About dpw

The avatar is my favourite porn star who sadly took his own life 2 years ago, what a waste of a life!
I'm a gay guy that won't die curious! I've been with guys mainly but I've had my moments with girls. I rarely go into the chatrooms, but might take a sneaky peek to see who's in there, so never say never. I am active in the forums, some might think too active, lol. I can be a bit acerbic but just because I don't agree with you it doesn't mean I don't like you. I do try to keep in contact with friends and can be fiercely loyal to them. Any gay guy that I spot I will usually request friendship but my friends are from across the spectrum.
I have lived the highs and lows in relationsips. Then I turned into the king of anonymous sex, slut extraordinaire. Now single but should have worked harder on the one that got away! I have had a go at writing some fiction, I don't know if it is any good, I'll let others be the judge of that. Don't expect too many happy endings from my stories, I am quite a fan of unrequited love and tearjerkers. There is nothing like a good weepy, hence my film list.
Too many "insignificant others" to write a true stories about them, in any case they have all blurred together. The ones with a significant other aren't for publication, they will probably stay unwritten.

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Liverpool, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Men, gardening, gardeners, builders, plumbers, workmen, firemen, policemen...... Get the drift!
Favorite Books:
The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Catcher in the Rye
Tales of the City series
A Streetcat Called Bob
L'Amante Anglaise
Favorite Authors:
Robert Ludlum
John Grisham
George Orwell
Favorite Movies:
One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest
Imitation of Life
Now Voyager
Favorite Music:
1970's New Romantic
1980's High Energy
1990's Garage & Tribal
Date Joined:
15 Sep 2013
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Topic: What do you love about the opposite sex?
Posted: 10 Mar 2015 14:25

Everything....or damned near everything. When you give a woman a chance, and let her be who she really is, she can perform miracles.

I must exclude their fury....I am not fond of that.
Hell hath no fury...

I think that, in general, they care more. They are more genuinely concerned about friends.

Topic: Being Gay a Choice?
Posted: 10 Mar 2015 13:51

Apologies for the rant.

Topic: Being Gay a Choice?
Posted: 10 Mar 2015 13:45

I think I'm less hoping to contribute to the subject here and more interested in some feedback - I don't have any close gay friends (no one that I would feel comfortable discussing the matter). I guess what I am trying to get at is that I am definitely looking for responses telling me whether you think i'm right, wrong, or I'm so far off I'm not even close to the topic :P

I think there are choices involved, but I don't think the choice is who you're attracted to. I think the 'choices' are whether you choose to try to be straight to conform to the 'norm', finding a partner of the opposite sex that you love as a person, but that you're not attracted to and not IN love with. Or people can feel pressures of religions and feel that they may be attracted to the opposite sex but choose to be abstinent. (I think the prison example is something totally separate - a mix of sex becoming a bartering tool, people using it to gain pleasure, others giving pleasure to gain security - I don't think this has really anything to do with being gay, just sex acts between members of the same sex)

loverman had to bring up the gender identity issue :P that I have no idea about - half of me wonders how we spend one day preaching how assigning roles to genders is wrong, and then the next day arguing that someone can 'feel like someone of the opposite sex.' (I reiterate here - I'm voicing my confusion about the issue and VERY MUCH trying to not be judgemental). We don't want to associate dolls, soldiers, cooking, technology, or anything else with a particular sex, AND we want to say you should be with whoever makes you happy regardless of sex, but then we say that you can associate with a sex other than what you're born into. I don't understand the finer points enough to reconcile these two concepts.

I agree with the overall statement that I hate that this is an issue in politics though. FFS, why does anyone care what two consenting adults do.

So... thoughts? Am I just a fucktard like Carson?

Nice. For someone who has no close gay friends, you have a wonderful insight.
So the gay man speaks.
He is a wanker. Neurosurgeon or not, who cares.
Being gay is not a fucking choice. If it was I'd be straight!
Who wants to live on the fringe of society. In the shade? The one that your parents don't discuss with relatives!
Who wants to think about killing themselves because they're a freak?
Who wants to risk being beaten up or killed for just being themselves?
Ask an honest gay man the question, you'll soon know.

Topic: Blowjobs: Guys, do you like to suck cock as well as having your cock sucked?
Posted: 08 Mar 2015 01:48

UPDATE: I have now sucked several cocks and I love it!
Now you've got to ride 'em, cowboy.

Topic: How did you learn about sex.
Posted: 02 Mar 2015 10:56

How did I learn?
Believe me, I am still learning. It's fun getting an education.

Topic: Why are most American men circumcised?
Posted: 26 Feb 2015 12:19

I thought it was because they like to be a cut above the Brits, or below in this case.

Topic: Have You Ever Insulted A Stranger Because of Their Looks?
Posted: 23 Feb 2015 18:18

Yes, but not a random stranger. Drunk, persistant gay guys who don't understand the meaning of no, not interested. If they ask why, I tell them.

Topic: Do you get aroused looking at yourself naked in a mirror?
Posted: 19 Feb 2015 02:12

You might not, but everyone else would.:-"

Topic: Do you get aroused looking at yourself naked in a mirror?
Posted: 18 Feb 2015 17:53

Okay, I'm being SERIOUS... (I have NEVER gone there...) Apart from a few DRUGGED OUT jerk offs and ONE (given) quite pleasant BJ...

I have NEVER in MY LIFE wanked over the thought of a Man...

But you know... I'm fucking 52... I have done MOST EVERYTHING, (and paid the price...) I GENUINELY don't get the homophobia trip... YOUR SEX LIFE IS NOT MY BUSINESS! Your sex life is EXACTLY as vital, important and special as mine...

I will go FURTHER...

I'm like EVERYONE else... All I want is somebody beautiful, who thinks I'm beautiful, and is mostly around...

I can't imagine that might be another man???

But you know what?

Who Knows?

xx Steph

(Unless its John Cameron Mitchell in which case I'm dancing the SEVEN VEILS on the bar table in my underwear...)

But he IS very girly. He IS!!! I have NO IDEA what we'd do... But he's quite stunning...

I'll stop now.

xx SF

(Straight People are HYSTERICALLY funny to QUEERS when they talk about it...)


(Who's keen, Missy?)

Hey sexy, you said define marginal. I said dip your toe in, not dive head first (there's a pun there?).
I'd love you as a mate Steph. Makes no odds as long as you get your roumd in.Lfunny

Topic: becoming a sissy
Posted: 17 Feb 2015 14:29

Where do you find a mistress?
I think you should be posting in BDSM, this is the Gay, Lesbian, Bi and Trans thread.

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