Forum posts made by curlygirly

Topic Happy Birthday to Nicola!
Posted 13 Jul 2013 14:41

Happy Birthday, Nicola! I hope it's a great one!

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 12 Jul 2013 16:53

Staind - It's Been Awhile

Love it! thumbup


Topic Shaved
Posted 12 Jul 2013 15:52

Normally not a LOT of hair grows on a penis, but along the lower section of the shaft you can get hair growing. How much depends on the guy. So some guys shave the bit off the shaft and that is it. Others shave all hair off, to include above and below the penis. And others just trim. Pretty much it is just like the options women do.... but I am sure you knew that, I am just typing it out. lol

We have had our share of "men grooming preference" threads, but this one is the first (that I can recall) that starts out with the OP trying to insult those who shave. LOL But heck, "they" often say all sorts of things. d'oh!

Stick around here long enough, and we'll all eventually be insulted. That's the beauty of the internet. thumbup

Topic Shaved
Posted 12 Jul 2013 15:34

Shaved Penis or No Shaved Penis? They say only a real man doesn't shave.

Ummm, does a lot of hair normally grow on a penis? Embarassed I can't say I've ever been with a guy with a hairy penis. dontknow

That being said, I think a man's pubic area should have some hair. I prefer trimmed and not shaved.

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 12 Jul 2013 15:00

Welcome, HT and Dorset! Hugs

Aw you guys have been partying while I've been away!!!

Welcome to even more newbies!!! It's so good of you to drop by!!!

I hope everyone's taking care of you??

I'll be back shortly, would someone mind fixing me a drink?

I'll bring snacks too, all y'all must be peckish...

I was gonna fix you a drink, Maz, but it looks like you've been hitting the bottle(s) pretty hard.

Your drink is served!

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 12 Jul 2013 11:39

Oh, hell. Am I late...? Got held up in traffic -- major tie-up on 680, y'know.

Um... yeah, I just need to know where the fridge is. Gotta get this champagne on ice . Great, thanks.

So, er -- where do we leave our clothes? This bad boy is ready to PAR-TAY!

Hey, welcome to the 2 Dannies!! Hugs

FTM, let me show you were the fridge is. Sorry the kitchen is such a mess. We all seem to congregate and do everything in here...and I mean everything! evil4

Looks like we need to drink a bit more to make room for the alcohol you and Adele brought. Pour Wine

Topic What do guys think about girls who like to have sex with multiple men at the same time?
Posted 12 Jul 2013 06:58

He has it right.

I like the fantasy factor of it, and in porn it is hot. However, I'd never want to share my girlfriend/wife with another man. Just not how I'm hardwired. I'm a heavy romantic at heart and that just doesn't jive with me.

Now, if I ever had the opportunity for casual sex with a girl I had no desire to date at any point and there was no chance of falling in love, sure. I may be inclined to participate.

This is what I've heard! thumbup

Sure they would love a woman who is open to 3somes and more, but she's usually not someone they want to be in a relationship with. dontknow

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 12 Jul 2013 06:43

ok cg, time to get naked and serve me my drinks. might take a whileevil4

OK, drinks are on me!! *cheers*

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 12 Jul 2013 06:21

WooHoo! Pour Wine hello1

This seems so fitting to post again from the very first post on page one from Maz. *sniff*

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 12 Jul 2013 06:07

Welcome to the party, MM. Glad to meet you! Big Hugs Always love a guest who brings refreshments!

dam, how many times i got to post to get to page 100

I know, right? I think Gav has rigged something and it's always going to be page 99 for us...sorta like Groundhog's day! evil4

Is it too early for a game of dice?

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 12 Jul 2013 05:19

If you wake up and keep drinking vodka, you feel much better.

We probably should get some breakfast in us, if we're gonna be drinking all weekend. to celebrate 100 pages .

OK, I made breakfast. My work here is done.

Got Maz some creamer for her coffee.

Oooh, why haven't I seen this in the stores near me? WTH?

Topic Profile images - To cock shot or not?
Posted 11 Jul 2013 16:13

Oh I agree with this - I'd like to think someone was showing ONLY me his cock, rather than a dozen random strangers - what's special about that otherwise...

Another pet peeve is when people ASK me to comment on their pics - I very rarely look at anyone's pics at all, so I am certainly not going to go onto someone I barely know's page and start leaving comments on their pics...

Grrrr! I HATE this, especially when you say no and they keep asking. I said no, I don't need to explain to you why not. WTF??? Sore spot with me. I've just started deleting friends who ask more than once. Not even explaining, just delete. confused5

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 11 Jul 2013 15:51

What in the hell is going on in here????

Hey guys, PAGE 99! The first one to post on page 100 has to buy all the others drinks and serve them naked.

Oh, I see!! hello1 hello1 hello1

I Love Thursday Thursdays!

Well, except when the world is doing this on Friday morning?

