Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic Going topless in Canada it's Legal, but would you?
Posted 30 Jul 2015 06:21

I had a friend who did it sometimes to prove a point back when we were in university, but it's far from the norm. I'm definitely not comfortable going topless walking around in the city or in 'non-topless' environments (ie. not the beach). Quite honestly, although it's technically legal, I don't ever see people doing it outside of things like the Pride Parade, or occasionally some will go body-painted at sporting events or outdoor concerts. I have been bodypainted before in public (for a charity event), but for me - I still have to feel like the event/venue is 'appropriate'.

Topic An end to online affairs?
Posted 21 Jul 2015 04:59

Me too. It's the perfect blackmailing tool.

'Becoming the Hacker's Whore'.... someone needs to write it.

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "Money Talks" Story Competition
Posted 20 Jul 2015 13:12

I've only been able to read a handful of stories for this comp so far, but my top three favourites won, so I'm thrilled to see that.

Champagne pops to Liz for taking top spot with the hot tease and tension in Miami Heat! And huge applause goes to Jack's visceral and moody Belgard as well as Buz's twisted and entertaining One Thousand Dollar Revenge.

Congrats, as well, to those who made top ten and everyone that entered!

Topic what are you drinking?
Posted 18 Jul 2015 09:36

Chai Latte

Topic What is 'average' length?
Posted 18 Jul 2015 09:32

5-6 is average, technically.

Topic Sex goo , after the deed clean up ?
Posted 18 Jul 2015 07:37

I agree with Dancing Doll, but I would guess some semen still remains after a wipe.

It's very minimal if you don't wait too long after sex to use the bathroom (you don't have to sprint there, but it's less effective if you're laying around for an hour before going). And you do have to kind of 'push out' with your kegels - hard to explain, but girls know what I'm talking about. Simple wiping still results in a lingering drip. Depends on what a girl prefers though.

Re your other Q - I don't mind it going on my body. It's super easy to clean up or to just go for a slippery/messy longer session if it's not a quickie or where post-shower isn't available. Tongues work well too.

Topic Sex goo , after the deed clean up ?
Posted 17 Jul 2015 05:19

The easiest thing to do if you don't want leaks or wet sheets (or panties) is to go to the bathroom and pee and put a bit of strain into it or bear down slightly. If you go right after sex, it will flush most of it out (ie. you actually see it in the bowl) and using the bathroom right after sex is also good health practice because it helps prevent UTIs. The same system applies for post-anal as well.

As 'sexy' as leaking all day sounds, it's just not practical for most people - especially after morning or mid-day sex. If you're going for another round or two or having a lazy day/night, a simple wipe is fine or just leave it as-is and go with it. But yeah, if you want to be mess-free, use the bathroom reasonably soon afterward and use your kegels to give a little push.

Posted 15 Jul 2015 05:40

occasion7 occasion6 occasion6 occasion7

Wishing you a day to remember! Break out the champagne and enjoy! :)

Topic How Many Famous Stories?
Posted 14 Jul 2015 09:32

I'm a little over 1,000 views away from getting enough counts for my 5th Legendary story. It's amazing how fast the numbers can creep along.

My most viewed story sits at 222,000 at the moment.

Topic What is your favourite colour of lipstick......
Posted 12 Jul 2015 12:06

Lately all I've been wearing is 'Nude Kate' by Charlotte Tilbury (a shade created for Kate Moss) - really a fantastic nude - it's so hard to get those colours just right. This is a new fave.

Topic Guys that make you go Hnnnnnnggggg
Posted 12 Jul 2015 09:36

Justice Joslin

Topic Guys that make you go Hnnnnnnggggg
Posted 12 Jul 2015 06:36

Topic Guys that make you go Hnnnnnnggggg
Posted 12 Jul 2015 05:16

Posted 11 Jul 2015 13:56

Happy Birthday! Hope it's a fun one! :)

Topic Spandex tight pants
Posted 10 Jul 2015 14:38

I think athletic compression shorts (mid-thigh to just above the knee) are hot on a guy - not really into the whole 'spandex pants' or tights look on a dude though, unless it's for some kind of athletic purpose.

It's a different story for girls though. :)

Topic What about your own stories?
Posted 10 Jul 2015 07:56

I definitely do while in the process of writing a story because the concept is floating around in my head and the content still feels raw and kinky. Once I'm finished writing a story, however, I don't go back to it. It's not because the sex acts depicted aren't exciting to me anymore - it's more that once I'm finished with the editing process, my brain is in hyper-critical mode and if I start re-reading things - even for pleasure - all I'm going to see are flaws and things I should have changed or written differently. It kind of kills the mood.

Topic Sexual or non-sexual, what is the last thing you looked up online and where?
Posted 06 Jul 2015 06:28 (clothing blog to scope new stuff)

Topic Write what you know VS Experimentation and the great unknown?
Posted 06 Jul 2015 06:21

Like you've ever needed an excuse. :)

I get some nice tips playing towel girl.

And if I'm bent at the right angle, I get the whole thing. drunken

Topic need some advise
Posted 06 Jul 2015 05:39

You should just ask her if she's interested in taking things to a more committed level and discuss the escorting situation.

Maybe she is willing to compromise (if she wants a relationship too) and just do cam and online stuff rather than full on escorting. Maybe she needs the money and this it the most viable option for her right now. Or if you have the means, you can supplement her income so that she can cut down on the escorting. If quitting is a non-negotiable, then you have to ask yourself if you can separate sex and love and understand that for her it's work - and not emotions.

