About Dancewithme


I strongly stand by the Human Rights of all people, and the equal rights of women.

Remember that the kind of human being you are matters more to me than your cup size.

[b]Before I even begin, I am 61 years old. If that turns you off then stay away. I am not interested in anyone who has decided ahead of time, that because of my age I am not of interest to them.[b]
As for being my friend, I keep as close to twelve as I can. It is just a manageable figure that I can really get to know and really care about, maybe even love to bits! If you are new, then I will try to get close to you, not just for sexual reasons (yet I am a man and do like cyber-play with people I care about if they are interested), but my primary reason for wanting to know you better is because I sense some kind of chemistry between us, some really nice things for us both can develop. That can be of almost any kind. It is pretty normal I think to see where such things go, don't you think? Please don't think I have a one track mind! If you do not like where things are going in our friendship, say goodbye to me.
I am not a god who is always going to get it right. But I do try to welcome you into my world.
Obviously in the fog of this life, I can not guarantee anyone anything but my best shot. I hope you will let me into your heart and world too.


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Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, dancing, Great Women, Sabrmetrics, art, science, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, boxing, world cultures, linguistics, history, and many or much more.
My friends interests are of interest to me too.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc. Levinas, "Otherwise than Being." Locke, "Second Treatise of Government." Emily Dickinson's poetry(!!).
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language. See above.
Favorite Movies:
Far too many to list. I do watch the classics more by now.
Favourite TV Shows:
I watch very little TV. I may just get rid of it someday soon.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV. Sports I prefer to see in person, especially with a friend now but so much playing. I am not just a smart guy but a playful man who loves the exhilaration and love of life, and that one special woman.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, Latin, gypsy, folk, ballet, international (any culture or language), no borders in musical taste. I even have made studied of Rap.


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Topic: How Dirty Is Ur Mind Test
Posted: 20 Sep 2017 10:25

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Of all the mind types, yours has the most balance.
You are able to see all sides to most problems and are a good problem solver.
You need time to work out your thoughts, but you don't get stuck in bad thinking patterns.

You tend to spend a lot of time thinking about the future, philosophy, and relationships (both personal and intellectual).

I have been telling you this for a couple of years now Bethany!! :)

Guess who also got the very same result? C'est moi!

Topic: Would you have coffee or tea with the person above you?
Posted: 20 Sep 2017 10:11

oh yes would love to when??? sorry it took so long to respond was away for a while back now :)

Yes would love to share a cup of coffee seeing that he has a long haul ahead of him ;)

How about right now----this very moment!?

Topic: Lips or eyes?
Posted: 18 Sep 2017 17:52

Her lips may not look as pretty as her eyes, but I love the feelings they can communicate so easily.

Topic: Husbands would you share your wife with another man while you watched?
Posted: 18 Sep 2017 17:48

No need to even say yes or no. My Ex answered yes every time. She just made sure I didn't see.

Topic: Who's good at giving massages?
Posted: 18 Sep 2017 17:46

Fabulous Massages are my best kept secret... :)

Topic: Are you happy with your breast size?
Posted: 18 Sep 2017 10:25

I'm not happy with them - too big - not sexy - I don't know what size I'd prefer to be, but so big that it's all that anyone ever sees when they look in my direction isn't it.

Metilda!! Honestly, they are not what I noticed first. I noticed how naturally beautiful your face and hair are.
Now you have one pic where you are in a tight dress with breasts and legs visible. Your legs turned this guy on, not your breasts.
I guess I am a-typical.

Topic: Orgasm vs Ejaculation
Posted: 18 Sep 2017 00:16

According to Webster...... the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.

notice it says usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.....women orgasm and rarely ejaculate any fluid from our bodies, but it is a physical and emotional sensation......just wondering whether guys here experience the same.....the guy I am currently intimate with, says he has orgasms without ejaculating and while the sensation is not as strong as when he ejaculates, it is still quite pleasing to him. It has nothing to do with the well running dry, as he will have an orgasm without ejaculating and then ejaculate later on.

Becky, men can have a prostate size reduction surgery called a "T. U. R. P." or "transurethral Prostate Resection." They have an enlarged prostate that has cut of their bladder, preventing it from emptying. So they reduce the size of the prostate or "resection" it. The effect is to allow his bladder to function, and also allowing him to have orgasms. But what he give up is the ability to ejaculate. Men can have huge orgasms but no ejaculation.
However, not all men will admit they have had one though---especially older men with enlarged prostates, that have had it done.

Topic: Most seductive
Posted: 18 Sep 2017 00:07

I will not name names, etc. But I will say that there are women here who are really good at seduction. They have learned how to seduce a man.
It is not automatic for a lot of us. We have to be seduced.
A women who is a master of seduction can get most of them men she desires, or has need for.

Topic: Hard when just chatting?
Posted: 17 Sep 2017 23:59

Now, getting to the question of this thread. I depends on who she is, and how well she knows how to turn a guy on. But the lady has to want to get me hard and knows how to do it. Just as men can be so convinced the have all the stuff "women like" and assumed they will turn any woman on, women can be the same way. But if a woman learns how to take what she has, including her words, and use them when she wants to excite a man, she can get me very hard.

