Topic Introverts: Would you date an extrovert?
27 Feb 2015 11:10
Speaking as an introvert (if a very social one) I have always tended to have dated extroverts. Must be a question of opposites attracting!! And the fact that I'm a very good listener... ;)
In terms of tips, its actually easier to be on the quiet side if your date is chatty and extroverted, as they will happily talk away with no prompting and so this avoids any painful silences!!
Topic Milking Balls and/or Prostate?
26 Feb 2015 15:47
I'm sure there are many more experienced ladies who will know more than me Shylass!! But plenty of lads might flinch or even squeal like girls at the idea of their balls being "milked". Most of them like their crown jewels to handled gently; stroked, caressed, licked and even softly fondled and sucked.
Prostate milking really involves venturing behind the balls to the perineum and stimulating that area around (and in) the man's anus, so is a totally different can of beans. Although with the right lad he might be your slave forever if you manage to pleasure his balls and prostate at the same time! ;)
Topic How many hours of sleep do you need?
26 Feb 2015 15:05
10 is good. I can just about cope short term on 8/9 hours. If I have time on the weekend 12 is blissful and sets me up for the week
Topic Do you keep a Diary.
26 Feb 2015 14:30
Not a diary as such but a regular journal just when I feel like letting out thoughts and feelings to work things through. Its just in my regular notepad alongside my daily to do list and shopping list!!
Topic Multiple orgasms
26 Feb 2015 06:28
Yes in my experience that is perfectly normal
Topic Do you feel confident?
25 Feb 2015 15:55
Definitely age related with me! Was a very shy teenager, utterly embarrassed by the affect my voluptuous body had on the opposite sex. I felt fragmented and as though I should be confident but didn't know how. Roll on my 20's and 30's and despite outward assurance I still felt that way. And bam! My 40's hit and (after various health/life crises) things just clicked. I became at home with my body, comfortable emotionally and at last sexually soaring. I don't feel like I've lost any time at all, just cohered as a woman at the right time for me.
So in answer to your question. If you are confident and only just in your 30's you have oodles of time. You've missed out on nothing. Just enjoy the feeling because it's a mature feeling of sexual empowerment and will last for decades.
Topic When is cheating really cheating?
25 Feb 2015 15:34
I think cheating is when you can connect with someone emotionally, sexually, or any kind of physical way, more than you do your spouse. For one reason or another, be it because of you, or something you feel is missing from your relationship. Which you should fix with your spouse, instead of finding it elsewhere. If you can't fix it, you leave that person, THEN find someone.
Topic What is the best way for a guy to...
24 Feb 2015 15:34
Just be friendly and casual and strike up a conversation. Don't ask for sex in your first sentence (you'll just come off as drunk or an idiot or both). Yes, pay enough attention to be flattering, or even offer to buy me a drink if we're both at the bar and already chatting. Once the ice has been broken its all so much easier.
Topic Girls and a long masturbating session?
16 Feb 2015 13:18
I agree with you and with Alison. Most women simply don't have time in the day to spare a few hours - and also we can orgasm pretty quickly on our own. Probably a cam porn thing just for the spectator...
Topic valentine's day gifts
16 Feb 2015 13:01
Went to a dance on Valentine's Night, and one of the guys brought a rose for each one of us ladies in the group. Such a sweet gesture and he got a dance with us all.
Topic WALNUT AND MUSHROOM RISOTTO
16 Feb 2015 12:21
My life (well at least the culinary bit) has been transformed by finding oven cooked risotto recipes!! Just brilliant and so much less standing around stirring ricey type stuff.
However Steph obviously does things properly AND gets compliments from a Michelin star chef.... ;)
Topic *QUIZ FOR FUN!!!*
16 Feb 2015 10:22
To my shame I've actually read most of these books (with the exception of 50 Shades) and am still none the wiser!!!! *shakes head sorrowfully and forgets own name*
Topic Annoying things that people say
16 Feb 2015 09:59
"To cut a long story short"...when its some mind numbing anecdote that could be explained in less than 10 words...zzzzzzzzzzzzz
Topic *QUIZ FOR FUN!!!*
16 Feb 2015 06:19
And I thought I was reasonably literate until I saw this little lot!! The only one I can make a vague stab at is no. 8, which may be Wuthering Heights, but I've probably even got that wrong!
I reckon you just made up the rest yourself Steph.... ;)
Topic Will you watch fifty shades of grey?
15 Feb 2015 08:56
If there was a poll choice of: Nah, can't be arsed. I would have voted for that option.
I read one badly written sentence of the book and was too bored to read any more. However, the plus side for the film is Jamie Dornan.... ;)
Topic How did you learn about sex.
14 Feb 2015 11:11
I had very repressed parents, and sex was not mentioned in our house, except as something which had the direst consequences and social shame. So any knowledge was all garbled hearsay, and as I got older then it was the first (often unpleasant and even traumatic) sexual experiences of my friends talked about with added drama. It all seemed so perplexing and terrifying in retrospect that I'm amazed I actually got round to having sex at all!!!
Topic Need help with BF issue
13 Feb 2015 16:09
It sounds like you have a communication problem. He's searching for something. Key thing is how to approach him. If accused people most people get defensive. Your sincerely concerned and let that that show. Sit down with him. No TV or distractions. Tell him your concerns in love.
I can understand your concerns if you were open about sharing passwords etc at the start of your relationship, and suddenly this has stopped. Of course your boyfriend (and you) have a right to individual privacy, but you are also very much within your rights to ask for an explanation - calmly, clearly and without any drama.
Do let us know how this turns out.
Topic Breast feeding in public?
13 Feb 2015 15:16
I've noticed where I live there has been much more acceptance and a positive attitude about breast-feeding in public over the past 15 years or so, and it is normal for women to feed their babies in public spaces from parks to cafes to shopping centres. Also there is legislation that shops are obliged to provide areas (for example designated changing rooms - not toilets!!) for this purpose. Its great that mums feel more comfortable and unembarrassed about such a natural and necessary act. After all its not as if a hungry baby can wait!!
Topic Spanking: Yes, but how hard?
13 Feb 2015 14:42
What I want to know Serene Prodigy is where is that busboy you promised me??? *taps foot impatiently*
Topic BBC Request
13 Feb 2015 03:58
The poor bloke has NO idea what he's got himself into. This is going to be fun!!!! *rubs hands with glee* ;)