Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic Being collared, what does it mean to you?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 06:51

I like wearing a collar and leash sometimes for dirty sex and role-play but for me it's just a moment in time, not a lifestyle.

So I have a question for the collard and cuffed people: Is this similar to an 'engagement ring' or 'marriage' of sorts. I'm not in the BDSM lifestyle, so I'm really just trying to understand the dynamics behind this concept. Also, how serious is this commitment viewed? Knowing that many/most relationships and marriages meet their eventual demise, I'm just wondering how difficult it would be for a sub/master relationship to end and what the "uncollaring" ritual entails? Also.. would a sub seek out another master to collar them or is this considered a 'once in a lifetime' commitment only? And lastly... can you be in a relationship or marriage to one person and be collared/cuffed to a different "master" or is this prohibited?

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 06:40

Lelo never breaks. And they're pretty too. :)

http://en.lelo.com/

you can check out their "femme and homme" section for girls and guys toys. And also their 'insignia and luxe' line for waterproof, couples, and wireless remote toys.

Most toy stores and online shops sell them.

Doll are you secretly getting commission from Lelo?

Honestly, I wish! Sometimes I secretly check out the job listings but they're not in Canada (yet). Embarassed

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 06:33

Lelo never breaks. And they're pretty too. :)

http://en.lelo.com/

you can check out their "femme and homme" section for girls and guys toys. And also their 'insignia and luxe' line for waterproof, couples, and wireless remote toys.

Most toy stores and online shops sell them.

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 05:39

Haha.. Love how some dudes assume just because you use a vibe you're not getting laid..


Yep, some guys are actually quite intimidated by toys.

Topic The current trend of Raccoon Eyes?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 05:15

It's a bad idea at the gym but I love smokey eyes at night with a pale/neutral lip and a fierce sexy outfit with stilettos.

Make-up styles all depend on the occasion.

Topic Happy Birthday Mercianknight
Posted 06 Oct 2011 19:05

Happy Birthday MK! Mwah XO occasion6 occasion7



http://upload.lushstories.com/615-HappyBirthday.jpg

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 18:10

I'm rather fond of the "egg" vibrators. They work great the first couple uses but as mentioned you get what you pay for and they break quick

If you're looking for a hard-to-break inexpensive clit vibrator, I always recommend the Pocket Rocket. They are about $15 and work on one setting. Some versions come with different 'nub' covers too. They always do the trick, take one battery and are probably one of the most durable toys you can get for that price.

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 13:04

How in the world do you break a vibrator?

I broke my first cheap-o $25 vibrator on the same day I bought it. Embarassed

I took it back the next day though for a refund... because clearly I have no shame. haha

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 13:02

They do... you just have to pay a little more for it.

I pretty much buy exclusively from the Lelo toy line... They range from $80-250 and come with a 10 year warranty and recharge like an iPod.

Nothing else I've tried even comes close to the quality of that line (both in durability and orgasms).

The best vibrator I've ever had is the Lelo Soraya, hands down. I put it through A LOT of abuse and have never had an issue with it at all.

I've broken many cheaper toys in the past though. You definitely get what you pay for when it comes to sex toys. Just think of it as an investment.

Topic Double mastectomy vs orchidectomy (testicle removal)
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:56

We're just talking about breasts and balls here... nice decorations but pretty irrelevant when it comes to saving your life.

For men, I would think removal of the prostate (due to prostate cancer which is very common on the rise) would be more life altering than losing a testicle.

As for dealing with a mastectomy, yes, it is without a doubt a horrible outcome but if I had breast cancer in the family like Christina Applegate did, I would probably do the same thing that she did. When you know it's probably an inevitability, that you are risking your life by putting it off and knowing that you have to deal with chemo/radiation and it might come back... sometimes peace of mind is worth more than the heartache of losing your breasts.

Reconstructive surgery has improved so significantly, it does make the concept of mastectomies a lot more palatable.