Topic: Hard when just chatting?
Posted: 17 Sep 2017 23:51

i've wondered the same thing <warning...spoiler alert> i think i'm able to be a multitasker, but really, <img src="/forum/images/emoticons/eusa_wall.gif" alt="Brick wall"> in my wildest imagination i have yet to figure out how to both finger myself and play with my titties...giggle

Or Deenuh, you can have him do what I do: I tell the lady to relax and we get her in the mood. Then she stops typing altogether, and I talk to her about what I am doing to her so she can play. Once she has reached the desired orgasms, she usually is out of energy to reciprocate for me.
This all assumes that she is willing to get into that mode of play. Most women I have known go right to it.

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The Hayloft

In the dance hall, the lights are dim amber as you are walking back to your seat after a few fast dances. This scene is so familiar to me now, yet it never gets old. I've got it bad for you, yet you don't have a clue. As I sit at the rail, I order up a Courvoisier cognac to give me strength, and watch your every move intensely. Your eyes are so deep and sparkling with the joy of the...

Added 13 Oct 2014 | Category Love Stories | Votes 21 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,703 | 22 Comments

May I Love You?

May I Love You? May I stop here before you, And linger a while? May I ask you to dance, And get a big smile? May I reach for you gently, Your palm now in mine? May I place my hand here, Right at your side? May we step so very slowly, then quickly like this? May we speak in hot tango, Our moving, sweet bliss? May I dare to catch you, And hold you like this? May...

Added 02 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 28 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,528 | 31 Comments

I Kissed A Butterfly

I kissed a butterfly, My lips made her weep. I whispered to a butterfly, "Go not to sleep! Just stay awake, Why, I can make you weep!" Butterfly kissed me back! So I then quickly licked her, Most tenderly and sweet. She gushed with her excitement.  I can not be discreet, My heart was pouding loudly While kneeling at her feet, Like a suckling new born calf Right at its...

Added 04 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 24 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,545 | 23 Comments

Just One Little Finger

Just one little finger That's all that it takes To make my love wiggle To give her the shakes... Just one little finger Poking here, jabbing there Makes her so sticky All over down there! Just one little finger It's sucked in, then two She kisses all my fingers With succulent goo! So if you have fingers And your love is about You'd better offer So she doesn't pout! You don't...

Added 05 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 18 | Avg Score 5 | Views 2,039 | 19 Comments

My Love Calls Me Teddy

My love calls me "Teddy" Her heart calling mine I can never resist it Her voice is divine My love calls me "Teddy" A smile to my face As if she affirms me With her sweet, loving grace My love calls me "Teddy" My soul becomes tender It sends me to Heaven My life I would send her My spirit sends roses Bright red in bouquet For sending her blessing to "Have a...

Added 08 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 24 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,283 | 25 Comments


Honey? Is that you? I can't see in the night Though the hopes and the dreams Are still burning bright In the brightness of day In the darkness of night I love you I love you But you are away… Should you come to me now While my heart still knows how To love life in fun Our victories won… While the smile on my heart Holds on to be ready For your first Hello Its timbre I’ll know… Who...

Added 29 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 11 | Avg Score 5 | Views 2,238 | 12 Comments

Take My Sweet Lips, Babe

Take my sweet lips, babe Every gentle pore Let them make open Your tightly locked door Know that you'll want them The spirit they show No, not beneath them Are passions like snow? Just sweet, soft and tender Lips warm to your heart Then over your body They’ll warm every part Your face, oh so precious Your breasts so divine Legs soft as smooth satin Core sacred,...

Added 07 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,512 | 13 Comments

I Love You Suzy

Eyes so light blue Like the heavens above Stole my heart away Sweet gestures of love Lips made for kissing Wear an endearing sweetness A kindness there shining I see my completeness Your skin is like satin Your face oh so soft Slight brush of my hand Just sends me aloft Gold hair is so lovely Curves gently round your face Caressing and holding Thy head, as...

Added 30 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 13 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,189 | 12 Comments

I Am Rom

I am Rom, My life it doth fly, Through hither and yonder, We ride you and I. Through the earth’s golden valleys, To the mountains above, We hang, heads in sorrow, No-“where” to call home. Twas ever a “one day,” A moment of bliss, Saw first my “Dark Eyes,” In the heavens domed skies. Stars all a glitter, The augury told, Fate it embraced me, My heart...

Added 28 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 1,135 | 13 Comments

Damned Ole Black Hole

Now before you go yelling And pummeling me Just hear these words Sooth sings unto thee! Damned ole black hole It's following me Wherever I go: By the tree swing Down at the lee But hardest of all It lays beside me… Every night, when‘s time for sleep The hole gets a bit deeper Swallowing me All night it stays there Calling to me With the voice of my angel Who once dreamed with me. ‘twas...

Added 10 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,305 | 14 Comments

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