Topic what are you drinking?
Posted 11 Jul 2013 15:39

Gasps say it ain't so!

Jinxed myself talking to you today, Dude. I've been doing so good! sad1

Is Lushing considered a social event?? Plus, with the time difference between here and Canada, it's the weekend already. evil4

Topic what are you drinking?
Posted 11 Jul 2013 15:17

cran-lemonade with vodka

Topic Unusual toys?
Posted 11 Jul 2013 15:09

I haven't done that myself. A partner I've had before used all different kinds of stuff: candle sticks, empty lotion bottles, handles of utensils, thin speakers, microphones, xbox controllers, thin hair brushes, and more.

Honestly, I never saw the fascination of this for some reason. It reminds me a little kid sticking things up their nose. dontknow

Topic Profile images - To cock shot or not?
Posted 11 Jul 2013 14:52

Okay, I can think of two current and one past Lushie, who do/did what I would deem to be artistic and sexy cock shots. They were tasteful, well thought out and properly composed photographs, which one could consider to be erotic art... So, out of ALL of the profiles I have seen, only 3 have made the grade (just in my opinion)

Now, I have to say that I really dislike cock pics on profiles, certainly on public view. I tend not to look at them and they are more of a turn off than a turn on if I'm scoping out a friend request or whatever. They don't offend me or anything, but I just don't like it. That would be like me putting pussy pics on my profile (don't even look, there are none, I just wouldn't do it)

That's not to say that I have never found cock pics to be sexy, that's simply not the case. There have been times where someone has plucked up the courage to share a pic with me and that can be very exciting, even if it's not a great pic. I mean, to think of them wanting to reveal such a personal thing is an honour really I guess, well, in some cases.

I also don't mind cock pics quite so much if they are set so that only friends can see them, or a private album for only closer friend(s) to see. I mean, why would I want to see some stranger's cock?? No thanks!!

Generally speaking though, unless I'm fucking you, I'm not interested in seeing your dick, thanks all the same.

Oh, I should add, from time to time, I have been sent some interesting and innovative cock/cum tributes - I don't ask for them, but some have been very clever and made me laugh (in a good way)

Hope that helps :)

thumbup I'm in total agreement with Maz.

I love when guys have the stock red AV and nothing filled out on their profile, but have figured out how to post cock pics. That's some real determination. sad1

There are exactly 2 guys I can think of on this site who have well done cock pics, and most of those are a bit of a "tease."

Most cock shots are terrible, some self indulging horn dog, with a hole in his sock and a toilet in the background.
I think one of the worst I saw was some lazy jackass in a baseball cap and nothing else, sitting in a lazy boy chair with his cock in his hand. Blech. It was so unsexy.

The worst I remember was in a bathroom over a dirty cat litter box. *retch*

I do have a question, though. Obviously guys love seeing any and all pink parts women are willing to show on Lush, but do the bi/gay guys enjoy seeing the random cock pics? If so, maybe all the cock pics posted are for men to ogle since most women don't enjoy seeing random dicks? dontknow

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 10 Jul 2013 17:14

Here you go! thumbup
You were close. When you hit the img button (mountain icon) you have to paste the url between the brackets. You had it after both brackets. Good luck!

Topic Unusual toys?
Posted 10 Jul 2013 11:35

If i am not mistaking the OP was suggesting does anyone use household items in a sexual way not cooking

dontknow Are you sure???

And here I was going to share how I use butter knives as screwdrivers and the heel of my stiletto for a hammer.

I'm almost too embarrassed to admit in a public forum how often I use cucumbers for a bit of relaxation. Embarassed (sliced cucumbers really do reduce the puffiness around the eyes.)

Topic Happy BIG 40 Shyvixen!!!
Posted 09 Jul 2013 16:19

Hope your 40th Birthday is as wonderful as you are, Shy! Big Hugs

Queen for a Day!

Make a wish, Toots!


Topic Who is your girl crush?
Posted 09 Jul 2013 11:58

Tina Fey. Love her!*275/TinaFeyVF.jpg

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 08 Jul 2013 19:46

Topic Circumcision And Female Sexual Power
Posted 08 Jul 2013 19:17

We all have female friends who told us when we were pregnant how we 'MUST' have our baby boy circumcised - why? - this was the only time in their lives they would have total, ultimate power over a man's penis.

You know who told me I MUST have my baby boys circumcised? My husband, their father. Put that in your internet conspiracy theory pipe and smoke it. The only thing my female friends pushed was breastfeeding. Evil women that they are.

Every fucking time I see this posted on a forum I'm a part of, it turns into an instant flamewar. Put it into the Think Tank. (In case anyone wants links to the 4 other forums I've been on that this exact same shit has been posted - PM me)
Oh... And my opinion on it is? Get the fuck over it. If you don't like it, change it. But don't bring me this pseudo-psychobabble to create tension in our forums by laying blame on an entire gender. That being us gals. And you deliberately posted it in "Ask the Gals"...

