Forum posts made by dontholien

Topic When or how do you write the best?
Posted 04 Jan 2010 10:42

Some of the stuff i write is just fantasy and to be honest it all comes to me in story form while im working (i work in a bakery lol) It mostly happens when its been a little while i since i last had sex and i feel slightly in the mood and my mind just wonders and i think of how id like my partner to have me and it just evolves in my head. Then i have to remember everything i thought up until i get home to my laptop and i just pour it out. Then when i finish i have to go get myself a hot tea (milk, no sugar) and some chocolate while i read it back and organise the gibberish parts.

Some of my other work is more of an emotional release for me and when something has happened that gets me down or upset and i spend days replaying the confrontation in my head trying to think how i could have handled the situation differently i just somehow end up sitting at my laptop and coming up with intense, emotional but sexy stories. I dont know where they come from but i always feel better after i write them.

Topic question for the gals
Posted 03 Jan 2010 07:41

Lacy French ones are the cutest i think, they are comfy and they show a nice bit of cheek lol bootyshake

Topic Sensuality
Posted 03 Jan 2010 07:35

Wow, very sexy pics. I agree that these are much nicer than the normal tits an cock out type pics. Lets your imagination work.....Lwinking

Topic Pay The Fine
Posted 30 Dec 2009 08:32

I only got $180, thats not too bad i think icon_smile

Topic Do Your Prefer Alpha Males?
Posted 28 Dec 2009 09:20

I do.

I love the way my partner takes control of day to day stuff and our sex life. Not in a undermining, controlling me way but more a looking after me way.

Topic Pierceings
Posted 28 Dec 2009 09:11

I used to have both nipples done and once they are fully healed they are just like another part of the body, clothing doesnt affect them so bras are fine.

I used to like having my nipples played with when the jewellery was in, they were more sensitive but the guys who saw it seems intimidated and didnt really know what to do so avoided my nipples completley!!! crybaby

Topic Would you let a spider on your naked body?
Posted 28 Dec 2009 09:07

Awww, they dont bother me what so ever. If there is a spider in my house im the one to rescue my partner lol

Topic Ok look. It is disgusting for a guy to have a picture of his dick as his avatar. Who else agrees wit
Posted 23 Dec 2009 12:53

Avatar pics dont bother me really, as has already been said, each to their own.

It does make it a little difficult though for me when i come on here and my partner see's my profile. I know it makes him uncomfortable to see those pics under the section that says "friends"

Topic How did it all start?
Posted 20 Dec 2009 07:08

I have always had trouble saying whats on my mind and being able to say out loud if i am upset about something so instead id write my thoughts and feelings down, sometimes for people to read and understand and sometimes i write things down just to get things out of my mind.

My first story was called "Fury" and i wrote it quite by accident and unintentionally. It started after i felt betrayed by someone i loved very much and trusted with all my heart, i needed to talk to that person properly but really struggled to say what i wanted too and in my head id replay the confrontation over and over wondering how i could have handled things differently so in secret i started a story and it just developed into something i hadnt expected at all. It was quite an emotional erotic story but i was really proud of it so wondered if i could do it again and the rest they say is history lol.

I have read erotica online for a good few years but only recently came across Lush And thats when i realised i could post my stories for the world to see icon_biggrin

Topic Authors - recommend your own favourite story to Lush readers.
Posted 20 Dec 2009 06:50

Hmmm, i cant pick from mine, i have only done 2 and one poem though. I guess After The Shower is baised on true events and real feelings and After The Party is one i wrote just from a fantasy.

I have only just realised that the two stories i have on have so very similar names..... isjda

Topic Favorite Male Undies
Posted 20 Dec 2009 06:14

I agree. Just tight enough to show off some bum, leg and crotch shape but not tight in a way that makes me cringe

Topic Would You Ever....?
Posted 20 Dec 2009 06:10

I have always been into piercings so this didnt shock me but i still wouldnt have it done.

Its normally called a "corset piercing" when an area is pierced with rings like that and tied with a ribbon, its more seen on backs, wrists and sides though, not down there!! lol

Topic What would he do to let me know that he wants to have sex with me?
Posted 20 Dec 2009 06:00

Sometimes when Me and the Mr are kissing he kisses me that way that normally means hes after a bit but then he walks off an starts doin somethin else or when we are lay in bed cuddling he will grope me a bit an give me that look but then turn out the light an roll over!! I dont get it!!! Ill be lay there offerin it on a plate an i'll get the impression that he wants it but he doesnt!

