Forum posts made by felinuskingus

Topic BDSM 101
Posted 03 Feb 2012 16:37

I have a very dear friend that went through the whole thing of a fake Master and would have given up if I wasn't around. I have slowly been showing her that none of us in the lifestyle are like him and that we do not bully or make the subs/slaves feel insecure or scared. In the 2 short months since he left her she has come a very long way in knowing more about herself and what she wants. That is the one thing that a wannabe will do to someone that wants to be in the lifestyle and finds the wannabe's. They will and can hurt someone bad to the point where they almost give up on everything. I have done what I can for her to bring her out of the shell she was put in because of everything. She is happier and stronger even as she is a slave and wanting to give up full control to me but I am giving her the time she needs. That is the biggest thing that someone needs that have been hurt by a wannabe and that is time. Time to get over the pain and reestablish the trust they can have in the lifestyle.If anyone meets someone like that talk to them get them to see the truth but do not push or force them to see the truth let them see it for themselves

Topic BDSM 101
Posted 25 Sep 2011 14:26

Now as to the limits. It all should be made clear once the sub and Dom/me start their relationship and even on line there should be a safe word present at the beginning to help them feel comfortable and know when the line is crossed that when the word is said everything will stop and there are no hard feelings. When the relationship between a Dom/me and sub start everything should be put out there and then gradually test to see if things can go further. I have done that and the woman is now even happier being this new person then she was. It is all about full communication when it comes to limits and if they can be crossed. There should be no hard feelings if the sub is uncomfortable with doing certain things and if the doesn't understand that then they shouldn't be doing this in the first place

Topic BDSM 101
Posted 16 Aug 2011 11:49

I have some very good girls that submit and love me and I love each and everyone of them. I have only one that has submitted to me totally and completely and I love her a lot. I let my girls be who they are and don't try to change them but just add to who and what they are and it lets them care and trust me even more.

Topic What smurf would you be?
Posted 05 Aug 2011 10:24

I am only posting this for my friend.She calls me Brainy so that is who I would be.