Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic Guys that make you go Hnnnnnnggggg
Posted 12 Jul 2015 06:36

Topic Guys that make you go Hnnnnnnggggg
Posted 12 Jul 2015 05:16

Posted 11 Jul 2015 13:56

Happy Birthday! Hope it's a fun one! :)

Topic Spandex tight pants
Posted 10 Jul 2015 14:38

I think athletic compression shorts (mid-thigh to just above the knee) are hot on a guy - not really into the whole 'spandex pants' or tights look on a dude though, unless it's for some kind of athletic purpose.

It's a different story for girls though. :)

Topic What about your own stories?
Posted 10 Jul 2015 07:56

I definitely do while in the process of writing a story because the concept is floating around in my head and the content still feels raw and kinky. Once I'm finished writing a story, however, I don't go back to it. It's not because the sex acts depicted aren't exciting to me anymore - it's more that once I'm finished with the editing process, my brain is in hyper-critical mode and if I start re-reading things - even for pleasure - all I'm going to see are flaws and things I should have changed or written differently. It kind of kills the mood.

Topic Sexual or non-sexual, what is the last thing you looked up online and where?
Posted 06 Jul 2015 06:28 (clothing blog to scope new stuff)

Topic Write what you know VS Experimentation and the great unknown?
Posted 06 Jul 2015 06:21

Like you've ever needed an excuse. :)

I get some nice tips playing towel girl.

And if I'm bent at the right angle, I get the whole thing. drunken

Topic need some advise
Posted 06 Jul 2015 05:39

You should just ask her if she's interested in taking things to a more committed level and discuss the escorting situation.

Maybe she is willing to compromise (if she wants a relationship too) and just do cam and online stuff rather than full on escorting. Maybe she needs the money and this it the most viable option for her right now. Or if you have the means, you can supplement her income so that she can cut down on the escorting. If quitting is a non-negotiable, then you have to ask yourself if you can separate sex and love and understand that for her it's work - and not emotions.

Part of the reason why you may feel anxiety about this is that you met her under similar circumstances (just for sex), and presumably you both developed feelings. You may be worried that this could happen with another customer of hers - mutual feelings developing, maybe he has cash and is generous, and maybe your heart gets broken in the process. Thing is, you don't want to have regrets in life... When love comes into play, emotions are always going to be at risk. You just have to figure out if she's worth the gamble and then go from there.

Topic Write what you know VS Experimentation and the great unknown?
Posted 06 Jul 2015 05:24

It's ok, we all know that Ashleigh's a boy's name

This is the excuse I'm going to use the next time I try to sneak into the guy's locker room at the gym.

Topic Happy Independence Day USA!
Posted 05 Jul 2015 17:41

Happy Belated Fourth! Hope everyone had a good one! x

Topic What snacks and drinks do you sneak into the movie theater?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 17:06

I take in wine or vodka soda in a Starbucks cup (I save a few cups for this purpose). And I like licorice. That's usually about it.

On very rare occasion I get stoned beforehand (for a stoned-appropriate movie) and then I want the buttery popcorn.

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 16:51

I know many people seem to have an issue with the size of their forum signature. As of now, it only says no more than ten lines. Okay, that's cool, but it doesn't help if you're using a photo as your signature. How do you know when you've reached the "ten line" rule. It should say in the area where it says ten lines, what size height and width are acceptable, so it's there for anyone to see and not be confused when making their signatures, as some put a lot of time and effort into making nice ones and don't want them deleted, or to get in trouble. Could it be possible for this feature to be added?

I think it would be helpful to have it specified there (instead of ten lines), I agree.

In the meantime, if anyone needs help with correct sizing for a forum signature, here is the Lush Guide with all the specs:

Topic Games/Drinking games for girl's night
Posted 05 Jul 2015 14:53

Here are some ideas for the 'I have never' game - I kept them light and not too risque.

I have never had sex with two people on the same day.
I have never kissed a girl.
I have never had sex in a public place.
I have never had sex on the first date.
I have never had a one night stand.
I have never flashed someone.
I have never made my own sex toy from household objects or food items.
I have never had cybersex.
I have never had phone sex.
I have never sexted nude pics of myself to someone.
I have never been good at dirty talk.
I have never had someone's hands up my skirt in a bar/club.
I have never given my used panties to a guy as a souvenir.
I have never done a striptease.
I have never gone skinny-dipping.
I have never thought of another man while having sex with my boyfriend/husband.
I have never fantasized about being with a girl.
I have never fantasized about one of my boyfriend/husband's male friends.
I have never been to a strip club / I have never gotten a lap dance.
I have never faked an orgasm.
I have never had a fuckbuddy.

Topic What's the weather like where you are?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 14:35

Sunny and balmy with lazy clouds.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 14:33

It's so stupid to lie about that. In fact, it's better to say you're smaller than you are. That's why I say I'm only 10 inches. I like to create shock and awe when I unleash the baker's dozen I have hidden away. Always better to surprise rather than disappoint.

Or just go commando and let your sweatpants do the talking! :)

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 13:51

So 4 inch heels are more likely to only add 2-3 inches to your actual height (unless you're wearing legit platforms). If you're wearing 4 inch stilettos and are standing eye-to-eye with a guy, chances are he's closer to 5'7"-5'8" than to 5'9"-5'10" (I remember reading that you're 5'5" in another of your recent posts). Hence why a few 5'7"-5'8" guys could also claim to be 5'9"-5'10" (or men in general can exaggerate their height a little without women noticing); most women wearing heels aren't as tall as they think they are.

