Topic Do you tell your partner..
05 Jul 2016 02:07
Yes, and they tell me when they're about to. Just in case either of us want to withhold the other's orgasm or something like that.
01 Jul 2016 02:43
I don't share makeup or brushes, I wash brushes in dish soap. If a palette gets all dusty, I wipe it down with a paper towel spritzed in rubbing alcohol.
Topic The Most Depressing Thread Ever: Laundry!
01 Jul 2016 02:38
All of my clothing is washed on cold and dried on medium or low. I use lavender castile soap (a little goes a long ways and I like the smell). I make my own stain remover (2 parts baking soda, 1 part hydrogen peroxide, 1 part Dawn), which I actually just add a few drops to when I do whites (I feel like just wearing them makes them a slight bit discolored).
Topic Morning Routine
01 Jul 2016 02:34
Bathroom: shower, pee, wash face, brush teeth, deodorant, get dressed. Takes roughly the same amount of time regardless of whether or not I shower. 20 minutes.
Kitchen: Boil tea water, make/eat breakfast, prep lunch, feed pets. 20 minutes.
Makeup if I feel like it. 15-20 minutes.
Topic Underdressed or overdressed?
01 Jul 2016 02:32
Late high school/early college, I'd have said 'overdressed'. Now, almost done with my bachelor's, I'm gonna have to go with 'underdressed'. I feel like I make it work since I wear mostly black clothing, which looks pretty sleek even if it's a $10 outfit from the thrift store (as long as it's tailored!).
Topic Favourite Fashion Era
01 Jul 2016 02:27
Extravagantly frivolous, feminine, golden-era Hollywood. The men's fashion around this time was just as good as well! However, I do like a lot of depictions of futuristic fashion, so hopefully something in the next 10-20 years becomes a new favorite.
Topic Scent and Sexual Arousal
01 Jul 2016 02:18
On myself, I really orchid, orange, pepper, and lime. On my partner, I really enjoy the spicier scents. Patchouli, ginger, sandalwood, cinnamon, etc.
Topic Older men or younger men?
01 Jul 2016 02:14
I'd never be able to go younger than my own age. I feel like men my age are still children.
Topic Story behind your avatar
19 Jul 2015 04:07
I just figured it would be good because:
1) It's recent (within the past 8 months)
2) Doesn't show all of my face. I like having a little bit of anonymity.
3) I think it's somewhat sexy? I don't know.
Topic A word
19 Jul 2015 04:04
The words "pussy" and "cunt" used to set me on edge. I disliked them for quite a while because I was under the delusion that only the proper terms should be used. But there's beauty in synonyms! They all mean the same wonderful thing. It just has a different air to it based on what term you use. "Pussy" and "vagina" are generally good. "Cunt", however, I see being more useful in more hardcore stories. This is from an erotica-writing perspective, obviously. In dirty talk, I'd giggle if my boyfriend said "cunt" because he's so... tame. I'm sure he'd giggle if I said it too.
Topic I am seriously struggling with my fidelity.
19 Jul 2015 03:52
Hey. My boyfriend and I have been discussing the idea of polyamory over the past few months. Neither of us are willing to engage in it because we both fear hurting the other person. There's no way I can make him believe me, but I would truly feel happy for him if he was able to sexually connect with another person in a healthy way! I'd be ecstatic! I'd double-check with her. If you're absolutely certain it would crush her, read "The Ethical Slut" with her. It goes into the history, reasoning and ETHICS of polyamory. Great book, even for couples who aren't making that leap. I've heard "Love Without Limits" is also good polyamory literature but I've never read it myself.
Anyways, one main points of polyamory is skepticism regarding the idea that one person can satisfy all of another's sexual and romantic needs. Finding a way for your partner to understand that this idea is up for questioning might make her feel better about the position of your relationship, even if she isn't comfortable opening up the relationship to other partners for you.
If you know polyamory isn't an option, there are still ways to explore your sexuality on your own. Get a sex toy if you've never done that before. Use it in all the (safe) ways you can. Try a new technique such as edging (though I can't imagine anyone not trying this). Find other ways to use your time aside from masturbating for a whole month. I can guarantee from first-hand (pun totally intended) experience, after that month your appreciation for masturbation will multiply.
Topic Which would you choose?
18 Jul 2015 21:29
I'd keep my hearing. Listening to music and my partner's voice brings me joy that no other sense can bring.
Topic Jeans or Skirt?
18 Jul 2015 21:27
Skirts. I can never find jeans that fit both my legs and my ass.
Topic going commando
18 Jul 2015 21:26
Always commando unless I want to do something sexy for my partner and add another item for them to remove. Thus I own literally 5 pairs of underwear.
Topic T Girls Top, Bottom or Switch
18 Jul 2015 21:24
well if we are really talking about men making the full-time transition to female then the only answer is bottom because of course they want to be women and that includes only having sex like one. If you still feel like being on top you are just dressing up for the sexual kick but it has nothing to do with actually wanting to be a woman
Not all women are bottoms. You know that, right?
Topic Can it be too big?
14 Jul 2015 19:39
I've experienced three cocks in my life; One was too long, at close to 7 inches. That really hurt the area around my cervix and rarely brought me to orgasm. The second was short (thank GOD), but really thick. This probably wouldn't have been an issue aside from the fact that the asshole refused to use lube. Now I have my Goldilocks penis. Not too long, not too thick. I've never had so many satisfactory orgasms in my life. So yes, I think there is a point in size when it is too large to be comfortable.
Topic husband wearing panties
11 Jul 2015 04:59
It's happened on a few occasions. I giggle for a few seconds, and put on his boxers. My panties are way too tight for his muscular butt.