Forum posts made by dontholien

Topic significant other and masturbation
Posted 08 Feb 2010 09:41

For me the only time that masturbation is a problem is when it gets in the way of your sex life. If your satisfying yourself and then dont feel the need for sex, thats an issue

Topic Does cheating turn you on?
Posted 08 Feb 2010 09:34

No, its not a turn on at all. In fact its bloody heartbreaking and totaly emotionally draining. I cant imagine anyone who would be happy with that situation.

Topic What is cheating?
Posted 08 Feb 2010 08:51

To me anything that someone wouldnt show or let their partner see is something to be wary of and ANYTHING that upsets one partner is something the other partner should stop immediatly.

I have very recently dicovered my partners affair. I was wary and suspicious for a while and it was things like hidden msn conversations, texts and emails that had me suspicious and got him found out.

While i have been suspicious i have asked if anything was going on, my partner tried everything from lavishing me with attention to acting like i was being daft and to falling out with me to try to covince me otherwise but obviously it was all part of the act. I worshiped my partner and i was very understanding about his friendship with his ex (they have a child) so i think i tried to believe him because i didnt really want it to be true that he could do anything to hurt me but i couldnt shake off the feeling that something was going on.

Looking back and thinking about my experience i would advise you to just go with your instinct. If your gut is telling you something isnt quite right then it probably isnt and you need to try to decide what step to take next. If hes fighting so hard to try make you believe that nothing is going on then maybe he never will admit to anything and you might have to decide if you want to act without evidence of anything.

Topic Do you always need a drink, before you have sex???
Posted 21 Jan 2010 07:47

I dont think ive ever had drunken sex. Iv never been out for the night then taken someone home or gone home with someone but there have been times iv been at home with my partner and had a glass of wine or something then had sex but its not needed and i dont think it made things any better. Infact, i get fair sleepy after alcohol lol

Topic Sensuality
Posted 21 Jan 2010 07:28

Oh how i love all these pictures! My partner would really appreciate the JD one lol

Topic Facebook Ownage
Posted 21 Jan 2010 07:25

"I love facebook like you love cock" Hehe, dont think this will ever get old

Topic Facebook Ownage
Posted 21 Jan 2010 07:24

lmfao I fucking LOVE facebook almost as much as i love lush!

Me too!! Lol, revenge is so so sweet!!

Topic Kama Sutra for geeks
Posted 21 Jan 2010 07:22

Hehehe, that one tickled me =d>

Topic What are we reading right now?
Posted 21 Jan 2010 07:16

I recently finished Flesh & Blood by Graham Masterton and i like to follow a horror with something a bit more emotional so i have just started a Jodie Picoult book called Handle With Care.

Topic how many people from uk
Posted 18 Jan 2010 04:18

Me!!! Im near Manchester

Topic What do you people think of Tiger Woods???
Posted 18 Jan 2010 04:17

Lets face it, unfortunatly cheating happens all over the place and all the time but because its all so public he has become an easy target for other poeople judgement.

The only judgement i make is that hes a reet tit for thinkin that it would never come out. He must have forgotten that hes quite famous and that the media would pay big bucks to hear such a shocking story. Silly boy.

Topic Does the length really matter?
Posted 18 Jan 2010 04:04

i know it gets said all the time but its not the size, it really is what you do with it that counts.

I have been with someone that was fair big (about 8, 8 1/2 inches) and he would just hammer away like there was no tomorrow. Not very comfortable for me at all and he just didnt see it. Doggy style was out of the question because it was just way too deep and he couldnt control himself and do it at a depth that was good for both. His girth was quite big too so if it had been a while it often hurt me when we had sex again simply because he just used to try shovin it in dontknow

I really think that the length is unimportant as long as you are a good lover

Topic Do you like a guy to be hairy or shaven?
Posted 18 Jan 2010 03:53

I prefer it short and tidy. It kinda kills the sexyness when you get a hair in your mouth when giving oral and you have to try and fish it out of your mouth without stopping or making it obvious lol

Topic Would you buy cum?
Posted 18 Jan 2010 03:50

hm.. see.. yea.. no way... i like the effect of it shooting out of the penis so buying it would just be a waste of money

oh my.. did i just really say that...d'oh!

Hehe, yes you did lol.

I know what you mean though, it would lose the "wow" factor and wouldnt it be cold...?

Topic Shaving Foreplay
Posted 14 Jan 2010 12:22

I must admit, i think id be a bit on edge if i let my partner near me with a razor, as much as i love him i dont want anyone down there with something sharp lol. And im so clumsy that i wouldnt trust myself to shave any of him.
Actually, now i think about it, im so clumsy i dont trust me to do me lol. Maybe it would be better having him do it....

Topic For Coffee Drinkers
Posted 13 Jan 2010 13:26

Im more of a tea drinker myself but i do like a coffee every now and then.

