Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic First time?
Posted 12 Oct 2011 07:00

Missionary... on the floor of his basement while his wife was at work.


(yeah, yeah, I know...)

Topic What have/would you do to get out of a speeding ticket?
Posted 11 Oct 2011 10:37

No, I've never cried. I don't ask for any favours, flirt or make a big production about it (I have too much pride). I just hand them the license/registration. For whatever reason though they always drop the fine to the bare minimum so I never lose points or have to pay very much. I actually thought that was just standard practice until some male friends told me it wasn't and that they always get nailed for max fines.

Topic cum without touching
Posted 11 Oct 2011 10:22

Okay guys, newbie here, so forgive me if this has been asked before. (I searched forums and didn't see it posed as a "guy" question though).


Other than a wet dream, lap dance, or masturbation...has a woman ever made you cum without her even touching you? If so, what did she do that made you get off? Ladies, feel free to weigh in too if a man (or woman!) has made it happen to you.

I can orgasm without anyone touching me (it's always been very easy for me to do)... basically it's all kegal-related for me.

I did make a guy come once without touching him or him touching himself but he had a P.E. problem in general (total minute man during sex). In fact a lot of times, I was scared to touch him in case he went off before we got to do anything at all. If I recall correctly, the most obvious time was when I was doing a dirty strip-tease for him. He jizzed in his pants... literally. confused1

Topic What's The Best Comment you've received on a Story????
Posted 10 Oct 2011 18:34


Oh... and I did get a great email that I won't post here from a professor of a college that teaches psychology and human sexuality asking permission to be able to use my stories for a semester as assigned reading to generate class discussion. That was pretty cool. And yes, I did check it all out, it was totally legit. Wish I could have been a fly on the wall in those classes though. :)


That's very flattering Doll...I'm sure it felt good to get that note... always flattering when someone chooses to use words you've written for whatever purpose...



Well... unless they are plagiarists, of course. evil4

Topic What's The Best Comment you've received on a Story????
Posted 10 Oct 2011 13:13

I've gotten so many really humbling and wonderful comments, letters, and feedback. It's actually hard to just pick one... so I'll pick two (for different reasons).

1. This first is one that really stands out because it's kind of like the perfect tagline for my Sex Rehab series:

"This entire series has been unmitigated filth dressed up in clever writing and fine plotting." (a comment on The Sex Rehab Diaries: Stacey's Confession)


2. And this second piece of feedback was just so complex and well thought out. I think it's kind of a writer's dream to have a reader be able to articulate this level of impact, and know that they totally 'got it' (ie. all the subtleties of the story).

"Dense and throbbing with erotic, psychological turmoil! There are a lot of stirring sensual images in this story: not only sights but smells and sounds. The party has a kind of cinematic immediacy, taking us along with Rachel's sensual disorientation in the cage and into the flood of sensations that envelop her throughout the party.

At another level, the psychological interest of the story is high, particularly because, on two fronts, it breaks with some of the fantasy conventions of the genre: first, that someone at the party 'cheats' and videos her, exposing her to public shaming; and second, that despite her independent spirit, she hasn't managed to avoid winding up here at her parents' direction (tho, as is hinted, this plan will backfire!).

The conflict between her rich self-awareness and immersion in sensual escapism vs her parents' conviction of what's best and her 'true self' makes itself realistically felt, without harming the erotic impact." (a comment on The Sex Rehab Diaries: Rachel's Confession ).


Both of those comments are from fabulously talented Lush authors that I greatly admire.

Oh... and I did get a great email that I won't post here from a professor of a college that teaches psychology and human sexuality asking permission to be able to use my stories for a semester as assigned reading to generate class discussion. That was pretty cool. And yes, I did check it all out, it was totally legit. Wish I could have been a fly on the wall in those classes though. :)

Topic a dildo question
Posted 10 Oct 2011 09:01

Do you enjoy using a large dildo (the 9" plus girthy ones), or is it somethimg you play with for your man's visual arousal?


Nope. I bought a 'real-skin' suction cup dildo last year and it came in either a 6-inch or 8-inch size (insertable length is 6.75inch). I went with the 6-incher. I actually bought it on the way to a girl's night out and had it in my purse, so I showed a few of my girlfriends later who were in disbelief that it was 6-inches because it seemed way bigger than anything they'd seen in real life. It made me realize (yet again) how much guys exaggerate their dick size.

For me, 9+ girthy would be way too much.

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 08 Oct 2011 10:58

http://upload.lushstories.com/842-DirtyGirl.gif

Topic for those that like anal
Posted 07 Oct 2011 15:57

Ouch!

Sometimes I go into the sex store and see scary looking gigantic buttplug shaped things called "Anal Trainers" that make me cringe. Unless one has a career in the porn business specializing in gaping asshole videos, I don't think anyone want to be playing with anything like that.