When it comes to a choice of life or death and peace of mind versus waiting for the inevitable I think the answer becomes easier.

When facing the concept of death, there is an amazing clarity that comes about what's important and what isn't.

I really don't define myself by my breasts and would be just as sexual without them.

I agree and disagree. Balls are more than decoration. The testes are important to a man who may want to have children. Although losing both is rare. Especially at a young enough to want kids age. Breasts too are functional to a woman who may want to experience the closeness and bond of breast feeding her baby.

I'd choose to have a testicle removed also in that situation. Both.. not so sure.



Yes, but once you're six feet underground in a wooden box, it's probably going to be even harder to impregnate a woman or bond with your child. happy8

I just think that we have to deal with the cards life hands us. Sometimes it's not pleasant but unless your prognosis is terminal, it's important to remember that it could always be worse... and to just be grateful that it isn't.

Topic Anal pain? :(
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:45

try lying on your side in the spooning position with him. Its the least painful position I've found so far.


Another good one for beginners is laying on your stomach with your hips slightly tilted/raised and your legs between his.

Topic Double mastectomy vs orchidectomy (testicle removal)
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:31

We're just talking about breasts and balls here... nice decorations but pretty irrelevant when it comes to saving your life.

For men, I would think removal of the prostate (due to prostate cancer which is very common on the rise) would be more life altering than losing a testicle.

As for dealing with a mastectomy, yes, it is without a doubt a horrible outcome but if I had breast cancer in the family like Christina Applegate did, I would probably do the same thing that she did. When you know it's probably an inevitability, that you are risking your life by putting it off and knowing that you have to deal with chemo/radiation and it might come back... sometimes peace of mind is worth more than the heartache of losing your breasts.

Reconstructive surgery has improved so significantly, it does make the concept of mastectomies a lot more palatable.

When it comes to a choice of life or death and peace of mind versus waiting for the inevitable I think the answer becomes easier.

When facing the concept of death, there is an amazing clarity that comes about what's important and what isn't.

I really don't define myself by my breasts and would be just as sexual without them.

Topic Smoking ban
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:14

The attack on smokers continues. Companies are now refusing to hire smokers. Why, you ask? It's all about the bottom line. Money. Don't be fooled about companies offering "Wellness Programs", they don't care about your health. They care about having to pay for your sizable future medical bills. One employer in Texas, Baylor Health Care system will no longer hire people who use tobacco. Anyone already employed but the company will not be terminated, they pay a yearly surcharge of $50. Next year that goes up to $650. BHC will also be spending $60k per year to screen employees for metabolized nicotine in their systems. Guess those employees better not go out to any smoking establisments and get too much second hand smoke. Or worse yet, live with a smoker. Could cost them their jobs. Here is that link....


The ironic thing is that Tobacco companies require an extensive physical before they will hire you.

Even more ironic is that part of your benefits package after being hired is 16 cartons of free cigs shipped to each employee every three months.

I love mixed messages.

Topic Cut or uncut?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 10:43

Cut. Definitely.

I checked out an uncut one during a round of naked spin-the-bottle back in college and it really wasn't my thing, even when it was hard.

Topic Rest in Peace, Steve Jobs 1955-2011
Posted 05 Oct 2011 18:53

Genius!!!

Read his Stanford graduation speech a few years back if you havent yet.

If you have already, do it again!






Definitely worth posting!

http://www.youtube.com/embed/UF8uR6Z6KLc


Topic Rest in Peace, Steve Jobs 1955-2011
Posted 05 Oct 2011 17:09

The world says goodbye to a true visionary today...


Steve Jobs 1955-2011

http://upload.lushstories.com/624-SteveJobs.jpg



http://www.youtube.com/embed/dX9GTUMh490


Topic curious at times
Posted 05 Oct 2011 16:36


do you ever nut in your mouth?


