Forum posts made by dontholien

Topic Ever gotten enemas?
Posted 24 Jan 2011 09:40

Im not against them for cleanliness reasons, tbh im really starting to want anal more and mor and the one thing that puts me off it any any worries in that department, currently if i fancy a bit of anal it has to be decided and then planned and preped for - not the best foreplay ever so i have been curious about them just to be perfectly clean but if its ever anything i do i wont be getting my partner in on it!! Thats deffo not my cup of tea and im really not into degrading and what-not

Topic What is bdsm for you
Posted 24 Jan 2011 09:31

I agree with Just-SJ, I steer away from BDSM simply due to the image it creates in my head but i suppose the BDSM stuff are things i like just not on such a hardcore level.

Im totally submissive and i love being that but id hate for my partner to demand i call him master or make me lick his boots or anything strange and i would feel really uncomfortable if he refered to me as any derogative name, i just like to be told what he wants me to do and i like him taking charge.

I love him spanking me but i have never had him try anythng other than his bare hand and tbh im not sure i want that.

I love him restraining me, it goes with my submissive nature but i love him doing it with his own arms and hands, i love the skin contact rather than material and i love how it shows off his strength.

I really like him holding my throat but again i think its the skin contact, he doesnt hurt me or ever restrict my breathing but its something that makes me feel hes in charge even more.

So there we have it, i personally dont put myself in the BDSM box but submissiveness, spanking, restraint and throat holding, is what some people would associate with it.

Topic Favorite Sounds
Posted 18 Jan 2011 12:11

The sound of my babys giggle and my toddlers "I love you mummmy"

The little groans my partner makes when i give oral

The birds at 5am

Thunder and rainstorms

The sound of just my own footsteps on crunchy leafs deep in a wood

Topic Make an absurd accusation about the poster above you
Posted 18 Jan 2011 11:48

Imhapless is an awful listener

Topic European Men?
Posted 18 Jan 2011 07:07

Yeah, i notice everytime and often look only at European porn Eh? evil4

Topic Casual sex
Posted 17 Jan 2011 13:25

Would it break your partners heart if she knew? Would it put your relationship on the line if you were found out? Would you feel hurt if your partner had no strings sex with someone else?

if the answer is yes then, well, you know the rest.

Topic Things that cheer you up
Posted 17 Jan 2011 13:12

When the clock gets to 10 past 10 at night and i know my guy will walk through the door any second

Topic Around the world.
Posted 17 Jan 2011 13:10


Topic Lie to me
Posted 17 Jan 2011 13:05

Number 3 obviously...

1. I crave and love outdoor sex
2. Im a raving lesbian
3. Im actually shy and innocent

Topic What is your Chinese Zodiac?
Posted 17 Jan 2011 11:59

The Hare - always thought it was the rabbit before??

Hares fall under a most fortunate sign! Their sign is the emblem of long life and they possess the powers of the moon. Hares are very sensitive to beauty. They are gracious and soft spoken. Hares are the diplomats and the peace-makers. They enjoy a tranquil life and love a quiet evening at home. Hares are reserved and very artistic. They are thorough and good scholars. When Hares are moody, which is often, they will appear totally indifferent to the world.

Topic Hug, kiss or ????? the person above you.
Posted 13 Jan 2011 11:06

a hug and a mwah, mwah on each cheek :-"

Topic Would you fuck the person above you?
Posted 13 Jan 2011 11:04

Hehe, in story land i already have

Topic Talk in song titles
Posted 13 Jan 2011 10:36

Poke-Her-Face By Lady Gaga :-"

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 13 Jan 2011 10:34

Your background picture and your choice of music is just ace

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 13 Jan 2011 10:34

Your background picture and your choice of music is just ace

Topic Me to a tee
Posted 13 Jan 2011 10:30

Gotta say this emotion is perfectly me today Pour Wine I knew my day had started badly when i slept in and then couldnt get onto lush, it just snowballed from there really lol

Topic The site has been up and down like a whore's drawers all afternoon
Posted 13 Jan 2011 10:25

I thought there was something wrong with my laptop to start with but after cursing it a few times and cursing it didnt fix so i had to go to work without having my lush fix. I was very distressed

Topic Worst chat lines
Posted 13 Jan 2011 10:20

Him: Hey
Me: Hi
Him: So whats up?