Most anal vibrators are actually smaller than the average male penis... and tapered at the end as well.



Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 11:40

Who knew this was such a problem? I wonder how tough you ladies are on a real cock? From the sounds of it, I'd need to bring an ice pack to any future rendevous.

Even the Clone-A-Willy kits (where you can clone your own penis and turn it into a sex toy) come as vibrators, not just dildos. Now if only evolution would catch up to technology!




That is like the best Valentine's Day gift ever. Forget the flowers and chocolate. evil4

Yep, they are a lot of fun! icon_biggrin

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 11:38


What I'm wondering about is the We Vibe II for couples. Experiences??


I've used the We-Vibe original and it was a lot of fun! It's great with a partner and you can also use it as a hands-free toy on your own too.

I'm not sure what the 2.0 version does that's different, but I'd definitely say its a great addition to the toy box for couples-play! thumbup

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 11:34

Who knew this was such a problem? I wonder how tough you ladies are on a real cock? From the sounds of it, I'd need to bring an ice pack to any future rendevous.

Even the Clone-A-Willy kits (where you can clone your own penis and turn it into a sex toy) come as vibrators, not just dildos. Now if only evolution would catch up to technology!


Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 07 Oct 2011 09:42

http://upload.lushstories.com/786-Webz.jpg

Topic why do women loose sex drive???/
Posted 07 Oct 2011 07:23

It could be due:

- boredom of having the same sex partner for more than 5 years, or boredom with the kind of sex you are having in general
- loss of sexual attraction to you
- if she had kids she might be in "mothering" mode and putting her sexy girl side on the backburner
- she might be having an affair
- hormonal issue
- she might be upset/stressed about something and not in the mood
- she might have gained weight and feels less sexually attractive than she used to and is therefore feeling inhibited or less sexual
- traumatic/emotional event may have caused her to lose her sex drive

Topic Is this wrong that my girl likes this thought and thinks she will
Posted 07 Oct 2011 07:02

For all you know she could be a 400 pound 40 year old and she doesn't want you to find that out.


Yeah but... it could always be worse... confused1





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Topic Being collared, what does it mean to you?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 06:51

I like wearing a collar and leash sometimes for dirty sex and role-play but for me it's just a moment in time, not a lifestyle.

So I have a question for the collard and cuffed people: Is this similar to an 'engagement ring' or 'marriage' of sorts. I'm not in the BDSM lifestyle, so I'm really just trying to understand the dynamics behind this concept. Also, how serious is this commitment viewed? Knowing that many/most relationships and marriages meet their eventual demise, I'm just wondering how difficult it would be for a sub/master relationship to end and what the "uncollaring" ritual entails? Also.. would a sub seek out another master to collar them or is this considered a 'once in a lifetime' commitment only? And lastly... can you be in a relationship or marriage to one person and be collared/cuffed to a different "master" or is this prohibited?

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 06:40

Lelo never breaks. And they're pretty too. :)

http://en.lelo.com/

you can check out their "femme and homme" section for girls and guys toys. And also their 'insignia and luxe' line for waterproof, couples, and wireless remote toys.

Most toy stores and online shops sell them.

Doll are you secretly getting commission from Lelo?

Honestly, I wish! Sometimes I secretly check out the job listings but they're not in Canada (yet). Embarassed

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 06:33

Lelo never breaks. And they're pretty too. :)

http://en.lelo.com/

you can check out their "femme and homme" section for girls and guys toys. And also their 'insignia and luxe' line for waterproof, couples, and wireless remote toys.

Most toy stores and online shops sell them.

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 05:39

Haha.. Love how some dudes assume just because you use a vibe you're not getting laid..


Yep, some guys are actually quite intimidated by toys.

Topic The current trend of Raccoon Eyes?
Posted 07 Oct 2011 05:15

It's a bad idea at the gym but I love smokey eyes at night with a pale/neutral lip and a fierce sexy outfit with stilettos.

Make-up styles all depend on the occasion.

Topic Happy Birthday Mercianknight
Posted 06 Oct 2011 19:05

Happy Birthday MK! Mwah XO occasion6 occasion7



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Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 18:10

I'm rather fond of the "egg" vibrators. They work great the first couple uses but as mentioned you get what you pay for and they break quick

If you're looking for a hard-to-break inexpensive clit vibrator, I always recommend the Pocket Rocket. They are about $15 and work on one setting. Some versions come with different 'nub' covers too. They always do the trick, take one battery and are probably one of the most durable toys you can get for that price.

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 13:04

How in the world do you break a vibrator?

I broke my first cheap-o $25 vibrator on the same day I bought it. Embarassed

I took it back the next day though for a refund... because clearly I have no shame. haha

Topic Breaking Vibrators Quickly?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 13:02

They do... you just have to pay a little more for it.

I pretty much buy exclusively from the Lelo toy line... They range from $80-250 and come with a 10 year warranty and recharge like an iPod.

