Forum posts made by drizdart

Topic How do I seduce my physiology lecturer?
Posted 14 Feb 2015 11:36

He's there for a professional reason. You are there for a professional reason. Even if he isn't YOUR professor, making any sort of pass endangers the professional relationship that your clients depend on. And there may well be jeopardy to HIS position, too.

So, the "how to" is fairly straight forward - don't do anything until AFTER the professional relationship is ended. If you can't wait until the end of term when the responsibilities are over, you probably aren't ready for the relationship.

I'm a former faculty member and could tell you about lecturer / young person relationships of my colleagues and myself that have gone well and some that blew up spectacularly. Afterwards, you could find him and ask about something you are interested in, and see if there is some sort of spark. Then, you can find out more about him, his status in life, whether or not he's into young inexperienced women, and the like.

Topic cocktail dresses
Posted 14 Feb 2015 09:13

Well, it's the nearest to a cocktail dress I've got!

Cute - I'm sure you could be drinking a cocktail in the little black dress.

Topic 8 Free Silver Memberships but they have to be 'Gifted'.
Posted 08 Feb 2015 08:26

59, please.

Topic Announcing the Winners of our "The Morning After the Night Before" Competition
Posted 25 Nov 2014 18:01

Unbelievable. ....

Would it be really in poor taste for me to do the happy dance now??

Truly a fine result, with several of the stories already read. I'll go back to pick up the rest in the next few days.

For all of the writers: notworthy

And ABG ... I can't imagine anyone objecting to having you do a happy dance ... especially if it is carefully described or perhaps photographically documented for future submissions.

Topic Free GOLD memberships x 3 - a really difficult competition.
Posted 21 Nov 2014 18:34

42 -- the "Answer to The Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything".

Topic Free GOLD memberships x 3 - a really difficult competition.
Posted 21 Nov 2014 18:34

42 -- the "Answer to The Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything".

Topic Free GOLD memberships x 3 - a really difficult competition.
Posted 21 Nov 2014 18:33

42 -- the "Answer to The Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything".

Topic Helping a good friend
Posted 09 Sep 2014 13:14

Any suggestions on how to get them together?
First, do no harm. Find out if the young lady has any interest in meeting anyone.

Next, you may need to find out a bit about who she is trying to meet -- it may be she has a definite "type" in mind that doesn't conform well to your friend. Or you may talk with her and quickly find out you don't want to introduce ANYONE to her.

If you know BOTH people and see they might hit it off, I like Curvygalore's suggestion of an occasion you could invite them (and others) to. Bound to be a community event of some sort where they could gather in a low-cost, low-pressure situation.

Topic Black box options
Posted 26 Jun 2014 07:37

I was thinking yesterday of options when in a back-and-forth conversation via black boxes. Any chance of
* having a choice of putting the "newest" box at the top of the list instead of at the bottom?
* having a box closing by either the x or the reply be closed in all of the open tabs?
* putting the "close all" option at BOTH the top and the bottom of the series?

I continue to appreciate the work on the site -- it already is much more enjoyable than many.

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 14 Mar 2014 07:11

All together now ... since it is Pi Day. it is National Dessert Day. Pick your favorite tune.


Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 20 Feb 2014 06:06

Would it be possible to add options in the profile description of "Sex:" ? I'm finding a number of instances where a couple actively uses the same account, and would think having something beyond "male" and "female" would facilitate people finding what they are looking for.

Topic Why Curlygirly is so awesome!
Posted 14 Feb 2014 15:21

Nobody mentioned her ever-changing blog entries, presenting lovely ladies with style and elegance. They brighten up almost EVERY visit to Lush for me.

Topic Let's take a break?
Posted 03 Feb 2014 10:22

Alright boys what does it mean when you guys say "let's take a break for a while." How can you take a break from someone you're dating? It's either you're together or break up,right? No in between. Utterly confused and does break mean no communication?

I used similar language twice with my then girlfriend / now wife. The first was simple the pressure of time ... I was going to university as a full-time student, carrying a larger number of classes than most and one that was incredibly time-consuming to study for. I had an extracurricular learning experience that was eating up 10-20 hours per week, plus travel for ten weekends during the year (which would mean leaving Thursday afternoon and coming back sometime Sunday afternoon or Monday). I had a part-time job on the weekends I wasn't out of town. I was trying to continue volunteering with a group that expected 10 hours a week. And I was trying to seduce my girlfriend. SOMETHING had to give, and my way out was to ask to "take a break" until the end of the semester.

The second fell into the territory of Icarus32's #2 -- I was pretty spooked by how much I liked her, and thought we needed to "cool things off" on my way out of the relationship.

Good news is that neither "break" wound up being permanent, and she agreed to become my wife. Many years later, I can say my willingness to ask and her willingness to let me back into a relationship with her is the best thing that I ever had a choice in.

Topic Guys is this normal?
Posted 03 Feb 2014 10:05

We have sex once every three months, if lucky and it's been this way for 2.5 years. I've tried everything a can think of but it seems that he doesn't really like anything (including lingerie, costumes, role plays, sex anywhere but the bedroom, oral sex, toys).

Any ideas? 

Doesn't seem "normal" to me. Might ask him what triggers the "once" every few months, if you don't already know. Or ask him if there is something online that does get him excited, and ask to see what it is.

In addition to the "depression" possibility already mentioned, I had one friend who married and stayed married for about four years -- and then admitted he did it because his parents "expected" him to, but that he was homosexual.

Best of luck figuring out what is going on and finding some way to sort it out so that BOTH of you are happier.

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 27 Jan 2014 09:23

I'd like to have the Avg. score points and distribution bars at the top of the story, in addition to (or substituting for) the Score Story box there now. It makes more sense to provide information about the story at the first, and opportunity to score at the end of the story.

Thanks for all the work on the site... Nearly everything works well, which is NOT the norm on many sites that focus on stories.

Topic Sexy women in a natural setting. Beach, grass, mountains...etc.
Posted 24 Jan 2014 12:03

So stunning ...