want to see who they are? Am I being too real for this site?

I've seen pictures of my very few close Lush friends who've actually made it into my real life (phone, text, and FB) and that's more than enough for me.

I've never used Skype and don't plan to. It holds no appeal for me. I've had real life friends ask me if I use it as well, and I've declined their invitations, too. I have absolutely no interest in seeing people as we're talking. dontknow

So him not wanting to cyber definitely doesn't impact his Skype chances in a negative way.

You're right there! thumbup I've never seen a woman have on her profile that she'll only Skype with men who are willing to cyber. And if you do see that, you can be pretty sure it's a dude. evil4

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 07 Oct 2013 11:10


Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 06 Oct 2013 08:16

It's Sunday; It's Fall. That can only mean one thing!!

I've got my game-day garb on. Go Bears!

Topic Daily Message Limit
Posted 05 Oct 2013 13:09

I had a go.

WOW!! Thank you!

Topic Please help
Posted 05 Oct 2013 05:14

Maybe NOT getting an answer is your answer?? dontknow

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 04 Oct 2013 18:19

Damn that Sully Erna!


Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 04 Oct 2013 16:50

Slight girl crush on her. ;)


Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 04 Oct 2013 16:37

Metallica - Damage, Inc.


fuck it all, fuck it, no regrets

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 04 Oct 2013 05:34

Topic The male physique...
Posted 04 Oct 2013 04:26

Nah, I'm all over the road.

Topic One of my poems was read tonight as part of a poetry festival in Northern Ireland...
Posted 04 Oct 2013 04:09


Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 03 Oct 2013 17:16


Topic Daily Message Limit
Posted 03 Oct 2013 14:04

I could write you some, and send them randomly, if you like?

That's kind of you to offer, Daisy. Please feel free to start at any time!!


Topic Daily Message Limit
Posted 03 Oct 2013 11:15

Some of us got that message twice. angry7

I asked Gav if there could be an option that we could choose that meant we never get mass PMs from anybody , but apparently even he can't do the impossible. It's like finding out that the Great and Powerful Oz is a little old man with a microphone and a screen to hide behind. Amazing imagination and stunning talents, but limited by reality. *sigh*


Great idea, but how I would miss those mass PMs when guys perv on every woman on their friends' list.

Hey beautiful,

I haven't talked to you lately. Why don't you hit me up on whatsapp. My # is 6969696969, cuz I sure would like to lick you! "

Signed sincerely,

Topic What do you do if your partner builds up your climax then leaves you hanging before your release?
Posted 03 Oct 2013 06:30

Happened to me thrice today. So much sexual frustration. :)

First: Finish myself off.
Second: Find a new sexual partner.

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 02 Oct 2013 14:03

I know I've seen that profile some place before. evil4

Very complete bio and very eclectic taste in music. I like it!

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 02 Oct 2013 10:23

Seems appropriate for October.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 02 Oct 2013 10:07

Topic Announcing our "Autumn Equinox" Competition Winners
Posted 01 Oct 2013 13:08

Congrats to the winners! Some awesome stories! hello1

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 29 Sep 2013 04:29

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 29 Sep 2013 04:03

Easy Like Sunday Morning


I think I like this cover better than the original, probably because I'm NOT a Lionel Richie fan. Plus, I love the video, has sort of a Lush quality to it.

Topic Can online relationships be significant or meaningful?
Posted 28 Sep 2013 04:47

I've had two great relationships on here that have meant a lot to me and has lasted a long time, I feel connected and have real feelings toward these two even though I may never meet them in real life. Can online relationships really be meaningful and can someone really have a connection with someone across the web?


However, my most meaningful relationships and/or friendships on Lush have moved into real life and not just stayed online, although that was not a quick process.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 28 Sep 2013 04:28

Topic Is everything okay babe?
Posted 28 Sep 2013 03:41


Just wondering. Women are able to include a man in their world more easily then men can. Face it, we're easy. But, rather than be with someone who cares and thinks of you in every way, women seem to prefer being alone or waiting. To be with someone that's a momentary turn on, rather than be with someone who cares. Not a beta male, or push over, just someone who actually cares.

Back story: I'm totally in love with a lady at work. She's a single mom, my age, beautiful. In my eyes. I've invited her to lunch, nothing. She doesn't go to lunch with others either. I've looked out for her when she's sick/down. Never leaned toward anything more than just lunch in order to get to know one another. Nothing. I know it's a dead end road. But, what is in her head? The proverbial question of most men, married or single, if they actually care. We've talked frequently, and we get along well, and like me, she's probably home now sitting alone as I am.

Problem: excuse my frankness, but I usually don't shit where I eat, but she is persistently on my mind, like now. She's very timid, and very shy although she is always dressed fashionably. She never leaves the office, so she doesn't dress for attention, she just has self respect and she always looks great. And, no, she does not have a boyfriend, or steady, we've talked about that. Two adults, single parents, I'm totally confused.

So, how do I make it better?

p.s.: Video found by inspiration from personal assistant.

I can't tell you what's in her head, but I can tell you what's in mine.

I was introduced to a man by a mutual friend a few months ago. He's also divorced, has kids, lives in the same town, funny, kind, active as I am, and thoughtful. However, I am not physically attracted to him in any way shape or form. There is absolutely no spark for me. It's just not there and it's not something that can be forced. Even with beer goggles on there's nothing. (I'm serious) I mentioned from the beginning that I am not interested in a relationship, but he doesn't seem to be taking the hint and mentioned to our mutual friend that he would like to pursue things further. This has now caused me to back off being friends with him. I'm not trying to lead him on, but I'm also not jumping into a relationship with him just because we're in parallel places in our lives. So, as you said, I will be alone and waiting for someone I have a connection with and not just someone who is around and available. So that's how it works out in my mind. I just want to add that my "alone and waiting" is spending a huge amount of time with my kids, family, and friends and enjoying my life for the first time in a long time. This has been a fabulous summer "alone."

Also, once upon a time in the land of my youth, I dated a co-worker. That shit went bad fast. Learned my lesson and never ever ever made that mistake again. confused5 Don't know about your friend, but this is definitely why I don't shit where I eat.

Take care and good luck.

Topic Feeling Daring or Naughty?
Posted 27 Sep 2013 08:27


Correct! Shhh

Topic Feeling Daring or Naughty?
Posted 27 Sep 2013 08:11

I don't do naughty OR daring clothes in front of family. Silly me! sad1 Ick!

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 27 Sep 2013 05:49

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 27 Sep 2013 05:33

It's Friday. You know what to do...

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 27 Sep 2013 05:24

To all the Big Sandwich Partiers! Thank you!!