About Dancewithme


Updated 12 May 2018
I strongly stand by the Human Rights of ALL people, and the equal rights of women.

Remember that the kind of human being you are matters more to me than your cup size.

[b]Before I even begin, I am 61 years old. If that turns you off then stay away. As for being my friend, I keep as close to twelve as I can. It is just a manageable figure that I can really get to know and really care about, maybe even love to bits! If you are new, then I will try to get close to you, not just for sexual reasons (yet I am a man and do like cyber-play with people I care about if they are interested), but my primary reason for wanting to know you better is because I sense some kind of chemistry between us, some really nice things for us both can develop. That can be of almost any kind. It is pretty normal I think to see where such things go, don't you think? Please don't think I have a one track mind! If you do not like where things are going in our friendship, say goodbye to me.
I am not a god who is always going to get it right. But I do try to welcome you into my world.
Obviously in the fog of this life, I can not guarantee anyone anything but my best shot. I hope you will let me into your heart and world too.
OK. So you are quiet and don't like to find yourself in the middle of the maddening crowd.
I avoid crowds and prefer spending my time with a lady on our own somewhere......and yes, I am very romantic. I love to kiss for long stretches, rolling in the grass, laying back in a forest, in the day, and just listen to the leaves rustle and the birds chirp.
With a lady I listen to the sound of her voice with my eyes closed, and love her many scents, the softness, or silkiness of her skin against my finger tips. I love to comb out a lovely head of hair
sitting with my legs either side of the lady, and enjoy it whether she has her clothes on or not.
I love to give her face butterfly kisses, sweet little licks, and nibbles. Send flowers out of the blue. Take her on dates to mysterious places with exquisite dining, dancing or ambiance.
In short, I want any lady who engages me to feel respected and special to me, and never beneath me, or unequal to me. I just want her to feel like the special person she is whether the libido is involved or not!!


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Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, dancing, Great Women, Sabrmetrics, art, science, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, boxing, world cultures, linguistics, history, and many or much more.
My friends interests are of interest to me too. Tell me personally what you like to do even if it is in your profile.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc. Levinas, "Otherwise than Being." Locke, "Second Treatise of Government." Emily Dickinson's poetry(!!).
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language. See above.
Favorite Movies:
Far too many to list. I do watch the classics more by now.
Favourite TV Shows:
I watch very little TV. I may just get rid of it someday soon.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV. Sports I prefer to see in person, especially with a friend now but so much playing. I am not just a smart guy but a playful man who loves the exhilaration and love of life, and that one special woman.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, Latin, gypsy, folk, ballet, international (any culture or language), no borders in musical taste. I even have made a study of Rap.


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Topic: Do you work legs?
Posted: 19 May 2018 23:28

At this point I'm wondering if you actually have some kind of learning disability. And if that's the case, then I apologize. I realize that fitness knowledge has progressed quite a bit since you were doing straight legged sit ups in middle school gym class, but you really should at least put in the minimal level of investigation before you post in a thread like this.

This isn't an opinion issue. It's a knowledge issue. And your knowledge in this subject is terrible.

PS: For anyone else out there on the fence about straight legged sit ups with 50 lb weights on your chest...... let the record show that it's generally disapproved of.

Sir, I am not telling you what was approved or disapproved then or now.
I had a coach with me at all times when I did the sit ups. For one summer I worked out with him present
at least three hours a day. All the exercises I described and a lot more I did in his presence. We used barbells, weights, isometric bars, and simple calisthenics to develop. I REALLY DID do 3 sets of 50 sit up each and gradually got to holding a fifty pound weight on my chest.
The coach used to marvel at how I could do it but I did.
I ran countless miles every day. Why countless? Because I ran from age 9 to past college every day I had off with my brother. We had an open paved lot with a theater wall to use as a backstop. We would play baseball together all day. We had NO fielders. Anytime the batter hit the ball the pitcher would have to run to get the ball to keep the game going. How does one add up the the running there?
BTW, I doubt if I have a learning disability worth noting as I got a PhD, and two Masters, to teach University and Graduate School classes all my career. I taught, for example, a course in how to research and write a Master's Thesis, or Doctoral Dissertation. I also have 4 books published.
I grew up poor, with no equipment except what high school gyms, and sports venues afforded us.
I was driven, disciplined, and determined not to get bullied in a neighborhood where it was rampant, and
to be the best in every sport I played.
What reasons do I have to lie about this? Why am I even answering your insulting responses? I did what I say and more, whether it breaks any rules, of modern training, eating or whatever. The idea of a personal trainer was unheard of---at least where I lived. I did what I did for two reasons: (1) to protect myself and my brother. (2) to play sports on a high level.
You can not deny I did it because I know, I DID!
So I am not telling you to believe me. I don't need anyone to believe. me, who was not there, and knew me.
You asked a question, I answered it truthfully. I did not tell anyone to do it the way I did. I did not show you anything but respect. Why can't you allow people of another age to have done things the best way they knew how?

Topic: Do you work legs?
Posted: 18 May 2018 23:34

WTF? <img src="/images/emoticons/eusa_doh.gif" alt="d&#39;oh!">

This is one of the reasons I'm reluctant to make threads in this forum.

Sir. I respect the methods you use to develop your legs. It is fairly current.
But if I had to choose I would still have developed my legs the same way I did decades ago.
Why? Because I developed my legs for function, i. e., to play specific sports: boxing, swimming, mat wrestling, football, cross country, baseball, and to do it without any chemicals other than watching what ate.
From the looks of your photo above, the man's thighs etc. look great. That is just my drift: today's development is built for looks, and for making a man feel good about himself. He should. He looks good and has strength in specific ways. Those you wish to for your purposes.
BUT, the way I developed my legs allowed me to still have muscular legs. a tight butt, and a powerful cardio-vascular system to this day that women still admire without my even aiming to do that. I played all those sports, and had the flexibility and endurance to compete successfully in all of them! I have no reason to lie, or joke about it.
But apparently my post, and those I was going to follow it up with, make you not want to post. To please you, I have removed my post, and will not make any further comments here in my own defense but do so in real life. That is where it matters.
I will not return to this thread as it is not about any kind of training I subscribe to FOR MY PURPOSES.
Sorry if I have offended you.

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Topic: Would you have coffee or tea with the person above you?
Posted: 17 May 2018 03:02

Is burning desire a man or a woman? Pass.

Topic: Sensuality
Posted: 16 May 2018 20:08


Oh Molly, she is incredible! Thank you for the dream angel.

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