Im not big on having it strong so i like Starbuck's coffee, i like the vanilla latte and at christmas i like the toffee nut latte with whipped cream icon_smile
If i drink coffee at home i always have Douwe Egburts pure gold, no water, just nuke my milk (microwave) and stir in my coffee and 1/2 a spoon of suger. Done.

Topic New Sex Robot
Posted 13 Jan 2010 12:32

Gosh shes sexy, and when i say "sexy" i mean creepy dontknow

Topic I FOUND GAV'S VIDEO!!!!
Posted 13 Jan 2010 12:26

hello1 laughing3

I like

Topic Epic Failure
Posted 13 Jan 2010 12:16

Oh dear, 'tis a sad, sad day.

Boo hoo!

Someones bollox will be on the chopping board for that!!

Topic What languges do you speak and write fluently?
Posted 13 Jan 2010 12:10

I have two languages Good and Bad (both are in English)

laughing3 Hehehe. I just speak my native queens English lol. I can read French to an extent, well not quite read it, more like guess what things mean, often helped by pictures laughing6

Topic What did you think?
Posted 13 Jan 2010 05:31

I do remember my first cock, mainly coz iv only ever been with 3 people and they have all been a long term relationship.
My first bf and i got together in high school and i think its safe to say we were both at that really curious, experimental age. I had seen his cock hard through his pants an felt it before but i remember being very nervous the first time it came out, i was a little scared of touching it incase i did it wrong or it hurt him or something but he showed me how to handle it and that was the end of the nerves lol.
I had seen oral in porn before i did it but i had never paid much attention, most of the time i jumped past it simply because i wanted to see the sex. When i first performed oral it was quite spontanious, i hadnt planned to do it and i didnt tell him i was doing it, i think it started with me teasing him by being on my knees in front of him and playing with his cock and i just got a bit curious so i tried licking the tip and his response just encouraged me to go further, partly just coz i wanted to know how he would respond to different things and partly coz it turnrd me on knowing that i had that effect on him.
I quite enjoyed it from that very first time and i have always swallowed, at first its coz i had had no warning and didnt really know what else to do with it but now i really enjoy it.

Topic porn...how do you watch it...
Posted 12 Jan 2010 11:15

I had a good old laugh today at some of these "casting couch" clips. Some girls out there are just so so stupid and naive, they would do ANYTHING for a modeling job, even one that doesnt exist..... boobieflash2 b229 3some

Topic porn...how do you watch it...
Posted 11 Jan 2010 10:01

Hehe, i have at times watched porn just because im so bored i cant think of anything else to entertain me. When im in one of those moods i often end up watching silly stuff like "amazing foot wank" an i sit an watch an giggle to myself. I often then just end up lookin through things with really random titles an thinkin to myself do people really get off watching this coz i just cant stop laughing!

Topic Do people find piercings a turn off or turn On?
Posted 11 Jan 2010 09:57

I didnt have them in then but i know you can buy special maternity navel piercing jewellery. Its just a longer flexiable bar made from a plastic material called PTFE. You can buy big pieces of it and cut it to the right size then thread the balls on as normal. Most women just give up on em tho and get it redone afterwards

Topic Any women here with an unusually large clitoris?
Posted 11 Jan 2010 03:18

Mine is rather tiny but so super sensitive that i cant have anything touch it directly, its extremly uncomfortable almost on the verge of painful if anything does

Topic Do people find piercings a turn off or turn On?
Posted 11 Jan 2010 03:13

Right, so, your all gonna laugh at this (Dontholien giggles nervously)......

Iv had my tongue, lip, both nipples, my belly button 4 times (once normal and then i had it pierced downward and two above at an angle so it was a "Y" shape), my ears pierced numerous times and my lobes streched, my lower ones were 10mm and my second one was 6mm and i also had a nape piercing and a sternum piercing (google them!!)

I had all these done a a teen after my first heartbreak, guess i was just being rebellious. I now only have my lip which is a teeny tiny little stud, a standard pair of ear piercings and my nape (its like my little secret lol).
All my other piercings healed completley and my streched lobes shrunk back to normal, the only scars im left with is a small one on the underside of my tongue and some on my belly button but id have to point them out for them to be noticed.

I am not ashamed of any of it and i still do appreciate and admire a good piercing on someone but as a mum of one and one on the way and a stepmum of one i dont quite feel it suits me. Also because im a baker it wouldnt be practical to have lots of piercings because id be constantly takin em out.

Piercings on a guy dont bother me either way

Topic Genius
Posted 05 Jan 2010 13:18

hello1 laughing3 clapping Lapplause

Thats just brilliant

Topic If adverts only told the truth
Posted 05 Jan 2010 13:14

Marmite - LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Topic Just cause I want to know!
Posted 04 Jan 2010 11:53

Im a baker hello2

Topic Penguins have love traingles too!
Posted 04 Jan 2010 11:21

Oh its so sad, Henry finds his real love then gets ill. They could sell that story to hollywood and make millions