Part of the reason why you may feel anxiety about this is that you met her under similar circumstances (just for sex), and presumably you both developed feelings. You may be worried that this could happen with another customer of hers - mutual feelings developing, maybe he has cash and is generous, and maybe your heart gets broken in the process. Thing is, you don't want to have regrets in life... When love comes into play, emotions are always going to be at risk. You just have to figure out if she's worth the gamble and then go from there.

Topic Write what you know VS Experimentation and the great unknown?
Posted 06 Jul 2015 05:24

It's ok, we all know that Ashleigh's a boy's name

This is the excuse I'm going to use the next time I try to sneak into the guy's locker room at the gym.

Topic Happy Independence Day USA!
Posted 05 Jul 2015 17:41

Happy Belated Fourth! Hope everyone had a good one! x

Topic What snacks and drinks do you sneak into the movie theater?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 17:06

I take in wine or vodka soda in a Starbucks cup (I save a few cups for this purpose). And I like licorice. That's usually about it.

On very rare occasion I get stoned beforehand (for a stoned-appropriate movie) and then I want the buttery popcorn.

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 16:51

I know many people seem to have an issue with the size of their forum signature. As of now, it only says no more than ten lines. Okay, that's cool, but it doesn't help if you're using a photo as your signature. How do you know when you've reached the "ten line" rule. It should say in the area where it says ten lines, what size height and width are acceptable, so it's there for anyone to see and not be confused when making their signatures, as some put a lot of time and effort into making nice ones and don't want them deleted, or to get in trouble. Could it be possible for this feature to be added?

I think it would be helpful to have it specified there (instead of ten lines), I agree.

In the meantime, if anyone needs help with correct sizing for a forum signature, here is the Lush Guide with all the specs:

Topic Games/Drinking games for girl's night
Posted 05 Jul 2015 14:53

Here are some ideas for the 'I have never' game - I kept them light and not too risque.

I have never had sex with two people on the same day.
I have never kissed a girl.
I have never had sex in a public place.
I have never had sex on the first date.
I have never had a one night stand.
I have never flashed someone.
I have never made my own sex toy from household objects or food items.
I have never had cybersex.
I have never had phone sex.
I have never sexted nude pics of myself to someone.
I have never been good at dirty talk.
I have never had someone's hands up my skirt in a bar/club.
I have never given my used panties to a guy as a souvenir.
I have never done a striptease.
I have never gone skinny-dipping.
I have never thought of another man while having sex with my boyfriend/husband.
I have never fantasized about being with a girl.
I have never fantasized about one of my boyfriend/husband's male friends.
I have never been to a strip club / I have never gotten a lap dance.
I have never faked an orgasm.
I have never had a fuckbuddy.

Topic What's the weather like where you are?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 14:35

Sunny and balmy with lazy clouds.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 14:33

It's so stupid to lie about that. In fact, it's better to say you're smaller than you are. That's why I say I'm only 10 inches. I like to create shock and awe when I unleash the baker's dozen I have hidden away. Always better to surprise rather than disappoint.

Or just go commando and let your sweatpants do the talking! :)

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 13:51

So 4 inch heels are more likely to only add 2-3 inches to your actual height (unless you're wearing legit platforms). If you're wearing 4 inch stilettos and are standing eye-to-eye with a guy, chances are he's closer to 5'7"-5'8" than to 5'9"-5'10" (I remember reading that you're 5'5" in another of your recent posts). Hence why a few 5'7"-5'8" guys could also claim to be 5'9"-5'10" (or men in general can exaggerate their height a little without women noticing); most women wearing heels aren't as tall as they think they are.

So these men are even shorter then... bastards! :p

Actually most heels these days have a hidden platform so they're probably a little closer to the technical heel height.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 12:24

I'd be curious to test you both to see how accurate you are at guesstimating guys' heights. As Dancing_Doll said, many guys in the 5'10" range tend to round up to 6'0"; and in my own experience, many guys just below average (around 5'7") also round up to the average height of 5'9". It can be hard to tell exactly what 5'9" or 6'0" (or any other height) looks like when so many men lie about their height; pretty much like it is for the size of dicks in fact.

It may depend on how tall the girl is to start with.

If I wear 4 or 5 inch heels, it puts me at around 5'9 to 5'10 - which is the height where guys start to exaggerate. So if I'm in heels and standing eye-to-eye with a guy that's claiming he's 6 feet tall - I know he's lying.

If it was a 5'1" girl in heels, she may be more likely to believe his claims because regardless of heels, she's always going to be shorter than the guy in question. It might be harder to guesstimate.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 10:52

That is so true. I am 5' 10" and have overheard my friends tell women they are 6 feet when I know we are the same height. I figure they think that to a 5'3'' chick anything over 5'8" seems tall. It's really funny. One of the funniest things ever is listening to a dude's rap, who you know well, when he's trying to get with a chick. Bullshitting about height is just the tip of the iceberg.

Like when a guy's dick is 7 inches, they tend to round themselves up to 9 inches... it's like as long as they know it's technically bigger than average, they figure nobody will be able to tell the difference anyway.

The height thing is annoying though because girls are pretty exacting about their own height and are aware of precisely how tall they will appear in various inches of heels and platform shoes, so we kinda know what 6 feet looks like. We're usually polite enough not to call the guy out on it... well, most of the time, anyway.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 09:57

I don't - my height is pretty average though.

One thing I've noticed is that a lot of guys who are 5'10 and up tend to round themselves up to 6 feet.