About dpw

The avatar is my favourite porn star who sadly took his own life 2 years ago, what a waste of a life!
I'm a gay guy that won't die curious! I've been with guys mainly but I've had my moments with girls. I rarely go into the chatrooms, but might take a sneaky peek to see who's in there, so never say never. I am active in the forums, some might think too active, lol. I can be a bit acerbic but just because I don't agree with you it doesn't mean I don't like you. I do try to keep in contact with friends and can be fiercely loyal to them. Any gay guy that I spot I will usually request friendship but my friends are from across the spectrum.
I have lived the highs and lows in relationsips. Then I turned into the king of anonymous sex, slut extraordinaire. Now single but should have worked harder on the one that got away! I have had a go at writing some fiction, I don't know if it is any good, I'll let others be the judge of that. Don't expect too many happy endings from my stories, I am quite a fan of unrequited love and tearjerkers. There is nothing like a good weepy, hence my film list.
Too many "insignificant others" to write a true stories about them, in any case they have all blurred together. The ones with a significant other aren't for publication, they will probably stay unwritten.

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Liverpool, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Men, gardening, gardeners, builders, plumbers, workmen, firemen, policemen...... Get the drift!
Favorite Books:
The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Catcher in the Rye
Tales of the City series
A Streetcat Called Bob
L'Amante Anglaise
Favorite Authors:
Robert Ludlum
John Grisham
George Orwell
Favorite Movies:
One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest
Imitation of Life
Now Voyager
Favorite Music:
1970's New Romantic
1980's High Energy
1990's Garage & Tribal
Date Joined:
15 Sep 2013
Last Visit:
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Topic: The WORST movie you ever saw
Posted: 21 Sep 2015 22:31

The Lacemaker. If you've never heard of it, consider yourself lucky.

Topic: Hello everyone, I would appreciate any help I can get
Posted: 21 Sep 2015 22:09

I tend to overthink stuff that is very true.
I want to go with it I'm just not sure what to do or how.
But truth be told you people gave me better advice than anybody on this.
Thank you all. I will tell you how it goes if you want.
What do you want to do? Is it just a threesome, or you with another guy?

Topic: your first cock sucking experience
Posted: 21 Sep 2015 21:47

Welcome back Derrick! It's great to see you again.
Merci beaucoup mon ami.

Topic: Hello everyone, I would appreciate any help I can get
Posted: 21 Sep 2015 21:36

Ok so I might as well be more clear.
I find myself wanting to be involved with men as well as women, in the same role.. I got hit one once or twice and I found the idea greatly appealing.. I didn't act on it though..
I'm surprised that it was just once or twice that you were hit on by guys.
Sexual attraction isn't fixed, nor are sexual desires. You have the choice of following them or fighting them.
You're overthinking things. Treat it as an experiment, that harms nobody. Try to get passed your own self imposed limits.

Topic: your first cock sucking experience
Posted: 13 Sep 2015 13:37

Awkward. I had no clue what to do, no technique at all, just me bobbing up and down on his shaft, finally ended with me licking the head while I stroked him. I still couldn't get him to cum. We were both frustrated and I never got a second chance with him.
The second guy I was with went much better. He was very accommodating, talked me through it, told me what he liked, encouraging. I was happy when I made him cum, although I did gag and choke, when he came. I had to spit it out, wasn't ready for the taste. I have grown to like it since though.
I was with a guy a couple of months ago who had never been with another man. He was very hesitant to begin with. When he finally put it in his mouth he was surprisingly good. I warned him more than once that I was about to cum. He just carried on sucking and swallowed the lot.

Topic: Men who like men: Top, bottom, or switch?
Posted: 10 Sep 2015 02:52

Mostly bottom here as I really get so satisfied seeing and hearing a man ejaculate when he's fucking me. But I can top a man, too.
You have an ass that should be shared. Incredible.

Topic: Would you consider it cheating if your gf/wife had sex with another girl?
Posted: 10 Sep 2015 02:40

Just one question. How do you think most women would feel if you were with another man?

In answer to the original question: if she did it without my knowledge that she might then I'd be upset and consider it cheating. However if we had discussed it and she agreed I could join in whenever she did it then I wouldn't care.
Maybe in his case they'd be relieved.Lfunny

Topic: I'm kinda new to this would like some advice
Posted: 08 Sep 2015 13:24

OK so i have been on lush for around 6 months and have had a lot of nice chats and read some amazing stories mainly about mm I'm exploring my curious side but am thinking about taking it further. A guy on here recommended a gay bar or sauna, so i did some research and it turns out there is a sauna right around the corner from me is it a good place to start and what should i expect once i get in there?
Really depends on what you're after. If it's just nsa fun, a sauna can be good. Although it depends on the sauna.
Judging by your photos, you'll be popular in a sauna.

Topic: Men who like men: Top, bottom, or switch?
Posted: 16 May 2015 17:59

Hi! I may, at some point want to try being a top but I am still kind of new at this and would really prefer to start out as a bottom. mainly to perform oral sex on std free men who are non smokers and well endowed. I do get turned on, at least a little simply at the thought of turning a man on in this way. I may, at some point even consider having a 3some.
You make it sound a bit like a new job. Start out as a bottom and work your way up to a top, lol.

Topic: First time same sex, was it planned?
Posted: 03 May 2015 08:03

Yes, it was planned.

By you?

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I've just got home from one of the most interesting encounters I've ever had, so I thought I'd share it with you. I'm Paul by the way, a 35 year old gay guy, 6', slim with short brown hair and blue eyes. It's my eyes that get me noticed, not that I know why, they've always just been my eyes but other people seem to like them. I'm thankful for that because otherwise I'd be just your average Joe. ...

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Killing Curiosity Part 2

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Happy Birthday. Hope you have a wonderful birthday....xo

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