OK. I want companionship. I want a companion for my body, my mind and my spirit. I want someone who wants that companionship from me. I want her to have physical activities that she likes doing and might like to share (like I do). I want her to have shelves full of books and music, and art for the home (like I do). I want her to have, if not a chest full of adult toys, or at least the desire to play with them (like I do). I want her to want a relationship that is centered, but not confined, with openness born of respect, and trust and comfort, and a willingness to be gentle with each others' weaknesses (like I doi). I want her to be open not only to other play partners, but also to the possibility that others may wish to join our relationship, and that we may wish to make space for them (like I do).