Cause yes... When my son was born the first thing I thought of was destroying him. Are you serious? No, really? Really? Give me a break!

**Sidenote** Yes, I'm cranky. And no, I'm not PMSing .

I'll see your cranky and raise you an ornery. 3601

Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 08 Jul 2013 19:05


#%$#%! AC went out. It's 87 in here now. I'm melting. sad1

Topic Boyfriend has a small to increase sexual pleasure?
Posted 08 Jul 2013 18:44

Uh no I am not comparing him to past partners. Their are none to be compared to. I don't mind the size I honestly don't. He can pleasure me fine in other ways. I'm pretty new to the sex stuff him being my first and all. I just want to know if their are positions that are better then just standard missionary when he's a little smaller down there.

What're your thoughts on anal? Embarassed

I'm serious. If you've never tried it, but have thought about it, he sounds like the perfect guy!

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 08 Jul 2013 16:38


Topic Cam Fun Competition Winners
Posted 07 Jul 2013 17:12

Congratulations to the winners. Definitely a fierce competition!

Topic Why so few for the guys?
Posted 07 Jul 2013 16:53

I was browsing the forums, as I do so often when I am at home and bored, and I decided to go to the "ask the guys" section to see if I could answer a few questions. What I found was mostly out-dated questions. Now how should I eat up my spare time? (not my actual question)

So my question for you all is, "Why so few inquiries for the men?". dontknow

I expect some solid answers ladies.

Honestly, I'm not really interested in the opinion of a bunch of random guys, so I don't post questions. I'm only interested in the opinion of the man in my life. I actually will ask him a lot of the questions posted on Lush. He'll usually groan when I tell him I want to ask him something I read here. evil4

There are a lot of questions in Ask the Girls, but it's usually the same questions being asked repeatedly including: the great pubic hair debate (landing strip), do you prefer cut or uncut cocks (only been with cut), do women really prefer large cocks (I don't), and spitter/swallower (swallower). A lot of the questions asked seemed to be voyeuristic and something to get the guy off or a fishing expedition to see if he can find women who will cyber, send nude pics, or meet for a hookup. Definitely a case of quantity over quality. My 2 cents

Topic Am i really that unattractive?
Posted 07 Jul 2013 07:47

One thing that might help in talking to lasses is being positive.

Take a look back through your blogs on here. Overall, what is the lasting impression that you get from them? Read them at face value, as if they were my blogs on my profile. How do they make you feel? What do they say about me as a person? Could you seek to change any of those statements, for better or worse? Do you think that I would be a person with whom you could find instant amusement and shared happiness?

Blogs often tend to be overthought, or spur of the moment. But they all reflect a part of our inner self. Looking back at our history and statements is sometimes a good way to find out what sort of impression we give people, or how they might read us.

As soon as I notice myself moaning (not in the fun way) about the state of my inner being, where anybody and everybody can read it (sadly, I do it all the time), I know I have to stop and take positive action.

Sometimes, an issue is not about getting people to fancy us and want to be with us. Sometimes, it's about learning to look at how we show which parts of ourselves. don't mean hide the pain, loneliness and frustration. I mean look at and share the better parts of ourselves in not just our words, but our attitudes too. Because our attitude to life really does come across. This in itself can have an enormous impact on how others see us.

It doesn't matter how you try to behave or flirt or treat women, in my opinion. If your attitude is similar to mine, then that will come across in your very atmosphere. You can be the most wonderful man in the world, but if most of what you display is a poor ol' me mentality, then that will have an effect on your "aura", even unconciously.

What makes you feel good? What do you enjoy? What makes you want to share the fun in your life? What is great about the person that you are? If you can begin to find those things, it will come across in your words and personality. As I said before, try to stop worrying about the reactions of other people to you. Try to think about the effects of yourself on them. And the first way to do that is to honestly look at yourself from outside.

I'm not saying that this is easy; far from it. But perhaps this might be a key to you finding some confidence in currently being single, and later, confidence in sharing a growing relationship with somebody.


I really hesitated posting here, because I don't know you well, but you've been sweet the few times we've spoken. However, I think Shy hit the nail on the head with her post.

To be perfectly blunt, Jay, you have a chicken little air about you, and the "sky is falling" in almost every one of your blogs. As Shy posted, look back through your blogs and read them out loud. Would you want to get involved with this guy whose life is constantly "falling apart?" Between that and your "goodbye cruel Lush" blogs, because your friends here are disappointing you, it makes people run in the other direction. You come across as needy, whiny, desperate, and attention mongering. (I did say I was going to be blunt, right) confused1

I will just assume this is the same vibe you give off in real life and it has a lot more to do with your inability to attract women more than your weight, receding hair line, and acne.

I hope you got some answers to your questions, Jay. Sorry if they're not the answers you wanted. Good luck!

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 05 Jul 2013 16:08

Lessons starting tonight. Ole!