So these men are even shorter then... bastards! :p

Actually most heels these days have a hidden platform so they're probably a little closer to the technical heel height.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 12:24

I'd be curious to test you both to see how accurate you are at guesstimating guys' heights. As Dancing_Doll said, many guys in the 5'10" range tend to round up to 6'0"; and in my own experience, many guys just below average (around 5'7") also round up to the average height of 5'9". It can be hard to tell exactly what 5'9" or 6'0" (or any other height) looks like when so many men lie about their height; pretty much like it is for the size of dicks in fact.

It may depend on how tall the girl is to start with.

If I wear 4 or 5 inch heels, it puts me at around 5'9 to 5'10 - which is the height where guys start to exaggerate. So if I'm in heels and standing eye-to-eye with a guy that's claiming he's 6 feet tall - I know he's lying.

If it was a 5'1" girl in heels, she may be more likely to believe his claims because regardless of heels, she's always going to be shorter than the guy in question. It might be harder to guesstimate.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 10:52

That is so true. I am 5' 10" and have overheard my friends tell women they are 6 feet when I know we are the same height. I figure they think that to a 5'3'' chick anything over 5'8" seems tall. It's really funny. One of the funniest things ever is listening to a dude's rap, who you know well, when he's trying to get with a chick. Bullshitting about height is just the tip of the iceberg.

Like when a guy's dick is 7 inches, they tend to round themselves up to 9 inches... it's like as long as they know it's technically bigger than average, they figure nobody will be able to tell the difference anyway.

The height thing is annoying though because girls are pretty exacting about their own height and are aware of precisely how tall they will appear in various inches of heels and platform shoes, so we kinda know what 6 feet looks like. We're usually polite enough not to call the guy out on it... well, most of the time, anyway.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 09:57

I don't - my height is pretty average though.

One thing I've noticed is that a lot of guys who are 5'10 and up tend to round themselves up to 6 feet.

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 05 Jul 2015 08:59

I knew it. whenever you feel dirty, you think of me.

serious note, i think this would smell good on you - it's bubble gummy, kind of :)

Oh - I love bubblegum and candy smells... I'm down!

And yeah.. my shower has always been a bit of a daydreaming bubble for me. No doubt that sudsing up with Rachel, the Lush Snow Fairy, would be fun. ;)

Topic Write what you know VS Experimentation and the great unknown?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 08:54

My default is to write what I know (people, places, experiences, psychological motivations), but I have tackled things outside my comfort zone on occasion. I've written from the male POV a few times, and I feel like that requires getting into a different kind of zone. When I'm writing about people, places or things that I don't have experience with, I do some research beforehand. Yay for Google.

Topic Skincare 101
Posted 05 Jul 2015 08:41

Snow Fairy. It's seasonal, so i stock up every winter so i have it for year around. Lush has always had a place in our shower. It's not super high end, but it is one of my favs.

I'm buying this next x-mas so that I can smell like Sprite.

And think of her in the shower. drunken

Topic Total stranger and a blindfold
Posted 05 Jul 2015 08:35

Fantasized, yes. Done it in real life - no. It's hard to pull off unless it involves some kind of sex party/club. And unless someone has pre-arranged it for you (in your favour), god knows who could end up fucking you. It's great in a fantasy but in real life, I'd rather be able to see and choose.

Topic Do you ever fantasize about the size of a man's cock
Posted 05 Jul 2015 08:29

I've only been genuinely disappointed once.

Topic How easy are you?
Posted 05 Jul 2015 08:28

Compared to my friends? No.

Topic Make up...why?
Posted 04 Jul 2015 06:22

That's crazy.

And this isn't even one of those drastic, you don't even look like the same person, makeup transformations.

Wasn't even a marked difference between her face with/without makeup. People can be so damn cruel.

That video is averaging over a million views a day. I found it both heartbreaking and inspiring to watch.

A woman criticized for her problem skin tries to make it better with make-up and then is criticized for wearing too much make-up (with some typical anti-female bashing thrown in). Social media can be a cruel place for people willing to put themselves out there. It's telling as well that even in the remarks on youtube for that video, you have some assholes being assholes and insisting that make-up is 'false advertising' and blaming her - yet again.

I wasn't aware of her as beauty blogger before, but her site is really nice ( ) and I think she's a great role model for girls and women dealing with acne who can still put their best face forward with great makeup looks. She really is a beautiful girl.

Topic Make up...why?
Posted 03 Jul 2015 06:27

A you-tuber makes a no-makeup video in response to her 100,000th comment.

It's a powerful video, well worth watching. It's almost at 3 million views in the three days it's been up.

Topic Accessorize me, baby!
Posted 02 Jul 2015 09:04

I swooned hard for the Balenciaga Mesh Arena Classic earlier this spring.

Topic WIN $100 First Prize in our "Get Creative" Competition
Posted 01 Jul 2015 09:33

Fuck, those are two incredibly sexy girls... I need to borrow your collection some time.

Right? I need access to this porn collection too. I'm clearly missing out. :p

Congrats on the win, SP! Very well deserved! 3601

Topic The Winner of our Attention Whore Competition for June is...
Posted 01 Jul 2015 09:30

Congrats, Chica! Very nicely played!

And cheers to Mysteria and Annie for rounding out the top three, as well as all the awesome attention whores who made an effort this month!