Topic How often do you get checked?
06 Jul 2015 10:22
No such thing as too much checking! Your being responsible can literally save peoples lives, including your own.
A thoroughly responsible and laudable attitude! :)
Topic info. on brazilian waxing?
05 Jul 2015 15:53
I have a 4 weekly wax at a local salon. Takes about 10 minutes and very little pain. Take some paracetamol or other mild pain killer beforehand if you're concerned about the ouch factor.
Topic Ever felt you're going to be forever alone?
05 Jul 2015 12:00
Like you're done with hoping for "the one" or you're tired with the dating game and all that.
Have you ever felt you're going to be forever alone ? How come ?
I've never had that romantic view of "the one" or got involved with the dating game or any dating scene. I'm lucky that I've always been happy with my own company and when partners have come into my life, it has been by happy coincidence.
Topic Do you think less of a woman who has had a hysterectomy
03 Jul 2015 12:36
thanks guys for your messages, my emotions are all over the show..... some good advice, and some encouragement... yes im married have been for 6 years but together for 17 years... just suffered soo long and for it now to be over... the healing has began, i guess alot of emotional healing to be done also...
thanks guys and gurls for your support as ive rather lacked that part :)
Totally understand that you must be feeling all over the place Dee. Any major operation has emotional as well as physical consequences to recover from, and no surprise that losing one's reproductive organs makes you question your femininity, when you are feeling at a physical and emotional low.
However, it sounds like you have suffered more than enough with your condition before the op and can look forward to a happier, healthier life from now on. Hope you're feeling much better soon as you start to recover. And you are all woman always, and free to feel as sexy and fulfilled as you can be in future xx
Topic Make up...why?
03 Jul 2015 09:34
For normal daytime I cannot be arsed to wear make up. And just some natural lipstick will do if I'm going outdoors. Its fun to put on some make up if I'm going out in the evening, or for a vintage do! More about dressing up than looking polished. I've never quite grown up!!
Topic Do you like to be solicited for casual sex by strangers in bars?
02 Jul 2015 16:32
I do this every Friday and Saturday night .. no takers so far .. sobs .. I even offer to buy the crisps and lemonade.
In theory, or Lush fantasy this sounds sexy. In reality, in my experience this has been about some drunk bloke working his way down the bar, asking every woman in sight (including 2 or 3 of my friends) before me. Not flattering or to be taken seriously.
Crisps and lemonade are actually quite tempting.... ;)
Topic If You Died Tomorrow...
30 Jun 2015 16:03
I feel like I might.
Have you got a date for your procedure yet, Castle? Thinking of you lots xx
Topic What does your username mean?
30 Jun 2015 10:17
I've probably answered this before. But my user name is a bit of a daft joke and play on words which kinda sums me up as a person. My avatar pic is of an evening gown made from a 1950's pattern, and certainly displays the curves and has a bit of vintage glamour about it that made me think of James Bond and so to a slightly changed name of a Bond Girl that made me giggle.
Topic What turns you off immediately?
29 Jun 2015 16:18
When its ALL about them. How I can fit in with their mindset, ego, sexuality, lifestyle etc, etc, etc.
Topic Imagine world like this.
28 Jun 2015 07:06
Plus, I'd miss the long, intricate, improvisational dance involved in getting to know somebody. It's not the thrill of the chase, that's just a game. It's the thrill of discovery. The slow reveal of showing your true self, and seeing the same. Likemindedness.
Besides, in your "perfect world" I'm not sure you took into account feelings.
although this may sound like utopia for some, NOT this chica. i'd MUCH rather focus my attention on the few who capture my mind, body and soul
This says it all for me. It might be Utopia for those who see sex as purely physical (and there is nothing wrong with that) but it might remove that emotional and intellectual side of sex that makes it oh so satisfying for some of us.
Topic Moderator of the Month Hall of Fame
27 Jun 2015 07:40
As a site user I am so grateful to all the mods (and Nicola) for keeping the site running smoothly and making it a unique creative and supportive community. Lush is a great place to be, but that takes an awful lot of background work!
23 Jun 2015 10:33
If you had a 24 hour "hall pass" in which your significant other would not find out about, would you, knowingly, cheat?! With a Lushee? With more than one Lushee?!!
Who would grant us this "hall pass"?? Some omniscient, higher, free-sex oriented being??
Each to their own, but if I were in a relationship it would my conscience that would bear the brunt, and my partner too. No such thing as a free lunch!!
Topic Am I in an abusive relationship?
10 Jun 2015 14:08
A very hard decision for you Lucy, but am so glad you have friends on board and hopefully family soon too. Please don't forget we are here for you too, whenever we are needed and updates will be much appreciated. All good wishes with you for the next difficult few weeks xx
Topic Milik's Erotic Menagerie
10 Jun 2015 07:57
As I said when commenting on your latest story Milik, it is great to have you back. There is always room for your wonderful, unique authorial voice on Lush. And yes that is a blatant hint for more stories.... ;)