About Dancewithme


I strongly stand by the Human Rights of all people, and the equal rights of women.

Remember that the kind of human being you are matters more to me than your cup size.

My interests here are in good reading, and talking to my true friends.

My interests are far beyond my ability to manage them. I just love life. I have always been enchanted with it, and I won't change that.
To me, loving someone is having faith in them, the Other of our otherness, and believing that they do not change their stripes, but decisively keep that core faith that life is a good thing if we want it to be, nearly all the time. That's how we come to love it and others so much.
When you first get to know me you can say that I am a kind, loving, giving man. But I am also told by women that I have some real empathy for them, and their point of view. Men sometimes say that does not make me very masculine, or what many women want. DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE!! I FEAR NO MAN!
I NEVER cower in the face of life's challenges in standing by my children, women and what I respect (see above).
I have met some of the most incredible people here and have cut my friends list down drastically because I do not want to mislead others. I can only get close to a small number of people at a time...I mean really small.
I am too gutsy to ever take NO for an answer in life.
If I begin to cherish your presence you will know it: I crave so much more than a physical connection. I crave your words and depth. I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears. I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface if you are my friend.
I firmly believe that we live in a Rape Culture.
My ethnic origins are Madeiran, Roma, Ojibwe, Welsh-Irish, and French. I love my roots BUT more than them, I am a very proud patriot in a family on all sides that have served our country militarily as far back as in our very colonial development. I am currently spending my free time travelling my own state to get to know its history well: MA. Yet surprisingly I have books and articles published internationally in China's and Northeast Asia's history.

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Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, Sabrmetrics, art, science, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, boxing, world cultures and history, and many, many more.
My friends interests are of interest to me too.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc.Levinas, "Otherwise than Being." Locke, "Second Treatise of Government." Emily Dickinson's poetry(!!).
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language. See above.
Favorite Movies:
Far too many to list. I do watch more of the classics by now.
Favourite TV Shows:
X-Files (Gilian), Elementary (Lucy Liu) and Ellen DeGeneres Show. Charlie Rose Interviews. I watch very little TV. Very little.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV. Sports I prefer to see in person, especially with a friend.
Favorite Music:
Classical, jazz, Latin, gypsy, folk, ballet, international (any culture or language), no borders in musical taste.


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Topic: What does it mean to have a soul & do you have one?
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 23:06

What people think is their soul is actually the sum total of their brain/neural activity, consisting of their perception of existence, personal identity and consciousness, personality, knowledge, sensory input, and memories of experience. There might even be a bit of genetic memory (instinct) as well. But without the brain, there is nothing. It is all electro-chemical activity impinging on neurons, dendrites, synapses, ganglia... without that, there is nothing to support any organized consciousness, and without consciousness, what is there to differentiate one 'soul' from another? Remember how you felt before you were born? That's how you'll feel after you die. (and my grandmother is turning over in her grave!)

Beth, Suppose I suggested that what you have described is the bright side of the moon.
Then what does the whole moon look like?
In short, what about the reptilian brain that controls our bodily functions out of the sight of the cognitive brain?
What I want to suggest is this: the function of the brain as you have described it, is only part of the whole activity of the brain: the part we see directly. There is much more going on that we don't see, and just assume is there just like when we see a full moon, we actually are only seeing the part facing us. We "know" there is another side because we know that what we DO see is just a SIDE. The same with the brain, and by implication, your description of the soul.
Is there any way to see the whole function of the brain simultaneously??

Topic: do guys like when girls
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 22:31

I'm kind of partial to women myself. And yes, she can cover my entire body with her sweet nectar if she likes.

Amen! Amen! I say to you!!!!

Topic: do guys like when girls
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 22:31

I'm kind of partial to women myself. And yes, she can cover my entire body with her sweet nectar if she likes.

Amen! Amen! I say to you!!!!

Topic: what are you drinking?
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 21:33


Bethany's face. Oops! Ummm...errr.....water.

Topic: Who is your celebrity crush?
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 21:27

Liu Wen

Topic: Word for the day
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 21:22

false weapons----used as one phrase

Topic: 3 Things About Yourself
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 21:18

kinda smart
kinda dumb
my heart has a mind of its own

Topic: Ppl are real big behind the keyboards
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 21:11

I haven't had that problem but I have decided its because I am just not that attractive to the men here at Lush.....

I can not imagine some of what gets said by "men" to you Becky, but this man feels diminished by it.
I pray this will help you:
Illegitimus, non-carborundum! = Don't let the 'illegitimates' wear you down!

Topic: If you could really sell your soul
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 21:01

"The difficulty in philosophy is to say no more than we know." - Ludwig Wittgenstein, The Blue Book.

"That whereof we can not speak, we must remain silent." - Ludwig Wittgenstein, "Tractatus-Logico Philosophicus."