They say blokes are simple things but i think they lie. Liar

Topic When was the last time you had sex? [BE HONEST]
Posted 20 Dec 2009 05:31

It was last Sunday for me. Me and the Mr had been out for my works do on the Sat night so had no kids Sunday morning and we got a bit frisky while we were having a nice long lie in

Topic Favorite Household Sex Toys
Posted 15 Dec 2009 11:07

The non-brushing end of an electric toothbrush.

Hehe, never thought about that one.

One time when i was feeling very frustrated i did try using a banana but it felt so cold it totally shocked the need out of me and it turned me right off lol 588-rolleyes

Topic Favorite Household Sex Toys
Posted 15 Dec 2009 08:24

Hairbrush handle is an old one. Desperate times......

Topic masturbating
Posted 23 Nov 2009 12:45

angel7 Me??!!!!!

Topic Anybody else been in this situation?
Posted 22 Nov 2009 12:59

Has anyone else ever been in a situation where your partner who you love completley and utterly and are very happy with suddenly realised they are also in love with someone else too?

I have just found out my partner has realised he is in love with his ex again who is also still in love with him and wishes she could have him back. They have a baby together and he often stops at her house a few nights a week when he finishes his late shifts to spend the night and next morning with his son and i have always been ok with this, i knew the situation with her when we got together.
The confusing thing is that he says it doesnt change a thing between us, that we will be the same as we were and its me he wants to be with.
He told me that if i hadnt found out he wouldnt have told me and it wouldnt have bothered me and he would have delt with it but i caught him telling her, thats how i found out so im all confused. Why would you tell the other person who is so cazy about you that you love them again when you have no intention of it changing anythings?

Has anyone else ever been the one who had to deal with their partner loving someone else? Have you ever loved 2 people at the same time in the same way?

Topic masturbating
Posted 22 Nov 2009 12:44

Sounds like an attention thing to me.....

Topic Like to be tied up / bound? Or be the re-strainer?
Posted 22 Nov 2009 12:37

Primal, i agree with you there on the neck holding. I only very recently discovered that i enjoy that. Like you said though, its not squeezing oh hurting just holding

Topic Lipstick - why??
Posted 21 Nov 2009 15:35

I dont really do make up unless im going out for a really big night and then its just eye liner, mascara and a little lipstick but i dont like kissing with it on, mainly coz i dont like seeing it on my man!! lol. I hate lip gloss, looks sexy i agree but i just think its all sticky and yucky. I wear lip balm in winter to stop my lips drying and my Mr goes mad at me when he kisses me an i have it on, he hates anything like that

Topic After The Lovin'
Posted 21 Nov 2009 15:28

I always tell him that i love him and ask if iv ever told him hes amazing (the answer is always "yes but i already know") then i snuggle as close to him as humanly possible till he says "Angel, you CANT get any closer to me!!" then i lie in his arms wishing there was a way to make more of our skin touch just to prove him wrong lol.

I also lie there wishing he would talk to me about what we just did, telling me what he enjoyed most or what he thought of that new position but hes really not a chatty-after-sex type guy

Topic Any gals with a male masturbation fetish?
Posted 21 Nov 2009 15:15

I love watching my man wank himself. I agree with Cat tho, id rather it be on me then on his hand and id rather lick it off his fingers myself

Topic Like to be tied up / bound? Or be the re-strainer?
Posted 21 Nov 2009 14:46

I like to be the one being restrained but personally i find it most sexy when im held down. The thought of his strength just melts me

Topic Things that just piss you off
Posted 09 Nov 2009 08:53

Know what pisses me off? Arriving at the docs at 2.05 for an appointment at 2.10, in all my winter woolies coz its freezing outside and still being sat in the same spot, sweating my tits off in the over-heated waiting room at 3.15!!!!! Grrrr cussing

Wouldnt mind but i was in and out in 5 mins.

Topic Non sexual things that actually are quite sexy!
Posted 09 Nov 2009 08:46

I think a good thunder storm is sexy. Something about the it that makes me feel all passionate.

Topic sex and senses
Posted 09 Nov 2009 08:36

Catnip, thats my weakness too. My bf does it on purpose right next to my ear because he knows the effect it has on me. Ohh, and when were having sex and i hear him groan "oh fuck!", that really gets me.

Also i like visual stimulation, i like to see my bf squeeze or lick my nipples. I love being able to see what he is doing to me.

Posted 09 Nov 2009 05:32

For beer i like Bud but my fave tipple is good old JD & Coke

Topic Drives You Wild
Posted 09 Nov 2009 05:27

He has a way of placing his thumb on my chin as we kiss when he wants me, its so he can control my kisses. Just him taking that small amount of control over me makes me go so weak! Oh and his breath on my ear or neck makes me go tingly