Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic What was your first vehicle you owned?
Posted 06 Dec 2011 15:13

It was a shiny red VW Jetta. I loved that car.

Topic Twitter
Posted 05 Dec 2011 17:24

As Yahtzee said, I do have twitter... I don't always use it that regularly but sometimes I get more into it than others. I tweet random things, my writing, and blog posts.

I use it professionally (following/networking with writers/publishers) but also personally, tweeting about things that interest me outside of the erotica world.

I do follow-back if the person seems legit and not a tweet-bot or a total creeper.

I enjoy following the celebs, pornstars, sportsguys and interesting personalities out in twitterville. I've some 'interesting' experiences come out of it... lol


Topic Contact
Posted 05 Dec 2011 14:06

Thanks for all your replies,I think I better keep my feelings to myself from now on,oh and I am 100% female for those who think I'm posing as a guy,thanks for your comments anyway.

Your fetish is more than acceptable here.

When you've started multiple current threads on the same topic in various places on the forum, it can get repetitive for regular members. The best thing to do is to create one thread and if it goes stale and sinks several pages back over time, you can always "bump" it up to the top if you still feel there is more to say on the topic or want to express yourself further.

I'm sure there's more to your sexuality than just 'nipple rubbing', so feel free to chime in on other threads and topics too. :)

Topic Adult Toys
Posted 05 Dec 2011 12:36

I've been waiting for you to use that molding kit I sent you. I need a prototype Dancing_Doll pussy to try out before I begin sellling it to all the guys on Lush. Hurry up already. And I'll up my offer. I'll give you 2% of the proceeds from the sell of your own pussy. That's twice my original offer!

The mold kits they sell on the market only allow for the exterior shape to be created, so there is no internal play ability.
I probably shouldn't know that fact, should I... Embarassed

The mold kits work better on guys. I saw one where you can even make a candle in the exact shape of your dick. I always thought that would set the perfect seduction scene on a date. There's nothing like setting the mood than lighting up your very own cock-candle.

Topic The Sex Toy Double-Standard- is there one, and why?
Posted 05 Dec 2011 12:21

I think there is a double-standard in general. A lot of guys won't admit to owning toys or they are too embarrassed to go into a store and buy them for themselves. I'm sure there are many toy-owning men out there that hide them when a new girl comes into the picture, just the same as they hide the raunchy porn on their computers on secret hard drives.

Maybe they feel like the concept of needing any extra stimulation makes them seem less "manly" and "virile" or that certain toys will lead someone to think they are "gay."

The image of a woman writhing in ecstasy on a bed with a beautifully shaped toy while she brings herself to orgasm is a culturally-acceptable, sensual and attractive thing. Lots of porn is based on these scenarios alone.

There's a whole lot less porn out there feature a guy dildo'ing his ass of jacking his dick into a fleshlight tube or fucking a rubber-doll.

The image of the woman masturbating with a toy seems to connote unbridled lust and sexual libido where she just can't get enough and is extremely in tune with the pleasures of her body... The image of the guy masturbating seems to connote a desperate guy jerking off by pretending to be fucking a pussy because he can't get a real woman. These concepts are wrong, but I think they are conservatively held by many.

Personally I am in favour of toys for all, to be used separately and as couples. I'm not intimidated by the concept at all. Quite the opposite, I have bought male-toys before as gifts. I like to watch and play too. For me, it's all about pleasure. Fuck the stereotypes and hang-ups.

Topic Adult Toys
Posted 05 Dec 2011 12:06

from another thread, our resident expert on toys ... Dancing_Doll:

(the thread has other interesting information you may want to check out)

Also suggested by DD was the incredible We-Vibe.

have fun!!

Thanks Yahtzee... lol... I'm still waiting for the company to set up an office in Canada so I can campaign to be the real Toy Master for a living. *taps foot impatiently*

Topic Contact
Posted 05 Dec 2011 12:01

I find that the breast-to-breast thing is more of a visual construct that men seem to enjoy and fascinate over... kind of like a porn image that guys want to imagine is immensely stimulating and exciting to women.

Truth is... it doesn't do much for most women in terms of sexual stimulation.

But yeah, girls can fake it on a porn vid or a sweaty dancefloor to get the attention of simple-minded gawking men.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 24 Nov 2011 08:07

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 23 Nov 2011 14:49

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 23 Nov 2011 08:43

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 23 Nov 2011 01:48

Topic What body type on men do you favour?
Posted 19 Nov 2011 17:58

Fit, athletic, lean muscle, nice shoulders, V-shape build, smooth chest would be my ideal.

Bodybuilders, flabbios and man-orexics aren't my thing.

Topic Famous Story Requirement?
Posted 18 Nov 2011 10:55

Now for the harder question about attainability of all non-incest stories.

I have a non-incest story that's currently over 60,000 views, so it's technically possible.