Topic: If you could really sell your soul
Posted: 28 Apr 2017 20:58

Jesus, duck. (Oh, wait... sorry)

I could put my faith in an intelligent, classy, subtly passionate woman like you any day!

You have no idea how sexy a woman is, to some of us men, who gets right in there with the best of 'em and lets it go!

You go Ms. Burquette!!

Would I sell my soul to the devil for you? Yes BUT the devil only shows up in the morning when I look into my mirror to shave. He's an ugly SOB!

People tell me I have soul BTW when they see me dance or hear me sing.

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The Hayloft

In the dance hall, the lights are dim amber as you are walking back to your seat after a few fast dances. This scene is so familiar to me now, yet it never gets old. I've got it bad for you, yet you don't have a clue. As I sit at the rail, I order up a Courvoisier cognac to give me strength, and watch your every move intensely. Your eyes are so deep and sparkling with the joy of the...

Added 13 Oct 2014 | Category Love Stories | Votes 21 | Avg Score 5 | Views 5,353 | 22 Comments

May I Love You?

May I Love You? May I stop here before you, And linger a while? May I ask you to dance, And get a big smile? May I reach for you gently, Your palm now in mine? May I place my hand here, Right at your side? May we step so very slowly, then quickly like this? May we speak in hot tango, Our moving, sweet bliss? May I dare to catch you, And hold you like this? May...

Added 02 Jul 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 28 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,386 | 31 Comments

I Kissed A Butterfly

I kissed a butterfly, My lips made her weep. I whispered to a butterfly, "Go not to sleep! Just stay awake, Why, I can make you weep!" Butterfly kissed me back! So I then quickly licked her, Most tenderly and sweet. She gushed with her excitement.  I can not be discreet, My heart was pouding loudly While kneeling at her feet, Like a suckling new born calf Right at its...

Added 04 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 24 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,464 | 22 Comments

My Love Calls Me Teddy

My love calls me "Teddy" Her heart calling mine I can never resist it Her voice is divine My love calls me "Teddy" A smile to my face As if she affirms me With her sweet, loving grace My love calls me "Teddy" My soul becomes tender It sends me to Heaven My life I would send her My spirit sends roses Bright red in bouquet For sending her blessing to "Have a...

Added 08 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 22 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,206 | 22 Comments

I Am Rom

I am Rom, My life it doth fly, Through hither and yonder, We ride you and I. Through the earth’s golden valleys, To the mountains above, We hang, heads in sorrow, No-“where” to call home. Twas ever a “one day,” A moment of bliss, Saw first my “Dark Eyes,” In the heavens domed skies. Stars all a glitter, The augury told, Fate it embraced me, My heart...

Added 28 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 1,014 | 13 Comments

Damned Ole Black Hole

Now before you go yelling And pummeling me Just hear these words Sooth sings unto thee! Damned ole black hole It's following me Wherever I go: By the tree swing Down at the lee But hardest of all It lays beside me… Every night, when‘s time for sleep The hole gets a bit deeper Swallowing me All night it stays there Calling to me With the voice of my angel Who once dreamed with me. ‘twas...

Added 10 Jun 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,235 | 14 Comments

Take My Sweet Lips, Babe

Take my sweet lips, babe Every gentle pore Let them make open Your tightly locked door Know that you'll want them The spirit they show No, not beneath them Are passions like snow? Just sweet, soft and tender Lips warm to your heart Then over your body They’ll warm every part Your face, oh so precious Your breasts so divine Legs soft as smooth satin Core sacred,...

Added 07 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,444 | 13 Comments

If thou would be here with me

If thou would be here with me Wearing silk eggshell flows I would have played Pachelbel’s Cannon Taken your hand as if a sweet rose Roaming ‘cross the dance floor In sweet flowing elegance The candle lights flickering Illuminating your face Every delicate feature Alive in its grace… Your heart beat I’d know it As it races like mine Look to each other And see the divine Your...

Added 06 Jan 2014 | Category Love Poems | Votes 11 | Avg Score 5 | Views 932 | 11 Comments

I Love You Suzy

Eyes so light blue Like the heavens above Stole my heart away Sweet gestures of love Lips made for kissing Wear an endearing sweetness A kindness there shining I see my completeness Your skin is like satin Your face oh so soft Slight brush of my hand Just sends me aloft Gold hair is so lovely Curves gently round your face Caressing and holding Thy head, as...

Added 30 Dec 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 12 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,117 | 11 Comments

Just One Little Finger

Just one little finger That's all that it takes To make my love wiggle To give her the shakes... Just one little finger Poking here, jabbing there Makes her so sticky All over down there! Just one little finger It's sucked in, then two She kisses all my fingers With succulent goo! So if you have fingers And your love is about You'd better offer So she doesn't pout! You don't...

Added 05 Jun 2014 | Category Erotic Poems | Votes 18 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,930 | 19 Comments

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