You know... amazingly enough I actually watched a porn compilation the other day that proves that some men can in fact nut in their own mouth if they have really good aim and can shoot ropes of cum like a slingshot.

It was actually kind of fun to watch the squinty-eyed faces guys make while they are giving themselves a facial. icon_biggrin

Topic DPed or 3PDed?
Posted 05 Oct 2011 16:26

I am with DD and Nikki here and will have to pass on the DA or DV.

School is now in session ladies.

UrbanDictionary doesn't indicate it (you can be the 1st to leave a definition there) but what is: DA'd and DV'd ? tard

never been there, but i'm assuming DA'd is 2 cocks in the 3 hole at the same time and DV'd is 2 cocks in the front at the same time...

That makes more sense than DumbAssed x 2 or DeVirginized x 2. Thanks Alli

Yeah, it's Double-Anal or Double-Vaginal.

Sorry... I should have clarified. Damn, I must be watching too much porn lately. Embarassed

Topic Is this wrong that my girl likes this thought and thinks she will
Posted 05 Oct 2011 09:27

if im incompatbale with her then why say perfect or to good to be true.


...because it's meant to soften the crushing blow of the upcoming "it's not you, it's me" speech.

Topic Is this wrong that my girl likes this thought and thinks she will
Posted 05 Oct 2011 09:08

When girls tell you they are no good, fucked up, cheaters, etc. They are pushing you away. I mean I guess its best to let her go. I know it's hard to do but thats what they are doing. I mean why would a girl that likes you actually try to paint herself in a bad light?

I actually did this with a guy once....

The reason I did it was:

1. He was a 'good guy' and the type of guy that I should have been dating. He was perfect on paper.

2. I was going through the sluttiest summer of my life and doing way fucked up things and was in no position to date a "good guy." But I felt guilty about passing over a guy that theoretically was a damned good catch.

3. I figured I would turn him off and push him away by warning him about how messed up I was and telling him all kinds of sordid stories while chatting over the lovely candlelit dinner he had just cooked for me.

Outcome: Me telling him what a cheating messed up slut I was turned him on even more and he fell madly in love and kept pursuing me until I finally had to dump him on my own with the "it's not you, it's me" speech (a couple of weeks later).

The moral of this story is... She wants space or she wants you to take the reigns and end the relationship. She's non-confrontational in general and wants to avoid being the bad guy. Showing you how incompatible you ultimately are is supposed to be the not so subtle 'hint hint' that the end is drawing near...

Personally I would just dump her and see how she reacts to it.

Topic cell phones
Posted 05 Oct 2011 06:38

The new Bold has touch-screen as well. I'm kind of weird, because I use the touch-screen and the tracker randomly at the same time. It's just the typing emails on a touch-keypad that annoys me. But as you know...it's soooo hard to get over the Crackberry... Embarassed

Well Doll, if BlackBerry doesn't get their act together in a hurry you may be forced to go to a different phone. They are in some serious trouble right now!

Crackberry Rehab might be the answer... but you know what they say... rehab is for quitters! geek

http://www.youtube.com/embed/vsU7GrxPYh0

Topic cell phones
Posted 05 Oct 2011 05:55

I was always a Blackberry guy. LOVE my blackberry. And if Verizon ever gets one that has a fast enough browser I'll go back. Still the best email capabilities on a phone. Now I have a DroidX, and I like it pretty much. The touch screen doesn't bother me as much as I thought it would. But the browser is lightspeeds faster than my Blackberry ever was.

The new Bold has touch-screen as well. I'm kind of weird, because I use the touch-screen and the tracker randomly at the same time. It's just the typing emails on a touch-keypad that annoys me. But as you know...it's soooo hard to get over the Crackberry... Embarassed

Topic cell phones
Posted 04 Oct 2011 17:52

I have the Blackberry Bold. It was a tough decision between that and the iPhone. I'm generally an Apple fanatic but I hate touch-screen keyboards.

