Forum posts made by curvygalore

Topic The Point In Living
Posted 04 Sep 2015 13:17

Just to do the best I can. And always be kind.

Topic What do you think of girls who use fake profile gallery pics?
Posted 04 Sep 2015 07:48

I was interested in the responses. I was kind of interested in the replies from the male perspective specifically. I don't mind that the ladies chimed in.
I perceive guys as being more visual so was curious how they would feel about fake (feigned to be real) profile galleries.

So to answer you question. No the responses in this thread were a big surprise to me. I didn't know it was such a heated topic. I didn't bother reading the responses once the thread got off topic.

Its an oft discussed topic that tends to get a lot of strong responses. As Liz said, people are here for their own reasons; and so that determines their choice of avatar, whether it be a photo of themselves or something that reflects a facet of their personality.

Topic Which "attainable" skills would you like to have?
Posted 02 Sep 2015 15:58

Needless to say I am still embarrassingly bad when it comes to sewing of any kind.

Ninja skills. I would love to have Ninja skills.

I can sew a bit Kiera, and it is not a particularly glamorous skill to have frankly. I would also make a ludicrous ninja. So go girl!! :)

Topic I Would Like To Announce...
Posted 31 Aug 2015 14:57

Many congratulations to you both and very well deserved! hello1

Topic You are going to Writer's Hell!! Bring wine.
Posted 29 Aug 2015 15:00

I'm all for the nakedness and wine, but Twister sounds too much like purgatory!! ;)

This is a fascinating discussion, and I would agree with a lot of the posters here that even if my writing is not based on my own direct experiences or a particular person like any writer I am a magpie. I pick up those things that shine at me and tuck them away. Nothing totally imaginary, just re-invented.

Topic Gay Male category.
Posted 09 Aug 2015 16:04

Am I the only girl that gets seriously turned on by the gay male stories section? or do others share this slight fetish?Embarassed

Slight fetish?? I thought this was an entirely normal and mainstream liking!! 3601

Topic Underdressed or overdressed?
Posted 09 Aug 2015 15:22

I am going with the "overdressed", although I can't imagine ever actually being overdressed, since I wear the same simple 14k earrings with a matching pendant on a box chain necklace, and pretty much stick to a plain but flattering black shift dress and medium high heels when going anywhere, not terribly interesting but it works in 99.5% of occasions.

I live somewhere where smart/casual is preferable to actually overdressed. A few years ago I went with a bunch of girls to celebrate a birthday of one of them at a very grand hotel for afternoon tea. One girl wore a garden-party type dress (and afterwards said she felt embarrassingly over dressed, like she was left over from a wedding) and at the other extreme a few girls wore coloured jeans and leather jackets which was a bit over-casual for the venue. I was somewhere in the middle, which is how I usually try to judge it - smart enough to look dressed up, casual enough not look out of place.

Topic Pet Peeves
Posted 09 Aug 2015 15:01

Closed mindedness. And by that I don't mean ignorant; everyone's ignorant about something and everyone makes mistakes. But closing yourself off to reality and others' views and their personal reality as if it's not real or not important enough to recognize.

EDIT: lol I hope that made some kind of sense. Geez.

yep! I was going to say egomaniacs who refuse to recognise any reality outside of their own self-agrandising fantasy world...

Topic New Category Poll - Historical Sex Stories
Posted 08 Aug 2015 16:00

lol - Gato is quite impressed with herself at the moment.

And so she should be!! hello1

Topic what are you drinking?
Posted 08 Aug 2015 15:51


Topic Why do men...
Posted 08 Aug 2015 15:35

There is a "Push me, Pull Me" aspect to human relationships I think. I desperately want exactly that; until I have it, and then it's the tightest prison in the world. There is a 'thrill of the chase' aspect to it, as was said above, but the more operative idea - at least for many men - is believing that suddenly you're trapped, in a relationship that will inevitably become prison-like. I'm not defending that thinking, just saying it's there.

Oh my word!! You have just summed up something from a male point of view that I have experienced from a female point of view. Its not the thrill of the chase; rather more that sinking feeling that having happily committed to someone I am gradually overwhelmed with all their problems so that I become more of a free counsellor than a lover or partner. And the walls close in...

Topic what are u watching on tv?
Posted 08 Aug 2015 13:17

The Young Montalbano

Topic Gill and Adi's Lush Relationship Guide
Posted 08 Aug 2015 12:00

And a question: I thought stalking someone's tumbler was Lush-speak for letting someone know you like them. Similar to flowers, but with porn and the threat of strangers pouring over the intimate details of your life. Nothing says "you're sweet" like a slight hint of menace.

This made me cackle with laughter!!

Topic Public Service Announcement, Okay?
Posted 05 Aug 2015 17:17

fyi, anyone submitting a story using "okay" instead of "OK" is getting it edited back to "OK" and then forwarded to Clum. evil4

Okeydokey evil4

Topic $100 Prize: Moderator of the Month for July
Posted 04 Aug 2015 15:28

That is highly impressive! Many congratulations Evie! hello1

Topic Public Service Announcement, Okay?
Posted 04 Aug 2015 08:03


You're both right! Have just checked my copy of the OED and aneurysm can also be spelt aneurism. Its just an alternative.

Topic Name something that you learned about yourself since joining Lush.
Posted 02 Aug 2015 14:23

Lush has given me permission to express my creativity and sexuality in ways I would have only admitted to myself privately before, and even that would have been alarming. I am so much happier and more fulfilled as a person as a result.

