About essence45


Just a guy experiencing things, some for the first time...too young to quit the adventure! Love the erotic written genre and the pictures it draws in the mind. Not sure what I'm hoping to find here except a few words with those of a mind to have a thought beyond the obvious :-) Kinda sensitive, kinda not, kinda funny, kinda not, kinda normal, kinda kinda. So that's me, some of me anyway. Finding out more is part of the fun of life. Be nice, I cant help liking brown shoes :-)

If you would like to say hi, feel free, it'd be nice to know you if you're nice to know x

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Topic: Men's profiles !!!
Posted: 14 Dec 2011 09:51

Really? Really?? Really???
Ha ....if in doubt ask Dancing Doll :)

Topic: What is your favorite non-sexual affection/touch?
Posted: 12 Dec 2011 14:28

wrapping her in my arms as she sleeps against me

Topic: Hug, kiss or ????? the person above you.
Posted: 12 Dec 2011 09:01

all 3 plus Bonnet polish

Posted: 12 Dec 2011 08:22

It could be a guy trying to be liked and win friends or it may be genuine distaste for my gender, either way.... good luck to you

To quote Marx, Groucho, not Karl, I wouldn't want to belong to any club that would have me as a member. That said, I wouldn't kick down the door of a club that didn't want me either. Although i cant for the life of me fathom why anyone would blanket accept or restrict anyone without a moments consideration, i have to concede it is their choice. I feel that what is of relevance here is that someone would reject me because of my gender, irrelevant of what i have to say or how I behave or my inspiration for contacting them and not whether they or I am a girl, boy, man, woman, goat or hat rack.

It smacks of insecurity, immaturity or some degree of social ineptitude. But hey! Im just a "man" who likes to talk to people because they interest me and i hope a few friendships of varying intensities, shades and flirtatiousness from red hot to comfortably cool will develop over time.

Please feel free to disregard anything i say I was only typing out loud :)

Topic: The texture of cum
Posted: 24 Oct 2011 08:33

Does the cookbook list the oriental cuisine staple "Cream of Sumyunguy" as an ingredient?

Topic: Does body type really matter?
Posted: 24 Oct 2011 08:00

Not nearly as much as mind, humour, spark, and connection type does before you even consider getting into bed.
From my own taste perspective i would have to say that once I was in the "bed" scenario the issue of body type has long been addressed.
From experience I would say that without exception I sleep/ have sex with the woman who inhabits the body, not just the body. As such I have had the thrill of enjoying various female body types and considered each one uniquely wonderful and delicious in their own right.

Topic: What music do you listen to while you exercise?
Posted: 24 Oct 2011 04:28

Im running about 3 or 4 times a week with a playlist including: Stiff Little fingers, sisters of mercy, new model army, eminem, fields of the nephilim and nickleback to name but a few........Playlist name for the iPod ideas gratefully received :) All fairly driving tunes with a healthy dose of attitude to get me up these damn hills in the morning.

Topic: Does the M make it more manly?
Posted: 18 Oct 2011 03:38

Thats my outfit sorted then guys thanks..... Manties, Mra, moobtube, Manpris, Meels, mipstick and myeliner.........damn me if i aint ready for a magina hunt!! oh hang on. See what you did?? I went and got all meterosexual for a homent there. Can someone let me out now please im scaring myself.

Topic: The sexiest part of a woman's body
Posted: 17 Oct 2011 01:38

Without a doubt it would be her mind.

Topic: Cut or uncut?
Posted: 07 Oct 2011 07:58

Just to throw this in the mix..... Uncut must offer the benefit of both surely? when not in "use" its wrapped in natures perfectly designed protective cover. When inflamed by the sight, touch and thrill of a sensuous partner it wakes itself, draws of its coat and comes out to play with all its nerves and tenderness intact....or is that just mine?? :)

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