I use it to check/respond to emails, love the calendar for scheduling and the BBM feature. Oh, and to take and send dirty pics of course.

For on-the-go web surfing, I prefer using my iPad when possible (despite the touch-screen). I just like the larger screen if I'm doing online stuff, and it's light enough to fit into my daytime bag/purse.



Topic Do you ever feel a bit harrassed or annoyed at some people on lush?
Posted 04 Oct 2011 15:53

No. For the most part, people are usually scared of me. icon_biggrin

Topic Quick question, Dick or Cock?
Posted 04 Oct 2011 05:50


The only romance novel I've ever read also had me laughing through it. Twilight had me shaking my head in wonder at how anyone could read such crap. I never tried that again and I think Fabio is so ugly. I guess I prefer things, including the characters in books I read, to be more realistic.


Realistic? Didn't you just say in another thread that you were mainly a fan of Harry Potter and Disney romances?

Also... dirty talk isn't meant as a Q&A.


Anyway... back to the original question, I like using cock, shaft, sometimes dick depending on the character and the story style. Unless one is writing in the 'love stories' category, a sex scene needs real and raw verbiage in order to give the right energy and intensity to a memorable sex scene. Erotica and sexuality is about releasing inhibitions so I can't imagine why a writer would want to be inhibited with the words they use.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 03 Oct 2011 15:47

http://upload.lushstories.com/309-AU.jpg

Topic DPed or 3PDed?
Posted 03 Oct 2011 14:20

I've been DP'd but not 3P'd.

On that same note, never been DA'd or DV'd either. No desire to try either of those though.

Topic Do you watch porn? How often?
Posted 02 Oct 2011 19:20

Funny thing about porn is that the people that are against it or find it really boring or overly faked probably haven't seen the right kind of porn yet. There are so many different genres and director styles. It would almost be like reading a couple of bad erotica stories and then thinking that all erotica sucks.

High quality porn can be very stylistic and psychologically interesting... far from the stereotypical scenes with bored, disinterested actors faking orgasms while cheesy music plays in the background. If all I had experienced was along those lines I probably wouldn't watch porn at all either.

I guess everyone has their preferences in terms of what kind of porn they're into, but for me I think anything by the director Mason is pretty brilliant. It's a female director (but be warned, it's extremely hardcore.. more so than a lot of male-produced porn) but the interviews she does with the porn stars and the psychological angles she adds to them and her take on women in porn in general are totally identifiable for me. High production values, the industrial/stylized feel to her recent vids, and super dirty and unique concepts, and quality stars help too.

Topic Gay/Lesbian public shows of affection
Posted 30 Sep 2011 18:50



How would you feel if you witnessed public shows of physical affection between members of the gay/lesbian community ? I don't mean 'getting it on' of course, (although I would probably happily stop and watch that too!) Embarassed

I feel fine... in fact I see it all the time. I don't live too far away from the central 'gay community' in my city. To be honest, I don't really notice it as being any different than a hetero couple. It's kind of old news.

If public PDA bothers you, it's really not that hard to look away. Unless the couple is literally on top of you or infringing on your space, I think its fair to say that we do have reasonable control over what we choose to stare at.

Topic What's the funniest or strangest comment you have received on one of your stories?
Posted 29 Sep 2011 12:18

The story that brought me the most entertaining, wild and shocked comments was "The Sex Rehab Diaries: Stacey's Confession".
It was probably the dirtiest story I've written so far and the comments were hilarious.

Here are some of my favourites:

"OMFG, that was so perverted, so sick and twisted, so sexually deviant and filthy! You sick fuck! Pandering to our basest, most vile wicked lusts like that! BRAVO!! BRAVO!! Excuse me while I... stroke... my... aahhhh!! That was wonderful. 5."

"Holy suffering fuck. You really do believe in getting it all out there, don't you Doll? Almost demented in its dirtiness. Beautifully controlled in the telling and outlandish in its content."

"I came in my pants, that's all I have to say:)"