How do you even reply to that last one?! Birds? Helicopters? Drug users? Clouds? Is there actually a correct answer to this question? lol

Hard-ons and helicopters. If you only have the 1st one, beat it.

How very rude! kekekegay

Topic Worst chat lines
Posted 13 Jan 2011 10:11

Him: Hi there
Me: Hi
Him: what you really look like -->
Me: not even close

Him: Hi there, i like the pics on your profile, wanna chat?
Me: I dont have any pictures.....

Him: Hey
Me: Hi
Him: So whats up?

How do you even reply to that last one?! Birds? Helicopters? Drug users? Clouds? Is there actually a correct answer to this question? lol

Oh an another quick one, "hows things?" really? Like really? Well for starters my job is shite, my bf had an affair with his ex whos also the mother of his first son for the whole time i was pregnant with our child and then for the next 4 months after that too, my bathroom has a leaky bath, toilet and sink and there is also a leak in our roof, the car failed its MOT, my gran has just had her hip replaced with a plastic one, my brother broke his leg im suffering from PMT and an old woman put my cat in a wheelie bin for laughs. Thats how things are atm.

Topic spunked on my money
Posted 13 Jan 2011 09:57

Thats sick. You sad strange little man.

I work at my local asda (walmart for those across the pond), thankfully not on the till but i swear to god if anyone tried to pull a stunt like that on me id kill him with that very same note Ldevil

Topic What color is a zebra?
Posted 11 Jan 2011 12:47

I think its extremly unfair of all you so-called open minded people trying to pin a label on these poor defensless animals. There they are, eating their grass, running from lions, having their strangly cute little half-donkey babies and here we are trying to define them and analize what they are, they are zebras and if they want to be different with their stripes then who are we to judge?! We should all be ashamed kekekegay

Topic Free Hugs
Posted 11 Jan 2011 12:36

Awwww, how lovely

Topic What is the number one thing about guys that baffles you?
Posted 11 Jan 2011 12:23

Why its so easy for some guys to lie and hurt someone they are ment to love and who obviously adores them.

If i could ask a question and get a 100% truthful answer then to be honest id probably be quite self destructive and ask my partner for the full truth about the affair he had. Even though we have moved on together and everything has been forgiven it is something that will always haunt me, i know that the few times we have talked about things he will have sugar coated everything he said but no matter how much i know it would kill me inside id really want to know the whole truth.

Topic ever do something in your life so stupid you regret it forever
Posted 11 Jan 2011 11:49

I can honestly say ive never done anything stupid but i do have a major regret that i will always beat myself up over but will never learn from simply because im too nice, too understanding and too forgiving.

I will always regret each and every time i allow myself to be taken for granted or walked all-over.

Topic Sex toys website recommendations?
Posted 05 Jan 2011 15:27 is brill. They have loads of great videos of their toys so you see them properly and get a real idea of size and stuff

Topic If You Woke Up With The Person Above You What Would Be The First Thing You'd Say?
Posted 05 Jan 2011 15:08

You look surprised..... do i have something on my face?

Topic Who Knows Your Writing Secret?
Posted 05 Jan 2011 06:47

Ive only ever told my partner. Im quite shy in real life and i think the people who know me would be really shocked to know what i write lol. My partner has been great about it and he loves my stories which is great coz they are always written with him in mind.

Topic Head Grabbing during Oral sex
Posted 04 Jan 2011 07:42

Oh yes!! I love him controling me, its my major turn on

Topic Would you fuck the person above you?
Posted 04 Jan 2011 07:38

Yeah, ill give a girl a try