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 17 Nov 2011 13:45

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 15 Nov 2011 18:10

Topic Do other women find men in thong bikinis sexy... what do you think of this?
Posted 11 Nov 2011 15:45

I vote NO to thongs, cream-sticks, speedos, man-panties and free-swinging sausage and nuts at the beach.

Board shorts and wet suits are way sexier. thumbup

Topic Famous Story Requirement?
Posted 11 Nov 2011 12:26

Just thinking out loud but maybe it should be 100,000 views for incest stories and 60,000 views for non-incest stories to get the Famous Badge now.

I just did a quick glance at the most viewed stories in the most popular story categories and unless I'm reading the stats wrong, at the moment there is only one story on the site that would actually qualify for the Famous Badge that is non-incest... and even that story is about a mom/daughter threesome. LOL

Topic Sybian
Posted 10 Nov 2011 14:03

I know I have more intense orgasms ever since I got my Soraya than I do with my other toys so maybe this would be even wilder.

Oh my god, I know!

Best. Toy. Ever.

Well, so far anyway ... Embarassed

Topic Porn on Flights?
Posted 10 Nov 2011 07:05

I'm still trying to understand why someone would want to watch porn on a flight, surrounded by random travellers, screaming kids and with the semi-nauseating after-smell of the meals they serve on flights lingering in the cabin.

Not exactly arousing...

Topic Sybian
Posted 10 Nov 2011 06:40

It's totally on my wish-list but I haven't tried it yet. The vids from the Howard Stern show definitely make it look like one fun ride! drunken

Topic How To Name Your Characters
Posted 10 Nov 2011 03:19

Though try stay away from dated old fashioned names in a moden setting e.g. Mildred

This is so true. The names we choose can definitely 'date' us as writers in terms of our age. I find most writers of erotica pick names that they naturally are attracted to or are/were popular in their generation.

I've read a few stories on this site, supposedly written by 20 year old hotties, where the characters names are way out of whack with anything a 20 year old would choose for a 'young, sexy character' and more in line with someone who was picking popular names from his/her own generation about fifty years back.

Of course there are always exceptions when it comes to using a non-trendy name here or there, but if you are writing about a whole group of friends or sex partners with similarly dated or old-fashioned names in a modern story, I think it raises a few eyebrows.

Topic Innate Bisexuality
Posted 09 Nov 2011 19:05

I think that for the most part, people get uncomfortable with anything outside of the socially acceptable norm of dominant males and submissive females. And even if they are secretly turned on by going against the grain, a lot of times men will still be reluctant to be open about it.

The typical male character in an erotica story is a dominant, alpha male who knows how to take charge in the bedroom. While I think that most people will find this image universally appealing, the deeper you get into outside-the-box kink levels, the more explorative you start to become about pushing past these basic stereotypes. Stories that make the guy submissive to some degree (whether it's cuckold, strap-on, bisexual experimentation, femdom or all the way to humiliation/sissy femdom) make the average straight guy... uncomfortable. That's why I wrote my story, Fade to Black, in a way that would touch upon this issue and the fact that straight dominant guys can tap into a whole other side of themselves if they are open-minded about it. I've had really positive reaction to the story so far, so definitely no complaints from me. I actually think i had more of a 'gaak-response' to my cuckold/cum-eating story that I posted a few months ago. Embarassed

I think that many times the comments about not liking a particular kink in a story but still enjoying the story anyway speak to the fact that if a writer spins a good tale, fans will be willing to follow you down whatever rabbit hole you venture into. I follow some authors that write outside my own personal kinks/interests but their talent at writing and storytelling is what draws me in, not the sex acts themselves. In some cases I've actually become intrigued about certain kinks that I otherwise wouldn't have found particularly erotic so it definitely helps to open your mind that way.

If someone is bombing a story with a bad score because the sex act wasn't their brand of kink, then just chalk it up to a narrow-minded misguided reader. Most people should be looking at story tags before reading to make sure they know what they're getting into so there isn't any excuse for that.

But yeah, overall I think guys are more rigid in their sexual boundaries than women are (in general) and maintaining that dominant/straight image is much more of a societal pressure than anything women can understand. We live in a world where bisexual girls are celebrated (as long as they are the femme lipstick variety, of course) and the idea of a bisexual man is supposed to be a myth (men are either straight or gay with no in between allowed). I think people's reaction to stories reflect those assumptions. The idea of a bisexual guy OR a submissive/switch guy still freaks a lot of people out because they're harder for the average person to label and understand.

Topic Anal Bleaching?
Posted 08 Nov 2011 06:43

I haven't tried this yet but I'm happy with the overall colour palette of my asshole.

I don't see it as a big deal though to get bleached. It's just one step beyond a complete brazilian wax and there are endless spa procedures out there for lightening skin or scars or refining skin or tanning the rest of our bodies, so why not turn that chocolate spider vanilla if that's your preference too?

All of the things we do beyond going 'au naturel' in every way is done for cosmetic, superficial or beautifying reasons so I don't see any real difference with trying this procedure.

