Topic Story behind your avatar
19 Jul 2015 04:07
I just figured it would be good because:
1) It's recent (within the past 8 months)
2) Doesn't show all of my face. I like having a little bit of anonymity.
3) I think it's somewhat sexy? I don't know.
Topic A word
19 Jul 2015 04:04
The words "pussy" and "cunt" used to set me on edge. I disliked them for quite a while because I was under the delusion that only the proper terms should be used. But there's beauty in synonyms! They all mean the same wonderful thing. It just has a different air to it based on what term you use. "Pussy" and "vagina" are generally good. "Cunt", however, I see being more useful in more hardcore stories. This is from an erotica-writing perspective, obviously. In dirty talk, I'd giggle if my boyfriend said "cunt" because he's so... tame. I'm sure he'd giggle if I said it too.
Topic I am seriously struggling with my fidelity.
19 Jul 2015 03:52
Hey. My boyfriend and I have been discussing the idea of polyamory over the past few months. Neither of us are willing to engage in it because we both fear hurting the other person. There's no way I can make him believe me, but I would truly feel happy for him if he was able to sexually connect with another person in a healthy way! I'd be ecstatic! I'd double-check with her. If you're absolutely certain it would crush her, read "The Ethical Slut" with her. It goes into the history, reasoning and ETHICS of polyamory. Great book, even for couples who aren't making that leap. I've heard "Love Without Limits" is also good polyamory literature but I've never read it myself.
Anyways, one main points of polyamory is skepticism regarding the idea that one person can satisfy all of another's sexual and romantic needs. Finding a way for your partner to understand that this idea is up for questioning might make her feel better about the position of your relationship, even if she isn't comfortable opening up the relationship to other partners for you.
If you know polyamory isn't an option, there are still ways to explore your sexuality on your own. Get a sex toy if you've never done that before. Use it in all the (safe) ways you can. Try a new technique such as edging (though I can't imagine anyone not trying this). Find other ways to use your time aside from masturbating for a whole month. I can guarantee from first-hand (pun totally intended) experience, after that month your appreciation for masturbation will multiply.
Topic Which would you choose?
18 Jul 2015 21:29
I'd keep my hearing. Listening to music and my partner's voice brings me joy that no other sense can bring.
Topic Jeans or Skirt?
18 Jul 2015 21:27
Skirts. I can never find jeans that fit both my legs and my ass.
Topic going commando
18 Jul 2015 21:26
Always commando unless I want to do something sexy for my partner and add another item for them to remove. Thus I own literally 5 pairs of underwear.
Topic T Girls Top, Bottom or Switch
18 Jul 2015 21:24
well if we are really talking about men making the full-time transition to female then the only answer is bottom because of course they want to be women and that includes only having sex like one. If you still feel like being on top you are just dressing up for the sexual kick but it has nothing to do with actually wanting to be a woman
Not all women are bottoms. You know that, right?
Topic Can it be too big?
14 Jul 2015 19:39
I've experienced three cocks in my life; One was too long, at close to 7 inches. That really hurt the area around my cervix and rarely brought me to orgasm. The second was short (thank GOD), but really thick. This probably wouldn't have been an issue aside from the fact that the asshole refused to use lube. Now I have my Goldilocks penis. Not too long, not too thick. I've never had so many satisfactory orgasms in my life. So yes, I think there is a point in size when it is too large to be comfortable.
Topic husband wearing panties
11 Jul 2015 04:59
It's happened on a few occasions. I giggle for a few seconds, and put on his boxers. My panties are way too tight for his muscular butt.
Topic Annoying things that people say
11 Jun 2015 23:14
'I could care less' instead of 'I couldn't care less.'
It drives me up a fucking wall.
THIS ONE. Also, using the word "literally" when talking about an exaggeration. Example: "Oh my GOD Kelsey, I LITERALLY died when my professor told me to read a dictionary!"
Topic Just discovered women's jeans
07 Jun 2015 05:01
Well shit, maybe I should tell my boyfriend. He has the same issue and likes his butt to look good. I own a pair of men's jeans and yeah, they compress the booty. Not so comfortable.
Topic Favourite Fashion Era
07 Jun 2015 04:57
Women's - 1920's, but downplayed a little. The cloche hats are so fucking cute, the short bobs, knee-length rectangular dresses, lipstick, dark eye makeup, the film noir and silent film aspects... not big on 1920's brows though.
Men - Same era. Wool suits with suspenders look dapper as hell.
Topic Age is just a number: Christie Brinkley is 60 yrs old
07 Jun 2015 04:51
Gosh, seeing all of these vibrant, happy, graceful older women makes me sooo happy! Society puts so much emphasis on youthful being a "better look" for women. Seeing a smiling woman with gray hair, wrinkles and fucking cute lingerie surely proves otherwise! Maturity is so far from being a bad look on women.
Topic Period Panties
07 Jun 2015 04:38
The Bloody Hell and Cunt Dracula ones are my favorites.
Topic Underdressed or overdressed?
07 Jun 2015 04:34
I'm always overdressed or UNdressed. I only own nice clothes, so that's how it works.
Topic Health, Fitness and Eco-Friendly Trends
07 Jun 2015 04:33
I'm a yoga teacher, so I see the BKR waterbottles a lot. I haven't jumped on that train yet, as I rarely drink water away from home. If I'm travelling, it's always SmartWater. So as of now, I don't own a waterbottle.
A fitness trend I have gotten in on, is yoga. I got on that train with my mom when she started doing it when I was 3 or 4. She got me my own mat when I was that age, and that's pretty much where I lived. That mat was where I ate food, watched tv from, colored, etc. But, the issue with making the mat your home is that I was panicking internally when I my boyfriend asked for nude yoga lessons, without a mat, on top of a mountain a week or so ago. We ended up doing fine. I highly encourage yoga outdoors barefoot without a mat now!
Another fitness trend I do is making smoothies. Smoothies are my main food source. I was formerly anorexic, and still see eating as a chore. I make up excuses to avoid eating. When I can make a huge smoothie with fruits, nuts and veggies and oodles of calories, I have no excuse. I'm also dairy-free. I avoid ingesting fluoride (and I make my own toothpaste). I wash my hair with baking soda, and condition it with a little bit if hemp seed oil. I suppose these are all "trends".
A trend I'd LIKE to get in on is making my own clothing. Purchasing high-quality cotton fabrics, and sewing my own shirts. Knitting my own skirts, hats and socks. The thrifting I've been doing since I was 12 is good, but it's difficult to find durable clothing doing that.
Topic Are Beards Sexy?
07 Jun 2015 04:07
Beards are super sexy! Well-kept and clean, of course. I don't wanna be kissing cave-Gandalf.
Topic Morning Routine
07 Jun 2015 04:03
My morning routine:
-First thing, tea, spicy cocoa or lemon coffee while checking Tumblr, Facebook, Lush, etc. (15 minutes)
-Small breakfasty thing like yogurt or a banana (3 minutes)
-Brush teeth, take out retainer (3 minutes)
-On mornings when I floss, add another 2 minutes.
-Next, I put on makeup while naked. (20 minutes)
-Do my hair (5-8 minutes)
-Clothing (4 minutes)