Nothing else I've tried even comes close to the quality of that line (both in durability and orgasms).

The best vibrator I've ever had is the Lelo Soraya, hands down. I put it through A LOT of abuse and have never had an issue with it at all.

I've broken many cheaper toys in the past though. You definitely get what you pay for when it comes to sex toys. Just think of it as an investment.

Topic Double mastectomy vs orchidectomy (testicle removal)
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:56

We're just talking about breasts and balls here... nice decorations but pretty irrelevant when it comes to saving your life.

For men, I would think removal of the prostate (due to prostate cancer which is very common on the rise) would be more life altering than losing a testicle.

As for dealing with a mastectomy, yes, it is without a doubt a horrible outcome but if I had breast cancer in the family like Christina Applegate did, I would probably do the same thing that she did. When you know it's probably an inevitability, that you are risking your life by putting it off and knowing that you have to deal with chemo/radiation and it might come back... sometimes peace of mind is worth more than the heartache of losing your breasts.

Reconstructive surgery has improved so significantly, it does make the concept of mastectomies a lot more palatable.

When it comes to a choice of life or death and peace of mind versus waiting for the inevitable I think the answer becomes easier.

When facing the concept of death, there is an amazing clarity that comes about what's important and what isn't.

I really don't define myself by my breasts and would be just as sexual without them.

I agree and disagree. Balls are more than decoration. The testes are important to a man who may want to have children. Although losing both is rare. Especially at a young enough to want kids age. Breasts too are functional to a woman who may want to experience the closeness and bond of breast feeding her baby.

I'd choose to have a testicle removed also in that situation. Both.. not so sure.



Yes, but once you're six feet underground in a wooden box, it's probably going to be even harder to impregnate a woman or bond with your child. happy8

I just think that we have to deal with the cards life hands us. Sometimes it's not pleasant but unless your prognosis is terminal, it's important to remember that it could always be worse... and to just be grateful that it isn't.

Topic Anal pain? :(
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:45

try lying on your side in the spooning position with him. Its the least painful position I've found so far.


Another good one for beginners is laying on your stomach with your hips slightly tilted/raised and your legs between his.

Topic Double mastectomy vs orchidectomy (testicle removal)
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:31

We're just talking about breasts and balls here... nice decorations but pretty irrelevant when it comes to saving your life.

For men, I would think removal of the prostate (due to prostate cancer which is very common on the rise) would be more life altering than losing a testicle.

As for dealing with a mastectomy, yes, it is without a doubt a horrible outcome but if I had breast cancer in the family like Christina Applegate did, I would probably do the same thing that she did. When you know it's probably an inevitability, that you are risking your life by putting it off and knowing that you have to deal with chemo/radiation and it might come back... sometimes peace of mind is worth more than the heartache of losing your breasts.

Reconstructive surgery has improved so significantly, it does make the concept of mastectomies a lot more palatable.

When it comes to a choice of life or death and peace of mind versus waiting for the inevitable I think the answer becomes easier.

When facing the concept of death, there is an amazing clarity that comes about what's important and what isn't.

I really don't define myself by my breasts and would be just as sexual without them.

Topic Smoking ban
Posted 06 Oct 2011 12:14

The attack on smokers continues. Companies are now refusing to hire smokers. Why, you ask? It's all about the bottom line. Money. Don't be fooled about companies offering "Wellness Programs", they don't care about your health. They care about having to pay for your sizable future medical bills. One employer in Texas, Baylor Health Care system will no longer hire people who use tobacco. Anyone already employed but the company will not be terminated, they pay a yearly surcharge of $50. Next year that goes up to $650. BHC will also be spending $60k per year to screen employees for metabolized nicotine in their systems. Guess those employees better not go out to any smoking establisments and get too much second hand smoke. Or worse yet, live with a smoker. Could cost them their jobs. Here is that link....


The ironic thing is that Tobacco companies require an extensive physical before they will hire you.

Even more ironic is that part of your benefits package after being hired is 16 cartons of free cigs shipped to each employee every three months.

I love mixed messages.

Topic Cut or uncut?
Posted 06 Oct 2011 10:43

Cut. Definitely.

I checked out an uncut one during a round of naked spin-the-bottle back in college and it really wasn't my thing, even when it was hard.

Topic Rest in Peace, Steve Jobs 1955-2011
Posted 05 Oct 2011 18:53

Genius!!!

Read his Stanford graduation speech a few years back if you havent yet.

If you have already, do it again!






Definitely worth posting!

http://www.youtube.com/embed/UF8uR6Z6KLc


Topic Rest in Peace, Steve Jobs 1955-2011
Posted 05 Oct 2011 17:09

The world says goodbye to a true visionary today...


Steve Jobs 1955-2011

http://upload.lushstories.com/624-SteveJobs.jpg



http://www.youtube.com/embed/dX9GTUMh490