I don't expect to see perfect assholes on men or women (except in porn, because they are paid for the fantasy), but if someone wants to do it, then I certainly wouldn't have any issue with it. I see it as a personal maintenance choice, but definitely not expected or required.

Topic Are there different levels of unfaithfulness ?
Posted 07 Nov 2011 07:29

I'm actually not as bothered by the physical act as by the 'intimacy' involved in getting there.

If a guy gets a blow-job through a glory hole, then it's just a mouth sucking him off and actually wouldn't really bother me that much.

But, if he's met a girl that he's spending time with and making out with and it leads to oral, yes I'd be just as pissed off as if he'd fucked her.

The way I see it, infidelity is about deception with me and intimacy with another.

If he avoids both, then I don't see a problem.

But yeah, there is a big difference between a random blowjob at a bachelor party and finding out he's been 69'ing with some girl at work.

Topic Would you ever want to watch your partner fuck another woman?
Posted 07 Nov 2011 07:17

Yes, but I need to be in control of who, when and how. Then it's a turn-on, on rare occasion , not as a regular thing.

Topic Do you know who it is?
Posted 04 Nov 2011 09:34

The name of the kink you describe is called "sounding" if you want to look it up and find other similar pics/vids online to show the wife. Usually it is done with metal rods, not 'household objects', but hey I guess he was improvising.

Dear Doll.......

It's not that I'm shocked that you know what it is....... (Though I kind of am......)

It's not that you even know what it's called....... (And why do they call it 'Sounding??????")

It's not even that you seem to sound so blase about this practice that it seems like you probably tried it with some poor boy in High School and decided it didn't work for you while leaving him to only gain satisfaction ever after by inserting implements into his tool while being watched by a bored blonde girl......

What bothers me is that you seem to think this is Vanilla...........

(THAT shocks me!!!!!)

(If you dyed your hair red YOU KNOW I'd LOVE you!!!!!!)*

xx SF

* (Though not enough to stuff things up my cock......)

xx SF

Haha... you mean you don't want to play with the contents of my toolbox? When they see me coming into the hardware store, they always seem to look at me suspiciously, even though I am a blonde that technically does know how to screw in a lightbulb. Uhm, not in there , you dirty boy!

Actually I just learned about it a few months ago while having martinis with some of my gay friends. They always have the best sex stories! I definitely think this is a few flavours way past vanilla, but hey, to each his own right? If a guy wants to stuff his sausage, then more power to him.

Personally it's not my thing, and really outside of that one debauched convo that actually left me feeling like a prude, I haven't known any other guys that were prone to becoming aroused at the sight of a screwdriver or a box of sharpies.

Figging, on the other hand, is a whole other ballgame. glasses8

Topic shaving legs (haha a bit odd but wanted a general idea?) :)
Posted 03 Nov 2011 14:14

Attention Blonde Women: please shave or wax your entire legs!

You may not notice it that much when you glance down at them, but you don't want to get caught looking like this:

** I won't mention whose celebrity legs those are, but let's just say that while her "heart" may "go on", clearly her shaver did not.

Topic whats so sexy about phone sex???
Posted 03 Nov 2011 14:03

Aside from needing an obvious connection and desire for the person on the other end of the line, phone sex is really dependent on creativity and how skilled someone is with dirty talk and weaving a fantasy with another person.

In many ways, phone sex and cyber are similar to writing erotica. You are creating a scenario and verbally exploring a fantasy, except in this case you have a built-in audience of one that is giving you instant feedback. It's sort of like 'collaborating' with another person, except it's all spontaneous, in-the-moment improv. Phone sex can be mad seductive, dirty, intense and uninhibited. But... as I'm sure the story goes, as with writing erotic stories, some do it well, and others don't.

Your love or hate of phone sex is probably shaped by whatever experiences you've had with it. If you got a total 'dud' (like if all you've read in erotica was a story you'd like to vote with a score of 1), you're probably not going to become a fan of it or see how others can find it hot.

Topic Do you know who it is?
Posted 03 Nov 2011 11:27

The name of the kink you describe is called "sounding" if you want to look it up and find other similar pics/vids online to show the wife. Usually it is done with metal rods, not 'household objects', but hey I guess he was improvising.

Topic The tale of the friends list
Posted 02 Nov 2011 15:36

I'd prefer new friends on my profile page, to appear at the bottom. Every time I accept a request from someone I don't know really that well, they get put at #1 on my friend list.

Most of us prioritise our friend list so those we like the best / known the longest etc, are at the top. As it is, each time I add someone, I then have to go into my friend settings, and drag the new person out of the top section.

So yes, at the bottom please.

Definitely agree. That was one of the things that sometimes played into me not wanting to accept some random people... dragging them from what's visible on my profile page into the hidden 'Friend-List swamp' always added that extra step of effort required.

I also liked the old way it was set up where when you viewed who is online, it comes up in your personalized friend-list order (if they are online).