Topic Burning Star, a new ebook
Posted 02 Aug 2015 14:07

Duly purchased! Thanks for the heads up Frank! :)

Topic *Happy Birthday Naughty Nurse/Dirty_ Di/WHATEVER SHE'S CALLING HERSELF ON HER BIRTHDAY!!!*
Posted 02 Aug 2015 13:08

Hope you had a wonderful birthday! occasion4 occasion1 occasion9

Topic What part of a girl you look at first when you see her? What turns you on about girls?
Posted 31 Jul 2015 17:03

Umm, it's mostly her hair. :D Then her face and if she is pretty to look at I check out the rest of her body. Sometimes tho, other body parts get my attention first. Like boobies..... cat

Jaysus, Nicola is right. That bobbing up and down is so distracting that I'm starting to feel seasick. Was there a question? ;)

Topic Poems by Sprite's Cat
Posted 31 Jul 2015 16:13

He's definitely a lot more virile than some wimpy tuxedo kitty-cat. And besides, he's Hungarian, not Canadian.

I had a tuxedo, and somewhat wimpy cat called Ferenc once upon a time. She wasn't Hungarian mind, despite the name. Its just that my friend Chris who lived in the flat below me (so Miss F had two homes, obvs) is football mad and always wanted a feline of the name of Ferenc Puskat.... dontknow

Topic cheating and living with that
Posted 30 Jul 2015 16:03

Well thank god my mom has been my role model as a woman. I think if you are in an "exclusive" relationship then of course it is cheating. You need to be honest with each other. If you are sexually attracted to someone else then you need to be totally brave and own up....well it's hard of course. We are all human. So most of us don't do that, right.

I mean a lot of my girlfriends "think" they are exclusive, but they are young and curious and they totally stray when tempted. My mom was very stern with me. In no uncertain terms she told me not to get too serious too young. You need to date and try different guys and travel and stuff. Gosh don't live a lie. Well my mom always makes sure her dates understand that she "dates" and that they do not own her. I can totally understand that many girls feel clingy and insecure and are afraid to maybe lose a guy, but hey if you want to date other guys and try sex with different guys then be honest with your self too. Otherwise you will end up being unhappy too right? Embarassed Embarassed Embarassed Anyways I've blabbed on too much haha.

Actually you nailed this! Its all about communication and understanding the parameters of the relationship (be it exclusive or not). Not that this is remotely easy or straightforward, especially as on poster mentioned if there are children in a committed relationship. But its about owning yourself and taking responsibility for your own actions. Your mum sounds like an awesome lady!!

Topic what kind of body turns you on!
Posted 30 Jul 2015 15:28

One that is attached to a smart brain with a witty turn of phrase....

Topic Do guys ALWAYS have a name for their thingy ? And what is your name for yours and why?
Posted 30 Jul 2015 15:15

oh u must name at least one ... it's really fun :D.. giggles...

I have named 5 or 6 on lush so far .. Embarassed ... without touching or seeing them Embarassed Embarassed ... giggles... the latest was last week .. we called him 'Armstrong' .. and got a message from a guy yesterday saying he had discussed it with his wife and they have called him 'XXXX'.. dontknow ... he did explain .. giggles Embarassed

guys can be such fun.. giggles



Hayley reading your posts is the equivalent of downing a glass (or two) of sparkly and gets me just as giggly! You are a positive tonic!

Thingy naming will become my new hobby....possibly ;)

Topic Which is the more intimate act?
Posted 30 Jul 2015 09:12

It's more the circumstances than the act it's self.

I would agree entirely. The acts have no intrinsic intimacy in themselves, its who I'm with and how I feel about them that creates a level of intimacy


Apart from this of course... evil4

Topic Do guys ALWAYS have a name for their thingy ? And what is your name for yours and why?
Posted 29 Jul 2015 17:17

I was raised, mainly by my maternal grandmother.. I asked her what I should call a penis in polite society.. she said "call it his 'thingy'" .. and for six years I have .. and u r the first person of either sex to take umbrage at the word...
My gran is a grand lady in her nineties.. she has always used the word.. so shall I ... even if it is not politically correct..

I looked at this thread because I knew from the wording it would be fun. Hayley, you have obviously inherited your splendid grandmama's delicacy of wording, but have your very own sense of style and naughtiness, which should only be celebrated.

PS: I don't have a thingy nor have I ever knowingly named one... evil4

Topic Is there another story category you'd like to have on Lush?
Posted 29 Jul 2015 05:01

Phew, so would I now!

Did we put this up for a separate vote already?

If there wasn't a separate vote on this could we have one?? Pretty please, Nicola!! giggle

Topic Is there another story category you'd like to have on Lush?
Posted 28 Jul 2015 16:41

In mathematical terms, there is exactly one group of order (or "size") three, namely the cyclic group of order three, usually represented as the set {0,1,2) under addition modulo 3, with 0 the identity.

So three is a group.

Interestingly, there are 267 groups of order 64. That's what I call an orgy.

Ok. This blows my mind, as is in I do not understand any of it at all and am having a maths induced panic attack!!!

i'd LOVE to see a historical fiction category! omigoodness how the history geek in me could get lost in those tales...

Ahhhhh! Comfort zone. Yes please!!! :)

Topic Happy Birthday Verbal Incandenza!!
Posted 27 Jul 2015 16:31

Happy Birthday dear Verbal! Hope you have a wonderful day! occasion4 occasion1 occasion7

Topic Do your Lush life and personal life overlap?
Posted 27 Jul 2015 12:54

Yes, I've mentioned it to a few like minded friends, but in general I talk about a "writers site" that I'm on, without getting any more specific. I wouldn't mind being more open, but I know that the vast majority of my friends and acquaintances just wouldn't get Lush, so I keep it relatively private.